Uthando kunye nobulungisa ecaleni kobubi (Icandelo le-3 le-4)

AsinguThixo okhoyolela ubungendawo; Akukho namnye umbi onokuhlala nawe. ”- INdumiso 5: 4.

 [Ukusuka kwi-ws 5/19 p.8 Study Article 19: Julayi 8-14, 2019]

Inqaku elifundwayo liqala ngale ngxelo ukuzama ukuthatha imeko ephakamileyo yokuziphatha.

“UYEHOVA UTHIXO uzithiyile zonke iintlobo zobungendawo. (Funda iNdumiso 5: 4-6.) Hayi indlela amele ukuthiye ngayo ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesini — esona senzo sonyanyeka ngakumbi! Sixelisa uYehova, thina njengamaNgqina akhe sikuthiyile ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana yaye asikunyamezeli oko kwibandla lamaKristu. — Roma 12: 9; Hebhere 12:15, 16. ”

Bonke abathandi bobulungisa kunye noThixo bangavumelana neengcinga ezivezwe kwizivakalisi zokuqala zibini kwikowuteshini ingentla. Sisivakalisi sokugqibela apho sithatha khona ukhetho njengabanye abaninzi. Makhe siqwalasele le ngxelo ngobunzulu obuncinci ukuqiqa nesizathu.

Ku “Lisikizi” kuthetha ukuba "Jonga inzondo nentiyo". Ke lubonakala njani olu nyeliso kunye nentiyo? Ngezenzo? Okanye ngamagama avakalayo amnandi neziqwengana?

Uthini nge Sukunyamezela”? Kunyamezelo kuthetha "Vumela ubukho, ukwenzeka, okanye isenzo (into umntu angayithandiyo okanye esingavumelani nayo) ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka".

Uvavanyo lwe-Litmus

Masenze uvavanyo olukhawulezileyo lwe-litmus, ngokuthelekisa amanyathelo athatyathwa kwabo batyholwa ngokuba ngumwexuki okanye ukubangela iyantlukwano, ngamanyathelo athatyathwa nguMbutho kwabo batyholwa ngokuxhaphaza abantwana ngamaxhoba. Emva koko sinokubona ukuba nguMbutho ujonga ntoni ngokungathandekiyo nokunganyamezeli.

Makhe siqale ngokuvavanya izityholo zowexuko, ezinokuthi zinciphise kumehluko wokuqonda iBhayibhile.

Ukuba umntu usebenza njengwexuko njengoko kuchaziwe nguMbutho, ngaba bayakwenza oko ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwengqondo umothuko omnye umntu? Ngaba ukuba nembono eyahlukileyo malunga nokuba iqhekeza le-steak kufuneka liphekwe njani, ngokomzimba okanye ngokwengqondo umonakalo nabani? Impendulo icacile, Hayi kwimibuzo yomibini. Ngaba ukwenza umahluko kwezimvo zokuba iQumrhu Elilawulayo liyimela intlangano kaYehova yasemhlabeni umonakalo nabani na ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwengqondo? Impendulo ngokucacileyo, Hayi.

Ngaba uMbutho “Lisikizi” kwaye "Ayinyamezeli" ichaza ntoni njengowexuko? Izibakala zibonisa ukuba kwimizamo yokuphelisa okanye yokuphelisa ukubizwa kwabawexuki, kwaye ke kuzanywa ukuphelisa nakuphi na ukungavisisani phakathi kwamahlelo, nkqu nabo bashiye uMbutho, bengayi ezintlanganisweni kwaye bengathathi nxaxheba kwinkonzo yasentsimini, unyaka okanye iminyaka emine okanye nangaphezulu iyaphandwa.[i] Babizelwa kwikomiti egwebayo. Ukuba bayala ukubakho, ngokuchasene nemithetho eyamkelweyo kwinkundla yamatyala, batyholwa ngokuwexuka kwabo, bagwetywe, bagwetywe — bahlala betyholwa ngokwabo! Ukuba umntu uyaya kwaye azame ukuzifumana zombini ezo zityholo kunye neziseko zzo zityholo, okanye azise amaNgqina ekuzithetheleleni, azifumanele iinombolo ezibhaliweyo kunye namangqina okuziphendulela.[ii]

Kukwakho nemizekelo engamakhulu yezenzo ezifanayo zabameli boMbutho eziza kufunyanwa, zinxulumene okanye zibhalwe kwividiyo kwi-intanethi.

Nawuphi na umntu ongakhethi buso ungathi uMbutho ngokucacileyo “Izothe” kwaye iyakwenza "Ayinyamezeli" nakuphi na ukuziphikisa kwiimfundiso zayo.

Yintoni esiyifumanisayo ukuba iyinyani malunga nezityholo zokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo?

Okokuqala, ngaba ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwasengqondweni kuyabenzakalisa abantwana? Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo iyenzeka. Ukuphathwa gadalala ngokwesondo kubi kakhulu kwiziphumo zako kunokungavumelani namandla ("uwexuko" kwiOrg. Ulwimi lwasekhaya). Ke, ngokwandiswa umntu unokulindela ukuba iimeko zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ziya kujongwa ubuncinci okanye kakubi. Ngapha koko, njengoko kuxhaphakile ukungahoywa, ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana sisenzo solwaphulo-mthetho phantse kuwo onke amazwe ehlabathi ukanti ukuwexuka kwiimfundiso zamaNgqina kaYehova ayisosenzo solwaphulo-mthetho.

Andazi kwividiyo enye apho iNgqina eliye laxhaphaza umntwana ngokwesondo. Uya? Ngapha koko, uMbutho unesiseko sedatha enamawaka amagama abantu abaziwayo nabatyholwa ngokungekho mthethweni. Kananjalo, bambalwa kakhulu kwaba bantu abachasene nolwaphulo-mthetho abaye baxelwa kwabasemagunyeni boMbutho okanye ngabameli bayo.

Ke, ndicel 'umngeni nawaphi na amaNgqina aqhelanisayo noMbutho ukuba anike ubungqina ukubonisa ukuba ngokwenene “Lisikizi” kwaye "musa ukukunyamezela" ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo. Ukuba bayalwamkela olu celomngeni, kufuneka banike ubungqina bokuba bamphathe kakubi umxhaphazi lowo kanye njengabo bawexuki babadelelayo kwaye babaphatha gadalala. Kufuneka bakhumbule ukuba ukuphathwa gadalala gadalala kuya kuba kubi ngakumbi, njengoko lulwaphulo-mthetho olubi ngakumbi ekuzinikeleni kwabo kunye neziphumo zalo kumaxhoba.

Umbhali akazukubamba umphefumlo wakhe elinde ubungqina abukho. Andikaze ndive ngomntu ohlukumezayo egwetywa engabikho okanye enqabile amangqina anokubonisa ubungqina bokuba umsulwa.[iii]

Uvavanyo lwe-litmus lufumene amabango oMbutho ekupheleni komhlathi 1 ukuba awunasisekelo.

Ubungqina bokwala ukwamkela inyani

Ukusilela kunye nokwala ukwamkela inyani kuyaqhubeka kumhlathi 3 xa isithi ""Baninzi abantu abangendawo noosiyazi, ”yaye bambi basenokuzama ukungena ebandleni. (2 Timoti 3:13) Ukongeza, abanye abathi bangamalungu ebandla baye banikezela kwiminqweno yenyama egqwethekileyo kwaye babaxhaphaza abantwana ngokwesondo ”.

Ke, isizathu sokuqala samatyala okuxhatshazwa ngaphakathi kuMbutho kukuba abaxhaphazi babantwana bazamile ukungena kwiBandla. Ngoku, ukuya kwinqanaba elinganiselweyo, oku kunokuba yinyani, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kumele kube bambalwa kakhulu ngenani. Bangaphi abaxhaphazi abaya kulungela ukuchitha iminyaka yokuzama ukuzama ukwamkelwa njengoovulindlela abathembekileyo, okanye izicaka zolungiselelo okanye abadala ngaphambi kokuzama ukuxhaphaza ixhoba labo lokuqala? Ezimbalwa kakhulu. Umbhali ukrokrela 'ufundo lwebhayibhile' olunanye kwezi njongo, kodwa uphononongo balunikezela xa bebona ukuba lingakanani ixesha kunye nomsebenzi oza kuthatha.

Ukusuka kumatyala akwindawo kawonkewonke aboni abaziintloko, njengakwizenzo zolwaphulo-mthetho oluninzi, bahlala beyisihlobo / umzali / umzali / abazali, balandelwa ngumntu onegama abalaziyo (i) umdala, isicaka solungiselelo okanye uvulindlela. Oku bekuyimeko nakwimeko ezincinci zamatyala apho ndiqhelene khona nomntu ixhoba okanye umtyholwa. (Abatyholwa aba (onke amangqina) utata ongutata, umalume, umalume womhlobo, umdala, waseBheteli) oko kukuthi, aba benzi bobubi babephethwe yi-2^nd iqela elibekiweyo kumhlathi 3 (ngokungathandabuzekiyo ubeke i-2^nd ukunciphisa impembelelo yokwamkelwa kwayo kwinqanaba kunye nefayile yamaNgqina).

Into yokuba aboni abaninzi betyunjwe njengamadoda ikhokelela kumbuzo olandelayo. Ukuba banyulwe nguMoya oyiNgcwele njengoko ibango loMbutho[iv], ke zingaba njani ngaxeshanyeabanye besithi bayinxalenye yebandla. ”? Ngaba ezi zaphuli mthetho zabakhohlisa uMoya oyiNgcwele ukuba ubamisele, ngamanye amaxesha ngelixa bexhaphaza amaxhoba? Ukutsho oko kuya kufana nokwenza isono kuMoya oyiNgcwele (UMateyu 12: 32). Okanye, impendulo eyiyo neiyinyani kulo mbandela kukuba uMoya oyiNgcwele awunanto yakwenza nokuqeshwa ngaphakathi kuMbutho njengoko konke ukutyunjwa kwenziwa ngamadoda kwaye uMbutho ungakhokelwa ngumoya kaYehova.

Ukusilela ukwamkela ubunzulu bale ngxaki

Inxalenye yokugqibela yokusilela kunye nokusilela ukwenza ubungqina bokubaluleka kwengxaki ikwafumaneka kumhlathi 3 xa isithi, "Masixoxe ukuba kutheni ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana kusisono esikhulu kangaka ”. Kanjani? Ngenxa yokuba oku kuvunywa kokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana kusisono esikhulu akuhambi kunye nokwamkelwa kwento yokuba sisenzo solwaphulo-mthetho esinzulu nokuba (kubhekiswa kumhlathi 7, jonga ngezantsi).

Oku kujongwa njengokubaluleke kangakanani kulwaphulo mthetho lwehlabathi lunokulinganiswa kwindlela abasabela ngayo abanye abophuli-mthetho ukuya kubaxhaphazi babantwana. Abaxhaphazi babantwana badla ngokuvalelwa bodwa okanye amaphiko ahlukileyo eentolongo ukuze bakhuseleke. Ngoba? Kuba ngelixa uninzi lolwaphulo-mthetho lungamkeleki njengokwalingana nezo zaphuli mthetho zikulungele ukwenzakalisa abantwana, nokuba kungokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwesini.[v] Abalindi beentolongo bakwakhona ukubahlasele kakhulu kunalo naluphi na uhlobo lwebanjwa. Ngapha koko, iqondo lokuphinda ukone yenye yezona zinto ziphakamileyo kwezona zono zinkulu.

Ke ngoko, ngokuchasene nale meko, uMbutho uqhuba njani namatyala okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana? Okokuqala, ayinakuze ichaze izityholo kwabasemagunyeni nokuba oko kunyanzelekile.[vi] Bayakubanga ilungelo labefundisi-bafundisi-ntsapho ukunqanda ukunikezela ingxelo, okanye banike ubungqina ukuba bekunye kuphela ubungqina bengqina.

Ngelixa umgaqo-nkqubo okhoyo ngoku uthi amaxhoba anelungelo lokunika ingxelo kwabasemagunyeni, uMbutho awenzanga nto ukunciphisa umbono jikelele phakathi kwamaNgqina ukuba ukwenza oko kukuzisa ugculelo kuYehova kwaye ke oko kuhlala kungabhaliswanga -hayi.

Kukwenza impikiswano enkulu ngokufuna amangqina amabini ngaphambi kokuzonwabisa ngezityholo zokuphathwa gadalala ngokwesini kwabantwana, ngakumbi ngokuchasene namadoda aqeshiweyo, nangona ulwaphulo-mthetho olunjalo luhlala lusenziwa emfihlakalweni kwaye phantse lungaze lubekho ubungqina

Siyabuza, ukuba iqumrhu labadala lafumana isimangalo kwilungu elinye lebandla ukuba elinye ilungu labulala umntu, (esinye isono esinzulu kunye nesenzo esinzulu solwaphulo-mthetho) bangakhawuleza basirhoxise isityholo ngenxa yelinye kuphela ingqina? Ngaba banokwala ukwazisa abasemagunyeni? Ngaba babeza kuyigcina iyimfihlo kwiintsapho zabo nasebandleni? Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, isityholo sasiza kuthathwa ngokunzulu nangobungqina elinye, abasemagunyeni babandakanyeke, kwaye abadala babalumkisa iintsapho zabo kwaye ngokunokwenzeka ibandla ngokubanzi. Ngaba nazo ziya kuba lula kangaka ukukholiseka yimisebenzi yokuguquka komntu otyholwa? Kodwa, le yindlela abamphatha ngayo izityholo zokuxhaphaza umntwana ngokwesini. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ezi zityholo azifumani nyango "Sisono esikhulu".

Amanga amhlophe esiNgesi axhaphakile [vii] (okanye Thetha kabini)

Sithini isikhundla soMbutho ngokuzibandakanya kwabasemagunyeni? Isiqendu 7 sinika isikhundla sazo, isandi esifanelekileyo, kodwa sinqongophele.

"Ukona kwabasemagunyeni. AmaKristu kufuneka "athobele amagunya awongamileyo." (Roma. 13: 1) Sibonisa ukuzithoba kwethu ngokubonisa intlonipho efanelekileyo ngemithetho yelizwe. Ukuba umntu othile ebandleni unetyala lokwaphula umthetho wolwaphulo-mthetho, njengokuphatha gadalala umntwana, wona kubaphathi behlabathi. (Thelekisa iZenzo 25: 8.) Ngelixa abadala bengagunyaziswanga ukunyanzelisa umthetho welizwe, abakhuseli namnye umxhaphazi wokuxhaphaza umntwana kwiziphumo zomthetho zesono sakhe. (Rom. 13: 4) "

Amagama abekwe kakuhle. Ubuso bayo, ngakumbi ifundwe ngokukhawuleza, kukuba yinto elindelwe ngumbutho wamaKristu. Nangona kunjalo, qaphela eli binzana “Unetyala lokwaphula umthetho wolwaphulo-mthetho”. Ngokwenyani inokuqondwa into yokuba, ukuba iNgqina ligwetywe kwinkundla yamatyala enetyala lokuxhaphaza umntwana ngokwesondo. Ke ngoko uMbutho uya kuba nakho ukwenza isabalelo sokuba kwimeko apho umntu waziwa enetyala lokuxhaphaza umntwana ngokwesondo, mhlawumbi ngokuvuma kubadala, kodwa engazange asiwe kwinkundla yamatyala okanye angagwetywa ngobuchule, eneneni ungenatyala lokwaphula umthetho wolwaphulo-mthetho. Nangona kunjalo, nkqu kwezi meko, umenzi wobubi wayesona kubaphathi behlabathi kunye nexhoba.

Qaphela ibinzana elilandelayobona (abadala) ungamkhuseli nawuphi na umenzi wobubi bokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana kwiziphumo zomthetho zesono sakhe. Oku kuthetha ukuba abayi kumisa isaphuli-mthetho esifunyenwe singenatyala enkundleni ukuba sigwebe isigwebo sabo okanye lihlawuliswe ngembuyekezo. Esinjani sona isisa sabo!

Into ayitshoyo kukuba akukho sithintelo kubantu abadala nakwamanye amangqina asenakho ukuvela njengamangqina okuzithethelela komenzi wobubi ukuze abanike ubungqina obuhle okanye abenze bathandabuze ubungqina bomtyholwa. Ayitsho kananjalo ukuba abasayi kuphinda babutshabalalise ubungqina obubhaliweyo kwindibano yezomthetho enokuthi ixhase ubungqina bexhoba enkundleni, mhlawumbi kubandakanya nokuvuma kwabenzi bobubi.

Kanjalo, "Abadala abavunyelwanga ukuba banyanzelise umthetho welizwe", kodwa kwelinye icala, bengafuni nokuyithintela, ngokubanga imfihlelo yabefundisi-abantu abadala kunye nokunye.

Isiqendu 9 ithi Umbutho uqhubeka nokujonga indlela amabandla asisingatha ngayo isono sokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana. Ngoba? Ukuqinisekisa ukuba indlela yethu yokusombulula lo mbandela iyahambelana nomthetho ka-Kristu. ”

Kwakhona, isiqwenga somsindo esifanelekileyo sithetha kabini. Bangaqhubeka nokujonga indlela amabandla asisingatha ngayo isono sokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana de kufike iArmagedon, kodwa akukho nto iza kutshintsha. Into engekhoyo sisithembiso sokuba uMbutho okanye iQumrhu Elilawulayo, elenza imigaqo-nkqubo, liya kuhlala lihlolisisa ukuba izikhombisi-ndlela ezinikwe amabandla avela kuMbutho ziyaphuculwa okanye ziyavumelana nomthetho kaKristu. Kananjalo, kuya kubakho uphononongo lokuqinisekisa ukuba izikhombisi-ndlela ziyavumelana kunye nokuxhasa iimfuno zokunikwa kwengxelo ngamagunya ehlabathi, nokuba baya kwamkela eyona nto ibalulekileyo kumagunya esizwe ekuphatheni amatyala anqabileyo nobunzima.

Ngapha koko umthetho-siseko kaKristu, luthando, hayi imigaqo malunga namangqina amabini, akukho ncedo lwamabhinqa, ubumfihlo obungqongqo nokunye okunjalo.

Ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwebinzana "ubungcwele begama likaThixo"

Isiqendu 10 siyaqhubeka ngokuthetha kabini, Banenkxalabo ethile xa bafumana ingxelo yokona okungalunganga. Abadala ngokuyintloko baxhalabele ukugcina ubungcwele begama likaThixo. (ILevitikus 22: 31, 32; Matthew 6: 9) Baxhalabele kakhulu impilo yokomoya yabantakwabo noodade wabo ebandleni kwaye bafuna ukunceda nabaphi na abangamaxhoba okugwenxa ".

"Ubungcwele ” kubhekiswa ekubekelweni ecaleni okanye ukubhengezwa njengcwele. Njengabantu ngabanye sinokwazi kuphela ukulawula okwenzayo. Kukho nomngcipheko wendalo wokuba ukuba sijolise kwinto esingalawulekiyo kuyo, siya kuphulukana nombono wento esinokuyilawula: Izenzo zethu. Qaphela ukuba zibeka phi ngokubaluleka, "impilo yokomoya ” amalungu ebandla. Oku kuthetha kabini nge "Ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho namnye ebandleni okhubekayo", okt kugcine kuyimfihlo kangangoko ukuze kungabikho namnye ngaphandle kwabo babandakanyeka ngqo onokholo oluza kugungqiswa.

Ukunceda amaxhoba kuza njengendawo yesithathu kwakhona; kwaye ukunqanda umngcipheko onokubakho kumaxhoba exesha elizayo akuchazwanga.

Imigaqo yokufundwa kwingozi yomntwana ngelixa edlala

Buza nawuphi na umzali ukuba bajongana njani nale meko ilandelayo. Cinga ukuba umntwana wayedlala watyibilika kumkhenkce othile kwaye wazenzakalisa kakhulu, mhlawumbi umlenze ophukileyo kunye nengqondo. Unokwenza njani? Ukuba ucinga ngokuzola mhlawumbi uya kulandela into efana nale ichazwe apha:

1. Vavanya imeko. Ke ukuba bekungakhuselekanga ukuba uqhubeke, ungasusa umthombo wengozi ukuba kunokwenzeka.
2. Yiza kwiinkonzo zoncedo olungxamisekileyo, ngakumbi kwimeko yengozi enkulu kakhulu.
3. console umntwana, ngaphandle kokuwashukumisa, kwimeko apho kuye kwabangela iintlungu okanye ukonakala kakhulu. Ukuqinisekisa kwakhona uyazi ukuba kubuhlungu kwaye kwenzakaliswa kakubi nangona kungekho namnye umntu owababonayo enzakala.
4. Discover ukuba kunokwenzeka, ubungakanani ngokupheleleyo bokulimala ngononophelo.
5. Indawo esingqongileyo: zigcineni zifudumele, zikhululekile kwaye zikhuselekile.
6. Iingcali, uvunyelwe ukuba uthathe kwaye ushenxise umntwana owenzakeleyo kunye nosizi ukuba aye kwindawo ekhuselekileyo yonyango olululo, ukuzinza, ukukhathalela kunye nokunceda ukuphilisa ixhoba lengozi.

Ke, masisebenzise imigaqo elifanayo kwimeko elusizi kakhulu nelikhathazayo ethi ingxelo yokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo yenziwe kubadala. Umdala kufuneka enze ntoni? Kuyafana nawuphi na umzali okule meko ingasentla ukuba ukhathalele ilungu lomhlambi wakhe.

1. Vavanya ingozi eqhubekayo kuye nakwabanye kuqala kwaye uyitsale ingozi leyo yokuvumela uncedo ngaphandle kokuzenzakalisa yena okanye ixhoba. Oku kuya kuthetha ukuba umenzi wobubi otyholwa akanako ukufikelela emntwaneni okanye kwabanye abantwana, ukuba badala (abadala) bayakwazi ukuyichaphazela le meko.
2. Yiza kwiinkonzo zoncedo olungxamisekileyo, abasemagunyeni. Banabantu abaqeqeshelwe ukujongana neziganeko ezimbi ezinje kwaye ngokubaluleke nangakumbi banamava okuqhubana nabo. Umdala ngokuthelekisa, ngokunokwenzeka wazi kuphela okulinganayo kuncedo lokuqala lwe-theoretical, hayi utyando olunzima okanye unyango olunokuthi kufuneke ukuba lihlaziye ngokupheleleyo ixhoba.
3. console kwaye uqinisekise ixhoba, ukuba bayoncediswa libandla, bangasuswa kulo ngokususwa kubudlelane, ngenxa nje yokuba kungekho namnye umntu owababonayo benzakalisile kwaye mhlawumbi banokuba sengozini enkulu yengqondo.
4. Discover ubukhulu bokulimala ukuba kunokwenzeka, ngokumamela ngononophelo kwinto ethethwa lixhoba. Ngokucacileyo abantwana abasezintlungwini abenzi benzakaliyo inkohliso.
5. okusingqongileyo kulawulwa ngakumbi ukunciphisa iintlungu kunye nentlungu, kwaye kuthintele ukonakaliswa ngakumbi, ngelixa uncedo lweengcali luyeza. Qinisekisa ukuba akukho mntu wonzakeleyo ngendlela efanayo ngokukhupha isilumkiso sengozi. Mhlawumbi uthi esidlangalaleni, "Kukho isityholo sokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana ebandleni, nceda uqiniseke ukuba abantwana bakho abafakwa kwiimeko apho banokwenzakala, kwaye ungoyiki ukukhusela owakho nabanye abantwana ngokuchaza ezo ziganeko ngqo abasemagunyeni bafuna uncedo ngokukhawuleza. ”
6. Iingcali bavunyelwe ukuba bathathe indawo yokubonelela ngoncedo kwaye bancede ngakumbi nangaphaya kobuchule babadala, ngoko ke kukho ithuba elifanelekileyo lokufumana kwakhona okungcono phantsi kweemeko.

Umzali onothando kunye nokwandisa abadala abanothando akangekhe anyanzele ekuziphatheni ixhoba elinobomi obutshintsha ngokulimala okungaphaya kobuchule babo obumiselweyo bokuphatha nokuphilisa.

Qhubeka nokuthetha ngolwimi olubekelwe bucala

Umhlathi 13 uthi:

"Ngaba abadala bayayithobela imithetho yehlabathi malunga nokuxela isityholo sokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana kwabasemagunyeni? Ewe. Kwiindawo apho imigaqo enjalo ikhona, abadala bazama ukuthobela imithetho yehlabathi malunga nokuchaza izityholo zokuxhatshazwa. (KwabaseRoma 13: 1) Imigaqo enjalo ayingqubani nomthetho kaThixo. (Izenzo 5: 28, 29) Ke bathi bakuba beve ngezityholo, abadala bafune isikhokelo ngendlela abanokuthobela ngayo imithetho malunga nengxelo. ”

Esi sesinye isimemezelo esifanelekileyo sokuvakalisa isandi, kodwa ubungqina bukwipudding njengoko besitsho. Into engayithethayo kukuba ukuba kukho igatya lokubaleka abanokuthi balusebenzise bayakucacisa ukungabiki ingxelo, baya kuyisebenzisa. Bafuna oluphi ukhokelo? Abaphathi abenze umthetho. Hayi, isebe lezomthetho lezombutho, kwaye phantse kuzo zonke iimeko apho ukuthobela kuphela khona. Qaphela igama elifanelekileyoukuzama"Okuthetha ukuthi" ukuzama ". Kutheni besithi bazama ukuthobela? Oko kuthetha ukuba abasoloko bethobela. Enye iyahambelana okanye ayihambelani. Ndizamile ukuthobela = ndasilela ukuthobela. Kunzima ukucinga ngesizathu esivakalayo sokungahambelani nemithetho yokunika ingxelo. Ukuba kukho umntu owaziyo omnye, nceda uchaze ngokucacileyo kwinkcazo.

Isiqendu 14 siyaqhubeka sikwindawo efanayo, sisithi:

"Abadala baqinisekisa amaxhoba nabazali babo kunye nabanye ngolwazi lwento ukuba bakhululekile ukuxela izityholo zokuphathwa gadalala kwabasemagunyeni. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba ingxelo ngakumntu oyinxalenye yebandla kwaye umba lowo ke waziwe ekuhlaleni? Ngaba umKristu okuxelileyo ufanele avakalelwe kukuba uzisa ugculelo kwigama likaThixo? Hayi. Umxhaphazi ngulowo uzisa ugculelo kwigama likaThixo. ”

Umntu unokufunda lo mhlathana ulandelayo njengembono yokuba "abazali kunye nabanye bakhululekile ukuba baxele izityholo, kodwa abadala abayi, ngaphandle kokunyanzelwa, ukukhahlela kwaye bekhwaza ngabasemagunyeni bekho kwimeko yabo kwaye uMbutho ungafuni nawe. ".

Oku kuyinxalenye eqinisekiswe zezi zivakalisi zibini zokugqibela, xa sisithi, Ukuba intatheliNgaba uziva ulizisile igama lakhe? ” kunye neempendulo "Hayi. Umxhaphazi ngulowo uzisa ugculelo kwigama likaThixo ”. kunjalo, indlela ekuthethwa ngayo, isathetha ukuba ukwenza ukuba yaziwe kuya kuzisa ugculelo kwigama likaThixo, ikukuba ayizukuba lityala le ntatheli. Xa befunda ezi zivakalisi zibini, uninzi lwamaNgqina lusenokuthatha isigqibo malunga nokufaka ingxelo njengoko beya kuziva benetyala ngenxa yezingcikivo, kuba becinga ukuba xa bathe cwaka bangazazi esidlangalaleni, baya kuyeka ukungcikiva. Ngapha koko, baya kuba negalelo ekwenzeni ukuba kubi ngakumbi ngokugubungela.

Umgaqo wamangqina amabini uphinde uqinisekisiwe

Isiqendu 15 kunye ne-16 iqinisekisa ukuba bayaphindaphinda imeko yabo yokuba amangqina amabini afuneka ngaphambi kokuba kusekwe ikomiti egwebayo. Isihloko sithi “Ebandleni, ngaphambi kokuba abadala bagwebe, kutheni kufanelekile amangqina amabini? ”

Umhlathi 15 uqhubeka uthi "Le mfuneko yinxalenye yomgangatho ophakamileyo weBhayibhile wokusesikweni. Xa kungekho kuvunywa kwesono, kufuneka amangqina amabini aqinisekise isimangalo kwaye agunyazise abadala ukuba bathathe amanyathelo okugweba. (Duteronomi 19:15; Mateyu 18:16; funda eyoku-1 kuTimoti 5:19.) ”

Sithethe ngale nto Ukuma kwamangqina amabini yoMbutho ngaphambi kobunzulu ngokwembhalo kwindawo yethu. (Cofa ikhonkco). Ke apha siza kulungisa amagqabantshintshi akwenziwe kumhlathi 15. Akukho nanye kuzo naziphi na izibhalo ezibonisiweyo ezibonisiweyo egunyazisa ukuba abadala bathathe amanyathelo okugweba. Akukho qumrhu libizwa ngokuba "yikomiti yokugweba" okanye efanayo inokufunyanwa kwizibhalo.

Ngapha koko, uMateyu 18: I-16 ixoxa ngokudalwa kwengqina elinye okanye amabini ongezelelweyo kule ngxaki, ngokuxoxa ngayo nomtshutshisi phambi kwamangqina ongezelelweyo, hayi isenzo sokuqala. (Qaphela: Olu phononongo alukhuthazi ukuba ixhoba kufuneka lenze amangqina ongezelelweyo ngokujongana nomtshutshisi wabo yedwa. Umxholo kaMateyu wayexoxa ngokucacileyo ngemeko apho umKristu osele ekhulile esazi ngesono somnye umdala ongumdala. UYesu wayengasixeleli. indlela yokujongana nolwaphulo mthetho ngokuchasene nomthetho welizwe, nokuba wayengathethi ukuba masenze into ngokungathi sisizwe sodwa, nemithetho yethu kunye neenkqubo zesohlwayo.)

Umxholo we-1 Timoti 5:19, umzekelo ivesi 13, uthetha ngokuhleba, nokugxuphuleka kwimicimbi yabanye. Ewe kunjalo, bekuya kuba yinto ephosakeleyo ukumamela izityholo ezivela kwintlebendwane kunye nokungenelela kwimicimbi yabanye, njengoko iinyani zihlala zibhityile emhlabeni. Isityholo somntwana sokuba baphethwe gadalala, okanye ngumzali egameni lomntwana wakhe, asikufanelanga ukuhleba okanye ukugxuphuleka.

Qaphela kwakhona ukuba uYesu ujonga ngamangqina amabini kuYohane 8: 17-18, "17 Kwakhona, eMthethweni wakho kubhaliwe kwathiwa, 'Ingqina lamadoda amabini liyinyani.' 'Ndiyangqina ngam, kwaye uBawo owandithumayo uyangqina ngam. ”

Apha, le ngqina lesibini, uYehova, belingqina ngoYesu njengo-Kristu, hayi izinto awazifundisayo ezazingqina ukuba wayenguMesiya. (Ingqina elingumlinganiswa, elokuba uYesu wayengamangaanga kwinto awayeyithetha).

Ubuncinci into enye eyinxalenye elungileyo yomhlathi omnye (15) apho ithi, "Ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba ngaphambi kokuxelwa kwabasemagunyeni malunga nokubekwa ityala, kufuneka amangqina amabini? Hayi. Le mfuneko ayisebenzi xa abadala okanye abanye bexela izityholo zetyala. ”

Yandula ke inkonzo eqhelekileyo iphinde iqale. Isiteyithisi "ebusweni bakho", sisekela ingxelo ye-JW Broadcasting ethi "soze sitshintshe ukuma kwethu ngokwesiseko ” ukuba akukho komiti iya kugwetywa ngaphandle kwamangqina amabini isenzo esinye okanye esinye isimangalo sesinye isigwebo. Itsho kumhlathi 16, Ukuba ke umntu uthe walikhanyela ityala, abadala bona bayijonga into enjalo. Ukuba okungenani abantu babini-omnye owenza isityholo nomnye umntu onokuthi aqinisekise ngesi senzo okanye ezinye isenzo sokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana ngulowo utyholwa-ayeke ityala, makwenziwe ikomiti yejaji. Ke, apho sinayo, ukungathathelwa ingqalelo kobungqina obuphathekayo njengengqina, kwaye nokungaqwalaselwa kweempendulo kunye neenkcazo zomtyholwa malunga nokuba zinobungqina obuthembekileyo. Umyalezo ocacileyo wokuba abenzi bobugqwetha ngaphakathi eMhlanganweni, ukuba awubuvumi kwaye uqinisekisa ukuba lingqina elinye, uya kukwazi ukuqhubeka ulwenza ulwaphulo-mthetho lwakho, ngakumbi ukuba udlala ikhadi eliya kungcikivwa igama likaYehova.

Ngubani ngokwenene ozisa ugculelo kwigama likaThixo? Abaxhaphazi okanye uMbutho?

Isimo sengqondo sokungena ngaphakathi kwabaFarasi siyagula. Sisimo sengqondo soMbutho sokuziphatha ngokungagungqiyo esizisa ugculelo kwigama likaThixo, ngenxa yokuba bathi bangumbutho kaYehova wasemhlabeni. Umntu unokuxolelwa ngokucinga ukuba iQumrhu Elilawulayo kunye nabenzi bayo bomgaqo-nkqubo ongemva kwesigcawu banomdla wokukhusela i-pedophiles, xa sibona iinzame abaya kuzo ukukhusela abaphuli mthetho kwiziphumo zezenzo zabo.

Indawo eseleyo kumhlathi we-16 ayiniki themba lingako. Ngenxa yokuba kwanokuba ukuxoxwa kwetyala kuhlanganisiwe, kwenziwa emfihlakalweni. Akukho miyalelo icacileyo okanye imiqondiso apha yokuba ibandla liya kulunyukiswa. Ifundeka ngolu hlobo:

"Nokuba ityala lokungalunganga alingqinwa ngamangqina amabini, abadala bayaqonda ukuba umntu wenze isono esinzulu, esona senzakalisa abanye. Abadala babonelela ngenkxaso eqhubekayo kubo bonke abantu abakhe bonzakala. Ukongeza, abadala bahlala bephaphile malunga nomtyholwa otyholwa ngokukhusela ibandla kwingozi enokubakho ”.

Kufuneka sibuze, malunga "abadala banika inkxaso eqhubekayo ”, Ngaba oku kubandakanya ukushenxisa umtyholwa ngokunyelisa, ngokwala ukubangaba ixhoba lixhaswe lusapho kunye nabahlobo abakulo Mbutho, oza kuthi ubaphephe okanye kulindeleke ukuba benze njalo, ngokwenza njalo wenza imeko yengqondo ibe mbi? (Kukho inani leengxelo zoku okwenzekileyo).

Ayisiyonto yakwenza nesizathu sokuba uninzi lwabatyholwa ngokunyelisa kwezi meko bangaguquki kunokuba basuswe kubudlelane kwaye beme baphulukane nosapho kunye nabahlobo babo. Le yimeko, ke, ukuba la maxhoba / abatyhola ngokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo banamathela ibali labo kwaye baxela izityholo kubasemagunyeni, ke amathuba okuba axokile alilanga.

Imihlathi ye-17 neye-18 ijongene nendima yeekomiti zokugweba. Ngokuyinxenye ifundeka ngolu hlobo:

"Ngenxa yokuxhalabela intlalo-ntle yabantwana, abadala banokubalumkisa ngasese abazali babantwana abasebandleni ngemfuneko yokubeka iliso kwindlela abantwana babo abaqhubana ngayo ”.

Nangona kunjalo, ezi zilumkiso zikhankanywa kuphela ngokunxulumana neekomiti zomthetho, okuthetha ukuba bekukho ubungqina bokuba umntu uvuma izono kwaye umtyholwa watyholwa emva kokuba eguqukile amangqina amabini. Nangona kunjalo, ingxelo, "Ukuba akaguquki, uyagxothwa, kwaye kwenziwa isaziso ebandleni ”. Ayizukuyibeka esichengeni ingozi yokuba umxhaphazi asayifaka xa eqhubeka nokuya ezintlanganisweni, okanye ukuba namalungu osapho asesebandleni, unxibelelwano lusenokwenzeka. Akukho nto ibonisa ukuba izilumkiso zabucala ziya kwenzeka kulo mzekelo, kwaye isibhengezo esenziwe ebandleni asikaze sinike iinkcukacha zokuba kutheni umntu esusiwe kubudlelane.

Okulusizi kukuba, okuninzi oku kunokuthintelwa ngokulandela isibhalo esandulelayo kuMateyu 18: 17 apho iphakamisa ukuthathwa kwengxaki yaboni abangaguqukiyo ebandleni ngokubanzi. (Qaphela: le ngxelo ayitsho ukuba "abadala bebandla emfihlakalweni." IDutch 22: I-18-21 kunye nezinye izibhalo zibonisa ukugwetywa kunye nokumamela kwenzeka esidlangalaleni, hayi emfihlakalweni).

Ekuphela kwendlela yokukhusela abantwana bakho

Elinye icandelo elilungileyo kwinqaku licandelo lokugqibela eligubungela isiqendu 19-22, elikhuthaza abazali ukuba bancede abantwana babo babazi ubungozi kwaye baphephe ukuba lixhoba. Umbhali uyazibuza ukuba zingaphi iimeko zokuxhatshazwa ezinokuthi zithintelwe kuMbutho ngenxa yeenyembezi ngamaNgqina kwaye ngakumbi nabazali abangamaNgqina bethobela isiluleko esihle kumanqaku abhaliweyo.

Umama wayenenyameko kakhulu kwiimeko andivumelayo ukuba ndizohlala kuzo. Undifundise izinto ezibalulekileyo ukuze ndikwazi ukuzikhusela kwaye oku kwakungaphambi kokuba uninzi loncwadi olukhankanyiweyo luveliswe. Mna kunye neqabane lam, ngokufanayo, saqeqesha abantwana bethu kwaye sababeka esweni ngononophelo. Ngokusuka kwinto endiyibonileyo kwiindibano ezinkulu, abazali abaninzi abangamaNgqina bathembela kakhulu nabantwana babo abancinci ukuba bahlala phi kwaye ngubani onokuba nabo okanye ubabone. Abaselula abaneminyaka eyi-10 kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bangaphantsi, bavunyelwe ukuya kwindlu yangasese bengahambanga. Oku kusoloko kubandakanya ukuhamba umgama phambi kwabazali babo, kwaye oku kumabala emidlalo kawonke-wonke, kuvulelekile kuluntu nakufuphi neendlela. Oku kwenzeke ngaphandle kwezibhengezo zeplatifomu zangaphambili ezivela kulawulo lwendibano zokuba abazali bahlala behamba nabantwana babo.

isishwankathelo

Lilonke, kubonakala ngathi ngumsebenzi wolwalamano lukawonkewonke ojolise ekunikezeleni ukuluma okuvakalayo ukubeka umntu obukele nje. Nangona kunjalo, iqulethe kuphela iinguqu eziguqukayo, kwaye ibalulekile kakhulu kunoko ishiye isitsho, malunga noko ikuthethayo. Alithandabuzeki elokuba abo banganqweneli kujonga kakhulu kwaye bafuna ukuqhubeka bekholelwa ukuba uMbutho awunakwenza nto iphosakeleyo njengoMbutho kaThixo ngombono wabo.

Into eyenzayo yile ilandelayo:

• Ukusilela ukuthatha amathuba okutshintsha iinkqubo zoMbutho ukukhusela abantwana ngcono.
• Iimpawu ezifihliweyo ezifihliweyo kuMbutho ukuba zingaqhubeka nokufumana kude nezenzo zazo zolwaphulo-mthetho ukuba zilumkile.
• Ukusilela ekuphuculeni ukujongana nemicimbi enjalo yinkqubo yekomiti yomthetho eyenziwe ngumntu engasekelwanga Zibhalweni.
• Ukusilela ukukhuthaza ngokugqibeleleyo ukusetyenziswa kweenkonzo zobungcali ezivela kwabasemagunyeni ukuba zombini ziyeke iingxaki ezikhoyo kwaye zincede amaxhoba ukuba ajamelane neengxaki esele zidaliwe kwaye zingatyhileki.

Kulandela ileta evulekileyo eya kwiQumrhu Elilawulayo kunye nabancedisi bayo.

Vula ileta kwiQumrhu Elilawulayo kunye nabameli bayo

Amagama ka-Isaya asebenza ngokufanelekileyo kuMbutho xa ku-Isaya 30: 1 wathi "Yeha ke, oonyana abaziinjubaqa, utsho uYehova, [abo banotyekelo lokuphumeza icebo, kodwa ingenguwe oko; nokuthulula umnikelo, kodwa kungengomoya wam, ukongeza isono kwisono ”.

Ewe, Ihlazo, ihlazo, ihlazo kuwe abathi bangumbutho kaThixo nabameli bakaKristu ukanti bengaqiqi ngendlela yokusebenzisa ubulungisa bokwenyani nothando ekuqhubaneni nomhlambi wabo.

Ngapha koko, uboniswa ngokungagungqiyo ngabasemagunyeni “behlabathi” kunye namaziko. Baneendlela ezingcono zokuhambisa ubulungisa kunye nokukhuseleka okungcono kwabantwana kunaleyo yoMbutho abathi nguMbutho kaThixo. Baze babonise iziphoso kwisizathu sakho sesibhalo esingamangqina amabini.[viii] Ngaphandle koku, uyaziqhenya ngokuqhubeka ukwala ukutshintsha. Nguwe ozisa ugculelo kwigama likaThixo kunye noKristu njengoko imigaqo-nkqubo yakho iqhubeka ukuvumela ukudalwa kwamaxhoba angenasidingo kunye nako konke ukubandezeleka kwabo.

Siza kuqukumbela ngamazwi kaKristu xa wayethetha ngabantu abafana nawe (iQumrhu Elilawulayo kunye nabameli babo). KuMateyu 23: 23-24 wathi "Yeha nina, babhali nabaFarisi, bahanahanisindini! ngenxa yokuba ninikela isishumi setyeleba nesedile nesekumin, kodwa niye nayigatya imibandela enzima ngakumbi yoMthetho, eyile, okusesikweni nenceba nokuthembeka. Ezi zinto kwakunyanzelekile ukuba uzenze, kodwa ungazityesheli ezinye izinto. 24 Bakhokelindini baziimfama, abahluza imbuzane kodwa baginye inkamela ” kwaye wayelumkisa kuMark 9: 42 that "Nabani na okhubekisa omnye waba bancinane okholwayo, kuya kuba kuhle kuye ukuba ilitye lokusila elinjengee-esile lixhonywe entanyeni, aze okunene waphoswa elwandle."

Yekani ukukhubekisa abantwana!

 

 

 

 

[i] bona i Ukulandela udliwanondlebe kwi-akhawunti ka-YouTube kaChristine, eyaziwa ngumbhali.

[ii] Jonga oku kulandelayo Iakhawunti ye-YouTube kaEric.

[iii] Oko akuthethi ukuba akwenzeki, kuba kunqabile, kungenjalo besinokuva malunga nokugqwetha komthetho.

[iv] Ibango lokuba ukumiselwa kwabadala kunye nezicaka zolungiselelo zenziwa ngomoya oyingcwele. Bona Ukulungelelaniselwa UkuFeza Ubulungiseleli Bethu p29-30 Isahluko 5 para 3 "Sinombulelo kubaveleli abonyulwe ngomoya ebandleni."

[v] khangela eli khonkco kwi-mainn.org ukufumana iinkcukacha ezifanelekileyo.

[vi] Umzekelo, jonga iKhomishini ePhakamileyo yaseOstreliya kuXukubezo lwaBantwana, apho uMbutho ungakhange uxele elinye ityala kwi-60 eyadlulayo okanye kwiminyaka engangama-1000.

[vii] Ubuxoki obuxelwe ukuba bumise umntu ekubeni acatshukiswe yinyani yokwenyani. (NgesiNgesi, Qaphela: ukuqonda kwaseMelika kwahlukile)

[viii] Jonga iKhomishini ePhakamileyo yaseOstreliya yokuXhatshazwa kwabantwana, uAngus Stewart ebuza uBro G Jackson malunga neDuteronomi 22: 23-27. Jonga iphepha lama-43 \ 15971 Usuku lweTranscript 155.pdf Jonga http://www.childabuseroyalcommission.gov.au/case-study/636f01a5-50db-4b59-a35e-a24ae07fb0ad/case-study-29,-july-2015,-sydney.aspx