Sonke sikubonile oku kwiinkqubo zendibano yesiphaluka neyesithili: Udliwanondlebe okanye amava akho apho umzalwana okanye udade ebalisa ngendlela ababekwazi ngayo ukuba ngoovulindlela okanye ukuhlala kwinkonzo yexesha elizeleyo ngenxa yempendulo esondeleyo yomthandazo. Bechukunyiswe zezi ngxelo, abaninzi baye bazabalazela ukuba ngoovulindlela, bekholelwa ukuba nabo baya kuyiphendulwa imithandazo yabo. Akumangalisi ukuba into eyenzelwe ukukhuthaza abanye kwimisebenzi emikhulu yenzondelelo ihlala ikhokelela kwinto eyahlukileyo — ukudimazeka, ukuziva ungamkelwa, kwanokuba netyala. Kufikelela kwinqanaba lokuba abanye abafuni nokuva okanye bafunde nangakumbi la mava 'anyusayo'.
Andithandabuzi ukuba sonke sinolwazi lokuzibonela kwezi meko zinje. Mhlawumbi nathi siye sabona. Ndinomhlobo osenyongweni — omnye umdala okwiminyaka yama-60 — owazama iminyaka ukuhlala kwinkonzo yexesha elizeleyo ngoxa imali awayeyigcinile yayincipha. Wayethandaza engayeki ethandazela uhlobo lomsebenzi wesingxungxo owawuza kumvumela ukuba aqhubeke nobuvulindlela. Wenza konke okusemandleni ukufumana lo msebenzi. Nangona kunjalo, kutshanje kuye kwafuneka anikezele kwaye athathe umsebenzi wexesha elizeleyo ukulungiselela umfazi wakhe (oqhubeka enguvulindlela) kunye naye. Uziva edimazekile kwaye edidekile kangangokuba ebusweni bamabali empumelelo amaninzi, eyakhe imithandazo ayiphendulwanga.
Kakade ke, asinakuya kuYehova uThixo. Uhlala egcina izithembiso zakhe kwaye malunga nemithandazo yile nto asithembise yona:
(UMarko 11: 24) Kungenxa yoko le nto ndiyanixelela, Zonke izinto enizithandazelayo nesizicelayo nikholwa ukuba nizifumene, kwaye niyakuba nazo.
(I-1 John 3: 22) nangayo nantoni na esiyicelayo siyifumana kuye, kuba sigcina imiyalelo yakhe kwaye senza izinto ezikholekileyo emehlweni akhe.
(IMizekeliso 15: 29) UYehova ukude nabangendawo, kodwa uyawuva umthandazo wamalungisa.
Ewe, xa uJohn esithi, "nantoni na esiyicelayo siyayifumana kuye…" akathethi ngengqondo epheleleyo. UmKristu obulawa ngumhlaza akazukuphiliswa ngokungummangaliso kuba ngoku ayisiloxesha lokuba uYehova asuse izifo emhlabeni. Nokuba oyena Nyana wakhe amthandayo wathandazela izinto angazange azifumane. Waqonda ukuba impendulo ayinqwenelayo isenokungahambelani nentando kaThixo. (Mt 26: 27)
Ke ndithini kumhlobo wam "ogcina imiyalelo kaThixo" kwaye "esenza izinto ezikholekileyo kuye"? Uxolo, ayikokuthanda kukaThixo ukuba uqhubeke nokuba nguvulindlela? Kodwa ayibhabhi ebusweni bayo yonke indibano kunye nenkqubo yendibano ebesinayo ukusukela… kulungile, oko ndaqala ukubuyela kubo xa umhlaba upholile.
Ewe bendinokuhlala ndiphuma nento enje, “Ngamanye amaxesha impendulo yomthandazo ithi 'Hayi', chum endala.” Ewe, loo nto ingayenza yonke ibe ngcono.
Masikhe sithathe umzuzwana ukujongana neli binzana libonakala ngathi lingene kulwimi lwethu lobuKristu. Kubonakala ngathi ivela kumaKristu asisiseko. Ngolo hlobo lohlanga, kungcono siluphonononge ngokusondeleyo.
UJohn uyenza icace into yokuba "nantoni na" esiyicelayo siyayinikwa okoko nje sihlangabezana neemeko ezingokweZibhalo. UYesu usixelela ukuba uThixo akasinikeli unomadudwane xa sicela iqanda. (Luk 11:12) Ngaba sithi xa sithobela uThixo simkhonza ngokuthembeka sicela into ecacileyo evisisana nokuthanda kwakhe, usenokuthi hayi? Oko kubonakala ngokungakhathali kwaye kungenamsebenzi, kwaye ngokucacileyo ayisiyiyo into asithembise yona. UThixo makabe nenyaniso, kanti wonke umntu ulixoki. (Ro 3: 4) Ngokucacileyo ingxaki ilele kuthi. Kukho into engalunganga ngokuqonda kwethu lo mbandela.
Zintathu iindlela ezimele ukufezekiswa ukuze imithandazo yam iphendulwe.
1. Kumele ukuba ndigcina imiyalelo kaThixo.
2. Kumele ukuba ndenza ukuthanda kwakhe.
3. Isicelo sam kufuneka sihambelane neenjongo okanye intando yakhe.
Ukuba izibini zokuqala ziyafezekiswa, ke isizathu sokuba umthandazo ungaphendulwa okanye usichaze ngokuchanekileyo ngakumbi-isizathu sokuba umthandazo ungaphendulwa ngendlela esifuna ngayo kukuba isicelo sethu singangqinelani nentando kaThixo.
Nantsi irubhi. Sixelelwa kaninzi ukuba ubuvulindlela kukuthanda kukaThixo. Ngokufanelekileyo, sonke kufuneka sibe ngoovulindlela. Ngokubethelwa ngokungqongqo kuthi, ewe sizakuziva siphoxekile ukuba imithandazo yethu yokucela uncedo lukaYehova ukuze sikwazi ukuba ngoovulindlela ibonakala ingaphendulwa.
Njengoko uThixo engenakuxoka, kufanele ukuba kukho into ephosakeleyo ngomyalezo wethu.
Mhlawumbi ukuba sidibanisa amagama amancinci amancinci ukubonisa i-3 sinokuyicombulula le ndlela yokuthandaza engaphumelelanga. Njani malunga noku:
3. Isicelo sam kufuneka sihambelane neenjongo okanye intando yakhe ukwenzela mna.
Ngokuqhelekileyo asihlali sicinga njalo, akunjalo? Sicinga kwihlabathi liphela, umbutho, umfanekiso omkhulu nayo yonke loo nto. Ukuba ukuthanda kukaThixo kungancitshiswa kuye kwinqanaba lomntu kunokubonakala ngathi, kulungile, kukuzikhukhumalisa. Sekunjalo, uYesu wathi kwaneenwele zeentloko zethu zibaliwe. Sekunjalo, ngaba sikho isiseko esingokweZibhalo sokwenjenjalo?
(I-1 yabase-Koron 7: 7) Kodwa ndinqwenela bonke abantu babe njengam. Nangona kunjalo, umntu ngamnye unesiphiwo sakhe esivela kuThixo, omnye ngale ndlela, omnye ngolohlobo.
(I-1 Kor. 12: 4-12) Ngoku kukho iintlobo ngeentlobo zezipho, kodwa zikwamoya; 5 Kwaye kukho iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zenkonzo, ukanti ikwayilooNkosi inye. 6 Kukho iintlobo ngeentlobo zemisebenzi, ukanti ikwanguloThixo wenza yonke imisebenzi kubo bonke abantu. 7 Kodwa ukubonakaliswa komoya kunikwa nganye nganye ngenjongo eyingenelo. 8 Umzekelo, omnye ke, uphiwa intetho yobulumko, enye intetho: 9 wumbi ke uphiwa ukholo kwangamoya. 10 omnye ke, wenza imisebenzi yamandla, omnye ke eprofeta, esenza intetho ephefumlelweyo, omnye eza iilwimi, omnye ke, omnye, esenza intetho ,zinye iilwimi. 11 Kodwa zonke ezi zinto zenziwa ngulo moya mnye, zisasaza nganye nganye ngokuthanda kwayo. 12 Kuba, kwanjengokuba umzimba umnye, unamalungu amaninzi, abe ke onke amalungu aloo mzimba mnye, emaninzi nje, emzimba mnye, ukwanjalo ke noKristu lo.
(Kwabase-Efese 4: 11-13). . Waza abanye wabenza baba ngabapostile, abanye baba ngabaprofeti, abanye baba ngabavangeli, abanye baba ngabalusi nabafundisi, 12 Ngokwembono yokulungiswa kwabo bangcwele, umsebenzi wokulungiselela, ukwakhiwa komzimba kaKristu, 13 side sifikelele kubunye elukholweni naselwazini oluchanileyo lo Nyana kaThixo, ukuba umntu okhule ngokupheleleyo, umlinganiso wobungcwele bokuzala kukaKristu;
(UMateyu 7: 9-11) Ngokwenene, ngubani umntu phakathi kwenu onokuthi unyana wakhe asicelele isonka-angamniki ilitye? 10 Okanye, mhlawumbi, iya kucela intlanzi — ayizukumnika inyoka, andibi kunjalo? 11 Ke ngoko, ukuba nina, ningendawo nje, niyakwazi ukunika abantwana benu izipho ezilungileyo, wobeka phi na ke yena uYihlo osemazulwini ukubanika izinto ezilungileyo abo bamcelayo?
Kule nto sifumana ukuba sonke sinezipho ezivela kuThixo. Nangona kunjalo, asinazo zonke izipho ezifanayo. UYehova usisebenzisa ngeendlela ezahlukileyo, kodwa usisebenzisela injongo efanayo: ukwakha ibandla. Ayisiyombutho ulingana nayo yonke umbutho.
Kwiindinyana zikaMateyu ezisandul 'ukukhankanywa, uYesu usebenzisa ulwalamano phakathi kukabawo nabantwana bakhe ukubonisa indlela uYehova ayiphendula ngayo imithandazo yethu. Xa bendinengxaki yokuqonda into ngoYehova okanye ulwalamano lwethu naye, bendihlala ndibona ukufana notata ongumntu ojongana nomntwana amthandayo kuluncedo.
Ukuba nam, njengalo mntwana, bendingaziva ndingonelanga; Ukuba bendinokuziva ukuba uThixo akanakundithanda njengabanye abantwana, ndinganqwenela ukwenza into ukuze ndimthande. Ndingayiqondi indlela uYehova andithanda ngayo, ndisenokuqiqa ngelithi ukuba nguvulindlela yeyona mpendulo. Ukuba bendinguvulindlela, bendinokuqiniseka ngoko, engqondweni yam ukuba uYehova uyakholiswa ndim. Ukukhuthazwa ziziphumo abanye abathi bazifumene ngomthandazo, nam ndinokuqala ukuthandaza ngokungapheziyo ndicela indlela yokuba nguvulindlela. Zininzi izizathu zokuba nguvulindlela. Abanye bayenza kuba beyithanda inkonzo okanye kuba bethanda uYehova. Abanye bayenza kuba befuna ukwamkelwa lusapho kunye nabahlobo. Kule meko, bendiya kuyenza kuba ndiyakholelwa ukuba uThixo angandivuma, kwaye ekugqibeleni ndingaziva mnandi ngam. Ndingavuya.
Injalo yonke into umzali onothando ayifunela umntwana wakhe, ukuze onwabe.
UYehova, umzali ogqibeleleyo, unokusijonga isicelo sam ngobulumko bakhe obungenasiphelo kwaye aqonde ukuba kwimeko yam, ndingaphela ndingonwabanga ukuba ndinokuba nguvulindlela. Ngenxa yokusikelwa umda, ndinokufumanisa ukuba iimfuno zeyure zinzima kakhulu. Ukuzama ukwenza oko kunokubangela ukuphuma kwam ukuya kubala ixesha kunokwenza ukuba ixesha lam libalwe. Ekugqibeleni, ndiza kuphuma ndize ndizive ndimbi ngakumbi ngam, okanye mhlawumbi ndiziva ndidanile nguThixo.
UYehova ufuna ukuba — ufuna sonke — sonwabe. Unokubona kum isipho esithile esinokunceda abanye ebandleni kwaye sonwabe. Ngapha koko uYehova akazibali iiyure; ufunda iintliziyo. Inkonzo yobuvulindlela yindlela yokufikelela kwiinjongo ezithile. Akusiyo isiphelo ngokwawo.
Ke unokuwuphendula umthandazo wam ngendlela echuliweyo yomoya oyingcwele okhokela ngobunono. Nangona kunjalo, ndingaqiniseka entliziyweni yam ukuba ubuvulindlela yimpendulo, ndizihoye iingcango andivulela zona ndize ndedwa ndikhangele phambili kwinjongo yam. Ewe, ndifumana ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kubo bonke abantu abandingqongileyo, kuba “ndenza into elungileyo”. Nangona kunjalo, ekugqibeleni, ndiyasilela ngenxa yokusikelwa umda kunye nokusilela kwaye ndigqibele ngokubi ngakumbi kunangaphambili.
UYehova akasimiselanga kusilela. Ukuba sithandazela into esiyifunayo kufuneka siyilungiselele kwangaphambili impendulo esinokungayifuni, njengoko uYesu wayenjalo eGadini laseGetsemane. Abantu kwiNgqobhoko bakhonza uThixo ngendlela abafuna ngayo. Asifanelanga ukuba njalo. Sifanele simkhonze ngendlela afuna simkhonze ngayo.
(1 Petros 4:10). . .Ngokwendlela ngamnye afumene ngayo isipho, sisebenzise ekukhonzeni omnye komnye njengamagosa amahle obubele obungasifanelanga bukaThixo abonakaliswe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
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