Trouw ʻatikala: "He ʻimi noiʻi nā lunakahiko, nā luna kānāwai, a me nā psychologists"

He unuhi kēia o ka ʻatikala ma Iulai 21, 2017 ma Trouw, kahi nūpepa nui Hōlani, e pili ana i ka mea i manaʻo ʻia e nā lunakahiko o nā ʻIke o Iēhova i ka wā e mālama ana i nā hihia hoʻomāinoino keiki. ʻO kēia ka mua o nā ʻatikala e hōʻike ana i ke ala maikaʻi ʻole e lawelawe ai ka Hui i ka hana hoʻomāinoino i nā keiki. Ua kūlike kēia mau ʻatikala me ka Convention Regional Regional o nā ʻIke o Iēhova a ua hoʻokuʻu ʻia e pili ana i ka manawa like o kekahi i hōʻikeʻia i hoʻolaha ʻia e BBC.

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Nā Mākeke, nā Lunakanawai, a me Nā psychologists

"He mea maʻamau ia no ke kaikunāne e hoʻopā i kona umauma", nīnau ka makahiki 16 iā Rogier Haverkamp. Ma waenakonu o ke alanui i loko o kahi noho kaona, kū ka ʻelemakule. Ua lohe ʻo ia i kēlā pono? Ma kona ʻaoʻao he kaikuahine ʻōpio, me ia pū ʻo ia e lawelawe ana e hoʻolaha ana i ka ʻōlelo hauʻoli a Iēhova.

"ʻAʻole loa ʻaʻole" i ʻōlelo ʻo ia.

ʻAʻole hoʻopā wale ʻia ke kāne iā ia e ʻōlelo nei i ke kaikamahine. Ua hoʻopā hou aku ʻo ia i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe me ke kaikamahine a Rogier.

ʻO nā hanana o kēlā lā i ka makahiki 1999 ka hoʻomaka o kahi papa paʻakikī no Haverkamp (i kēia manawa 53). He kanaka hōʻikeʻoiaʻiʻo ke kāne Flemish no Iēhova i loko o kāna ʻaha. Ua hānai ʻia ʻo ia i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo. I ka 18 mau makahiki ona ua hoʻopaʻa ʻia ʻo ia i ka hale paʻahao no ka hōʻole ʻana i ka pūʻali koa - ʻaʻole lawelawe nā hōʻike a Iēhova i nā pūʻali koa honua. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i hana.

I nā Hana Pūnaewele

Makemake ʻo Haverkamp e hoʻokolokolo pono i kēia moʻolelo hoʻomāinoino. Me ka hoʻoholo like i kona hele ʻana i ka puka i kēlā me kēia puka, kipa ʻo ia i ke kaikuaʻana ʻo Henry, ka mea i hoʻopiʻi ʻia no ka hoʻopā kūpono ʻole. "Ua komo koke wau i 2 mau ʻelemakule ʻē aʻe no ka mea ua lawa ka hihia", i ʻōlelo ʻo Haverkamp 18 mau makahiki ma hope.

He pilikia ka mālama ʻana i nā moe kolohe ma waena o ka hui o nā hōʻike a Iēhova. ʻO ka lawelawe ʻana i kēia mau hihia ma loko o ka hale a he hopena hopena no nā mea i hōʻino ʻia. ʻO kēia ka hopena ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo ua hiki ma hope o nā kamaʻilio ʻana me nā mea pili, nā lālā a me nā lālā o ka lālā. ʻO kēia ʻatikala ka moʻolelo o kahi mea hōʻike mua i ho'āʻo e hana i kahi hihia ma waho o kēia moʻolelo hoʻomāinoino.

Ma kekahi ʻano kiʻi like ʻole o ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ia ka moʻolelo o Marianne de Voogd, e pili ana i ka hōʻino ʻana i loaʻa ai iā ia. ʻApōpō ka moʻolelo o Mareko, he male kāne.

Hōʻike kēia mau moʻolelo i ka loaʻa ʻole o ke kōkua kūpono i ka poʻe i hōʻino ʻia. Pale aku ka poʻe hana hewa a ʻaʻole hana nui ʻia e pale aku ai i ka hanana hou ʻana. Hoʻokumu kēia i kahi kūlana palekana ʻole no nā keiki. ʻO ka hui Karistiano - kahi ʻāpana e like me kekahi poʻe ma kahi o 30,000 mau lālā ma Netherlands a me nā lālā 25,000 ma Belgian a kapa ʻia ʻo ia ka Society Society.

Hoʻopili pinepine ʻia ka hōʻino ʻia ma lalo o ka pā, e like me nā mea i pili. ʻOiai inā makemake kekahi e kōkua i kahi mea i loaʻa i ka kaulike, ʻaʻole ia i hiki i ke alakaʻi.

Palapala Kahiko

Ua kākau ʻia nā ʻōlelo aʻo e pili ana i ka hoʻomāinoino i loko o nā palapala malū he nui, a nā kope o kēia nūpepa. ʻO kahi puke i kapa ʻia: Kahuhipa ka hipa i ke kumu. Loaʻa i nā ʻelemakule āpau kēia puke, ʻo lākou ka mea e hāʻawi nei i ke alakaʻi ʻuhane i loko o ke anaina. Hūnā ʻia ia mai ka poʻe ʻelemakule ʻole. ʻAʻole ʻike ka poʻe manaʻo maʻamau i ka ʻike o ka puke. Ma waho aʻe o ka puke aia he mau haneli mau leka mai ka ʻĀpana Aupuni, ke alakaʻi kiʻekiʻe loa i ka hui. Aia ia ma USA a hāʻawi i ke ao holoʻokoʻa. Hoʻopiha nā leka i ka puke ʻelemakule a hāʻawi i nā hoʻoponopono.

I loko o kēia mau palapala āpau i hōʻike ʻia nā hōʻike a Iēhova e lawe lākou i ka hana hoʻomāinoino i nā keiki a nānā nui iā ia me ka hōʻole ʻole. Mālama lākou i nā hihia hoʻomāinoino keiki ma loko; Manaʻo lākou he ʻoi aku kā lākou ʻōnaehana hoʻoponopono pono i ʻo ke kaiāulu holoʻokoʻa. Ma ke ʻano he poʻe manaʻoʻiʻo, kuleana wale lākou iā Iēhova no kā lākou hana. ʻAʻole kuleana i ka ʻōnaehana hoʻokolokolo o ka honua. Kākaʻikahi ka hōʻike ʻana i ka hōʻino.

Hōʻike Panini

Ma hope o ka hoʻolaha ʻana i ka lawelawe, huli ʻo Rogier Haverkamp no ka hōʻoia. Wahi a ka pepa leka kahiko, he ʻaelike ka hōʻoia ʻana mai ka mea hana hewa a i ʻole ka hōʻike a ʻelua mau kānaka. ʻO nā kaikamahine a pau 10, ʻōlelo ʻo Haverkamp e hōʻoia ua hōʻino ʻo Henry iā lākou: he hōʻike nui loa.

Aia kekahi kumu kūpono no ke komite hoʻokolokolo: ʻo ka hui o nā lunakahiko e hoʻoponopono i ka hihia. Ma nā hihia maikaʻi loa, e kahe ʻia ka mea pepehi kanaka. Ua ʻae hou ʻia ʻo ia i kahi pilina me nā lālā o ke anaina, ʻaʻole naʻe he ʻohana lākou. E hele wale nō kēia inā hana i ka hōʻoia nui a ʻaʻole maopopo ka mea nāna i hana. Inā he mea kaumaha ʻo ia ma mua o nā mea hōʻike a Iēhova e ʻānō i ke aloha a ua ʻae ʻia ʻo ia e noho i loko o ka ʻahaʻohana akā paha paha e hāʻawi iā ia i kekahi mau pono. ʻO ka manaʻo kupanaha, ʻaʻole ia e ʻae e pule i ka lehulehu a i ʻole i loaʻa nā ʻona aʻo. Kuhi ʻia kēia mau rula i ka palapala kikoʻī ma nā leka kahiko a me nā leka mai ka ʻaoʻao Aupuni.

Na ke Komite

Ua hoʻonohonoho ʻia kahi kōmike e hoʻoponopono i ka hihia a Henry. I ka hōʻike ʻana o nā lunakahiko o ke anaina iā Henry i ka hoʻopiʻi ʻana, lawe koke ʻo ia i kāna kaʻa. Hoʻi akula ʻo ia i ka Betela Brussel — ke poʻo poʻo o nā mea hōʻike ma Belgium - kahi i hoʻomaka ai ʻo ia e uē a hōʻike aku nei i kāna mau hana.

I hoʻokahi lā ma hope o ko Henry hele ʻana i ka Betela, kāhea ʻia ʻo Haverkamp e ka luna o Betela ʻo Louis de Wit. "ʻO ke kanikau a Henry i hōʻike ai he ʻoiaʻiʻo", nā luna kānāwai de Wit e like me Haverkamp. Hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia ua kauoha ʻo de Wit iā lākou ʻaʻole e kipaku iā Henry. E hoʻoholo ke kōmike, ʻo Haverkamp mau mea, ʻaʻole ʻae ʻia ʻo Wit e hoʻāʻo e hoʻohuli i kā lākou hoʻoholo. Akā hāʻawi ʻelua mau lālā o ke kōmike i ka luna. Heʻoiaʻiʻo kā ko Heneri mihi. No ka mea aia lākou i ka hapa nui, ʻaʻole hoʻomau ka hihia.

Huhū ʻo Haverkamp. Hoʻomanaʻo ʻo ia i ka wā o ke kamaʻilio ʻana me Henry, hoʻopiʻi ʻo ia no ka hapa hewa o ke kaikamahine a Haverkamps ʻoiai ʻo ia i hoʻowalewale iā ia. ʻO ke kumu o kēia ʻaʻole maoli kāna mihi, hoʻopiʻi ʻo Haverkamp. ʻAʻole hoʻāʻo ka mea e mihi nei e hōʻino iā haʻi no kā lākou kuhihewa a me kā lākou hana. ʻAʻole loa ka mea hōʻeha. Ua hoʻoholo ke komite e hāʻawi ʻo Henry i kāna mau kala i nā kaikamahine a hoʻomaka e hana pēlā. ʻAʻole manaʻo ʻo Haverkamp ua hana ʻia ka hoʻoponopono. Ma luna o kēlā makaʻu ʻo ia e lilo ʻo Henry i lawehala i ka wā e hiki mai ana. "Ua manaʻo wau, pono ke kāne i ke kōkua aʻo ke ala ʻoi loa e hāʻawi iā ia i ke kōkua ke hōʻike iā ia i ka mākaʻi."

Hoʻooka i kahi hōʻike

ʻAʻole he hana maʻamau ka hele ʻana i ka mākaʻi no nā mea ʻike. Manaʻo ka hui he pono ʻole ke lawe i kahi kaikunāne i mua o ka ʻaha. Eia naʻe nā ʻōlelo aʻo i loko o ka puke ʻelemakule e ʻōlelo ana ʻaʻole hiki ke pale ʻia ka mea i hōʻino ʻia mai ka hele ʻana i ka mākaʻi e hana ai i kahi hōʻike. Ua ukali koke ʻia kēia kuhikuhi e ka palapala hemolele: Gal 6: 5: “No ka mea, e halihali ana kēlā me kēia i kāna haawe iho.” I ka hana, nāwaliwali nā mea i hōʻino ʻia a me nā mea e pili ana a pāpā ʻia kekahi manawa i ka hele ʻole i ka mākaʻi, e like me ka hapanui o nā mea i hōʻino ʻia a me nā lunakahiko i kamaʻilio pū me ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo.

ʻO kekahi kaukā o nā wā kahiko, ka mea nāna i hopu i kahi hihia hana i loko o ka wā ma mua ua hōʻike ʻo ia i ka hōʻike ʻana i ka mākaʻi, ʻaʻole i hōʻoia ʻia. ʻAʻohe ʻelemakule e lawe i kahi hoʻolaha. Pono mākou e pale i ko Iēhova inoa, e pale i ka pale ma kona inoa. Ke hopohopo nei lākou i ka ʻike ʻana i ko lākou holoi holoi ʻia e nā mea a pau. No ka mea, he luna hōʻike wale nō kēia ex-kahiko, ua paʻa i kona inoa.

ʻAʻohe Hoike

Ua lohe nā mea nānā o ka Betela i ka lono e noʻonoʻo ana ʻo Haverkamp i ka hana a nā mākaʻi e pili ana iā Henry. Kāhea koke ʻia aku. Wahi a Haverkamp, ​​haʻi aku ke kākele ʻo David Vanderdriesche iā ia ʻaʻole kāna hana e hele i ka mākaʻi. Inā hele kekahi e hele i ka mākaʻi, ʻo ia ka mea e ʻai. A ʻaʻole lākou e koi ʻia e hele, wahi a Vanderdriesche.

Kūʻē ʻo Haverkamp, ​​he mea e pono ai e pale i nā keiki ʻē aʻe i ke anaina. Wahi a ia, ua ʻōlelo pololei ʻo Vanderdriesche iā ia ua hoʻoholo nā kāula o ka Betela i ʻole e hōʻike ʻia kahi hōʻike. Inā hele muaʻo ia, ʻo ia, ʻo Haverkamp, ​​e pau kona mau pono āpau.

He ʻelemakule ʻo Haverkamp a he nui nā alakaʻi a me nā kuleana aʻo. Eia hou he paionia ʻo ia, kahi poʻo i loaʻa iā ʻoe ke lilo ʻoe ma mua o 90 mau hola i kēlā me kēia mahina i ka lawelawe. Haverkamp: "Ua hāʻawi wau i ke kaomi o kēlā hoʻoweliweli".

ʻAʻole maikaʻi ʻo De Wit, ʻaʻole hoʻi ʻo Vanderdriesche mai ka Betes Brussels i kēia mau hanana. Ua ʻōlelo ke keʻena hoʻokolokolo o ka Brussels Bethel ma muli o nā kumu deontological (nā kumu kūpono) ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke ʻōlelo i nā hihia kūikawā.

Ke Kaʻina hana

He koʻikoʻi ʻo Rogier Haverkamp i ka hana ʻana i kāna mau hana i loko o kāna ʻaha. ʻIke ʻo ia i nā lula āpau, aʻo aku i nā ʻelemakule ʻē aʻe. Akā ʻo kahi ʻelemakule ʻike e like me Haverkamp hiki ʻole ke wehewehe i ka lawelawe kūpono ʻana i nā hihia hoʻomāinoino iā ia iho. ʻO kahi kiʻikuhi e pili ana i ka puke lima a nā ʻelemakule a me nā leka mai ka ʻĀpana Pule, e hoʻonui ana ma luna o 5 ʻaoʻao, pono e hōʻoia iā ia ʻaʻole i hana hewa. ʻO nā kāne e alakaʻi i ke kōmike a hoʻoholo i nā hihia kūpilikiʻi e like me ka hoʻomāinoino, he mau uila a i ʻole nā ​​kalai kaʻa ʻōhua i ko lākou ola maʻamau. Eia nō naʻe no nā Hōʻike he mea noiʻi, luna kānāwai a psychologist lākou āpau i hoʻokahi. ʻAʻole ʻike iki nā lunakahiko i nā lula i ʻōlelo ʻia e Haverkamp. "ʻAʻole kūpono ka hapanui o lākou e lawelawe i kēia mau hihia. Me he mea lā e nīnau ʻoe i kahi kaupaku, 'Makemake ʻoe e lilo i luna kānāwai?' "

Ua haʻalele ʻo Henry ma waho o Vlaanderen ma hope o kēia mau hanana, ʻoiai ʻo ia e noho mau nei ma mua o ka Hōlike. I nā makahiki i hala, haʻalele ʻo ia i kāna wahine a mare i ka mea'ē aʻe, hoʻokuʻe ʻia ʻo ia no kēia mea. I 2007, makemake ʻo ia e hoʻi i ka ʻaha anaina. Ua kākau ʻo Henry i kahi palapala ma ka Betela ma Brussels: Ke hāʻawi nei wau i koʻu ʻoluʻolu mihi i ke kaumaha i loaʻa i loko o ka ʻaha kanaka a me ka inoa ʻo Iēhova.

Ke noi Uhaonaʻana

Ua hoʻi ʻo Henry i kona kūlanakauhale kahiko akā i kēia manawa ua kipa ʻo ia i kahi ʻaha ʻokoʻa. Aia ʻo Haverkamp i loko o ke anaina hoʻokahi a lohe i ko Henry hoʻi ʻana a ke aʻo nei ʻo ia me nā kaikamahine ʻelua me nā kaikamahine a Henry.

Kahaha loa ʻo Haverkamp. Nīnau aku ʻo ia i kahi lunakahiko o ko Henry hui ʻana, inā ʻike lākou i kāna hana hoʻomāinoino keiki i hala. ʻAʻole ʻike ka ʻelemakule i kēia a ʻaʻole nō hoʻi e pili iā Haverkamp. Ma hope o kāna noi ʻana, hōʻoia ka luna o ke kūlanakauhale i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o ka ʻōlelo. Akā ʻae ʻia ʻo Henry e hoʻomau me kāna aʻo ʻana i ka Baibala a ʻaʻole i hoʻomaopopo ʻia nā ʻelemākule o ko Henry hui ʻana i kāna mea i hala. "E nānā wau iā ia", wahi a ka luna o ke kūlanakauhale.

ʻO kēlā me kēia mea i hoʻopiʻi ʻia no ka hoʻomāinoino, hōʻoia ʻia a ʻole ʻole paha, pono e nānā ʻia - no laila e ʻōlelo i nā lula i ka puke kūloko makua. ʻAʻole lākou e ʻae ʻia e launa pū me nā keiki; i ka hihia o kahi neʻe, pono e hoʻouna i kahi faila i ke anaina hou no laila ke ʻike nei lākou i ke kūlana - inā ʻaʻole i hoʻoholo ʻo Betela ma hope o ka hoʻokolokolo pono ʻana ʻaʻole pilikia hou ka mea hana.

Hoʻoiho Pūnaewele

Ma 2011, 12 mau makahiki ma hope o kēlā lā lawelawe, ua haʻalele ʻo Rogier Haverkamp i ka hui hōʻike hōʻike a Iēhova. Hoʻoholo ʻo ia e hōʻike iā Heneri. Nānā ka mākaʻi. Ua kipa aku kahi luna nānā i nā wahine makua āpau a Henry i hōʻino ʻia. ʻO lākou nō nā hōʻike a Iēhova. Ua maopopo i ka mea nānā i kekahi mea i hana ʻia, haʻi ʻo ia iā Haverkamp. Akā ʻaʻole makemake kekahi o nā wahine e kamaʻilio. ʻAʻole lākou makemake e hōʻike kūʻē i ko lākou kaikunāne. Ma luna o ia mea ua kahiko loa ka hihia hoʻomāinoino e hele i ka ʻaha. ʻImi pū ka mākaʻi inā loaʻa kekahi mea hou aʻe i hiki ai ke hana ʻia kahi hihia o ka ʻaha, akā ʻaʻohe mea e ʻike ʻia.

Minamina mau ʻo Rogier Haverkamp i kona hele ʻole i ka mākaʻi i kēlā manawa. Haverkamp: “ʻO wau ka manaʻo ʻo de Wit lāua ʻo Vanderdriesche kā kuleana. Ua manaʻo wau, pono wau e ʻike i ko lākou mana i hāʻawi ʻia mai e ke akua. ”

(Ua loli ʻia nā inoa no nā kumu pilikino. ʻIke ʻia ko lākou inoa maoli i ka mea kākau moʻolelo.)

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