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“Ngamnye wenu makamthande umfazi wakhe njengoko ezithanda; . . .
umfazi ufanele abe nentlonelo enzulu ngendoda yakhe. ”-Efe. I-5: 33

Umxholo wombhalo we Efese 5: 33 obunye bobuncwane obufihliweyo bobulumko obufumaneka kwilizwi likaThixo. Ndithi ifihliwe, kuba xa uqala ukuyibona inokuthi ijongwe njengomzekelo wento elawulwa yindoda elawula intlonipho yendoda emfazini, ngaphandle kokufuna okufanayo.

Nangona kunjalo, indoda nomfazi benziwe ngokomfanekiso kaThixo, kwaye uYehova akabajongi abo bamiliselwa emva kwakhe. Uyabathanda. Nokuba sinesiphako, sinesono, usasithanda kwaye usifunela okona kulungileyo. Nangona kunjalo, nangona isini ngasinye senziwe ngokomfanekiso kaThixo, nganye yahlukile, kwaye ngumahluko ekubhekiswa kuwo Efese 5: 33.

Apho icebisa indoda ukuba imthande umfazi wayo njengoko izithanda yona. Nangona kunjalo ayiniki ngcebiso kwabasetyhini, ke kuya kubonakala ngathi. Endaweni yoko, ifuna imbeko enzulu kuye. Ngelixa kubonakala kwahlukile, siza kubona ukuba eneneni uThixo unika ingcebiso efanayo kwisini ngasinye.

Okokuqala, kutheni le ndoda ifumana esi siluleko?

Kukangaphi usiva indoda isithi, "Umfazi wam akaze athi uyandithanda"? Olu ayilohlobo lwesikhalazo umntu alindele ukusiva endodeni. Kwelinye icala, abafazi bayayixabisa imiboniso rhoqo yothando oluqhubekayo lomyeni ngabo. Ke, ngelixa sinokufumana umbono wokuba indoda inike umfazi isipha seentyatyambo njengezothando, okwahlukileyo kuya kubonakala kungaqhelekanga kuthi. Indoda inokumthanda umfazi wayo, kodwa kufuneka ibonakalise rhoqo ngamazwi nangezenzo ezazisa ukuba ucinga ngaye, ukuba ucinga ngezinto azifunayo kunye neemfuno zakhe.

Ndiyathetha ngokubanzi, ndiyazi, kodwa zilungisiwe ukusuka kumava obomi kunye nokuqwalaselwa. Ukuthetha ngokubanzi abasetyhini bazikhathalele ngakumbi iimfuno zendoda yabo kunokubuyela umva. Ke ngoko, ukuba ubuziwe, uninzi luya kuthi sele luyayithanda indoda yalo njengoko luzithanda. Hayi, kodwa ngaba bayathetha ngothando kuye ngendlela ayiqondayo?

Oku kunento yokwenza nendlela amadoda aluqonda ngayo uthando, hayi kumfazi kuphela, kodwa nakubani na. Kwiindawo ezininzi, akunakubakho sithuko sikhulu kunaleso sokuba indoda ihlonele enye. Umfazi unokumxelela umyeni wakhe ukuba uyamthanda, kodwa ukuba uyambonisa inhlonipho ngandlela thile, eso senzo siyakuthetha ngakumbi kwindlebe eyindoda kunamagama alishumi elinambini wokuzinikela.

Umzekelo, yithi umfazi ufika ekhaya afumane iqabane lakhe lisebenza kude nesinki yekhitshi. Into emayitsho kukuba, “Ndiyabona ukuba uyalungisa oko kuvuza. Uluncedo kakhulu. Enkosi kakhulu." Into angayithethiyo, ngongcangcazela elizwini lakhe, kukuthi, "Ah, sithandwa, ucinga ukuba mhlawumbi singabiza nje ngemibhobho yamanzi?"

Ke icebiso le Efese 5: 33 Ibuye yahanjiswa. Ithetha into efanayo kubo bobabini isini, kodwa ngendlela ejonga umohluko kunye neemfuno zaso ngasinye. Obu bulumko bukaThixo.

Isiqendu 13 sibonisa into eqhelekileyo IMboniselo indlela yokuguqula uluvo lube yimfundiso. Itshilo kumhlathi ukuba "abanye bajongile”Izinto ezinje“ ukungayi ngabom inkxaso, ukuphathwa gadalala ngokwasemzimbeni, kunye nokubeka esichengeni ubomi bakho bokomoya ”njenge" meko ezizodwa "ezibangela isizathu sokwahlukana. Ukanti, umbuzo ubuza ukuba: “Zintoni ivumelekile izizathu zokwahlukana? ” "Abanye bajonge" bayasuswa kwi-equation kwaye amalungu abaphulaphuli kulindeleke ukuba anike "izizathu ezifanelekileyo" zokwahlukana. Ke abapapashi babonakala ngathi baveza uluvo, olungelolokwabo, ngelixa kwangaxeshanye bebeka umthetho.

Lo ngomnye umzekelo we-Farisi eqhubekayo ye-21st Inkulungwane Yentlangano YamaNgqina KaYehova. IBhayibhile ayizidwelisi “izizathu ezivakalayo” zokwahlukana. EyokuQala kwabaseKorinte 7: 10-17 iyavuma ukuba ukwahlukana emtshatweni kunokwenzeka, kodwa ayiniki mithetho yokufumanisa ukuba ngoobani abanokuhlukana okanye abangahlukani. Ishiya isazela somntu ngamnye sisekwe kwimigaqo echazwe kwenye indawo esiBhalweni. Akukho sidingo sokuba kungene amadoda athi umfazi angohlukana kuphela xa kukho “ukuxhatshazwa okugqithisileyo”. Yintoni eyenza ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okugqithileyo nangayiphi na imeko kwaye ngubani omisela ukuba umgca ugqityiwe ukusuka kumodareyitha ukuya kobubi ukuya kugqithise nakweyiphi na imeko? Ukuba indoda ibetha umfazi wayo kanye ngenyanga, ngaba loo nto iya kuthathwa “njengokuxhatshazwa emzimbeni”? Ngaba sixelela udade ukuba akanakumshiya umyeni wakhe ngaphandle kokuba ambeke kwigumbi lasesibhedlele?

Xa umntu eqalisa ukwenza imithetho, izinto ziya zisiba buthathaka kwaye ziyingozi.

Ingcinga yokugqibela kumyalezo ongemva komhlathi 17.

“Ngenxa yokuba siphila nzulu 'kwimihla yokugqibela,' sifumana“ amaxesha amanqam ekunzima ukujamelana nawo. ”(2 Tim. 3: 1-5) Ukanti, ukuhlala somelele ngokomoya kuya kunceda ekupheliseni iimpembelelo ezimbi zeli hlabathi. UPawulos wabhala: “Ixesha eliseleyo lifinyele. “Ukususela ngoku abo banabafazi mababe njengabangenabo,. . . nabo balisebenzisayo eli hlabathi babe njengabangalisebenzisi ngokupheleleyo. ” (1 Kor. 7: 29-31) UPawulos wayengathethi izibini ezitshatileyo ukuba ziyityeshele imisebenzi yazo yomtshato. Ngenxa yexesha elincitshisiweyo, nangona kunjalo, kwafuneka babeke izinto zokomoya kwindawo yokuqala. — 1 Yoh.Matt. 6: 33."Umhlathana 17

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Umzobo ohamba nesiqendu ubonisa ntoni IMboniselo kuthetha ukuba xa isithi abantu abatshatileyo kufuneka "babeke phambili imicimbi yokomoya". Kuthetha ukuba kufuneka bangene kwindlu ngendlu beshumayela iindaba ezilungileyo njengoko kufundiswa nguMbutho wamaNgqina kaYehova. Kule mihla, oku kuthetha ukuba kubhalwe iimpapasho ezimibalabala kunye neevidiyo ezikwi-Intanethi zeJW.org. Ukongeza, nawuphi na umsebenzi oxhasa uMbutho ngokwawo ubonwa njengowufuna kuqala uBukumkani.

Ngelixa ukushumayela iindaba ezilungileyo — ezona ndaba zimnandi njengoko zifundiswa yiBhayibhile — ziyinxalenye yomsebenzi wethu woBukumkani, ayisiyiyo injongo yokuba ube sisiphelo. Ngapha koko, ukugxila kakhulu kwizinto ezibizwa ngokuba "yimisebenzi yobukumkani" kukhokelele kuqhawulo mtshato xa elinye iqabane lichitha ixesha elininzi lixhasa izinto ezikhuthazwa yiJW.org njengeendlela zokukholisa uThixo nokufumana inkoliseko yakhe. Wayethetha ukuthini uYesu xa wayesinika isiluleko esifumaneka Matthew 6: 33?

Masihlephule i-logic advanced kumqolo 17.

Okokuqala, sixelelwa ukuba singene nzulu kwimihla yokugqibela kwaye sinamaxesha amanqam ekufuneka sijongane nawo. (Qaphela, hayi "kunzima", kodwa "ukugxeka") ngenkxaso, 2 Timothy 3: 1-5 kucatshulwe. Nangona kunjalo, iphephancwadi liyasilela ukufaka iivesi 6 th9 ezibonisa ukuba ezi mpawu zemihla yokugqibela ziyavela kwibandla lamaKristu. Ewe, bebevela ukusukela kwinkulungwane yokuqala. (Thelekisa KwabaseRoma 1: 28-32AmaNgqina akholelwa ukuba eyesi-2 kuTimoti yazaliseka kuphela ukusukela ngo-1914, kodwa akunjalo. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka sitshintshe indlela esicinga ngayo. Ungxamiseko oluchazwe kwisibhalo sesibini esicatshulweyo—I-1 Co 7: 29-31-Ifanele ukungena kwisakhelo esibandakanya iminyaka engama-2,000 XNUMX yembali yobuKristu. Amazwi kaPawulos kwabaseKorinte nakuTimoti azaliseka kwiminyaka yokuqala yobuKristu kwaye ayaqhubeka ezalisekiswa kude kube ngumhla wethu. Kungxamisekile ke ukuba isiphelo asifikanga kuthi, kuba asinokwazi ukuba isiphelo siza kufika nini. Endaweni yoko, ukungxamiseka kunento yokwenza nobufutshane bobude bobomi bethu kunye nenyani yokuba kufuneka sisebenzise eli xesha silishiye ngabanye.

I-NWT iyathanda ukusebenzisa ibinzana elithi "amaxesha anomngcipheko" endaweni yamaxesha anzima ngakumbi "amaxesha anzima", kuba iyangqingqa kwinqanaba loxinzelelo ukuya kwinqanaba. Ukuba ilungu losapho lisesibhedlele kwaye ugqirha uthi imeko yakhe "imbi," uyazi ukuba kunzima kakhulu kunokuba "kunzima". Ke, ukuba imeko kwiintsuku zokugqibela ayisenzima nje, kodwa ibalulekile, umntu uyazibuza ukuba yintoni eza emva koxinzelelo. Bayabulala?

Wayesithini kanye kanye uYesu xa wayexelela abafundi bakhe ukuba bafune uBukumkani bukaThixo nobulungisa baKhe kwaye bangazikhathazi ngokuqokelela ubutyebi ngaphaya kweemfuno zosuku? Wayeqeqesha abafundi bakhe ukuba babe ngookumkani nababingeleli, balawule, baphilise, bagwebe kwaye baxolelanise izigidi ezingenakubalwa ezaziza kuvuselwa ebomini emhlabeni phantsi kobukumkani bukaThixo. Ukwenza oko, kuya kufuneka bavakaliswe bengamalungisa nguThixo. Kodwa eso sibhengezo asizi ngokuzenzekelayo. Kuya kufuneka sigcine ukholo kwigama likaYesu kwaye silandele emanyathelweni akhe, sithwele umnqamlezo okomfuziselo okanye isibonda esibonisa ukuzimisela kwethu ukulahla zonke izinto kwaye sive iintloni ngenxa yegama lakhe. (U-12: 1-3; Lu 9: 23)

Ngelishwa, kumnqweno wabo wokubonisa ubungqina obuhle kubadala ngokufaka ingxelo entle yenkonzo yasentsimini, amaNgqina ahlala ezilibala izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu njengokukhathalela ababuthathaka nabasweleyo kwimbandezelo yabo. Ukulungiselela umntu osokolayo kunokuthetha ukuthatha ixesha elixabisekileyo kumsebenzi wokushumayela, ngaloo ndlela ungenzi ixesha lakho. Ke ababuthathaka, abasweleyo, abadandathekileyo nabasokolayo abahoywa ngenxa yomsebenzi wokushumayela. Ndikubonile oku kusenzeka rhoqo kakhulu ukuba kungabikho mgaqo. Isimo esinjalo sinokubonisa uhlobo lokuzinikela kuThixo, kodwa eneneni asikokufuna ubulungisa bukaThixo, okanye sihambisele phambili izilangazelelo eziyinene zobukumkani bukaThixo. (I-2Ti 3: 5) Inokuthi iqhubele phambili izilangazelelo zoMbutho, ethi emehlweni abantu abaninzi inxibane nobukumkani bukaThixo, kodwa ngaba uYehova ngumphathi wezinto ezinzima kangangokuba akabakhathalelanga abo bawa ngasendleleni ukuze ingxelo yobalo ijonge ngcono unyaka uphela?

Xa uPawulos wanika abantu abatshatileyo isiluleko esihle, waqala wathi, “Thobelanani.” (I-Eph 5: 21) Oko kuthetha ukuba sibeka izilangazelelo zeqabane lethu kunye nabazalwana noodadewethu ebandleni ngaphezu kwezethu. Nangona kunjalo, ukuzithoba kwiimfuno ezingezizo ezifana nezabelo zeyure… hayi kangako? Ngapha koko, awuyi kufumana nto esiBhalweni ukuxhasa umbono. Ivela ebantwini.

Sonke senza kakuhle ukucamngca ngezi ndinyana kwaye ubone ukuba zingasebenza njani kubomi bethu:

". . Ndiqhubeka ndithandazela ukuba uthando lwenu luphuphume ngakumbi nangakumbi lulwazi oluchanileyo nokuqonda okupheleleyo; 10 ukuze niqiniseke ngezinto ezibaluleke ngakumbi, ukuze nibe ngabangenakusoleka kwaye bangakhubekisi abanye kude kube ngumhla kaKristu, 11 kwaye nizaliswe ziqhamo ezilungileyo, ezingoYesu Krestu, ukuze kuzukiswe uThixo.I-Php 1: 9-11)

". . Unqulo oluhlambulukileyo nolungadyobhekanga ngokwembono kaThixo noBawo wethu lulo olu: ukuvelela iinkedama nabahlolokazi embandezelweni yabo, nokuzigcina ungenabala kulo ihlabathi. (I-Jas 1: 27)

". . .Kwathi, xa besazi ububele obungasifanelanga endabunikwayo, uYakobi noKefas noYohane, abo babebonakala beziintsika, bandinika mna noBharnabhas isandla sasekunene sokwabelana kunye, ukuba masiye ezintlangeni. , kodwa bona kwabo balukile. Kuphela kufuneka sigcine amahlwempu engqondweni. Le nto kanye ndizimisele ukuyenza. ”(IGa 2: 9, 10)

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