Angazi ukuthi ngikuphuthelwe kanjani lokhu emhlanganweni wethu wesigodi ka-2012, kodwa umngane wami eLatin America — lapho manje beba khona nemihlangano yabo yesigodi yonyaka — wangazisa. Ingxenye yokuqala yezikhathi zangoMgqibelo ekuseni yasibonisa indlela yokusebenzisa ipheshana elisha elingoFakazi BakaJehova. Ingxenye isebenzise igama elithi "umama wethu ongokomoya" lapho ibhekisa enhlanganweni yasemhlabeni yabantu bakaJehova. Manje umbhalo kuphela osebenzisa 'umama' njengegama ukubhekisa enhlanganweni noma iqembu labantu utholakala kwabaseGalathiya:

"Kepha iJerusalema eliphezulu likhululekile, lona lingumama wethu." (Gal 4: 26)

Manje-ke kungani singakhela indima yenhlangano yasemhlabeni engaveli emBhalweni?
Ngenze ucwaningo ukuze ngibone ukuthi ngingawuphendula yini lowo mbuzo ezincwadini zethu futhi ngamangala lapho ngingatholi lutho olubhaliwe olusekela lo mbono. Kodwa-ke ngike ngezwa igama elisetshenziswa kaninginingi ezinkundleni zemihlangano nakwezomhlangano, ngaze ngaba nombonisi wesifunda walisebenzisa kanye lapho esikhuthaza ukuba silandele isiqondiso esingemnandi esasisithola ehhovisi legatsha i-Service Desk. Kubonakala sengathi kungene ngesiko lethu lomlomo, kuyilapho sidlula imfundiso yethu esemthethweni ebhaliwe.
Kuyamangaza ukuthi singangena kalula kanjani futhi ngokungangabazeki emqondweni. Ibhayibheli lisitshela ukuthi 'singashiyi umthetho kamama wethu'. (Pro. 1: 8) Uma isikhulumi somhlangano sifuna ukuthi izethameli zilalele iNdikimba Ebusayo, senezela kakhulu esisindweni sempikiswano uma sibona ukuthi ukuholwa akuveli esigqileni esithobekile, kepha kunalokho kumatriarch ohlonishwayo womndeni . Ekhaya, umama ulandela ubaba kuphela, futhi sonke siyazi ukuthi ngubani ubaba.
Mhlawumbe inkinga ilele kithina. Sifuna ukubuyela ekuvikelekeni kukamama nobaba. Sifuna ukuba nomuntu osinakekelayo futhi asibuse. Lapho uNkulunkulu eyilowo muntu, konke kuhamba kahle. Kodwa-ke, uNkulunkulu akabonakali futhi sidinga ukholo ukuze simbone futhi sizwe ukunakekelwa kwakhe. Iqiniso liyasikhulula, kepha kwabanye leyo nkululeko uhlobo oluthile lomthwalo. Inkululeko yeqiniso isenza ngamunye wethu azibophezele ekusindisweni kwethu. Kufanele sizicabangele thina. Kufanele sime phambi kukaJehova futhi siphendule kuye ngqo. Kuyaduduza kakhulu ukukholelwa ukuthi konke okumele sikwenze ukuzithoba kumuntu obonakalayo noma iqembu lamadoda bese senza lokho abasitshela ukuthi sisindiswe.
Ingabe senza njengama-Israyeli osuku lukaSamuweli ayeneNkosi eyodwa vo, uJehova, futhi ayejabulela inkululeko ekunakekelweni okwakuyingqayizivele emlandweni; nokho wakulahla konke ngala mazwi, “Cha, kodwa sizoba nenkosi [engabantu] phezu kwethu.” (1 Sam. 8:19) Kungaduduza ukuthi umbusi obonakalayo athathe umthwalo womphefumulo wakho kanye nensindiso yakho yaphakade, kepha kumane kuyinkohliso. Ngeke ame eceleni kwakho ngosuku lokwahlulelwa. Sekuyisikhathi sokuthi siqale ukwenza njengamadoda futhi sibhekane nalelo qiniso. Isikhathi sokuthi sithathe umthwalo wokusindiswa kwethu.
Kunoma ikuphi, ngokuzayo lapho umuntu esebenzisa inkulumo “kamama ongokomoya” kimi, ngizocaphuna amazwi kaJesu kuJohane 2: 4:

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