Bazali — Ncedani Abantwana Benu 'Balumkele Usindiso'

[Ukusuka kwi-ws17 / 12 p. I-18-eyoMdumba nge-12-18]

"Ukusukela ebuntwaneni ubusazi izibhalo ezingcwele, ezinokukwenza ukuba ulumke usindiswe." 2 U-Timothy 3: 15

Ubuncinci umbutho uphezulu ngakumbi ngeenjongo zabo ngeli nqaku kunabaninzi. Ayisiyo into yokubabancede abantwana bakho balumke ukuze basindiswe ”, kodwa endaweni yoko, njengoko kubhekisiwe kumbuzo weziqendu 1 & 2, ukunceda “abantwana abafuna ukuthatha amanyathelo okuzahlulela nokubhaptizwa. ” Ingayinyani ngakumbi ukuba bangongeza "ngenxa yoxinzelelo olunamandla lweemvakalelo ezivela koontanga, abazali kunye noMbutho".

Oku kungaphandle komcimbi wokuba kufuneka uzinikezele ngokusesikweni (kuxoxwa ngayo aphaokoko uMateyu 28: 19b engathethi nto malunga nezifungo kunye nokuzinikezela kodwa uthetha kuphela ngobhaptizo olulandelwa zizenzo zokugcina imiyalelo kaYesu.

Sifumana enye i-tweak kwi-NWT etshintsha intsingiselo yevesi. UMateyu 28:19 kufuneka afundwe ukuba "nenze abafundi zonke iintlanga", "ningazenzi abantu beentlanga zonke". Kutheni le nto olu tshintsho lufihlakeleyo lungalunganga? Kungenxa yokuba itshintsha ugxininiso apho uninzi lwamangqina lufunda esi sibhalo. Ujoliso luqhubeka "kubafundi babantu" endaweni yokuba "abafundi beentlanga zonke". Igama lesiGrike apha eliguqulelwe ngokuthi “iintlanga” ngu 'I-ethnos'okuthetha ukuthi "abantu beentlanga, abantu abadityaniswa zizithethe namasiko afanayo." Abantwana bafunda amasiko nenkcubeko; ngabantu abadala kuphela abanokuthi bahlangane ngokunyanisekileyo kumasiko nenkcubeko efanayo.

Ngaba uYohane umBhaptizi wababhaptiza abantwana? Ubhaptizo lwabantwana alukhankanywa kwiSibhalo. Ubhaptizo lwabantu abadala kuphela oluhambelana nomxholo. (Jonga uLuka 3: 21; UMateyu 3: 13; Maka 1: 4-8; John 1: 29.)

Wabhaptizwa nini uYesu, uNyana kaThixo? Hayi njengomntwana, kodwa njengendoda ekhule ngokupheleleyo engama-30. (Luka 3:23) Ukuba ubhaptizo lubaluleke kangaka esemncinci kangaka, kwakutheni ukuze uYesu Kristu angamiseli umzekelo kwaye abhaptizwe xa wayesemncinci? Kutheni le nto engazange akhuthaze ukubhaptizwa kwabantwana?

Nguwuphi umahluko phakathi kokubhaptizwa kweentsana nomntwana? Ncnci kakhulu. Zombini zinokuqonda okuncinci kwenyathelo abalithathayo. Usana alwazi nokuba luyabhaptizwa. Akanalo ilizwi kulo mbandela. Ngaba umntwana usenza isigqibo ngokuzithandela? Ngokwesiqhelo, ubunyanzelo obunamandla beemvakalelo benziwa ngabazali, nokuba bazi okanye bengazi, ukukhuthaza umntwana onomnqweno wemvelo, ongokwemvelo wokufuna ukukholisa umama kunye / okanye notata. Uninzi lwabantwana luyayitshintsha indlela ababujonga ngayo ubomi kakhulu kwiminyaka yabo yokufikisa.

The Insight Le ncwadi yenza la magqabaza malunga noBhaptizo: "Ubhaptizo lwamaKristu lufuna ukuqondwa kweLizwi LikaThixo kunye nesigqibo sobulumko sokuzenzela ukuthanda kukaThixo okucacileyo. ”  - (i-1 p253 par. 13)

Uninzi lwamazwe ehlabathi alumqwalaseli umntwana njengomdala ngokwaneleyo ukuba angathatha izigqibo ezibalulekileyo ebomini ade abe neminyaka eli-16, eli-18, okanye engama-21 ubudala, kuxhomekeke kuhlobo lwesigqibo. Kutheni le nto ukuba lilungu lenkolo kunye neemfuno zalo kwahlukile? Kuya kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba amaNgqina kaYehova awabhaptizi abantwana bawo kuKristu, kodwa endaweni yoko, kuMbutho. Ubhaptizo lwe-JW luthetha ukukulungela ukuthobela yonke imigaqo, imigaqo kunye nemigaqo-nkqubo yoMbutho, nokuba iyahambelana neZibhalo okanye akunjalo.[i]  Bambalwa abantwana abaya kuyiqonda into abangena kuyo. (Ewe, bambalwa abantu abadala abakwenzayo oku.) Izinto ezifanayo ezithethiweyo ngeentsana ezise Insight Inqaku lencwadi malunga nokubhaptizwa (it-1 p253 isitanza se-18) isebenza kubantwana nakuninzi lolutsha. Bangaphi abangaphantsi kweminyaka yobudala bethi, 16, baqonde ilizwi likaThixo (makungasathethi ke ngemigaqo-nkqubo yombutho) ngokwaneleyo ukuba bathathe isigqibo esikrelekrele?

Okokugqibela kwiZenzo 8: I-12 icacisa gca ukuba "babhaptizwa, amadoda kwanabafazi." Qaphela ukungabikho kwabantwana.

Isiqendu 2 sizama ukurhoxisa nakuphi na ukukhathazeka kubazali. Ikwenza oku ngokubonakalisa ukuba iinkxalabo zokuba abantwana kamva bashiye 'indlela yenyaniso' ayifanele ibayeke ukuba babhaptizwe.

Nangona kunjalo, umba obalulekileyo oshiyekileyo ngumba obalulekileyo owenziwe kuYohane 6: 44 "Akukho mntu unokuza kum ngaphandle kokuba uBawo, owandithumayo, amtsale; kwaye ndiza kumvusa ngomhla wokugqibela. ”Kwaye uJohn 6: 65“ Waza wahlabela mgama wathi: “Kungenxa yoko le nto nditshilo kuni ukuthi, Akukho namnye unako ukuza kum ngaphandle kokuba anikwe nguBawo.” Ngokusekwe kwezi zibhalo, ngaba uYehova utsala amadoda (abadala) okanye abantwana abancinci? Ngapha koko, iBhayibhile ibonisa ukuba ngumntu omdala okholwayo ongcwalisa abantwana. (1 Cor 7: 14)

Kwisiqendu 3, kumzamo wokuxhasa le nto ithethwayo-okt abantwana mababhaptizwe-sifunda oku:nangona uTimoti wayekwishumi elivisayo ngelo xesha ”. Kwinkqubo yenkundla enokubizwa ngokuba 'bubungqina obungamkelekanga', kuba ingumbono oqinisekileyo. Isicatshulwa esicatshulweyo (2 kuTimoti 3: 14,15) asibonisi ukuba (a) ubudala athe wafunda ngabo ngomyalezo kaKrestu kwaye (b) xa wayeyiseka ukuba yinyani eyinyani leyo.

Kuyancomeka ukunceda abantwana bethu bayazi imibhalo engcwele. Izixhobo zinokuba luncedo kuwo nawuphi na umsebenzi, ukuba nje zichanekile kwaye zichanekile. Okulusizi kukuba phantse ngaphandle kwezixhobo ezinokusetyenziswa ngabazali beJW zifundisa amaxabiso oMbutho ngokuchasene neenqobo eziseBhayibhileni. Umzekelo, uMbutho ufundisa ukuba abazali akufuneki bathathe umnxeba kwintombi yabo isuswe kubudlelane, okanye abantwana kufuneka basebenzise imali yabo epokothweni, hayi i-ayisikhrim, okanye bancede umntu ongenakhaya, kodwa endaweni yoko batyebise osele esisityebi Umbutho.

Abantwana bafanele bafundiswe ukuxelisa amaKristu anjengoApolo owayesebenzisa iZibhalo kuphela ukusasaza iindaba ezilungileyo. (Izenzo 18: 28)

Umhlathi 8 uqulethe uluvo olunomdla nguThomas, utata. "Ngeliphandle, ndinganexhala ukuba uyayamkela into ngaphandle kokubuza imibuzo ”.  Utata wethu osezulwini ngokuqinisekileyo uyonwaba ngokulinganayo ukuba sibuze imibuzo. Yindlela yokufumana amava kunye nolwazi lokuqiqa. Abantwana bayaziwa ngemibuzo yabo: kutheni, yintoni, phi, phi, nini, kwincwadi yeZenzo 17: 10, 11, uLuka waphefumlelwa ukuba abhale ukuba kwakulungile ukuba "ukuzihlolisisa ngenyameko iZibhalo mihla le malunga nokuba zinjalo na ezi zinto. ".

Onjani umahluko kuMbutho wanamhlanje, apho ubuza imibuzo malunga nemiba yokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo, okanye indlela uYehova aqala ngayo ukunxibelelana neQumrhu Elilawulayo, okanye ukuba sisiphi isiseko esiseZibhalweni semfundiso edlulayo kwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana, kusenokwenzeka ukuba ingene kwigumbi elingasemva kwe kwiholo yoBukumkani.

Isiphakamiso esinikwe kumhlathi 9 sesi Umzekelo, ngaba abantwana bakho banokucacisa ngebhayibhile ngento eyenzekayo ekufeni? Ngaba ingxelo yeBhayi-bhile iyavakala? ”  Akukho nto ibonisa ukuba ngaphambi kokuba babhaptizwe, kwinkulungwane yokuqala abantu ababeza kubhaptizwa kwakufuneka bayiqonde imfundiso yeBhayibhile engokufa. Kwakufuneka baqonde, nangona kunjalo, ukuba babebhaptizelwa egameni likaYehova, likaYesu nelomoya oyingcwele. Ngaba umntwana wakho uyayiqonda intsingiselo yoko? Umzekelo, ukubhaptizwa egameni likaYesu kuthetha ukuba umntu unikwe igunya lokuba ngomnye wabantwana bakaThixo.

Kodwa ke, kubo bonke abo bamamkelayo, wabanika igunya lokuba ngabantwana bakaThixo, kuba babebonisa ukholo egameni lakhe. ”(UJoh 1: 12)

Ukanti, onke amaNgqina kaYehova abhaptiziwe njengabahlobo bakaThixo. Ngaba umntwana wakho angakuchaza oko ngokusuka eZibhalweni?

"Ukuqola ngokomoya akuxhomekeki kubudala kodwa kukoyika umntu ngokufanelekileyo nokuba ukulungele ukuthobela imiyalelo yakhe. "(Isiqendu 12)

Ke siwubuza lo mbuzo: Kutheni, xa kufikwa ekukhetheni abo baqolileyo ngokomoya ukuba babe ngabelusi, ngaba umzalwana akagwetywa kwiimpawu zakhe zobuKristu? Endaweni yoko ugwetywe kwiimpawu zakhe zombutho. Ngokuyintloko ukuba zingaphi iiyure azichitha esiya kwindlu ngendlu inyanga nenyanga. Koko kongezwa ukuya rhoqo ezintlanganisweni ezimiselwe liqumrhu lamadoda, kunye nokuthobela okugqibeleleyo kwimiyalelo yamadoda amadoda, ngokokwamkelwa, engaphefumlelwanga (ngokungafaniyo nabapostile nabaprofeti bakudala).

Umhlathi 15 ukhankanya ukuba umntwana kufuneka ancedwe ekuqiqeni. Oko, kukodwa, kuya kufuneka kuyekise umntwana ekubhaptizweni. Jonga indlela isichazi magama sikaGoogle esimchaza ngayo umntwana:

• Umntu omncinci ungaphantsi kweminyaka yokufikisa okanye ungaphantsi kweminyaka yobudala esemthethweni.
• Isincoko: umncinci, omncinci, omncinci, inkwenkwe, intombazana.
• unyana okanye intombi yakhe nawuphi na unyaka
• umntu ongafundanga okanye ongakhathaliyo

Ukuba umntwana mncinci, yiyo loo nto kuthethwe ngayo kumhlathi we-15, ke bangaphantsi kweminyaka yobudala. Eli lixesha lehlabathi elibekwa kumzamo wokuqinisekisa ukuba umntu ukhule ngokwaneleyo ukuba angathatha izigqibo ezinomthetho kunye neziphumo ezinokubakho kubomi babo. Ngaba inyathelo lokubhaptizwa ukuze ukhonze uThixo noKristu, kunye nokutshintsha kobomi babo kunye neziphumo zomceli mngeni kufuneka zithathwe nakweyiphi na iminyaka emncinci kunaleyo yamkelweyo kwiminyaka yobudala? Kukho impikiswano eyomeleleyo yokuba ibha yokuba noxanduva kufuneka ibe ngaphezulu kwento ngokuqinisekileyo sesona sigqibo sibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakho. Qaphela inkcazo 4: ngokwenkcazo umntwana akakakhuli kwaye / okanye akanaxanduva. Umntu ongenankathalo okanye oqolileyo angafikelela njani kwisigqibo esivuthiweyo, esinoxanduva? Kuphela ekubeni ube ngumntu omkhulu, hayi umntu oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala njengoko wabanjwa kusasazo lwarhoqo ngenyanga lwenyanga njengomzekelo omhle wokulandelwa. Asithethi nolutsha apha, kodwa abantwana abangaphambi kwexesha.

Kude kube nini ngaphambi kokuba uMbutho uqale ukukhuthaza ubhaptizo lweentsana njengamanye amabandla eNgqobhoko? Ngaba le drive intsha ingaba yindlela yokuxhasa ukwehla kwamanani okukhula?

Ngapha koko kuya kufaneleka kwaye kufanelekile ukuba uYehova abambe umntu othile ukuba aphendule ngesithembiso esenziwe ngaphambi kokuba baqole ngokwasemthethweni ngokwaneleyo ukuba benze eso sigqibo okanye isithembiso? Ngaba uYehova uya kucinga ukwenza loo nto? Kuyinto engathandekiyo.

Into yokuziphatha enokuyenza ukuba uthathwe ngumzali okanye umdala okanye ilungu lebhunga elilawulayo kungathiwa 'Kuyamangalisa ukuba ubonakalisile umdla wokubhaptizwa, kodwa awunakukwenza oko de ube ubuncinci kweminyaka eyi-18 kwaye usemthethweni njengomdala , kwaye ukhule ngokwaneleyo ukuba ungazenzela isigqibo esibaluleke kangaka ngaphandle kwengcebiso evela kuthi. '

Oku kuya kuthintela imiba ephakanyiswe kumhlathi 16 apho umntwana aqala ukuba namathandabuzo njengoko ekhula, kwaye ngoku kufuneka ajamelane nemiphumo yokunqunyulwa kwintsapho kunye nabahlobo.

Njengoko kuxoxiwe kwiveki ephelileyo IMboniselo uphononongo lwenqaku, uYehova akafuni ukuba senze izifungo okanye asithembise ukuba singazaphula. Okwesibini, ngokuthatha izifungo zokubhaptizwa njengoko zimi ngoku, umntwana uyakube engena kwisivumelwano kunye ne-Watchtower Organisation, ethi ukuba usemncinci, ngokuqinisekileyo akukho semthethweni. Nabani na okhuthaza umntwana ukuba enze isenzo esingekho mthethweni ngokuqinisekileyo wenza ngokungazithembi nakancinci.

Okokugqibela, cinga ngeParagraph 10 ephakamisa imibuzo ebaluleke kakhulu thina sonke singabazali kufuneka sikwazi ukuphendula ngokunyaniseka. "Ngaba ndiyathetha nabantwana bam ngesizathu sokuba ndiqiniseke ngobukho bukaYehova, uthando, nokulunga kweendlela zakhe? Ngaba abantwana bam bayabona ukuba ndimthanda ngokwenene uYehova? ' Andifuni ukuba abantwana bam bachukunyiswe ngaphandle kokuba ndim. ”  Kule mibuzo, kufuneka songeze, "Ngaba abantwana bam bayabona ngokucacileyo ukuba ndimthanda ngokwenene uYesu?" Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba sifuna ukuba babhaptizwe, hayi njengamaJehovist, kodwa njengamaKristu, kufuneka sibancede bayithande iNkosi yethu, akunjalo?

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[i] Umzekelo, umntwana obhaptiziweyo unokucelwa ukuba aphephe umhlobo osondeleyo ohlukane noMbutho njengoko amanye amaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana bekwenzile, nangona ukuphepha ukuzahlula kungasekisibhalo.