Trouw Chinyorwa: "Vakuru Vanoongorora, Vatongi, uye Masayendisiti"

Uku ndiko kududzirwa kwenyaya yaChikunguru 21, 2017 chinyorwa muTrouw, bepanhau hombe reDutch, zvine chekuita nezvinotarisirwa kuvakuru veZvapupu zvaJehovha pavanobata nyaya dzekushungurudzwa kwevana pabonde. Iyi ndiyo yekutanga yezvinyorwa zvakaburitsa nzira yakashata iyo Sangano inobata kushungurudzwa kwevana pabonde. Nyaya idzi dzakawiriranwa neRegional Convention yeZvapupu zvaJehovha uye dzakaburitswa panguva yakafanana neiyo imwe pachena yakaparurwa neBBC.

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Vakuru Vanoongorora, Vatongi, uye Psychologists

"Zvakajairika here kuti hama ibate zamu rake", ane makore gumi nematanhatu anobvunza kuna Rogier Haverkamp. Pakati pomugwagwa munzvimbo inogara masabhabha, mukuru anomira. Akazvinzwa here? Parutivi pake pane hanzvadzi yechidiki, iyo yave ichishanda nayo ichizivisa mashoko anofadza aJehovha.

"Kwete zvachose kwete" anodaro.

Iye murume haasi kungomubata chete anodaro musikana. Akabatawo vamwe kusanganisira mwanasikana waRogier.

Zviitiko zvezuva iro muna 1999 ndiko kutanga kwenzira yakaoma kuHaverkamp (ikozvino 53). Iye murume weFlemish anga ari chapupu chakatendeka chaJehovha muungano yake. Akakurira muchokwadi. Pazera remakore gumi nemasere akaiswa mutirongo nekuda kwekuramba basa remauto - Zvapupu zvaJehovha hazvishande mumauto epasirese. Kana iye haana kudaro.

Mune Imba Kuitira

Haverkamp inoda kuongorora iyi nyaya yekushungurudzwa zvakakwana. Nekutsunga kumwe cheteko sezvaanoenda pasuo nesuo, anoshanyira hama Henry, uyo anopomerwa kubata zvisina kukodzera. "Ndakabva ndangobata vamwe vakuru vaviri sezvo nyaya yacho yanga yakanyanya kukwana", anodaro Haverkamp makore gumi nemasere gare gare.

Kubata kwekusazvibata pabonde idambudziko mukati mehukama hwezvapupu zvaJehovha. Kubata kwenyaya idzi kunoitika mumba uye zvine mhedzisiro inokatyamadza kune vakakuvara. Iyi ndiyo mhedziso Akatendeka asvika mushure mekukurukura nevakabatwa, nhengo uye nhengo dzekare. Ichi chinyorwa chinyorwa chemumwe-chapupu akamboyedza kuti aiburitse nyaya iyi yekushungurudzwa.

Mune rimwe rakasiyana re Akatendeka ichava nyaya yaMarianne de Voogd, pamusoro pekushungurudzwa kwaakatambura. Mangwana ndiyo nhoroondo yaMark, murume akabatwa.

Idzi nyaya dzinoratidza kuti avo vanoshungurudzwa havawani rubatsiro rwakakodzera. Vapari vemhosva vanochengetedzwa uye hapana zvakawanda zvinoitwa kudzivirira kuti zvisaitike zvakare. Izvi zvinogadzira mamiriro asina kuchengetedzeka kuvana. Sangano revaKristu - chitendero maererano nevamwe chine nhengo dzinosvika makumi matatu makumi matatu muNetherlands nenhengo makumi maviri neshanu muBelgium uye inonziwo Watchtower Society.

Kushungurudza kunowanzo kutsvairwa pasi peguru, maererano nevari kubatanidzwa. Kunyangwe kana mumwe munhu achida kubatsira munhu akabatwa kuti atore kururamisirwa, inoitwa isingaite nehutungamiriri.

Chakavanzika Manual

Iwo kurairirwa maererano nekushungurudzwa kwakanyorwa mune akawanda magwaro akavanzika, ayo pepanhau rine makopi awo. Bhuku rakanzi: Mufudzi boka rinoumba hwaro. Vakuru vese vanowana bhuku iri, ndivo vari kupa kuraira kwemweya muungano. Izvo zvinochengetwa zvakavanzika kubva kune chero munhu asiri mukuru. Nguva dzose vatendi havazive zvirimo mubhuku. Pamusoro pebhuku pane mazana etsamba kubva kuDare Rinodzora, hutungamiriri hwepamusoro soro musangano. Inowanikwa muUSA uye inopa kutungamira pasirese. Iwo mavara anokwenenzvera bhuku revakuru kana kupa zvigadziriso.

Mune zvese izvi zvinyorwa zvapupu zvaJehovha zvinotaura kuti zvinotora kushungurudzwa kwevana zvakanyanya uye vanozviona nekusabvumirana. Vanobata nyaya dzekushungurudzwa kwevana mukati; vanodavira kuti gadziriro yavo vamene yeruramisiro inopfuura iya yenzanga yose. Sevatendi, vanozvidavirira kuna Jehovha chete nezviito zvavo. Haizvidavirire kuhutongi hwenyika. Kumhan'ara kushungurudzwa hakuwanzo kuitwa.

Uchapupu hunogutsa

Mushure mekuziviswa mukushandira, Rogier Haverkamp anotsvaga chiratidzo. Zvinoenderana nebhuku remukuru, kureurura kunobva kune uyo anopomerwa kunokosha kana chapupu chevanhu vanosvika vaviri. Vese vasikana ve10, Haverkamp anotaura kuti asimbise kuti Henry akavashusha: chiratidzo chakawandisa.

Pane hwaro hwakasimba hwekomiti yedare: boka revakuru rinozotonga mhosva yacho. Mune mhaka yakaipa, muparadzi anodzingwa. Iye ipapo haasati achitenderwa kufambidzana neve nhengo dzeungano, kunyangwe kana ari emhuri. Asi izvi zvinoitika chete kana paine humbowo hwakakwana uye uyo anopomerwa haana kuzvidemba. Kana achizvidemba pane zvapupu zvaJehovha zvinowedzera tsitsi uye anotenderwa kugara muungano asi angazorega dzimwe rombo. Semuenzaniso, aisazobvumidzwa kunyengetera pachena kana kuve nenzvimbo dzekudzidzisa. Iyi mitemo inotsanangurwa zvakadzama mubook revakuru uye mavara kubva kuDare Rinodzora.

Dare

Dare rakaiswa pamwechete kubata nyaya yaHenry. Vakuru veungano pavanoudza Henry nezvekupomerwa, anobva angowana mota yake. Anotyaira achienda kuBrussel Bheteri, hofisi yepamusoro yezvapupu muBelgium - kwaanoenda kunochema uye anoratidza kuzvidemba pamusoro pezvaakaita uye anovimbisa kusazozviitazve.

Rimwe zuva mushure mekunge Henry aenda kuBheteri, Haverkamp inodaidzwa nemutariri weBheteri Louis de Wit. "Kuzvidemba kwakaitwa naHenry ndekwechokwadi", vatongi veWit maererano naHaverkamp. Anorangarira kuti de Wit akavaraira kuti vasadzinge Henry. Dare rinotarisa kuti, Haverkamp zvinhu, de Wit haibvumidzwe kuyedza kukanganisa kwavo sarudzo. Asi dzimwe nhengo mbiri dzedare dzinozvipira kumutariri. Kuzvidemba kwaHenry ndekwechokwadi vanodaro. Nekuti ivo vava muhuwandu, nyaya yacho haienderere mberi.

Haverkamp yakatsamwa. Anorangarira kuti panguva yekukurukura naHenry, anopomera kuti mwanasikana waHaverkamp ane mhosva paya paakamunyengerera. Izvi zvinoreva kuti kuzvidemba kwake hakusi kwechokwadi, anopomera Haverkamp. Mumwe munhu anozvidemba haaedze kupomera vamwe kukanganisa kwavo nezviito zvavo. Kunyanya kwete nyajambwa. Dare rinotonga kuti Henry anofanira kukumbira ruregerero kuvasikana uye anozozviita. Haverkamp hainzwe kuti ruramisiro yakaitwa. Pamusoro peizvozvo anotya kuti Henry anozodzokororwa mutadzi mune ramangwana. "Ndakafunga, kuti murume uyu anoda rubatsiro uye nzira yakanaka yekumubatsira ndeyekumhan'ara kumapurisa."

Kuita Mushumo

Kuenda kumapurisa haisi tsika yakajairwa yezvapupu. Sangano rinotenda kuti hazvina kufanira kuunza hama pamberi pedare. Asi rairo iri mubhuku revakuru rinotaura kuti munhu akabatwa haagoni kudzivirirwa kuenda kumapurisa kunopa chirevo. Iyi nzira inoteverwa nekukurumidza nerugwaro: VaG. 6: 5: "Nekuti mumwe nemumwe achatakura mutoro wake." Mukuita, vakaurayiwa nevaya vanobatanidzwa vanoodzwa mwoyo uye dzimwe nguva vanorambidzwa kuenda kumapurisa, zvinoenderana neruzhinji rwevakabatwa uye vekare-vakuru vakataura navo Akatendeka.

Mumwe mukuru-mukuru, akagadzirisa nyaya yekushungurudzwa munguva yakapfuura akataura kuti kuudza mapurisa hakuratidzike kufungwa. Hapana mukuru angangotanga kutora mushumo. Tinofanira kuchengetedza zita raJehovha, kudzivirira banga pane zita rake. Ivo vanotya kuti yavo yakasviba yekuwachira inozivikanwa nevose. Nekuti uyu mukuru-mukuru achiri Chapupu, zita rake rakabvisirwa.

Hapana Chirevo

Vatariri paBheteri vakanzwa runyerekupe rwekuti Haverkamp iri kufunga kugadzira mapurisa mapurisa nezvaHenry. Anodaidzwa ipapo. Sekureva kwaHaverkamp, ​​mutariri, David Vanderdriesche anomuudza kuti harisi basa rake kuenda kumapurisa. Kana paine munhu ari kuenda kumapurisa anofanirwa kunge ari munhu anenge akuvadzwa. Uye ivo havafanirwe kukurudzirwa kuenda, anodaro Vanderdriesche.

Haverkamp inoratidzira, chimwe chinhu chinofanira kuitika kuchengetedza vamwe vana vari muungano. Sekureva kwake, Vanderdriesche anomuudza zvakananga kuti vatariri vepaBeteri vakasarudza kuti hapana mushumo unofanirwa kuitwa. Kana akaenderera kumberi, iye, Haverkamp, ​​acharasikirwa nemvumo yake yese.

Haverkamp mukuru uye ane zvakawanda zvehutungamiriri uye zvekudzidzisa mabasa. Mukuwedzera iye piyona, zita raunowana kana iwe ukapedza anopfuura maawa makumi mapfumbamwe pamwedzi mukushandira. Haverkamp: "Ndakapa kune kumanikidza kwekutyisidzira ikoko".

Kunyange De Wit, kana Vanderdriesche anobva kuBrussels Bheti anogamuchira zviitiko izvi. Dhipatimendi redare reBrussels Bheteri rinoti nekuda kwezvikonzero zvekuzvinyengera (zvikonzero) havafanire kutaura pane dzimwe nyaya.

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Rogier Haverkamp akakomba mukuita mabasa ake muungano yake. Iye anoziva mitemo yese, uye anotodzidzisa vamwe vakuru. Asi kunyangwe mukuru ane ruzivo senge Haverkamp haakwanise kutsanangudza mabatiro akafanira nyaya dzekushungurudzwa kwaari. Dhiagiramu rakavakirwa pabhuku revakuru netsamba dzinobva kuDare Rinodzora, rinotambanudza mapeji mashanu, rinofanira kumugonesa kuti haana kana chaakakanganisa. Varume vanotungamira komiti uye vanopa mutongo pamatare akaomarara senge kushungurudzwa, magetsi kana vatyairi vemabhazi muhupenyu hwavo hwese. Nekudaro kune Zvapupu ivo vanoongorora, mutongi uye chiremba wepfungwa vese mune mumwe. Vakuru havana kujairana nemitemo inoti Haverkamp. “Vazhinji vacho havana kukodzera zvachose kubata nyaya idzi. Zvinoita sekunge unobvunza munhu anokwirira padenga kuti, 'Unoda kuva mutongi here?' ”

Henry anobuda muVlaanderen mushure mezviitiko izvi, kunyange zvakadaro achiri Chapupu. Mumakore anotevera, iye anoramba mukadzi wake uye anoroora mumwe munhu, iye anodzingwa nekuda kweizvi. Mu2007, anoda kudzokera kuungano. Henry anonyora tsamba kuBheteri kuBrussels: Ndinopa kukumbira ruregerero nemwoyo wose nekuda kweshungu dzandakakonzera muungano uye pazita raJehovha.

Mwoyo Yekupokana

Henry anodzokera kuguta rake rekare asi panguva ino anoshanyira imwe ungano. Haverkamp achiri mune imwe ungano uye anonzwa nezvekudzoka kwaHenry uye kuti ari kudzidza nevasikana vaviri vadiki pamwechete nevanasikana vaHenry.

Haverkamp inoshamisika kwazvo. Anobvunza mukuru wemuungano yaHenry, kana vachiziva nezvekushungurudzwa kwevana. Mukuru haazive izvi uyezve haatendi Haverkamp. Pashure pokunge abvunza, mutariri weguta anotsigira chokwadi chemashoko acho. Asi Henry anotenderwa kuenderera mberi nekudzidza kwake Bhaibheri uye vakuru vemuungano yaHenry havazivikanwe nezvekare. "Ndicharamba ndakamutarisa", anodaro mutariri weguta.

Chero ani zvake anopomerwa mhosva yekushungurudza, akaoneswa kana kuti kwete, anofanira kutariswa-saka taura mirau iri mubhuku revakuru. Ivo havabvumidzwe kusangana kwepedyo nevana; zvakare kana iri nyaya yekutama, faira rinofanira kutumirwa kuungano nyowani saka ivo vanoziva mamiriro ezvinhu - kunze kwekunge Bheteri yasarudza mushure mekunyatsoongorora kuti mutadzi haasisiri njodzi.

Kutevera Chirevo

Muna 2011, makore gumi nemaviri mushure mezuva rebasa iri, Rogier Haverkamp akasiya sangano rezvapupu zvaJehovha. Anosarudza kuzivisa Henry. Mapurisa anoongorora. Muongorori anoshanyira vakadzi vese vakura vakashungurudzwa naHenry. Ivo vachiri zvapupu zvaJehovha. Zviri pachena kune muongorori kuti chimwe chinhu chakaitika, anoudza Haverkamp. Asi hapana mumwe wevakadzi anoda kutaura. Ivo havadi kupupura kupokana nehama yavo, vanodaro. Pamusoro pezvo nyaya yekushungurudzwa iyi yakura zvekutadza kuenda kucourt. Mapurisa anotoferefeta kana paine chero chinhu chazvino chaitika saka nyaya yedare inogona kuitwa, asi hapana humbowo hunowanikwa.

Rogier Haverkamp achiri kuzvidemba kuti haana kuenda kumapurisa kareko. Haverkamp: “Ini ndaifunga kuti basa ndere waWit naVanderdriesche. Ndakafunga kuti, ndaifanira kuziva chiremera chavakapihwa naMwari. ”

(Mazita akachinjwa nekuda kwezakavanzika. Mazita avo chaiwo anozivikanwa kumutori venhau.)

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