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Ngaphandle kokuba uYehova uyayakha indlu, kulilize
ukuba abakhi bayo basebenze nzima kuyo ”- 1 Cor. I-11: 24
Kukho isiluleko seBhayibhile esifanelekileyo kolu phononongo lweveki. IZibhalo zaphambi kobuKristu aziniki zaluleko zingqalileyo kubantu abatshatileyo. Kukho imfundiso engaphezulu yokugcina umtshato ophumelelayo kwiZibhalo zamaKristu, kodwa nokuba wakhona, uyachaphazeleka. Inyani yile, iBhayibhile ayizange isinikwe thina njengencwadi yomtshato. Nangona kunjalo, imigaqo efunekayo ukuze umtshato uphumelele ikhona, kwaye ukuyisebenzisa, singayifumana.
Enye yezona zinto zingaqondwa kakuhle ngomtshato ngumgaqo wobukristu wobuntloko. Abantu — indoda nebhinqa — badalwa ngokomfanekiso kaThixo, ukanti bahlukile. Kwakungakulungelanga ukuba indoda ihlale yodwa.
“Waza wathi uYehova uThixo:“ Akulungile ukuba umntu aqhubeke eyedwa. Ndiza kumenzela umncedi oza kuba ngumphelelisi wakhe. ”(Ge 2: 18 NWT)
Eli lelinye lala mathuba apho ndithanda ukuhanjiswa kwe INguqulelo Yehlabathi Elitsha. "Ukuphelisa" kunokuthetha "ukuphelela", okanye "ukuzaliseka", okanye "into ethi, xa idityanisiwe, igcwalise okanye yenziwe iphelele; nokuba kubini kokugqitywa kwamalungu. ”Oku kuluchaza kakuhle uluntu. Indoda yayenziwe nguThixo ukuba ibe neqabane. Ngokunjalo, umfazi. Kukuba ngumntu omnye kuphela apho ngamnye anokuthi afezekise ukugqibelela okanye ukuphelela okucetyelwe nguYehova.
Oku kuyakuba kwimeko elusikelelekileyo apho babenenjongo yokuba babekho, ngaphandle kwempembelelo eyonakalisayo yesono. Isono sitshabalalisa ibhalansi yethu yangaphakathi. Kubangela ukuba ezinye iimpawu zibe namandla kakhulu, ngelixa ezinye zibuthathaka. Eqonda ukuba sisiphi isono esiya kwenza ukungqinelana komtshato, uYehova waxelela umfazi oku kulandelayo, ebhalwe kwiGenesis 3: 16:
"Umnqweno wakho uya kuba yindoda yakho, ikulawule." - NIV
“… Ukulangazelela kwakho kuya kuba kwendoda yakho, ikulawule.” - NWT
Ezinye iinguqulelo ziguqula oku ngokwahlukileyo.
"Kwaye uya kunqwenela ukulawula umyeni wakho, kodwa yena uya kukulawula." - NLT
"Uya kufuna ukulawula umyeni wakho, kodwa yena uya kukulawula." - NET Bible
Nokuba yeyiphi echanekileyo, zombini zibonisa ukuba ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi buphoswe ngaphandle komlinganiso. Sibonile ukuguqukela kobuntloko kugxothwe, ukuguqula abafazi babe ngamakhoboka kumazwe amaninzi ehlabathi, ngelixa eminye imibutho ibusingela phantsi ngokupheleleyo ubuntloko.
Iziqendu 7 thru 10 yolu phononongo zixoxa ngomba wobuntloko ngokufutshane, kodwa kuninzi kakhulu inkcubeko echaphazela ukuqonda kwethu ngesi sihloko kangangokuba kulula kakhulu ukucinga ukuba sinombono webhayibhile ngelixesha silinganisa amasiko. nezithethe zenkcubeko yethu.
Buyintoni ubuntloko?
Kwimimandla emininzi, ukuba yintloko kuthetha ukuba ngoyena uphetheyo. Intloko, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ilungu lomzimba eliqukethe ingqondo, kwaye sonke siyayazi ingqondo ilawula umzimba. Ukuba ucela uJoe ophakathi ukuba akuphe isinxibelelanisi se "ntloko", unokuza "nomphathi". Ngoku kukho igama elingagcwalisi uninzi lwethu ngokukhanya okufudumeleyo, okufumileyo.
Masizame okomzuzwana ukucacisa umkhethe ongagungqiyo kunye nokukhetha sonke esinakho ngenxa yendlela esikhuliswe ngayo kwaye sijonge ngokutsha intsingiselo yobuntloko ngokwembono yeBible. Qwalasela indlela iinyaniso kunye nemigaqo kwezi Zibhalo zilandelayo zidibana ngayo ukuze uguqule ukuqonda kwethu.
"Kodwa ndifuna nazi ukuba uKrestu yintloko yamadoda onke, kwaye indoda yintloko yomfazi, nguThixo intloko kaKristu." - 1Co 11: 3 NET Bible
“… Inene, inene, ndithi kuwe, UNyana akanakwenza nto ngokwakhe, engathanga abone uYise esenza. Kuba naziphi na izinto awazenzayo umntu, ezi zinto noNyana uyazenza ngendlela efanayo .Andikwazi ukwenza into enye ngokwam; njengoko ndivayo nje, ndiyagweba; kwaye umgwebo endiwenzayo ulungile, kuba andifuni kuthanda kwam, kodwa ukuthanda kwalowo undithumileyo. ”(Joh 5: 19, 30)
"Indoda yintloko yomfazi wayo, njengokuba naye uKristu eyintloko yebandla ..." (Eph 5: 23)
EyokuQala kwabaseKorinte 11: 3 isinika uthotho olucacileyo lomyalelo: uYehova kuYesu; UYesu kule ndoda; indoda emfazini. Nangona kunjalo, kukho into engaqhelekanga malunga nolwakhiwo oluthile lomyalelo. Ngokuka-John 5: I-19, i-30, uYesu akenzi kwanto ngokwakhe, ngaphandle kwento abona ukuba utata uyayenza. Ayisiyena umphathi wakho we-archetypal-ozimele geqe kunye neziqu zakho. UYesu akasithathi isikhundla sakhe njengentloko yeso sizathu sokuba neendlela zakhe okanye angazenzi iinkosi kwabanye. Endaweni yoko, unikezela ukuthanda kwakhe kuYise. Akukho mntu ulilungisa unokuba nengxaki noThixo njengentloko yakhe, kwaye ekubeni uYesu esenza kuphela oko abona uYise esenza kwaye esenza ukuthanda kwakhe kuphela, asinakuba nangxaki noYesu njengentloko yethu.
Ukulandela le ndlela yokuqiqa njengoko kwenza u-Efese 5: 23, ayilandeli na into yokuba le ndoda ifane noYesu? Ukuba uza kuba yintloko le 1 kwabaseKoran 11: 3 ifuna, makangenzi nto ngokwakhe, kodwa kuphela koko akubona uKrestu esenza. Intando kaKristu kukuthanda kwendoda, kanye njengokuba ukuthanda kukaThixo kukuthanda kukaKristu. Ke ubuntloko bendoda abuselayisensi yaphezulu egunyazisa ukuba alawule umfazi. Amadoda ayayenza loo nto, ewe, kodwa kuphela njengesiphumo sokungalingani kwi-psyche yethu edibeneyo eziswe yimeko yethu yesono.
Xa indoda ilawula umfazi, kuba enganyanisekanga kwintloko yakhe. Ngokuyintloko, waphula ingqokelela yomyalelo kwaye azimise njengentloko ngokuchasene noYehova noYesu.
Isimo sengqondo sokuba indoda kufuneka sinqande ukungavisisani noThixo sifumaneka kumazwi okuqala kwengxoxo kaPawulos ngomtshato.
"Thobelanani ngokoyika uKrestu." (Efe. 5: 21)
Simele sizithobe kubo bonke abanye, njengokuba noKristu wenzayo. Wayephila ubomi bokuzincama, ebeka izilangazelelo zabanye ngaphezu kwezakhe. Ubuntloko abukho malunga nokuba nezinto ngendlela yakho, yeyokunceda abanye kwaye ubakhathalele. Ke ngoko, ubuntloko bethu kufuneka bulawulwe luthando. Kwimeko kaYesu, wayelithanda kakhulu ibandla kangangokuba “wazinikela ngenxa yalo, ukuze ayingcwalise, eyihlambulula ngokuhlamba kwamanzi ngegama elithi….” (Efe. 5: 25, 26) Umhlaba ugcwele iintloko zikarhulumente, abalawuli, oomongameli, inkulumbuso, oenkosi… kodwa bangaphi abakhe babonakalisa iimpawu zokuzihlaziya kunye nenkonzo yokuthobeka eboniswe nguYesu?
Ilizwi malunga Nentlonipho enzulu
Ekuqaleni, ama-Efese 5: I-33 isenokubonakala ngathi ayalingani, nokuba yeyamadoda.
Kodwa ke elowo kuni makamthande umfazi wakhe, njengoko ezithanda; kwelinye icala, umfazi makabe nentlonelo enzulu ngendoda yakhe. ”(i-Eph 5: 33 NWT)
Kutheni kungekho cebiso linikiweyo endodeni ukuba imhlonele ngokunzulu umfazi wayo? Ngokuqinisekileyo amadoda afanele abahlonele abafazi bawo. Kwaye kutheni le nto abafazi bengatshelwanga ukuba bathande abayeni babo njengoko bezithanda?
Kuphela kuxa sijonga ukwakheka okungafaniyo kwengqondo kowesilisa okanye owasetyhini apho ubulumko baphezulu kule ndinyana bufika khona.
Amadoda nabasetyhini bobabini babona kwaye babonisa uthando ngokwahlukileyo. Batolika izenzo ezahlukeneyo njengezothando okanye ukungabi naluthando. (Ndithetha nje apha kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuzakubakho ukwahluka.) Kukangaphi uyiva indoda ikhalaza ukuba inkosikazi yayo ayimxeleli ukuba isamthanda. Ayisoloko ingumba, akunjalo? Nangona kunjalo abantu basetyhini baxabisa intetho yomlomo rhoqo kunye neethokheni ezibonisa uthando. Into engacelwanga "ndiyakuthanda", okanye intyatyambo engalindelwanga yeentyatyambo, okanye ukuphululwa okungalindelekanga, zezinye zeendlela umyeni anokuqinisekisa ngazo umfazi wakhe ngothando oluqhubekayo. Kuya kufuneka kwakhona aqonde ukuba abantu basetyhini kufuneka bathethe ngezinto, babelane ngeemvakalelo zabo. Emva komhla wokuqala, uninzi lwamantombazana akwishumi elivisayo aya kugoduka aze atsalele umnxeba oyena mhlobo wabo usondeleyo ukuze axoxe ngayo yonke into eqhubekayo ngalo mhla. Inkwenkwe iya kugoduka, isele, ibukele nemidlalo. Sahlukile kwaye amadoda angena emtshatweni okokuqala kufuneka afunde ukuba iimfuno zomfazi zahluke njani kwezakhe.
Amadoda asombulula iingxaki kwaye xa abafazi befuna ukuthetha ngengxaki abanayo bahlala befuna indlebe yokumamela, hayi indoda yokulungisa. Babonisa uthando ngokunxibelelana. Ngokwahlukileyo, xa amadoda amaninzi enengxaki, athatha umhlala-phantsi aye emqolombeni ukuze azame ukuzilungisa ngokwawo. Abasetyhini bahlala bekujonga oku njengokungabathandi, kuba baziva bevalelwe ngaphandle. Le yinto thina besilisa ekufuneka siyiqonde.
Amadoda ahlukile kule nto. Asilixabisi icebiso elingacelwanga, nokuba sihlobo oluhlobo. Ukuba indoda ixelela umhlobo wakhe ukuba enze njani na okanye ayisombulule njani ingxaki ethile, athetha ukuba umhlobo wakhe ungaphantsi kokuyilungisa ngokwakhe loo nto. Inokuthathwa njengento yokubeka phantsi. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba indoda icela umhlobo kwiingcebiso zayo, olu luphawu lwentlonipho kunye nokuthembana. Iya kubonakala njengencoma.
Xa umntu obhinqileyo ehlonipha indoda ngokuthembela kuye, engathandabuzi, engamcingeli, uthi kwindoda-Ndiyakuthanda. Indoda ephathwa ngentlonipho ngomnye akafuni kuyilahleka. Uya kuzama ngakumbi ukuyigcina kwaye yakhele phezu kwayo. Indoda evakalelwa kukuba umfazi wayo iyamhlonela iya kufuna ukumkholisa ngakumbi ukuba ayigcine kwaye ayikhulise loo ntlonipho.
Oko uThixo akuxelelayo endodeni nabafazi kwabase-Efese 5: 33 kukuthandana. Zombini zifumana isiluleko esifanayo, kodwa zilungelelaniswe neemfuno zabo ezizodwa.
Ilizwi malunga nokuXolelwa
Kwiziqendu 11 thru 13, inqaku lithetha ngemfuno yokuxolelana ngesisa. Nangona kunjalo, ijonge kwelinye icala lengqekembe. Ngelixa ucaphula i-Mt 18: i-21, i-22 ukwenza imeko yayo, ukuba ijonge ngaphezulu umgaqo-siseko ogcwele kuLuka:
Zilumkeleni nina. Ukuba ke umzalwana wakho uthe wakona, mkhalimele, ukuba uthe waguquka, mxolele. 4 Nokuba akone kasixhenxe ngemini, aze abuyele kuwe kasixhenxe, esithi, Ndiyaguquka, kufuneka umxolele. (ULuka 17: 3,4)
Kuyinyani ukuba uthando luyakwazi ukugubungela inkitha yezono. Siyakwazi ukuxolela nokuba umntu osonileyo akakwenzangaxolisa. Sinokwenza oku sikholelwa ukuba ngokwenza lo nto iqabane lethu liya kuthi ekugqibeleni liyazi ukuba lisenzakalisile kwaye licela uxolo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, uxolelo luyandulela inguquko afuna ukuba yenziwe. Nangona kunjalo, uya kuqaphela ukuba imfuneko yakhe yokuxolelwa-nokuba kasixhenxe ngemini ("isixhenxe" ebonisa ukuzaliseka) -unxibelele kwisimo sengqondo sokuguquka. Ukuba sihlala sixolela ngelixa singafuni ukuba omnye aguquke okanye axolise, ngaba asizukubangela isimilo esibi? Ingaba luthando njani olo? Ngelixa ukuxolelwa kungumgangatho obalulekileyo wokugcina umanyano lomtshato kunye nokuvumelana, ukulungela ukuvuma isenzo esiphosakeleyo okanye isiphoso, ubuncinci, kubaluleke ngokulinganayo.
Ingxoxo ngomtshato iya kuqhubeka kwiveki ezayo nesihloko esithi, “Vumela uYehova aqinise kwaye awukhusele umtshato wakho”.
"Isipha esothusayo seentyatyambo," le yandimela. Umfazi wam waya kwindibano yejw okanye ukuzonwabisa. Ngelixa wayengekho ndacoca indlu kwaye andiphili njengebhamu btw, ndabeka iseti yeedola ezingama-40 iseti yeentyatyambo apho njengokwamkela kwakhe.
Kwamthatha iintsuku ezimbini ukuba ababone. Andimthengelanga iintyatyambo kodwa okwangoku.
Molo Meleti,
enkosi ngenqaku elimnandi. Kucacile kwaye kuyanceda. Oku kundinceda ndibone izinto ezifana noYehova kwaye ndiqonde ukuba amadoda nabasetyhini bayalingana. Kwaye unyanisile, iivesi zebhayibhile ozikhankanyileyo zisinika ilungelo lokulawula.
Uzibona phi eBhayibhileni ukuba amadoda nabasetyhini bayalingana? Ibhayibhile ifundisa into echasene nokulingana. Sahlukile. Oko akuthethi kuthi kunexabiso elingaphantsi. Ukulingana kuyimfundiso echasene nobukristu. Ifilosofi yelizwe ifundisa ukuba isini kukwakha intlalo. Ukuba amadoda nabafazi bayafana. Oku ngokucacileyo kuchasene neBhayibhile kunye nesayensi. IBhayibhile ithetha ngokuzisa imbeko kwisitya esibuthathaka. Ayisiyiyo ukuba isitya esinye. Iindima zesini zibhaliwe kuyo yonke iBhayibhile. Kukho imiyalelo eyahlukeneyo yendlela indoda ekufuneka imphathe ngayo umfazi. Ngokuthelekisa nendlela umfazi afanele ukuphatha ngayo... Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Molo Chris, Andiqinisekanga ukuba uLibertas uzakuphendula kuba uluvo lwakhe lubuyela emva kwiminyaka emine. Nangona kunjalo, kukho imiba eyahlukeneyo kulingano. Ngokucacileyo amadoda nabafazi bahlukile kwaye banikwe iindima ezahlukeneyo kwiinjongo zikaThixo, kodwa akukho namnye uxabiseke ngaphezu komnye emehlweni eNkosi. Kunokwenzeka ukwahluka ukanti ulingane. Ngokubanzi, amadoda omelele, kodwa abafazi banokuphatha i-G-imikhosi ngcono. Ngokubhekisele kumbuzo wakho malunga nesiluleko esahlukileyo esinikwe isini ngasinye kwabase-Efese, ndingaphikisana ukuba ibhayibhile ithetha into enye. Abasetyhini, ngokubanzi, kufuneka beve... Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Le vidiyo yayingafundisi kwaphela. nayo yayihlekisa. Enkosi.
“Ngaphandle kokuba uYehova uyayakha indlu, kulilize ukusebenza nzima kwabakhi bayo kuyo.” - INDU. I-127: 1a.
Nabani na onomdla kwimiba yonxibelelwano yomyeni / yomfazi unokufuna ukubonisana nale vidiyo ifundisayo. Ingaphantsi kwemizuzu emi-2 ubude:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
Meleti: Ngokunxulumene neenguqulelo ezahlukeneyo zikaGen 3:16, nantsi into encinci evela kwinkcazo ye-NAC-Genesis (Kenneth A. Mathews, Vol I, p. 251) ejongene nemiba yoguqulo emva kweGen 3: 16b: Nangona isini "Umnqweno" uhambelana ngcono nomthetho 15, ingcono ingcaciso ecetyiswe nguGen 4: 7b, apho "umnqweno" kunye "nokulawula" [masal] kufunyanwa kwakhona ngokulandelelana: "Inqwenela ukuba nawe, kodwa kufuneka uyilawule [ masal] ngayo. Kwi [Gen.] isahl. 4 “Isono” sifana nesilwanyana esiza kuthi xa sixhoxhiwe sihlasele uKayin; "Inqwenela" ukoyisa uKayin, kodwa umceli mngeni kaThixo kuKayin kukuba... Funda ngokugqithisileyo "