Omnye wamagqabantshintshi wethu wazithethelela kumaNgqina kaYehova malunga nokuxelwa okunyanzelekileyo kwamatyala okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana. Ngokuzenzekelayo, umhlobo wam olungileyo wandinika ukuzikhusela ngokufanayo. Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ibonakalisa inkolelo esemgangathweni phakathi kwamaNgqina kaYehova, kwaye ke ndaziva ndifuna okungaphezulu kunempendulo kwinqanaba lokuphawula.
Nantsi impikiswano yokhuselo:

Ikhomishini yasebukhosini ibonise ukuba iWT kudala ivelisa izinto ixesha elide ukufundisa abantu ngobungozi bokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana. Umgaqo-nkqubo we-JW ukwenza izinto ngokutsho kwebhayibhile. Kubo ibhayibhile ingaphezulu kwemithetho yelizwe, kodwa bathobela imithetho engangqubaniyo nemithetho ebekiweyo.
Lo mgaqo-ngqina mibini kuphela ngowokuthatha amanyathelo libandla, hayi ngokuthatha inyathelo elisemthethweni. Kuxhomekeke kubazali okanye kubagcini babantwana ukuba bathathe amanyathelo asemthethweni. Kubonakala ngathi uninzi lwabazali alukhange lufune ukunika ingxelo kwabasemagunyeni, kuba bengafuni kuyingxaki. Enye yezinto iKhomishini yaseRoyal eye yagqabaza ngayo kukuba iAustralia ayinayo nemithetho efanayo yokuxela imicimbi enjalo. Ii-JWs zikwindawo apho kunyanzelekileyo ukuba ziyichaze ukuba abazali abafuni kuyenza.
Akuzange kube yingxaki enkulu amaphepha awenze ukuba abe yiyo.

Andinqweneli kukhetha mbangi, kodwa kuphela ingxabano yakhe.
Umbutho uzifihlile emva kwenyani yokuba apho kukho ingxelo enyanzelekileyo, bayayithobela. Lo ngumngca obomvu. Intsingiselo yeyokuba ukuba urhulumente akacingi ukuba ukuxela onke amatyala okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana kubalulekile ngokwaneleyo ukuba kunyanzeliswe, akulunganga ukuhla kuthi ngokusilela ukunika ingxelo. Into ephume kwindibano yeRoyal Commission yaseAustralia kukuba amanye amazwe ayeneengxelo ezinyanzelekileyo kwaye ayirhoxisa. Isizathu yayikukuba ngokwenza oko kube sisinyanzelo, abantu baxele yonke into besoyika ukohlwaywa. Abasemagunyeni emva koko bazaliswa zizikhalazo ezingenamsebenzi kwaye bachitha ixesha elininzi bebalandela bonke kangangokuba boyika ukuba amatyala asemthethweni angatyibilika ngokutyhoboza. Babenethemba lokuba ngokuchithwa komthetho onyanzelekileyo wokunika ingxelo, abantu baya kwenza into elungileyo kwaye baxele amatyala asemthethweni. AmaNgqina ngekhe alindele ukuba abantu “behlabathi” benze into elungileyo, kodwa kutheni singenakwenza oko kulindelwe ngabasemagunyeni, ekubeni sizibambe kumgangatho ophezulu?
Kukho izinto ezi-2 esingazijonganga nokuzikhusela ebusweni bale meko imbi. Eyokuqala yeyokuba nokuba kukho umthetho onyanzelekileyo wokunika ingxelo, usebenza kuphela kwizityholo zokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana. Yiyo leyo izityholo hayi ulwaphulo-mthetho.  Umnumzana Stewart, igqwetha lale khomishini, wayenza yacaca into yokuba ukuxela ulwaphulo mthetho kunyanzelekile. Apho kukho ubungqina obucacileyo bokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana- xa kunokwenzeka ukuba kuphunyezwe umthetho wamangqina amabini- sinolwaphulo-mthetho kwaye lonke ulwaphulo-mthetho kufuneka luxelwe. Nangona kunjalo, kwanaxa ulwaphulo-mthetho luye lwenziwa ngokucacileyo, sisilele ukuluxela. Asiphumelelanga ukunika ingxelo ngaphezulu kwe-1000 iimeko! Yintoni enokubangela ukuba abantu bazikhusele ngaloo nto?
2nd Ingongoma kukuba urhulumente akufuneki enze ingxelo yokutyholwa kolwaphulo-mthetho olunobuzaza olunyanzelekileyo. Isazela sakhe nawuphi na ummi ogcina umthetho kufuneka simshukumisele ekubeni axele kwabasemagunyeni nabuphi na ulwaphulo-mthetho olubi, ngakumbi oluyingozi nolucacileyo ebantwini. Ukuba uMbutho ukulungele ngokwenyani ukuma kwibango lokuba senza izinto ngokwento ethethwa yiBhayibhile, kutheni le nto singathobeli iBhayibhile mayela nokubonisa ukuthobela abasemagunyeni aphezulu ngokuzama ukujongana nathi sisodwa amatyala olwaphulo-mthetho? (KwabaseRoma 13: 1-7)
Kutheni sijongana nolwaphulo-mthetho ngokwahlukileyo kunokuba besinokubufumana? Kutheni sisithi luxanduva losapho kuphela?
Masithi udade uyeza ngaphambili waxela kwabadala ukuba ubone umdala eshiya ibhanti inegazi ezingubeni zakhe. Emva koko wangena ebhaleni waza wafumanisa umzimba womfazi obuleweyo. Ngaba abadala babeza kuqala baye kulo mzalwana, okanye ngaba babeza kuya ngqo emapoliseni? Ngokusekwe kwindlela esisingatha ngayo amatyala okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana, baya kumzalwana. Masithi umzalwana uyakhanyela nokuba ukhona. Abadala ngoku basebenza nengqina elinye. Ngokusekwe kwindlela esiwasingatha ngayo amatyala okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana, lo mzalwana uya kuqhubeka nokusebenza njengomdala kwaye siya kumazisa lo dade ukuba unelungelo lokuya emapoliseni. Ukuba akwenzi njalo, akukho mntu uya kwazi ngaphandle kokuba umntu ukhubekile kwisidumbu. Ewe ngeli xesha, umzalwana uya kube efihle isidumbu kwaye acoca indawo yolwaphulo-mthetho.
Ukuba uthabathela indawo yokuba "ngumfazi obuleweyo" ngokuthi "umntwana ophethwe gadalala", unesimo esichanileyo sokwenza e-Australia kodwa kwihlabathi liphela, ngamawaka amaxesha.
Ngoku uza kuthini ukuba umbulali esiye sathethelela wavela waba ngumbulali obulalayo kwaye wabulala kwakhona? Ngubani onetyala legazi ngako konke ukubulala akwenzayo ukusukela ngelo xesha ukuya phambili? UHezekile waxelelwa nguThixo ukuba xa engabalumkisi abakhohlakeleyo, abangendawo baya kuhlala besifa, kodwa uYehova uya kuphendulisa uHezekile ngegazi labo elaphalalayo. Ngamanye amagama, ngokusilela ukwenza ingxelo wayeza kuba netyala legazi. (Hezekile 3: 17-21) Ngaba lo mgaqo awusayi kusebenza kwimeko yokusilela ukunika ingxelo ngesibulala-mntu? Kunjalo! Ngaba lo mgaqo awusebenzi kwimeko yokungaphumeleli ukuxela umxhaphazi wabantwana? Ababulali ababulalayo kunye nabaxhaphazi babantwana bayafana kuba bobabini bangabaphuli-mthetho abanyanzelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ababulali ababulalayo banqabile ngelixa abahlukumezi abantwana, ngelishwa, beqhelekile.
Sizama ukukhulula uxanduva lwethu ngokubanga ukuba silandela iBhayibhile. Sesiphi iSibhalo seBhayibhile esixelela ukuba asinasibophelelo sokukhusela abo basebandleni kunye noluntu ekuhlaselweni sisisongelo esibi kwimpilo nakwintlalo-ntle yabo? Ngaba ayisosinye sezizathu zokuba sibanga igunya lokungqongqoza kwiminyango yabantu? Sikwenza oko ngothando ukuze sibalumkise ngento eyingozi xa bengayihoyi. Elo libango lethu! Ngokwenza oku, siyakholelwa ukuba siyazikhulula kwityala legazi, silandela umzekelo owamiselwa nguHezekile. Nangona kunjalo, xa isoyikiso sisondele, sibanga ukuba akufuneki ukuba siyixele ngaphandle kokuba kuyalelwe njalo. Inyani yile, siyalelwe ukuba senze njalo lelona gunya liphezulu kwindalo iphela. Umthetho wonke kaMoses uxhomekeke kwimigaqo emi-2: ukuthanda uThixo ngaphezu kwazo zonke ezinye izinto, kunye nokuthanda ummelwane wakho njengawe siqu. Ukuba unabantwana, ngaba awufuni kwazi malunga nesoyikiso kwimpilo-ntle yabo? Ngaba ucinga ukuba ummelwane owaziyo ngesisongelo esinjalo kwaye wasilela ukukuxwayisa ubonakalisa uthando kuwe? Ukuba abantwana bakho baye badlwengulwa emva koko wafumanisa ukuba ummelwane wakho uyayazi loo nto waza akakwazisa, ngaba ubungayi kuphendula kuye?
Kumzekelo wethu wobungqina obubodwa ekubulaweni, bekukho ubungqina bokuba amapolisa ngewayebusebenzisile ekuqinisekiseni ubutyala okanye umsulwa womzalwana owayengqina eshiya indawo yolwaphulo-mthetho. Ngokuqinisekileyo siya kubiza amapolisa kwimeko enjalo, sisazi ukuba banendlela yokusilela ukufumanisa inyani. Kukwanjalo ke nakwimeko zokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana. Ukuba siyasilela ukusebenzisa esi sixhobo kubonisa ukuba asinamdla wokwenene kwabanye, kwaye asinamdla nasekungcwalisweni kwegama likaThixo. Asinako ukungcwalisa igama likaThixo ngokungamthobeli. Sinomdla wokukhusela igama loMbutho.
Ngokusilela ukubeka umthetho kaThixo kuqala, sizizisele ugculelo kuthi, kwaye ngenxa yokuba sicinga ukuba simmela kwaye sithwala igama lakhe, sizisa ugculelo kuye. Kuya kubakho imiphumo emibi.

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