Injongo yale vidiyo kukunika inkcazelo encinane yokunceda abo bafuna ukuyishiya intlangano yamaNgqina kaYehova. Umnqweno wakho wemvelo uya kuba kukulondoloza, ukuba kunokwenzeka, ulwalamano lwakho nentsapho nabahlobo bakho. Ngokufuthi xa uhamba, uya kujamelana nemeko elucelomngeni evela kubadala basekuhlaleni. Ukuba bakubona njengesisongelo—yaye abantu abathetha inyaniso baya kujongwa njengesisongelo kubo—usenokude uzifumane ujamelene nekomiti egwebayo. Usenokucinga ukuba unokuqiqa nabo. Usenokucinga ukuba xa bekuva nje, baya kuyibona inyaniso njengawe. Ukuba kunjalo, awunalwazi, nangona kuyaqondakala ukuba kunjalo.

Ndizakudlalela ushicilelo oluphuma kwelam icala lenkundla. Ndicinga ukuba iya kuba luncedo kwabo bazalwana noodade bafuna iingcebiso malunga nenkqubo yokugweba yeJW. Uyabona, ndifumana izicelo ngalo lonke ixesha kumaNgqina ebezama ukumka ngokuzolileyo, ngokungathi kunjalo, ephantsi kwesixhobo sokujonga izinto. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngaxa lithile baya kufumana “umnxeba” ovela kubadala ababini “abaxhalabileyo ngabo” nabafuna nje “ukuncokola.” Abafuni kuncokola. Bafuna ukugocagoca. Omnye umzalwana wandixelela ukuba kungekapheli nomzuzu omnye abadala beqalise “incoko” ngomnxeba—eneneni balisebenzisa elo gama—babemcela ukuba aqinisekise ukuba usakholelwa ukuba iqumrhu elilawulayo lijelo elisetyenziswa nguYehova. Okumangalisayo kukuba, abakhe bafune nabani na ukuba avume ukuba uYesu Kristu unegunya phezu kwebandla. Ihlala imalunga nobunkokeli bamadoda; ngokukodwa, iqumrhu elilawulayo.

AmaNgqina kaYehova afundiswe yinkolelo yokuba abadala bebandla bafuna impilo-ntle yawo kuphela. Bakho ukunceda, akukho nto ingaphezulu. Ayingomapolisa. Bade bathethe kangangoko. Ekubeni ndikhonze njengomdala kangangeminyaka engama-40, ndiyazi ukuba kukho abadala abangengawo amapolisa ngokwenene. Baza kubashiya bodwa abazalwana yaye abasayi kuze babandakanyeke kumaqhinga okuncina anjengawo asetyenziswa ngamapolisa. Kodwa amadoda alolo hlobo ayembalwa yaye ephakathi gqitha xa ndandikhonza njengomdala, yaye ndinobuganga bokuba ambalwa ngoku kunangaphambili. Amadoda anjalo aye agxothwa ngokuthe ngcembe, yaye akafane aqeshwe. Amadoda anesazela esilungileyo anokunyamezela kuphela umoya oxhaphake kakhulu entlanganweni kangangexesha elide ngaphandle kokutshabalalisa izazela zawo.

Ndiyazi ukuba kukho abathile abangavumelani nam xa ndisithi uMbutho umbi kakhulu ngoku kunangaphambili, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba baye bafumana intswela-bulungisa eyoyikekayo, kwaye anditsho ukuba ndiyayinciphisa intlungu yabo. Ukususela kwizifundo zam ukuya kwimbali yamaNgqina kaYehova, ngoku ndiyaqonda ukuba kwakukho umhlaza owawukhula phakathi koMbutho ukususela kwimihla kaRussell, kodwa wawukho emva phayaa. Nangona kunjalo, njengomhlaza, ukuba awunyangwa, uya kukhula. Xa uRussell wafayo, uJ. F. Rutherford wasebenzisa elo thuba ukuze athabathe ulawulo loMbutho esebenzisa amaqhinga angenanto yakwenza noKristu nayo yonke into enokuthanani noMtyholi. (Siza kupapasha incwadi kwiinyanga nje ezimbalwa enikela ubungqina obaneleyo boko.) Lo mhlaza waqhubeka ukhula ngenxa kamongameli uNathan Knorr, owasungula inkqubo yanamhlanje yokugweba ngowe-1952. yandisa inkqubo yokugweba ukuze baphathe abo basuka balushiya unqulo ngendlela efanayo nabaphatha abahenyuzi nabakrexezi. (Kuyaxela ukuba umxhaphazi wabantwana wayedla ngokuphathwa ngovelwano olukhulu kunabantu abadala ababini abavumayo ababelana ngesondo ngaphandle komtshato.)

Umhlaza uyaqhubeka ukhula kwaye ngoku uxhaphakile kangangokuba kunzima ukuba nabani na awuphose. Uninzi luyahamba kuba lukhathazwa zizimangalo zokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo ezithwaxa uMbutho kumazwe ngamazwe. Okanye ukuhanahanisa kweQumrhu Elilawulayo leminyaka eli-10 lokunxulumana neZizwe Ezimanyeneyo; okanye utshintsho lwamva nje lweemfundiso ezihlekisayo, njengesizukulwana esitshatyalaliswayo, okanye ukuzikhukhumalisa kweQumrhu Elilawulayo ngokuzivakalisa njengekhoboka eliThembekileyo neliyingqondi.

Kodwa njengoozwilakhe besizwe abangakhuselekanga, baye benza umkhusane wentsimbi. Abafuni ukuba umke, yaye ukuba wenjenjalo, baya kuqinisekisa ukuba uyakohlwaywa.

Ukuba ujamelene nesisongelo sokuhlukaniswa nentsapho nabahlobo bakho, musa ukuzama ukuqiqa nala madoda. UYesu wasixelela kuMateyu 7:6,

“Musani ukunika izinja okungcwele okanye niziphose iiperile zenu phambi kweehagu, hleze zizinyathele ngamanqina azo, zijike, ziniqwenge. (INguqulelo Yehlabathi Elitsha)

Uyabona, abadala baye benza isifungo sokunyaniseka kwiQumrhu Elilawulayo. Bakholelwa ngokwenene ukuba loo madoda asibhozo angabameli bakaThixo. Bade bazibize ngokuba basendaweni kaKristu ngokusebenzisa eyesi-2 kwabaseKorinte 5:20 , esekelwe kwinguqulelo yeNguqulelo Yehlabathi Elitsha. NjengoMncini WamaKatolika wamaxesha aphakathi owayegqala uPopu njengoVicar kaKristu, abadala abangamaNgqina abasingatha oko bakubiza ngokuba “luwexuko” namhlanje bazalisekisa amazwi eNkosi yethu awaqinisekisa abafundi bayo bokwenyaniso athi, “Abantu baya kunigxotha kwindlu yesikhungu. . Enyanisweni, liyeza ilixa laxa wonk’ ubani onibulalayo eya kucinga ukuba unikele inkonzo engcwele kuThixo. Kodwa baya kuzenza ezi zinto ngenxa yokuba bengamazanga uBawo okanye mna. ( Yohane 16:2, 3 )

“Ezi zinto baya kuzenza ngenxa yokuba bengamazanga utata okanye mna. Yohane 16:3

Hayi indlela angqineke eyinyaniso ngayo loo mazwi. Ndiye ndazibonela ngokwam oko izihlandlo eziliqela. Ukuba awukhange uyibukele ividiyo egquma okwam ukugculelwa kwenkundla yamatyala kunye novavanyo olulandelayo lwesibheno, ndingacebisa ukuba uthathe ixesha lokwenza oko. Ndibeke ikhonkco kuyo apha kunye nakwintsimi yenkcazo yale vidiyo kuYouTube.

Yayiluvavanyo olukhethekileyo kumava am, kwaye andithethi loo nto ngendlela elungileyo. Ndiza kukunika imvelaphi encinci phambi kokuba udlale ushicilelo.

Njengoko ndandisiya kwiholo yoBukumkani apho ityala lalichotshelwe khona, ndafumanisa ukuba ndandingenako ukupaka kwindawo yokumisa iinqwelo-mafutha kuba omabini amasango ayevalwe ziinqwelo-mafutha yaye kukho abadala ababengabalindi. Kwakukho abanye abadala ababegade isango leholo ngokwayo kunye nomnye okanye ababini ababezulazula kwindawo yokupaka iimoto bejikeleza. Babonakala belindele uhlaselo lohlobo oluthile. Ufanele ukhumbule ukuba amaNgqina aqhubeka esondliwa ngengcamango yokuba kungekudala ihlabathi liza kuwahlasela. Balindele ukutshutshiswa.

Boyika ke ngoko, ukuba bangawavumeli amahlakani am ukuba angene kuloo ndawo. Kwakhona babekhathazeke kakhulu ngokurekhodwa. Ngoba? Iinkundla zehlabathi zibhala yonke into. Kutheni inkqubo yokugweba yamaNgqina kaYehova yayingayi kuba ngaphezu kwemilinganiselo yehlabathi likaSathana? Isizathu kukuba, xa uhleli ebumnyameni, uyakoyika ukukhanya. Ngoko, bandinyanzela ukuba ndikhulule ibhatyi yam yesuti nangona kwakubanda kakhulu eholweni ukususela ekuqaleni kuka-Aprili, yaye baye balucima ubushushu belo xesha ukuze bonge imali kuba yayingebobusuku beentlanganiso. Kwakhona babefuna ukuba ndishiye ikhompyutha yam kunye namanqaku ngaphandle kwegumbi. Ndandingavunyelwa nokuba ndithabathe amanqaku am ephepha okanye iBhayibhile yam ndiye egumbini. Ukungandivumeli ukuba ndithabathe nephepha lam amanqaku okanye iBhayibhile yam kwandibonisa indlela ababesoyika ngayo oko ndandiza kukuthetha xa ndizithethelela. Kolu dliwano-ndlebe, abadala abafuni kuqiqa ngeBhayibhile yaye ngokuqhelekileyo xa ubacela ukuba bakhangele isibhalo, abayi kukwenza oko. Kwakhona, abafuni ukuma phantsi kokukhanya kwenyaniso, ngoko baya kuthi, “asikho apha ukuze sixubushe izibhalo.” Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni ungena enkundleni ize ijaji ithi, “Asizelanga ukuza kuxoxa ngomthetho welizwe lethu”? Kuyahlekisa!

Ngoko ke, kwakucacile ukuba isigqibo yayisisiphetho sangaphambili kwaye into ababeyifuna yayikukugubungela kuphela into endinokuyichaza kuphela njengobugwenxa kubulungisa kunye nesigqubuthelo esincinci sokuhlonipheka. Kwakungekho mntu waziyo ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni kwelo gumbi. Babefuna ukukwazi ukubanga nantoni na abafuna ukuyenza kuba yayiza kuba lilizwi lamadoda amathathu nxamnye nam. Ukhumbule ukuba ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje, andizange ndibuve okanye ndibubone nabuphi na ubungqina abathi baye benza ngabo, nangona ndiye ndabucela ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngomnxeba nangembalelwano.

Kutshanje, xa ndandijonga iifayile ezindala, ndiye ndafowunelwa ukuze ndilungiselele ukuchotshelwa kwesibheno. Kwakutheni ukuze ndibhene, abanye baye babuza, ekubeni ndandingasafuni ukuba liNgqina likaYehova kwakhona? Ndiyihambile yonke le nkqubo ithatha ixesha kwaye ibuhlungu kuba kungale ndlela kuphela endinokuthi ndikhanyise ngayo kwiinkqubo zabo zokugweba ezingasekelwanga zibhalweni kwaye, ndiyathemba, ukunceda abanye abajongene nento efanayo.

Kungenxa yoko le nto ndenza le vidiyo.

Ndithe ndisamamele ushicilelo olurekhodiweyo endandiza kuwudlala, ndabona ukuba lunokunceda abanye abangekagqibi kule nkqubo ngokubanceda ukuba baqonde kanye le nto bajongene nayo, bangabi naluhanahaniso malunga nobunyani bokwenene. inkqubo yokugweba njengoko isenziwa ngamaNgqina kaYehova, ingakumbi xa isiza kuye nabani na oqalisa ukuthandabuza okanye ukungavumelani neemfundiso zawo ezenziwe ngabantu.

UDavid: Molo ewe, molo, ewe. Lo nguDavid Del Grande.

UEric: Ewe:

UDavid: Ndicelwe ukuba ndibe ngusihlalo wekomiti yesibheno ukuva isibheno sakho? Kwikomiti yokuqala.

UEric: Kulungile.

UDavid: Ke, ahh, into esiyibuzayo kukuba, ungadibana nathi ngomso ngokuhlwa kwiholo yoBukumkani enye eBurlington ngentsimbi yesi-7 PM .....

Ndamazi uDavid Del Grande kwiminyaka eyadlulayo. Wayebonakala engumntu olungileyo. Wayesetyenziswa ngelo xesha njengomveleli weSekethe obambeleyo ukuba inkumbulo yam iyasebenza. Uya kuphawula ukuba ufuna ukuba nentlanganiso ngosuku olulandelayo. Oku kuqhelekile. Xa bebizela umntu kwinkundla yamatyala elolu hlobo, bafuna ukuyiphelisa ngokukhawuleza kwaye abafuni kuvumela ummangalelwa ukuba abe nexesha elaneleyo lokuzithethelela.

UEric: Hayi, ndinamanye amalungiselelo.

UDavid: Kulungile, ngoko ...

UEric: Kule veki izayo.

UDavid: Kwiveki ezayo?

UEric: Ewe

UDavid: Kulungile, ngoMvulo ebusuku?

UEric: Kuza kufuneka ndijonge ucwangciso lwam, David. Makhe ndijonge ishedyuli yam. Ahh igqwetha lithumela nje ileta ukuba ngubani igama lakhe, Dan, ephuma namhlanje ukuze nina nifune ukuyiqwalasela loo nto phambi kwentlanganiso. Ngoko masibeke iphini kwintlanganiso kule veki size sibuye.

UDavid: Ewe, kufuneka sidibane ngexesha apho kungekho zintlanganiso zebandla, yiyo loo nto ukuba ngomso ebusuku anisebenzi, bekuya kuba kuhle ukuba sinokuthi ngoMvulo ebusuku kuba azikho iintlanganiso. kwiHolo yoBukumkani ngobusuku bangoMvulo.

UEric: Kunjalo. Ngoko masi…(Waphazanyiswa)

UDavid: Ngaba ungabuyela kum ngaloo nto?

Akayihoya tu into endiyithethileyo malunga neleta evela kwigqwetha. Ekuphela kwento ayixhalabeleyo kukuba le ngxoxo igqitywe ngokukhawuleza kangangoko. Akafuni kuqwalasela iimvakalelo okanye iingcamango zam ngalo mbandela. Azinamsebenzi, kuba isigqibo sele sithathiwe. Ndamcela ukuba ihlehlise intlanganiso de ibe yiveki ukususela ngoMvulo kwaye uyakuva ukucaphuka kwilizwi lakhe njengoko ephendula.

UEric: Masiyenze iveki ukususela ngoMvulo ngoko.

UDavid: Iveki ukusuka ngoMvulo?

UEric: Ewe.

UDavid: Ahh, uyazi ntoni? Andiqinisekanga ukuba ahh abanye oobhuti ababini baza kufumaneka ngeveki ukususela ngoMvulo. Ndiyathetha, uyayazi i, intlanganiso ibangelwa kukuba umh, kuba ubhena isigqibo esenziwe yikomiti, akunjalo?

UDavide akufuneki adlale i-poker, kuba unika indlela kakhulu. “Le ntlanganiso kungenxa yokuba ubhena kwisigqibo esenziwe yikomiti”? Yintoni enento yokwenza nokucwangcisa? Phakathi kokuncwina kwakhe kwangaphambili kunye nokuthetha kwakhe "intlanganiso kungenxa yokuba...", uyakuva ukukhungatheka kwakhe. Uyazi ukuba lo ngumsebenzi ophuthileyo. Isigqibo sele senziwe. Isibheno asivunywa. Konke oku kukuzenzisa—sele kumoshe ixesha lakhe elixabisekileyo kwisivumelwano esenziweyo kwaye kuyabonakala ukuba uyacatshukiswa kukuba ndisaqhubela phambili.

UEric: Ewe.

UDavid: Andiqinisekanga ukuba kutheni, andiqinisekanga ukuba kutheni ufuna ubude bexesha olaziyo ukuze ... sizama ukwenza, ukwenza, sizama ukukulungiselela, uyasazi isicelo sakho. isibheno… uyazi, kukho abanye abazalwana ababandakanyekayo ngaphandle kwam, kwaye akunjalo? ke sizama ukubalungiselela nabo, abo bakwikomiti yesibheno, kodwa ucinga ukuba ungayilungisa ngobusuku bangoMvulo?

Uthi, “Andiqinisekanga ukuba kutheni ufuna ixesha elide kangako. Akakwazi ukugcina ukucaphuka kwilizwi lakhe. Uthi, “sizama ukukulungiselela…isicelo sakho sesibheno”. Kubonakala ngathi bandenzela inceba enkulu ngokundivumela ukuba ndibe nesi sibheno.

Kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba inkqubo yesibheno yaziswa kuphela ngo-1980. Incwadi, Ukulungelelaniselwa Ukufeza Ubulungiseleli Bethu (1983), ubhekisa kuyo. Ngaphambi koko, umvakalisi wayesuswa kubudlelane engenalo ithuba lokubhena. Babenokubhalela eBrooklyn kwaye ukuba babenemvume eyaneleyo esemthethweni, banokuba baye bachotshelwa, kodwa bambalwa ababesazi ukuba yayiyindlela. Ngokuqinisekileyo abazange baziswe ukuba kukho nayiphi na indlela yokubhena. Kwakungeminyaka yee-1980 kuphela apho ikomiti egwebayo kwafuneka imazise lowo ususiweyo kubudlelane ukuba babeneentsuku ezisixhenxe zokubhena. Mna ngokwam, ndinemvakalelo yokuba yenye yezinto ezakhayo eza kuphuma kwiQumrhu Elilawulayo elalisandul’ ukusekwa ngaphambi kokuba umoya womFarisi uthabathele uMbutho ngokupheleleyo.

Kakade ke, kwakunqabile ukuba isibheno sibangele ukuba isigqibo sekomiti egwebayo sitshitshiswe. Ndazi enye ikomiti yesibheno eyakwenza oko, yaye usihlalo, umhlobo wam, warhuqelwa phezu kwamalahle ngumveleli wesiphaluka ngenxa yokuguqula isigqibo sekomiti. Ikomiti yesibheno ayiliphindi ityala. Konke abavunyelwe ukuba bakwenze zizinto ezimbini, ezibeka idesika kummangalelwa, kodwa ndiya kulinda kude kube sekupheleni kwale vidiyo ukuze kuxoxwe ngale nto kwaye kutheni le nto iyilungiselelo lobuqhetseba.

Enye into efanele ikhathaze naliphi na iNgqina likaYehova elinentliziyo enyanisekileyo ngaphandle kukungakhathali kukaDavide ngempilo-ntle yam. Utsho esithi uzama ukundifaka. Isibheno asiyondawo yokuhlala. Ifanele igqalwe njengelungelo elisemthethweni. Kuphela kwento eya kuthi igcine nayiphi na inkundla ijonge. Khawufane ucinge ukuba ubungenakubhena naliphi na ityala kwinkundla yamatyala okanye yolwaphulo-mthetho. Yeyiphi inketho onokuthi ujongane nayo nomkhethe okanye ukwenza ububi? Ngoku ukuba oko kugqalwa kuyimfuneko kwiinkundla zehlabathi, ngaba akufanele kube njalo ngakumbi kumaNgqina kaYehova? Ndijonga oku ngokwembono yabo. Kwiinkundla zaseKhanada, ukuba ndifunyaniswa ndinetyala, ndingahlawuliswa okanye ndiye entolongweni, kodwa kunjalo. Noko ke, ngokusekelwe kwimfundiso yezakwalizwi yamaNgqina, ukuba ndiyasuswa kubudlelane xa kufika iArmagedon, ndiya kufa ngonaphakade—akukho thuba lovuko. Ngoko, ngeenkolelo zabo, bakwityala lenkundla lokufa nokuphila. Hayi nje ubomi nokufa, kodwa ubomi obungunaphakade okanye ukufa ngonaphakade. Ukuba uDavid uyayikholelwa ngokwenene loo nto, kwaye andinasizathu sokucinga ngenye indlela, ke indlela yakhe engafanelekanga inetyala ngokupheleleyo. Luphi uthando amaKristu afanele alubonakalise, kwaneentshaba zawo? Xa usiva amazwi akhe, khumbula oko kwathethwa nguYesu: "UNgokuphuphuma kwentliziyo, umlomo uthetha.” ( Mateyu 12:34 )

Ngoko, ngokunyanzelisa kwakhe ukuba kube ngoMvulo, ndiye ndijonge ucwangciso lwam.

UEric: Ok, ewe, hayi ngoMvulo andizukwazi. Kuya kufuneka kube ngoMvulo olandelayo. Ukuba ngoMvulo kuphela kosuku onokuthi ukwenze oko, kuya kufuneka ukuba kube njalo, mandibone ikhalenda apha; kulungile, ke namhlanje yi17, ke i29th ngo 3:00 ntambama.

UDavid: Owu, hayi, ishiya ixesha elide, um ...

UEric: Andazi ukuba ungxamile yintoni?

UDavid: Ewe, ndithetha ukuthi, hah, siyazama, sizama ukuthi ahh, sizama ukuba ahh, ukukulungiselela ngesibheno sakho, uyazi... Ngokwesiqhelo abantu abafuna ukubhena ngesigqibo badla ngokufuna ukudibana. ngokukhawuleza kangangoko banako. Ha ha ha, yinto eqhelekileyo leyo.

UEric: Hayi, akunjalo apha.

UDavide: Hayi?

U-Eric Ke enkosi ngokundicinga ngolo hlobo, kodwa ayikokungxamela.

UDavid: Kulungile, ndiza ku-ahh, ngoku uthi oyena mntu unokudibana nini?

UEric: Ngama-29th.

UDavid: NgoMvulo ke, akunjalo?

UEric: NguMvulo lowo. Ewe.

UDavid: NgoMvulo we-29. I'll ahh funeka ndibuyele kuwe ndiyojonga nabanye oobhuti malunga nokufumaneka kwabo kulonto.

UEric: Ewe, ukuba loo nto ayifumaneki, singahamba, kuba ulinganiselwe ngoMvulo (uphazanyiswa xa esithi singenza u-6.th)

UDavid: Akunyanzelekanga ukuba kube ngoMvulo, nditsho nje ngobo busuku apho kungekho ntlanganiso eholweni. Ngaba uyafumaneka ngeCawe ebusuku? Okanye ngoLwesihlanu ebusuku? Ndithetha nje ngobusuku abangenazo iintlanganiso kwiholo yoBukumkani.

UEric: Kulungile, kulungile. Ngoko sikwi-17th, ngoko ke singenza umhla wama-28 ukuba ufuna ukuya ngobusuku bangeCawa, nge-28 ka-Epreli.

UDavid: Ngoko awukwazi ukuphumelela kwiveki ezayo?

UEric: Andazi ukuba kutheni ungxamile.

UDavid: Ewe, kuba sonke sinalo, uyazi, sinedinga. Abanye bethu bazakube bengekho xa kuphela inyanga, nditsho nje ukuba sizama ukunibonelela, kodwa nathi kufuneka sizenze sifumaneke.

UEric: Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo.

UDavid: Ngaba ungafumaneka ngoLwesihlanu, kwiveki ezayo?

UEric: NgoLwesihlanu, inokuba njalo, mandicinge…. yiyo i26th? (uphazanyiswe nguDavid)

UDavid: Kungenxa yokuba ngelo xesha zazingayi kubakho iintlanganiso eholweni.

UEric: Ewe, ndingayenza ngoLwesihlanu nge-26th njengokuba.

UDavid: Kulungile, ke, ikwiHolo yobukumkani efanayo apho ubufike khona ngaphambili, iya kuba ngentsimbi yesi-7. Kulungile?

UEric: Kulungile. Ngaba ngeli xesha ndiza kuvunyelwa ukuba ndithathe amanqaku am?

Emva dithering isibini imizuzu, ekugqibeleni silungiselela ngomhla owanelisayo ukungxama kaDavide ukufumana le phezu. Ndiye ndabuza umbuzo ebendilindele ukuwubuza oko eqalile ukuthetha. "Ngaba ndiza kuvunyelwa ukuba ndithathe amanqaku am?"

Khawuzithelekelele ungena kuyo nayiphi na inkundla yelizwe uze ubuze loo mbuzo kumtshutshisi okanye ijaji. Babewuthatha lo mbuzo ngokwawo njengesithuko, okanye bacinge ukuba ubusisibhanxa nje. “Ewe, ungawabhala amanqaku akho. Ucinga ukuba yintoni le, iNkundla YokuNcina Amakholwa yaseSpeyin?”

Kuyo nayiphi na inkundla yembambano okanye yolwaphulo-mthetho, umtyholwa unikwa ukufunyaniswa kwawo onke amatyala abekwe wona phambi kwetyala ukuze akwazi ukulungiselela ukuzithethelela. Zonke iinkqubo zetyala zirekhodwa, igama ngalinye libhalwa phantsi. Kulindeleke ukuba angenise kungekuphela amanqaku akhe ephepha, kodwa ikhompyuter yakhe kunye naziphi na ezinye izixhobo eziza kumnceda ekunyuseni ukhuseleko. Leyo yindlela abayenza ngayo “kwihlabathi likaSathana”. Ndisebenzisa igama elithi amaNgqina. Ihlabathi likaSathana linokuba neenkqubo ezilunge ngakumbi zokugweba njani ‘kunentlangano kaYehova’?

UDavid Del Grande umalunga nobudala bam. Akakhonzanga nje njengomdala wamaNgqina kaYehova, kodwa uye wakhonza njengomveleli wesiphaluka obambelayo njengoko besele nditshilo. Ke, impendulo yombuzo wam malunga nokuzisa amanqaku am kufuneka ibe kwincam yolwimi lwakhe. Makhe sive ukuba uthini na.

UEric: Kulungile. Ngaba ngeli xesha ndiza kuvunyelwa ukuba ndithathe amanqaku am?

UDavid: Ewe, ndithetha ukuba, ungabhala amanqaku kodwa akukho zixhobo zombane okanye izixhobo zokurekhoda- hayi, oko akuvumelekanga kwiingxoxo zenkundla. Hayi, ndicinga ukuba uyazi ndicinga ukuba uyayazi loo nto, kodwa...

UEric: Ukugqibelana kwam andizange ndivunyelwe ukuba ndibhale amanqaku am.

UDavid: Ndithetha ukuba unokubhala amanqaku ngoxa usentlanganisweni, ukuba ukhetha ukwenjenjalo. Uyayazi into endiyithethayo? Unako ukwenza amanqaku ukuba ukhetha ukwenza njalo.

UEric: Mhlawumbi andizicacisi. Ndiprinte amanqaku kolwam uphando ayinxalenye yokhuselo lwam…

UDavid: Okay..

UEric: Ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ndingabasa nabo na kwiintlanganiso.

UDavid: Ewe, uyayiqonda injongo yale ntlanganiso? Ikomiti yokuqala, uyazi ukuba bafikelela kwesiphi isigqibo?

UEric: Ewe.

UDavid: Ke njengekomiti yezibheno, niyayazi into esiyibophezelayo, kukumisela inguquko ngexesha lokuchotshelwa kwetyala lokuqala, akunjalo? Yiloo nto uxanduva lwethu oluyiyo njengekomiti yezibheno.

Le yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokurekhoda ukuhlalutya. Impendulo kumbuzo wam kufuneka ibelula kwaye ithe ngqo, “Ewe, Eric, ewe ungawathatha amanqaku akho entlanganisweni. Kutheni singayivumeli loo nto. Akukho nto kula manqaku sinokuyoyika, kuba sinenyani kwaye abo banenyaniso abananto yakoyika. ” Noko ke, phawula indlela akuphepha ngayo ukuphendula. Okokuqala, uthi akukho zixhobo zombane zivumelekileyo yaye akukho kurekhodwa kunokwenziwa. Kodwa andizange ndiyibuze loo nto. Ke, ndibuza okwesibini ndicacisa ukuba ndithetha ngamanqaku abhalwe ephepheni. Kwakhona, uyaphepha ukuphendula umbuzo, endixelela ukuba ndingabhala amanqaku kwakhona into ebendingayibuzi ngayo. Ke, kwakhona kufuneka ndicacise ngokungathi ndithetha nomntu onengxaki yengqondo, ndicacisa ukuba la ngamanqaku ephepha endiwafunayo ukuze ndizithethelele kwaye okwesithathu uyabaleka ukundinika impendulo elula, ethe ngqo, ekhetha ukundifundisa endaweni yoko. ngenjongo yentlanganiso, aqhubela phambili nokuphazama. Masiyidlale loo ndawo kwakhona.

UDavid: Ke njengekomiti yezibheno, niyayazi into esiyibophezelayo, kukumisela inguquko ngexesha lokuchotshelwa kwetyala lokuqala, akunjalo? Yiloo nto uxanduva lwethu oluyiyo njengekomiti yezibheno. Wakha wakhonza njengomdala ngaphambili.

Ngokutsho kukaDavid, ekuphela kwenjongo yekomiti yezibheno kukufumanisa ukuba kwakukho inguquko ngexesha lokuchotshelwa kwetyala lokuqala. Akalunganga. Asiyonjongo leyo kuphela. Kukho enye esiza kufikelela kuyo emzuzwini kwaye inyani angayikhankanyi ngayo indixelela ukuba akanabuchule ngokugqithisileyo okanye uyalahlekisa ngabom. Kodwa kwakhona, ngaphambi kokuba singene kuloo nto, qwalasela oko akuthethayo ikomiti yesibheno ukuze igqibe enoba yayikho kusini na inguquko ngexesha lokuchotshelwa kwetyala lokuqala. Okokuqala, ukuba awuguquki okokuqala, akukho mathuba esibini kwintlangano yamaNgqina kaYehova. Ekubeni bebiza igama likaYehova, bamenza abekek’ ityala ngoburhalarhume babo. Ndiyamangala ukuba uziva njani uBawo wethu waseZulwini ngaloo nto. Kodwa kukho okungakumbi kwaye kubi ngakumbi. Lo mgaqo uyaqhula. Isiqhulo esikhulu nesikhohlakele kakhulu. Kukuphambana okumasikizi kobulungisa. Ngaba nayiphi na ikomiti yesibheno iya kugqiba njani ukuba bekukho inguquko ngexesha lokuchotshelwa kwetyala ekubeni kungakhange kurekhodishwe? Bamele bathembele kubungqina bamaNgqina. Kwelinye icala, banamadoda amakhulu amathathu amiselweyo, yaye kwelinye icala, ummangalelwa eyedwa. Ekubeni umtyholwa wayengavunyelwanga nawaphi na amangqina okanye ababukeli, unobungqina bakhe kuphela. UliNgqina elinye kwiingxoxo. IBhayibhile ithi: “Musa ukuvuma ukumangalelwa kwendoda enkulu, kungekuphela nje ngomlomo wamangqina amabini okanye amathathu.” ( 1 Timoti 5:19 ) Ngoko ke, amadoda amakhulu amathathu, abadala, banokuxhasana yaye ummangalelwa akanakubekwa tyala. Umdlalo uvaliwe. Kodwa ngoku kwinto uDavide angazange ayikhankanye. (Kunjalo, akakawuphenduli umbuzo wam.)

UDavid: Ke ndithetha ukuthi, ukuba, ukuba, ukuba kuyenzeka, uyazi, kukubonelela ngolwazi olungakumbi ukuxhasa le nto ubuyenza uyazi ukuba iya kuba yinto esixhalabisayo, akunjalo? Uyayazi into endiyithethayo?

UEric: Ewe, awunyanisekanga apho, okanye mhlawumbi awazi ukuba ithini le ncwadi, kodwa injongo yesibheno kukuqala ukufumanisa ukuba besikhona isizathu sokususwa kubudlelane emva koko…

UDavide: Unyanisile.

UEric: ... kwaye emva koko ufumanise ukuba bekukho inguquko ngexesha letyala lokuqala…

UDavide: Kunjalo. Ilungile lo nto. kungoku nje kwimeko yazi ukuba kwimeko yokuqala

U-Eric: …ngoku kwityala lokuqala, akuzange kuchotshelwe tyala kuba babengandivumeli ukuba ndibhale awam amanqaku… Babendihlutha ithuba lokuzithethelela, akunjalo? Ndingazithethelela njani xa ndithembele kuphela kwinkumbulo yam xa ndinobungqina obubhaliweyo kwaye bebubhalwe ephepheni, akukho recording, akukho khompyutha, ephepheni kwaye abazange bandivumele ukuba ndithathe ezo zinto. ndifuna ukwazi ukuba ndivumelekile na ngoku ukuba ndizithethelele ukuze ndikwazi ukuziphendulela ndibonise ukuba isiseko setyala lokuqala lokugxothwa kubudlelane sasingenasiphako.

Andikholelwa ukuba abazange bamchazele ngento eyenzekayo kwityala lokuqala. Umele ukuba uyazi ukuba andizange ndimnike naluphi na ulwazi. Kwakhona, ukuba ngokwenene akayazi loo nto, oku kuthetha ukungakwazi okunzulu, kwaye ukuba uyayazi loo nto, ithetha ngokuphindaphinda, kuba kufuneka aqonde ukuba kusafuneka aqinisekise ukuba kukho isiseko sokuthatha amanyathelo ngakum, hayi. kungakhathaliseki ukuba bubuphi ubungqina abasenokuba banikelwa ngabadala abathathu kuye.

IBhayibhile ithi, "Umthetho wethu awumgwebi umntu, ukuba kungathanga kuviwe kuye kuqala, kwaziwe oko akwenzayo, andibi kunjalo?” ( Yohane 7:51 ) Ngokucacileyo, lo mthetho awusebenzi kwintlangano yamaNgqina kaYehova. ayinakumgweba umntu engakhange ayive, okanye ekhe wayiva, into ayithethayo.

Ngokutsho Yalusa umhlambi kaThixo Incwadi, kukho imibuzo emibini ekufuneka ikomiti yesibheno iphendule:

Ngaba kwaqinisekiswa ukuba umtyholwa wenze isenzo sokususa kubudlelane?

Ngaba umtyholwa ubonakalisile inguquko ihambelana nobungangamsha besiphoso sakhe ngexesha lokuxoxwa kwetyala nekomiti egwebayo?

Ke ngoku ndiyabuza kwakhona, okwesine, ukuba ndingawazisa na amanqaku am ephepha enkonzweni. Ucinga ukuba ngoku ndiza kufumana impendulo ecacileyo?

UDavid: Ewe, wena.. kulungile, masiyibeke ngolu hlobo le nto, ndiza kuthetha nabanye abazalwana abane, kodwa wena yiza kwiintlanganiso size sikulungise oko—ngexesha lokuza kwakho, akunjalo? Kuba andifuni kuthetha ngokwam, okanye ndithethele abanye abazalwana xa ndingakhange ndithethe nabo. Kulungile?

UEric: Kunjalo. Kulungile.

Kwakhona, akukho mpendulo. Oku kolunye nje ukuphepha. Akayi kuthetha nokuba uya kubabiza aze abuyele kum, kuba sele eyazi impendulo, kwaye kufuneka ndikholelwe ukuba kukho ngokwaneleyo uvakalelo lobulungisa emphefumlweni wakhe ukwazi ukuba oku kuphosakele, kodwa yena. akanakunyaniseka kokukuvuma oko, ngoko uthi uya kundinika impendulo kwiintlanganiso.

Ukuba ungumntu onengqiqo ongaqhelananga nesi simo sengqondo sinjengehlelo, usenokuba uyazibuza ukuba woyika ntoni na. Ngapha koko, yintoni eyayinokuqulatha amanqaku am ephepheni eyayinokufaka uloyiko olunjalo? Unamadoda amathandathu—amathathu avela kwikomiti yokuqala namanye amathathu avela kwikomiti yesibheno—kwelinye icala letafile, yaye mna ndimdala kwelinye icala. Kutheni le nto ukundivumela ukuba ndibe namanqaku ephepha kuye kwayitshintsha ibhalansi yamandla kangangokuba babenoloyiko lokujongana nam ngolo hlobo?

Khawucinge ngaloo nto. Ukungafuni kwabo ngokupheleleyo ukuxoxa nam ngesiBhalo lolona bungqina bunyanzelisayo bokuba abanayo inyani kwaye emazantsi bayayazi loo nto.

Phofu ndaqonda andizufika ndawo ndawulahla.

Emva koko uzama ukundiqinisekisa ukuba abakhethi cala.

UDavid: Si…akukho namnye kuthi, akukho namnye kuthi okwaziyo buqu, ekuthetheni nabanye. Ngoko ke akufani ... ahh uyazi, asikhethi buso, kulungile, asikwazi ngokobuqu, ngoko yinto entle leyo.

Xa ndaya kwingxoxo yesibheno, andizange ndiphinde ndivunyelwe ukuba ndize namangqina nangona Yalusa umhlambi kaThixo yenza amalungiselelo oko. Ndathi ndakubona ukuba akukho ndlela yokundivumela ukuba ndingene namaNgqina am, ndacela abadala ababegade ucango olutshixiweyo lweholo ukuba ndingene namaphepha am, ubuncinane. Ndibuyela kumbuzo wokuqala ngoku, ndicela u-5th ixesha. Khumbula ukuba, uDavid uthe baza kundazisa xa ndifika. Noko ke, abazange babize namnye umdala ongaphakathi eholweni ukuba eze kumnyango ongaphambili ukuze aphendule loo mbuzo. Kunoko, kwafuneka ndingene ndedwa. Ngeliphandle, ngenxa yamaqhinga okugrogrisa endandisele ndinawo kwindawo yokupaka iinqwelo-mafutha kunye nokuphepha nokunganyaniseki okwakubonakala kwindlela awayeqhubana ngayo nam la madoda asemnyango, ndandingacingi nokunganyaniseki kukaDavid kwingxoxo yakhe nam, ndandisonyanya ukungena. iholo itshixiwe kwaye ndijonge abadala abathandathu okanye ngaphezulu ndindedwa. Ndahamba ke.

Bandigxothile kubudlelane, ewe, ndiye ndabhena kwiQumrhu Elilawulayo, uvumelekile ukuba wenze oko ngendlela. Abakaphenduli, ke ukuba nabani na uyabuza, ndiyabaxelela ukuba andigxothwanga kuba iQumrhu Elilawulayo kufuneka liphendule kuqala kwisibongozo sam. Basenokuba mathidala ukwenjenjalo ngenxa yokuba, ngoxa oorhulumente betyekele ekuphepheni ukubandakanyeka kwimibandela yonqulo, baya kungenelela ukuba unqulo lwaphula imithetho yalo, nto leyo ngokuqinisekileyo abaye bayenza kule meko.

Inqaku lakho konke oku kukubonisa abo baseza kudlula kwinto endiyichasileyo, into abajongene nayo. Injongo yezi komiti zokugweba “kukugcina ibandla licocekile” kuthethwa kabini xa kusithiwa “Musani ukuvumela nabani na akhuphe impahla yethu emdaka.” Icebiso lam lelokuba ukuba abadala beza benkqonkqoza, kuhle ukuba baphephe ukuthetha nabo. Ukuba bakubuza umbuzo othe ngqo, njengoko uyakholelwa ukuba iQumrhu Elilawulayo lijelo elimiselwe nguThixo, unokhetho oluthathu. 1) Bajonge phantsi kwaye ugcine ukuthula. 2) Babuze ukuba yintoni ekhuthaza loo mbuzo. 3) Baxelele ukuba xa bekubonisa oko ngokusuka eSibhalweni uya kuyamkela.

Uninzi lwethu luyakufumana kunzima ukwenza inombolo yoku-1, kodwa kunokuba mnandi kakhulu ukubabona bengakwazi ukuphatha ukuthula. Ukuba baphendula inombolo yesi-2 ngento enje, "Ewe, sive izinto eziphazamisayo." Uvele ubuze, "Ngokwenene, ivela kubani?" Abazukukuxelela, kwaye loo nto iya kukunika ithuba lokuba uthi, ngaba ufihla amagama abahlebi? Ngaba uyayixhasa intlebendwane? Andinakuphendula nasiphi na isityholo ngaphandle kokuba ndinokujongana nommangaleli wam. Ngumthetho weBhayibhile lowo.

Ukuba usebenzisa inani lesithathu, qhubeka ubacela ukuba bakubonise ubungqina bezibhalo kuyo yonke intelekelelo abayenzayo.

Ekugqibeleni, kusenokwenzeka ukuba baya kukususa kubudlelane enoba kwenzeka ntoni na, kuba leyo kuphela kwendlela ihlelo elinokuzikhusela ngayo—linyelisa igama lakhe nabani na ongavumelaniyo nalo.

Ekugqibeleni, baya kwenza oko baya kukwenza. Zilungiselele kwaye ungabi naloyiko.

“Banoyolo abo baye batshutshiswa ngenxa yobulungisa, kuba ubukumkani bamazulu bobabo. 11 “Ninoyolo nina xa abantu beningcikiva, benitshutshisa, bethetha ngani lonke uhlobo lwento engendawo bexoka, ngenxa yam. 12 Vuyani nigcobe kunene, ngokuba umvuzo wenu mkhulu emazulwini; kuba babatshutshisa ngaloo ndlela abaprofeti ababengaphambi kwenu.” ( Mateyu 5:10-12 )

Ndiyabulela ngexesha lakho kwaye ndiyabulela ngenkxaso yakho.

 

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