Uthando Nobulungiswa Lapho Ubhekene Nobubi (Ingxenye 3 ye4)

“Awusiye uNkulunkulu othokozela ububi; akekho umuntu omubi ongahlala nawe. ”- IHubo 5: 4.

 [Kusuka ku-ws 5/19 p. 8 Study Article 19: Julayi 8-14, 2019]

Isihloko sokufunda siqala ngalesi sitatimende emzameni wokuthatha isisekelo sokuziphatha okuhle.

“UJEHOVA UNKULUNKULU uyazizonda zonke izinhlobo zobubi. (IHubo 5: 4-6) Yeka indlela okumelwe ukuba ukuzonda ngayo ukunukubezwa kwezingane ngokobulili — isenzo esibi esinyanyeka kakhulu! Silingisa uJehova, thina njengoFakazi bakhe siyakwenyanya ukunukubezwa kwezingane futhi asikubekezeleli ebandleni lobuKristu. — Roma 12: 9; Hebheru 12:15, 16. ”

Bonke abantu abathanda ubulungisa noNkulunkulu bangavumelana nemicabango evezwe kwimisho emibili yokuqala ecashunwe ngenhla. Kungumusho wokugcina lapho sithatha khona umehluko njengoba kwenza abanye abaningi. Ake sibheke lesi sitatimende ngokuningiliza okuningana ukuthola ukuthi kungani.

Kuya “Inengiso” kusho ukuthi "Ukubheka ukwenyanya nenzondo". Ngakho-ke lokhu kunyanya nenzondo kuboniswa kanjani? Ngezenzo? Noma ngamagama amnandi wokuzwakala nezinqwaba?

Mayelana nani “Ungabekezeleli”? Ukubekezelela kusho ukuthi "Vumela ubukhona, ukwenzeka, noma umkhuba (wento umuntu angayithandi noma angavumelani nayo) ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka".

Ukuhlolwa kwe-Litmus

Masenze isivivinyo se-litmus esisheshayo, siqhathanisa ukuthi yiziphi izinyathelo ezithathwa yilabo abasolwa yiNhlangano ngokuhlubuka noma ukudala ukwahlukana, nezinyathelo ezithathwa yiNhlangano ngalabo abasolwa ngokunukubeza izingane yizisulu. Ngemuva kwalokho singabona ukuthi iyiphi iNhlangano ebuka ukwenyanya nokuthi yini abangayivumeli.

Ake siqale ngokuhlola izinsolo zokuhlubuka, ngokuyisisekelo ezincishisiwe zenze umehluko wokuqonda kweBhayibheli.

Uma umuntu esebenza njengesihlubuki njengoba kuchazwa yiNhlangano, ingabe bakwenza ngokomzimba noma ngokwengqondo ukwethuka omunye umuntu? Ngabe ukuba nombono ohlukile wokuthi ucezu lwenyoka kufanele luphekwe kahle kanjani ngokwesibonelo, emzimbeni noma ngokwengqondo umonakalo ubani? Impendulo isobala, Cha kuyo yomibili le mibuzo. Ingabe ukuba nomehluko wemibono yokuthi iNdikimba Ebusayo imelela iNhlangano kaJehova emhlabeni umonakalo ubani ngokwenyama noma ngokwengqondo? Impendulo isobala, Cha.

Ngabe iNhlangano “Inengiso” futhi "Ungabekezeleli" ichaza ukuthini njengokuhlubuka? Amaqiniso akhombisa ukuthi emizamweni yokuqeda noma yokuthulisa okuthiwa yizihlubuki, futhi ngaleyo ndlela azame ukuqeda noma yikuphi ukungqubuzana phakathi kohlu loFakazi, ngisho nalabo okungenzeka bayishiya iNhlangano, abangayi emihlanganweni futhi bangahlanganyeli enkonzweni yasensimini, ngoba unyaka noma iminyaka emine noma ngaphezulu iyaseshwa.[i] Abese abizelwa ekomitini lezokwahlulela. Uma enqaba ukuya, ngokungahambisani nemithetho eyamukelwe yecala elifanele enkantolo yezwe, basolwa ngokuhlubuka lapho bengekho, futhi batholwe benecala, futhi bagwetshwe — kaningi ngabamangaleli uqobo! Uma umuntu eya futhi ezama ukuthola womabili amacala kanye nesisekelo salawo macala, noma alethe oFakazi ekuziphenduleni kwabo, bazithola benqatshelwe bobabili imibhalo ebhaliwe kanye nofakazi bokuzivikela ukuze bazivikele.[Ii]

Kukhona nezibonelo eziyikhulu zezenzo ezifanayo ngabamele iNhlangano ezizotholwa, noma zihlobene noma ziqoshwa kuvidiyo kwi-inthanethi.

Noma yimuphi ongabheki ongakhethi angasho ukuthi iNhlangano ngokusobala “Ziyenyanya” futhi wenza "Ungabekezeleli" noma yikuphi ukuphikisana nezimfundiso zayo.

Yini esiyithola singamaqiniso maqondana nezinsolo zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi?

Okokuqala, ingabe ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi ngokomzimba noma ngokwengqondo kuyazilimaza izingane? Ngaphandle kokungabaza kuyenzeka. Ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi ngakho-ke kubi kakhulu emiphumeleni yako kunokungavumelani namandla (“ukuhlubuka” ku-Org. Ngolimi lwendabuko). Ngakho-ke, ngokwelula umuntu angalindela ukuthi amacala okunukubezwa ngokocansi aphathwe okungenani ngendlela enokhahlo noma embi kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, njengoba kuvame ukunganakwa, ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kuyicala cishe kuwo wonke amazwe emhlabeni kodwa ukuhlubuka ezimfundisweni zoFakazi BakaJehova akulona neze icala.

Angazi ngevidiyo eyodwa lapho umsakazi onguFakazi wokuhlukumeza ngokocansi ekhononda ngokuphathwa kwabo. Ingabe? Eqinisweni, iNhlangano inesizinda semininingwane equkethe izinkulungwane zamagama abenzi bokubi nabaziwayo okuthiwa basuswe njengamanje. Futhi, imbalwa kakhulu yalezi zigebengu eye yabikwa kwiziphathimandla zomhlaba yiNhlangano noma nabamele bayo.

Ngakho-ke, ngiphonsela inselelo noma yibaphi oFakazi abasebenzayo neNhlangano ukuba banikeze ubufakazi ukukhombisa ukuthi bangempela “Inengiso” futhi “ungakubekezeleli” ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi. Uma bemukela le nselelo, kumele bakwazi ukunikeza ubufakazi bokuthi basebenzise kabi lowo okuhlukumezayo okungenani nobunzima obufana nolabo okuthiwa yizihlubuki ababedelela futhi bahlukumeza. Kufanele futhi bakhumbule ukuthi ukuphathwa umhlukumezi empeleni kuzodingeka kube kubi kakhulu, ngoba kuyicala elibi kakhulu ukuzibophezela kwalo kanye nemiphumela yalo kulabo abahlukunyezwayo.

Umbhali ngeke abambe umoya wakhe elinde ubufakazi abukho. Angikaze ngizwe kuthiwa umhlukumezi ulahlwa yicala ngaphandle kwakhe noma enqatshelwa ofakazi abangaveza ukuthi akanacala.[Iii]

Ukuhlolwa kwe-litmus kutholile ukuthi izicelo zeNhlangano ezisekupheleni kwesigaba 1 azinasisekelo.

Ubufakazi bokwenqaba ukwamukela iqiniso

Ukudelela nokwenqaba ukwamukela iqiniso kuyaqhubeka esigabeni 3 lapho ithi ""Abantu ababi nabakhohlisi ”baningi, futhi abanye bangase bazame ukungena ebandleni. (2 Thimothewu 3:13) Ngaphezu kwalokho, abanye abathi bayingxenye yebandla banqotshwe izifiso zenyama ezonakele futhi bahlukumeza izingane ngokocansi ”.

Ngakho-ke, izaba zokuqala zamacala okuhlukunyezwa ngaphakathi eNhlanganweni ukuthi abahlukumezi bezingane baye bazama ukungena ngaphakathi emaBandleni. Manje, ngezinga elithile, lokhu kungahle kube iqiniso, kodwa ngokuqinisekile kufanele kube mbalwa kakhulu ngenani. Bangaki abahlukumezayo abazokulungela ukuchitha iminyaka yokuzama ukuzama ukwamukelwa njengamaphayona athembekile, noma izinceku ezikhonzayo noma abadala ngaphambi kokuzama ukuhlukumeza umuntu abahlukumezile okokuqala? Bambalwa kakhulu. Umbhali usola 'i-Bible Study' eyodwa ukuthi unalezi zinhloso, kepha isifundo washeshe wasikhipha lapho bebona ukuthi kungakanani umsebenzi nesikhathi esingazithatha.

Ukusuka kumacala asendaweni kawonkewonke abenzi bokubi, njengasezenzweni eziningi, bavame ukuba yisihlobo / umzali / usingamzali / izingane zakwabo, belandelwa yisibalo seziphathimandla abazi (Ie) umdala, inceku ekhonzayo noma iphayona. Lokhu bekunjalo nasezindabeni zamacala ambalwa engijwayele mathupha kuso umuntu ohlukunyeziwe noma umenzi wobubi. (Abephula umthetho kwakungu (bonke ofakazi) ongubaba wokutholwa, umalume, umalume womngani, umdala, waseBethel) okusho ukuthi, laba benzi bokubi babephethe i-2^nd iqembu elibekwe esigabeni 3 (ngokungangabazeki libeke i-2^nd ukunciphisa umthelela wokwamukelwa kwaso esikhundleni nasefayeleni laboFakazi).

Iqiniso lokuthi abenzi bokubi abaningi baqokwa bangamadoda kuholela embuzweni olandelayo. Uma beqokwa nguMoya oNgcwele njengoba kusho iNhlangano[Iv], khona-ke zingaba kanjani lezi ngasikhathi sinyeabanye bethi bayingxenye yebandla. ”? Ngabe lezi zigilamkhuba zadukisa uMoya oNgcwele ukuba azibeke, kwesinye isikhathi bebevele behlukumeza izisulu? Ukusho lokho kuzobe kufana nokwenza isono kuMoya oNgcwele (UMathewu 12: 32). Noma-ke, impendulo eyiqiniso neqiniso kule ndaba yokuthi uMoya Oyingcwele awunakwenza lutho ngokuqokwa ngaphakathi eNhlanganweni njengoba konke kungukuqokwa okwenziwe ngamadoda futhi iNhlangano ayiholwa umoya kaJehova.

Ukwehluleka ukwazisa ukungathi sína kwenkinga

Ingxenye yokugcina yokwenzelela nokwehluleka ukwazisa ubucayi benkinga iyatholakala futhi esigabeni 3 lapho ithi, "Ake sixoxe ngokuthi kungani ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kuyisono esikhulu kangaka ”. Kanjani? Ngoba lokhu kuvunywa kokuhlukumezeka kwengane kuyisono esikhulu akuhambisani nokwamukelwa ukuthi futhi kuyisenzo sobugebengu esingathi sína (kubhekiselwe kuphela esigabeni 7, bheka ngezansi).

Lokhu kubukwa ngokungathi sína kangakanani yizelelesi zomhlaba kungasuswa ekuthini ezinye izelelesi ziye ekuhlukumezeni izingane ezivalelwe ejele. Abahlukumezi bezingane imvamisa kufanele bavalelwe bodwa noma amaphiko akhethekile ahlukile emajele ukuze baphephe. Ngani? Ngoba ngenkathi izigebengu eziningi zivimbela ukwamukela njengazo lezo zelelesi ezikulungele ukulimaza izingane, kungaba ngokwasemzimbeni noma ngokocansi.[V] Onogada basejele nabo bangabahlasela kakhulu kunanoma uluphi olunye uhlobo lweziboshwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinga lokona kabusha kungenye ephezulu kakhulu ezenzweni ezinkulu.

Ngakho-ke, ngalesi simo, iNhlangano isebenza kanjani ngamacala wokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane? Okokuqala, cishe alizibiki izinsolo kubaphathi bezwe noma ngabe liphoqelekile.[vi] Bazofuna ilungelo labefundisi-lamalungu ukuze bagweme ukubika ukuvuma kwabo, noma bathi ngofakazi oyedwa kuphela abakwazi ukuqinisa noma yiziphi izinsolo abazitholile ngakho-ke abanasibopho sokubika.

Ngenkathi inqubomgomo yamanje isithi izisulu zinelungelo lokwenza imibiko kwiziphathimandla, iNhlangano ayenzanga lutho ukunciphisa umbono ojwayelekile phakathi koFakazi ukuthi ukwenza kanjalo kungukuletha isihlamba kuJehova ngakho-ke kuhlala kungumbhalo omkhulu ongabhaliwe -Akekho.

Futhi kwenza impikiswano enkulu ngokudinga ofakazi ababili ngaphambi kokujabulisa noma yiziphi izinsolo zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi, ikakhulukazi ngamadoda aqokiwe, yize ubugebengu obunjalo buhlale benziwa ngasese futhi kucishe kungabi nomunye ufakazi.

Siyabuza, uma indikimba yabadala ithole ukumangalelwa kwelungu elilodwa lebandla ukuthi elinye ilungu lebandla libulale othile, (esinye isono esikhulu kanye nesenzo sobugebengu esingathi sína) bangashesha kangakanani ukuhoxisa ukumangalelwa ngoba kufakazi oyedwa kuphela? Babezokwenqaba yini ukwazisa abaphethe? Bazoyigcina iyimfihlo emindenini yabo nasebandleni? Ngokungangabazeki, ukumangalelwa bekuzothathelwa izinyathelo ezinqala ngisho nangofakazi oyedwa, iziphathimandla bezizohileleka, futhi abadala bazoxwayisa imindeni yabo futhi cishe nebandla lilonke. Ingabe nazo zingakholiseka kalula yiziqalo zokuphenduka kwalowo osolwayo? Kodwa-ke, yile ndlela abaziphatha ngayo izinsolo zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi. Impela, lezi zinsolo azitholi ukuphathwa njengoba "Isono esikhulu".

Amanga AmaNgisi Amhlophe agcwele [vii] (noma ukhulume kabili)

Sithini isikhundla seNhlangano ngokuzibandakanya kweziphathimandla zezwe? Isigaba 7 sinikeza isikhundla sazo, umsindo omuhle, kepha sincane kakhulu.

"Ukona kubaphathi bezwe. AmaKhristu kufanele 'azithobe emagunyeni aphakeme.' (Roma. 13: 1) Sibonisa ukuzithoba kwethu ngokukhombisa inhlonipho efanele ngemithetho yezwe. Uma othile ebandleni eba necala lokwephula umthetho wobulelesi, njengokuhlukumeza ingane, wona kubaphathi bezwe. (Qhathanisa nezEnzo 25: 8.) Ngenkathi abadala bengagunyaziwe ukusebenzisa umthetho wezwe, abavikeli noma yimuphi umenzi wobubi wokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane emiphumeleni engokomthetho yesono sakhe. (Rom. 13: 4) "

Amagama afakwa ngobuhlakani. Ubuso bayo, ikakhulukazi okufundwa ngokushesha, ukuthi yilokho umuntu akulindele enhlanganweni yobuKristu. Noma kunjalo, phawula ibinzana "Uba necala lokwephula umthetho wobulelesi". Empeleni kungaqondakala ukuthi, uma uFakazi eke watholakala enecala enkantolo yecala lokuba necala lokuhlukumeza ngokocansi kwezingane. Ngakho-ke iNhlangano izokwazi ukwenza izaba zokuthi esimweni lapho umuntu waziwa ukuthi unecala lokuhlukumeza ngokocansi kwezingane, mhlawumbe ngokuvuma kwabadala, kepha engazange ayiswe enkantolo noma engazange alahlwe ngecala lobuchwepheshe. empeleni awunacala lokwephula umthetho wobulelesi. Kodwa-ke, ngisho kulezi zimo, umenzi wobubi usonile kubaphathi bezwe kanye nesisulu.

Phawula ibinzana elilandelayo “they (abadala) musa ukuvikela noma yimuphi umenzi wobubi wokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane emiphumeleni yezomthetho yesono sakhe ”. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ngeke zivimbele isigebengu esatholakala sinecala enkantolo ukuba sinikeze isigwebo sazo noma sifakwe enkantolo ukuze sinxeshezelwe. Ungakanani ukuphana kwabo!

Lokho okungakusho ukuthi akukho mkhawulo wokuthi abadala nabanye ofakazi basakwazi ukuvela njengofakazi bokuvikela umenzi wobubi ukubanikeza ubufakazi obuhle noma ukufaka ukungabaza ebufakazini bommangalelwa. Futhi ayisho ukuthi ngeke besabachitha ubufakazi obubhalwe phansi enkantolo yokwahlulela obungaqinisa ubufakazi besisulu enkantolo, mhlawumbe kubandakanya nokuvuma kwabenzi bobubi.

Kunjalo, "Abadala abagunyaziwe ukwenza umthetho wezwe", kepha ngakolunye uhlangothi, futhi akufanele bafune ukukuvimbela, ngokumanga imfihlo yabefundisi-nabasolwa nokunye.

Isigaba 9 sithi “Inhlangano iyaqhubeka nokubheka indlela amabandla asisingatha ngayo isono sokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane. Ngani? Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi indlela yethu yokusingathwa kwendaba iyavumelana nomthetho kaKristu. ”

Nakulokhu, ucezu lokuzwakala kahle lukhuluma kabili. Bangaqhubeka nokubukeza indlela amabandla asiphatha ngayo isono sokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kuze kufike i-Amagedoni, kepha akukho okuzoshintsha. Okushodayo yisithembiso sokuthi iNhlangano noma iNdikimba Ebusayo, eyenza izinqubomgomo, izohlala ibukeza ukuthi izinkomba zazo ezinikezwe amabandla avela eNhlanganweni ziyathuthukiswa noma kuvumelana nomthetho kaKristu. Futhi, ukuthi kuzoba nokubuyekezwa okuzoqinisekisa ukuthi izinkombandlela ziyavumelana futhi zisekele izidingo zokubika zeziphathimandla zezwe, nokuthi zizosebenzisa umkhuba omuhle kakhulu kwiziphathimandla zezwe ekuphatheni amacala abucayi nalawa.

Ngaphezu kwalokho umgomo oyingqayizivele woMthetho kaKristu uluthando, hhayi imithetho mayelana nofakazi ababili, akukho lusizo lwabesifazane, izimfihlo eziqinile nokunye okunjalo.

Ukusetshenziswa kabi kwesisho esithi “Ubungcwele Begama LikaNkulunkulu”

Isigaba 10 siyaqhubeka nokukhuluma okuphindwe kabili, "Banezinkinga eziningi lapho bethola umbiko wesono esikhulu. Abadala bakhathalela ngokuyinhloko ukugcina ubungcwele begama likaNkulunkulu. (Levitikusi 22: 31, 32; Matewu 6: 9) Baphinde bakhathazeke kakhulu ngenhlala-kahle engokomoya yabafowabo nodadewabo ebandleni futhi bafuna ukusiza noma ngubani oye waba yisisulu sobubi ”.

"Ubungcwele ” kubhekiswa ekuhlukaniselweni eceleni noma kuthiwe ngcwele. Njengabantu ngamunye singalawula kuphela izenzo zethu. Kunobungozi obukhona bokuthi uma sigxila kokuthile esingakwazi ukukubusa kancono, sizolahlekelwa yilokho esikulawulayo: Izenzo zethu. Qaphela ukuthi babeka ini ngokulandelayo ngokubaluleka, "inhlalakahle engokomoya ” lamalungu ebandla. Lokhu kukhulumela kabili “Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi akekho noyedwa ebandleni okhubekile”, okusho ukuthi kugcine kuyimfihlo ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze kungabikho noyedwa ngaphandle kwalabo abathinteka ngqo ongaxegiselwa ukholo lwabo.

Ukusiza izisulu kuza njengendawo yesithathu futhi; futhi nokumisa ingozi engaba khona yezisulu zesikhathi esizayo kungashiwongo nakancane.

Izimiso okufanele zifundwe engozini yengane ngenkathi idlala

Buza noma yimuphi umzali ukuthi bazosisingatha kanjani lesi simo esilandelayo. Thatha sengathi ingane ibidlala futhi ishelela eqhweni elithile futhi izilimaze kabi, mhlawumbe umlenze ophukile kanye nokuqunjelwa. Ungenza kanjani? Uma ucabanga ngokuthula mhlawumbe uzolandela okuthile okufana nezinyathelo ezichazwe lapha:

1. Hlaziya isimo. Uma-ke bekungaphephile ukuthi ungaqhubeka, uzosusa umthombo wengozi uma kungenzeka.
2. Letha ezinsizakalweni eziphuthumayo ezinobuchwepheshe, ikakhulukazi esimweni sokulimala okungathi sína.
3. Console ingane, ngaphandle kokuyishukumisela, uma ibangela izinhlungu noma ukulimala okwengeziwe. Ukuqinisekisa futhi uyazi ukuthi kubuhlungu nokuthi balinyazwa kabi yize kungekho omunye umuntu obabona belimele.
4. Discover uma kungenzeka, ubukhulu bokulimala ngokucophelela.
5. Imvelo: zigcine zifudumele, zikhululekile futhi ziphephile.
6. professionals, evunyelwe ukuthatha izintambo futhi ihambise ingane elimele futhi ihlukunyeziwe endaweni ephephile ukuthola ukwelashwa okufanele, ukuzinza, ukunakekela nokusiza ukuphulukisa ohlukunyeziwe ngengozi.

Ngakho-ke, masisebenzise izimiso ezifanayo esimweni esidabukisayo nesidabukisayo kakhulu sokuthi umbiko wokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi wenzelwe abadala. Yini umdala okufanele ayenze? Kuyafana nanoma yimuphi umzali okulesi simo esingenhla uma ekhathalela ngempela ilungu lomhlambi wakhe.

1. Hlaziya ingozi eqhubekayo kuye nakwabanye kuqala futhi isehlukanise leyo ngozi ukuvumela usizo ngaphandle kokuzilimaza yena noma isisulu. Lokhu kungasho ukuthi isigebengu esisolwayo asikwazi ukufinyelela enganeni noma kwezinye izingane, njengoba abadala (abadala) bengasithinta lesi simo.
2. Letha emisebenzini yezimo eziphuthumayo ochwepheshe, iziphathimandla zezwe. Banabantu abaqeqeshelwe ngokukhethekile ukubhekana nezigameko ezimbi kangako futhi mhlawumbe okubaluleke kakhulu banolwazi oluningi ekusebenzelaneni nabo. Umdala ngokuqhathanisa, cishe wazi kuphela okulingana kosizo lokuqala lwethiyori, hhayi ukuhlinzwa okuyinkimbinkimbi noma ukwelashwa okungadingeka ukuthi kuvuselelwe ngokuphelele ohlukunyeziwe.
3. Console futhi uqinisekise isisulu, ukuthi bazosizwa yibandla, hhayi ukuthi basuswe kulo ngokususwa ekuhlanganyeleni, ngoba akekho omunye wababona belimele futhi mhlawumbe baxakene nokuxineka kakhulu ngokomqondo.
4. Discover ubukhulu bokulimala uma kungenzeka, ngokulalela ngokucophelela lokho okushiwo yisisulu. Izingane ngokusobala ezisezinhlungwini azenzi ukulimala okungamanga.
5. Environment okulawulwa ngokwengeziwe ukunciphisa izinhlungu nobuhlungu, futhi uvikele ukulimala okuthe xaxa, lapho usizo lochwepheshe lufika. Qinisekisa ukuthi akekho omunye olinyazwa ngendlela efanayo ngokukhipha isexwayiso sengozi. Mhlawumbe ukusho esidlangalaleni ukuthi, "Kube khona izinsolo zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ebandleni, ngicela uqinisekise ukuthi izingane zakho azifakwa ezimweni lapho zingalimala khona, futhi ungesabi ukuvikela ezakho kanye nezinye izingane ngokubika izehlakalo ezinjalo ngqo Iziphathimandla zezwe ukuze zithole usizo ngokushesha. ”
6. professionals uvunyelwe ukuthatha izintambo ukusiza futhi usize kakhulu ngaphezu kwekhono labadala, ngakho-ke kukhona ithuba elihle lokuthola okungcono kakhulu ngaphansi kwezimo.

Umzali onothando futhi ngokunethezeka abadala abanothando akasoze aphikelela ukuthi uzilaphe lowo ophethwe ukulimala okushintsha impilo okungaphezu kwekhono lakhe ukusetha ukuphulukisa.

Iyaqhubeka nokukhuluma ngolimi olubhekwe phansi

Isigaba 13 sithi:

"Ingabe abadala bayayithobela imithetho yezwe mayelana nokubika izinsolo zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane eziphathimandleni zezwe? Yebo. Ezindaweni lapho kunemithetho enjalo, abadala bazama ukulandela imithetho yezwe mayelana nokubika izinsolo zokuhlukumezeka. (Roma 13: 1) Imithetho enjalo ayingqubuzani nomthetho kaNkulunkulu. (Izenzo 5: 28, 29) Ngakho-ke, lapho bezwa ngezinsolo, ngokushesha abadala bafuna isiqondiso sendlela abangayilandela ngayo imithetho mayelana nokubika. ”

Lesi ngesinye isimemezelo esihle sokuzwakala, kepha ubufakazi busekuphambeni njengoba besho. Akusho ukuthi uma kukhona isigatshana sokuphunyuka abangasisebenzisa esizoba nezizathu zokungabiki, bazobe besisebenzisa. Bafuna ukuqondiswa kubani? Iziphathimandla ezenze umthetho. Cha, umnyango wezomthetho weNhlangano, futhi cishe kuwona wonke amacala kulapho ukuvumelana nabaphathi kuphela khona. Futhi qaphela igama elifanelezama"Okusho ukuthi" ukuzama ". Kungani bethi bazama ukulandela? Lokho kusho ukuthi azihambelani ngaso sonke isikhathi. Enye iyahambisana noma ayihambisani. Ngizamile ukulandela = ngehlulekile ukulandela. Kunzima ukucabanga ngesizathu esizwakalayo sokungalandeli imithetho yokubika. Uma kukhona owaziyo koyedwa, sicela usho lokho ngokusobala emazwaneni.

Isigaba 14 siyaqhubeka ngendlela efanayo, sithi:

"Abadala baqinisekisa izisulu nabazali babo nabanye ngolwazi lwendaba ukuthi bakhululekile ukubika izinsolo zokuhlukunyezwa eziphathimandleni zezwe. Kepha kuthiwani uma lo mbiko ukhuluma nomuntu oyingxenye yebandla bese udaba luyaziwa emphakathini? Ingabe umKristu owubikile kufanele abe nomuzwa wokuthi ulethe isihlamba egameni likaNkulunkulu? Cha. Umhlukumezi nguyena ohlazisa igama likaNkulunkulu. ”

Umuntu angafunda lesi sigatshana esilandelayo njengombono wokuthi "Abazali nabanye bakhululekile ukubika izinsolo, kepha abadala ngeke, ngaphandle kokuthi baphoqeleke, bakhahlele futhi baklabalaze ngabaphathi bezwe abasesimweni sabo futhi iNhlangano ayikufuni nawe ”.

Lokhu ngokwengxenye kuqinisekiswe yimisho emibili yokugcina, lapho ithi, Uma intatheli “uzizwe sengathi ulethe isihlamba egameni likaNkulunkulu? ” nezimpendulo “Cha. Umhlukumezi nguyena oletha isihlamba egameni likaNkulunkulu ”. Nokho, indlela okushiwo ngayo, kusikisela nokuthi ukuyenza yaziwe kungaletha isihlamba egameni likaNkulunkulu, kumane nje kungabi yindaba yentatheli. Lapho befunda le misho emibili iningi loFakazi kungenzeka ukuthi lisazothatha isinqumo sokubika njengoba besazizwa benecala lokuhlanjalazwa, ngenxa yokucabanga okuyiphutha lokuthi uma begcina buthule futhi kungaziwa emphakathini, bayakuyeka ihlazo. Eqinisweni, bazobe benomthelela ekwenzeni kube kubi kakhulu ngokusimboza.

Umthetho wokufakaza obabili ubuye waqina

Izigaba i-15 kanye ne-16 ziqinisekisa ukuthi ziyaphinda futhi izindaba zabo zokuthi ofakazi ababili bayadingeka ngaphambi kokuba kusungulwe ikomidi lezobulungiswa. Isihloko sithi “Ebandleni, ngaphambi kokuba abadala benze isinqumo sokwahlulela, kungani kudingeka okungenani ofakazi ababili? ”

Isigaba 15 siyaqhubeka sithi “Le mfuneko iyingxenye yezindinganiso eziphakeme zeBhayibheli zobulungiswa. Lapho kungavunywa ukuthi kwenziwe iphutha, kudingeka ofakazi ababili ukuba babeke icala futhi bagunyaze abadala ukuthi bathathe izinyathelo zokwahlulela. (Duteronomi 19:15; Mathewu 18:16; funda eyoku-1 Thimothewu 5:19.) ”

Sixoxile ngalokhu ukuma kofakazi ababili weNhlangano ngaphambi kokujula ngokombhalo esizeni sethu. (Chofoza isixhumanisi). Ngakho-ke lapha sizokhuluma nje nokuphawula okwenziwe esigabeni 15. Akukho lutho kunoma yimuphi umbhalo okhonjiwe okhombisa ukugunyazwa kwabadala ukuba bathathe isinyathelo sokwahlulela. Ayikho inhlangano ebizwa ngokuthi “ikomidi lokwahlulela” noma efanayo etholakala emibhalweni.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, uMathewu 18: I-16 ixoxa ngokudalwa kofakazi oyedwa noma ababili abengeziwe kule nkinga, ngokuxoxa ngayo nomuntu owenze lokho lapho kunofakazi abengeziwe, hhayi esenzweni sokuqala. (Qaphela: Lokhu kubuyekezwa akukhuthazi ukuthi ohlukunyeziwe kufanele adale ofakazi abengeziwe ngokubhekana nomenzi wobubi wabo yedwa. Umongo kaMathewu ubekhuluma ngokusobala ngesimo lapho umKristu osekhulile esazi isono somunye umdala osemdala. UJesu wayengasitsheli ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nobugebengu obuphikisana nomthetho wezwe, futhi wayengasho ukuthi kufanele senze ngokungathi singabantu bakithi, sinemithetho yethu nohlelo lwezijeziso.)

Umongo ka-1 Thimothewu 5:19, isb. Ivesi 13, ukhuluma ngokuhleba, nokugxambukela ezindabeni zabanye. Vele, bekungalungile ukulalela ukumangalelwa okuvela enhlebeni nasekungeneleni ezindabeni zabanye, ngoba amaqiniso ngokuvamile mancane phansi. Ukumangalelwa yingane ukuthi baye bahlukunyezwa, noma ngumzali egameni lengane yabo, akukufanele ukuhleba noma ukugxambukela.

Phawula futhi ukuthi uJesu ubuka kanjani ofakazi ababili kuJohn 8: 17-18, "I-17 Futhi, kulomthetho wakini uqobo kubhaliwe ukuthi, 'Ubufakazi bamadoda amabili buyiqiniso .'18 Mina ngingofakazi ngami, futhi uBaba ongithumileyo ufakaza ngami. ”

Lapha, ufakazi wesibili, uJehova, wayengufakazi ngoJesu ngokuba nguKristu, hhayi ukuthi yiziphi izinto nezinto uJesu azifundisa ezazifakazela ukuthi wayenguMesiya. (Ufakazi womlingiswa, ukuthi uJesu wayengaqambi amanga kulokho akusho).

Okungenani into eyodwa enhle yingxenye yokugcina yendima efanayo (15) lapho ithi, "Ngabe lokhu kusho ukuthi ngaphambi kokubikwa kwezinsolo zokuhlukumezeka kubaphathi, kudingeka ofakazi ababili? Cha. Lokhu akudingi ukuthi abadala noma abanye babike izinsolo zecala. ”

Ngemuva kwalokho insizakalo ejwayelekile iyaqala kabusha. Isitatimende esithi “ebusweni bakho”, sisekela isitatimende sokusakazwa seJW ukuthi "asisoze sashintsha ukuma kwethu okusekelwe embhalweni ” ukuthi akukho komiti yokwahlulela eyokwakhiwa ngaphandle kofakazi ababili ngesenzo esifanayo noma esinye isimangalo sezehlakalo ezihlukile. Kusho esigabeni 16, “Uma lowo nalowo ephika ukumangalelwa kwakhe, abadala babheka ubufakazi bofakazi. Uma okungenani abantu ababili - umuntu obeka lo msolwa nomunye umuntu ongakwazi ukuqinisekisa lesi senzo noma ezinye izenzo zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngummangalelwa - asungule lelo cala, kuzokwakhiwa ikomidi lokwahlulela ”. Ngakho-ke, lapho sinakho, akukho kubhekwa kobufakazi obuphathekayo njengofakazi, noma ukucubungula ukusabela kanye nokuchazwa kommangalelwa ukuthi bangubufakazi obuthembekile. Umyalezo ocacile nje kulabo abephula umthetho ngaphakathi kweNhlangano, uma ungavumi futhi uqinisekisa ukuthi kunofakazi oyedwa kuphela, uzokwazi ukuqhubeka nokwenza ubugebengu bakho, ikakhulukazi uma udlala ikhadi elizodelelwa igama likaJehova.

Ubani ngempela oletha isihlamba eGameni likaNkulunkulu? Abahlukumezi noma Inhlangano?

Isimo sonke sokuhlanzeka kwengqondo ye-pharisic siyagula. Yisimo sengqondo senhlangano esiletha ukuhlambalaza igama likaNkulunkulu, uma nje bethi bayinhlangano kaJehova yasemhlabeni. Umuntu angathethelelwa ukucabanga ukuthi iQula Elibusayo nabenzi balo inqubomgomo ngemuva kwesigcawu banesifiso esikhulu sokuvikela ama-pedophiles, lapho sibona imizamo abaya kuyo ukuvikela izigebengu ezinjalo emiphumeleni yezenzo zabo.

Ingxenye esele yesigaba 16 nayo ayiniki themba eliningi. Njengoba kunikezwe ukuthi noma ngabe kuhlanganwa nokulalelwa kwenkantolo, kwenziwa ngasese. Azikho iziyalezo ezicacile noma izinkomba lapha zokuthi ibandla lizoxwayiswa. Ufundeka kanje:

"Noma kungamiswa icala ngofakazi ababili, abadala bayabona ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi wenze isono esikhulu, esalimaza abanye ngokujulile. Abadala bahlinzeka ukusekela okuqhubekayo kubo bonke abantu okungenzeka balinyazwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abadala bahlala beqaphile mayelana nalowo osolwa ngokuhlukumeza ukuze avikele ibandla ezingozini ezingase zibe khona ”.

Sidinga ukubuza, maqondana “Abadala banikeza ukusekelwa okuqhubekayo ”, Ngabe lokhu kufaka phakathi ukususa ummangaleli ngokunyundela, ngaleyo ndlela enqabe isisulu sokusekelwa ngumndeni nabangane abangaphakathi eNhlanganweni, ozobashiya noma kulindeleke ukuthi benze kanjalo, ngaleyo ndlela enze ukuba ukuhlukumezeka kwengqondo kube kubi kakhulu? (Kunemibiko eminingana yalokho okwenzekayo).

Akusho yini ukuthi iningi labasolwa ngokunyundela kulezi zimo bangahle baphenduke kunokuba basuswe ekuhlanganyeleni bese bema belahlekelwa ngumndeni nabangane babo. Ngakho-ke, uma kunjalo, uma laba bantu abahlukunyezwa noma besolwa ngokuhlukumeza ngokocansi benamathela endabeni yabo bese bebika lokho kubaphathi bezwe, amathuba aqamba amanga mancane.

Izigaba 17 no-18 zikhuluma ngendima yamakomidi okwahlulela. Ngokwengxenye ifundeka kanje:

"Ngenxa yokukhathalela inhlala-kahle yezingane, abadala bangase baxwayise ngasese abazali bezingane ezisebandleni ngesidingo sokubheka ukusebenzisana kwezingane zabo nomuntu ngamunye ”.

Kodwa-ke, lezi zixwayiso kukhulunywa ngazo kuphela ngamakomidi ezokwahlulela, okusho ukuthi bekukhona ukuvuma izono futhi noma umhlukumezisi kusolwa ukuthi uphendukile ngemuva kokuba ofakazi ababili bethole lelo cala. Kodwa-ke isitatimende, "Uma engaphenduki, uyaxoshwa, bese kwenziwa isimemezelo ebandleni ”, ubengeke aqhakambise ingozi umhlukumezi asayibeka uma eqhubeka nokuya emihlanganweni, noma ukuba namalungu omndeni asesesebandleni, ukuxhumana kusenokwenzeka. Akukho okubonisa ukuthi izixwayiso zangasese zazizokwenzeka kulesi sibonelo, futhi isimemezelo esenziwe ebandleni asinikezi imininingwane yokuthi kungani umuntu asuswe ekuhlanganyeleni.

Ngokudabukisayo, okuningi kwalokhu kungagwenywa ngokulandela isisekelo semibhalo esikuMathewu 18: 17 lapho kuphakamisa ukuthatha inkinga yezoni ezingaphenduki ziye ebandleni lilonke. (Qaphela: i-akhawunti ayisho ukuthi "abadala bebandla ngasese." UDeteronomi 22: 18-21 neminye imibhalo ikhombisa ukwahlulela nokuzwa kwenzeka phambi kwabantu, hhayi imfihlo).

Ukuphela kwendlela yokuvikela izingane zakho

Ingxenye eyodwa enhle yendatshana yilesi sigaba sokugcina esimboza izigaba 19-22, esikhuthaza abazali ukuthi basize izingane zabo ukuba zazi ngobungozi futhi zigweme ukuba yisisulu. Umbhali uyazibuza ukuthi mangaki amacala okuhlukunyezwa abengavinjelwa eNhlanganweni ngenxa yezinyembezi zoFakazi futhi ikakhulukazi abazali abangoFakazi abalalela izeluleko ezinhle ezincwadini ezihlonishwayo.

Umama wayenaka kakhulu izimo angivumela ukuthi ngibe kuzo. Ungifundise izinto ezibalulekile ukuze ngikwazi ukuzivikela futhi lokhu kwakungaphambi kokuba kukhiqizwe inqwaba yezincwadi ezikhonjiwe. Mina nomngane wami, nathi, saqeqesha izingane zethu futhi sizibheka ngokucophelela. Ngokwalokho engikubone emihlanganweni emikhulu, abazali abaningi abangoFakazi bathembela kakhulu ezinganeni zabo ezincane ukuthi bakuphi futhi bangaba nazo noma bazithole zinjani. Izingane ezincane ezineminyaka emincane njenge-10 futhi ngezinye izikhathi ezingaphansi, zivunyelwe ukuya endlini encane zingahambelani. Lokhu bekubandakanya njalo ukuhamba ibanga elithile ngaphandle kokubona abazali babo, futhi lokhu ezinkundleni zemidlalo yomphakathi, kuvulekele umphakathi naseduze kwemigwaqo. Lokhu kwenzeke yize izimemezelo zangesikhathi esedlule zazivela kubaphathi bomhlangano ukuthi abazali bahambe nezingane zabo ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Isifinyezo

Sekukonke, kubonakala sengathi kuwumsebenzi wobudlelwano bomphakathi ohlose ukunikeza ukulunywa okuzwakalayo ukufaka umuntu obonayo. Noma kunjalo, iqukethe kuphela izinguquko eziguquguqukayo, futhi kubalulekile kokuningi njengokushiwoyo okushiwo, ngalokho elikushoyo. Akungabazeki ukuthi bayokwenelisa labo abangafisi ukubukeka bejule kakhulu futhi bafuna ukuqhubeka nokukholelwa ukuthi iNhlangano ayinakwenza okubi njengoba kuyiNhlangano kaNkulunkulu ngokubona kwabo.

Kwenza lokhu okulandelayo:

• Yehluleka ukuthatha ithuba lokuguqula izinqubo zeNhlangano ukuvikela izingane kangcono.
• Izimpawu kuma-pedophiles afihlekile enhlanganweni ukuthi asengakwazi ukuqhubeka nokubalekela ubugebengu bawo uma eqaphela.
• Yehlulekile ukwenza ngcono ukuphathwa kwezindaba ezinjalo ngohlelo lwekomidi lokwehlulela olwenziwe ngabantu.
• Yehlulekile ukukhuthaza ukusetshenziswa okuphelele kwemisebenzi efanelekile evela kubaphathi bezwe ukuthi kumise zombili izinkinga ezikhona futhi kusize izisulu ukuba zibhekane nezinkinga esezivele zidaliwe futhi zembulwa.

Kulandela incwadi evulelekile eya eNdikimbeni Ebusayo kanye nabasizi bayo.

Vula Incwadi eya eNdikimbeni Ebusayo kanye nabamele bayo

Amagama ka-Isaya asebenza ngokufanele eNhlanganweni lapho ku-Isaya 30: 1 wathi "Maye emadodaneni anenkani, ”kusho uJehova,“ [labo abathambekele] ekufezeni isiyalo, kodwa hhayi kimi; futhi ngithulule umnikelo, kodwa hhayi ngomoya wami, ukuze ngengeze isono esonweni ”.

Yebo, Amahloni, ihlazo, ihlazo phezu kwakho abathi uyiNhlangano kaNkulunkulu nabamele bakaKristu kodwa-ke abanawo umqondo wokuthi ungabusebenzisa kanjani ubulungiswa beqiniso nothando lapho usebenza nomhlambi wabo.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, uboniswa ngokungaguquki yiziphathimandla “zezwe” nezikhungo. Zinezindlela ezingcono ezisezingeni eliletha ubulungiswa obungcono nokuvikelwa okungcono kwezingane kunayo iNhlangano ebanga iNhlangano kaNkulunkulu. Ziveza nokushiyeka kwesizathu sakho esingokomBhalo sofakazi ababili.[viii] Ngaphandle kwalokhu, ngokuziqhenya uyaqhubeka ukwenqaba ukuguqulwa. Nguwe oletha isihlamba egameni likaNkulunkulu noKristu njengoba izinqubomgomo zakho ziyaqhubeka nokuvumela ukwakhiwa kwezisulu ezingadingekile nakho konke ukuhlupheka kwazo.

Sizophetha ngamazwi kaKristu lapho ekhuluma ngabantu abanjengawe (iNdikimba Ebusayo nabamele ngayo). KuMathewu 23: 23-24 wathi "Maye kini, babhali labaFarisi, bazenzisi! ngoba ninikela okweshumi kweminti nedile nekhumini, kodwa anizinakanga izindaba zoMthetho ezibaluleke kakhulu, okuwukuthi, ubulungisa nesihe nokwethembeka. Lezi zinto bekubophezelekile ukuzenza, kepha hhayi ukungazinaki ezinye izinto. 24 Baholi abayizimpumputhe, abahluza insensane kodwa baginge ikamela ” futhi waxwayisa kuMark 9: 42 ukuthi "Noma ngubani okhubekisa omunye walaba abancanyana akholwayo, kungaba kuhle kuye uma itshe lokugaya elinjengaleli eliphendulwe imbongolo lafakwa entanyeni futhi empeleni waphonswa olwandle."

Yekani ukukhubekisa abancane!

 

 

 

 

[i] Bheka Ukulandela ukuxoxisana nge-akhawunti ka-YouTube kukaChristine, aziwa ngumbhali.

[Ii] Bona okulandelayo I-akhawunti ka-YouTube ka-Eric.

[Iii] Lokho akusho ukuthi akwenzeki, ukuthi akuvamile, ngaphandle kwalokho besizokuzwa ngephutha lezobulungiswa.

[Iv] Mangalela ukuthi ukuqokwa kwabadala nezinceku ezikhonzayo kwenziwa ngumoya ongcwele. Bheka Ukuhlelelwa Ukufeza Inkonzo Yethu p29-30 Isahluko 5 para 3 “Singabonga kakhulu ngababonisi abamiswe ngomoya ebandleni.”

[V] Bona lesi isixhumanisi ku-mainn.org ukuthola izibalo ezifanele.

[vi] Isibonelo, bona i-Australia High Commission to Child Abuse, lapho iNhlangano ibingakaze ibike khona icala elilodwa eminyakeni eyedlule ye-60 noma iminyaka ngezehlakalo okungenani ze-1000.

[vii] Amanga atshelwa ukuthi ayeke umuntu ukuthi acasulwe yiqiniso langempela. (IsiNgisi, - Qaphela: Ukuqonda kwaseMelika kwehlukile)

[viii] Bheka i-Australian Royal High Commission on Child Abuse, u-Angus Stewart ebuza uBro G Jackson ngoDuteronomi 22: 23-27. Bheka i-Page 43 \ 15971 Transcript Day 155.pdf Bheka http://www.childabuseroyalcommission.gov.au/case-study/636f01a5-50db-4b59-a35e-a24ae07fb0ad/case-study-29,-july-2015,-sydney.aspx