Kwi-JW.org, umntu unokufumana indawo esemthethweni yamaNgqina kaYehova malunga nokukhuselwa kwabantwana. (Oku akuphakami kwinqanaba lephepha lomgaqo-nkqubo, into ebonakala ngathi yinkokheli yeJW.org ayifuni ukubhala.) Unokucofa kwisihloko, Isikhundla samaNgqina KaYehova esekwe ngokweZibhalo malunga nokuKhuselwa kwaBantwana, Ukujonga ifayile yePD ngokwakho.

Isihloko sinika umfundi isiqinisekiso sokuba le meko isekwe kwiZibhalo. Oko kuyinyani kuphela kwinxalenye. Isiqendu sesibini esinamanani kolu xwebhu siqinisekisa umfundi ukuba oku “yinto yakudala yaye ipapashwe ngokubanzi ngamaNgqina kaYehova.” Oku kuyinyani kuphela kwinxalenye.  UMzalwan 'uGerrit Losch uye wachaza iinyani zeenyaniso njengobuxoki, esikholelwa ukuba iyawafaneleka la manqaku mabini siwathethileyo. Siza kubonisa ukuba kutheni sikholelwa ukuba kunjalo.

Umntu kufuneka akhumbule ukuba njengabaFarisi nezinye iinkokeli zonqulo zomhla kaYesu, amaNgqina anemithetho emibini: umthetho obhaliweyo ofumaneka kwiimpapasho; kunye nomthetho odluliselwa ngomlomo, owawusenziwa ngabameli beQumrhu Elilawulayo njengabaveleli besiphaluka kunye neDesika yeNkonzo neDesika yoMthetho kwiiofisi zamasebe. NjengabaFarisi bamandulo, umthetho odluliselwa ngomlomo usoloko uphambili.

Kuya kufuneka kwakhona sikhumbule ukuba olu xwebhu asiloxwebhu lomgaqo-nkqubo, kodwa sisikhundla esisemthethweni. Enye yeengcebiso eziye zaphuma IKhomishini yasebukhosini yaseOstreliya kwiZimpendulo zeZiko leMfundo kwi-Intanethi yayinguMbutho wamaNgqina kaYehova wokuba nombutho ngokubanzi Bha liweyo Umgaqo-nkqubo wokujongana nokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo, into ethe iQumrhu Elilawulayo lenze imizamo engaphelelanga yokuyisebenzisa ukuza kuthi ga ngoku.

Ngayo yonke le nto ingentla engqondweni, masiqalise uphononongo lwethu olunzulu lo "xwebhu olusemthethweni ".

  1. Abantwana bayithenjwa elingcwele, “lilifa elivela kuYehova.” - INdu 127: 3

Akukho ngxabano apha. Malunga nokuba eli licebo lobudlelwane esidlangalaleni okanye ingxelo ethembekileyo yemvakalelo yokuba ubunkokeli bamaNgqina kaYehova banabo ebantwaneni bunokuvavanywa kuphela ngokujonga izenzo zabo. Njengoko isitsho njalo: "Izenzo zithetha kakhulu kunamazwi"; okanye njengoko uYesu watshoyo, “Nobaqonda ngeziqhamo zabo.” (Mt 7: 20)

  1. Ukukhuselwa kwabantwana yeyona nto ixhalabisa kakhulu kwaye ibalulekile kuwo onke amaNgqina kaYehova. Oku kuyahambelana nokuma kwexesha elide nokushicilelwa ngokubanzi okusekwe kwiZibhalo kumaNgqina kaYehova, njengoko kubonisiwe kwizalathiso ezisekupheleni kolu xwebhu, zonke zipapashwa kwiwebhsayithi ethi jw.org

Inqaku lesi siqendu likhwaza lisithi: "Jonga indlela esivuleke ngayo kwaye sinyanisekile ngayo yonke le nto!" Oku kunokwenzeka ukuba kukuphikisana nezityholo ezihlala zihleli kunye nezisisiseko zokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo kunye nabameli babo ukuba imigaqo-nkqubo kunye neenkqubo zombutho zigutyungelwe ngokufihlakeleyo.

Nceda uqaphele ukuba akukho nasinye isikhombisi esipapashwe ekupheleni kolu xwebhu senza umgaqo-nkqubo osemthethweni. Ukulahleka kwezalathiso ku Iileta eziya kumaZiko aBadala okanye ukubhekisa kwizinto ezinje ngencwadi yabadala, Yalusa umhlambi kaThixo. Ezi zinto ziyinto yomgaqo-nkqubo obhaliweyo okhawulezileyo, kodwa isikhundla seBhunga loLawulo kukuba unxibelelwano olunjalo malugcinwe luyimfihlo. Khawufane ucinge ukuba imithetho yelizwe lakho ibigcinwa iyimfihlo kubemi! Khawufane ucinge ukuba imigaqo-nkqubo yezabasebenzi yenkampani ekuqeshileyo igcinwe iyimfihlo kwabo basebenzi bachatshazelweyo yile migaqo-nkqubo!

Kumbutho othi ulandela kwaye uxelise uKrestu, kufuneka sibuze, "Kutheni yonke le mfihlo?"

  1. AmaNgqina kaYehova ayakucekisa ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana kwaye ukujonga njengelityala. (KwabaseRoma 12: 9) Siyaqonda ukuba abasemagunyeni banoxanduva lokujongana nolwaphulo-mthetho olunje. (KwabaseRoma 13: 1-4) Abadala ababavikeli nabaphi na oxhaphaza umntwana ngokuphathwa gadalala kwabasemagunyeni.

Le ngongoma yesithathu icaphula amaRoma 12: 9 apho uPawulos evuselela imifanekiso ethile entle ngokwenene.

Uthando lwakho malungabi naluhanahaniso. Yithiyeni into engendawo; bambelela kokulungileyo. ”(KwabaseRoma 12: 9)

Sonke sibabonile abantu ababini abathandanayo bencamathele komnye, okanye umntwana owoyikekayo ebambelela ngamandla kumzali wakhe. Lowo ngulo mfanekiso-ngqondweni esifanele ukuba nawo xa sifumana into elungileyo. Ingcinga elungileyo, umgaqo olungileyo, umkhwa olungileyo, imvakalelo elungileyo-sifuna ukubambelela kwizinto ezinjalo.

Kwelinye icala, ukwenyanya kudlula kwintiyo kunye nendlela engaphaya kokungathandi. Ubuso bomntu obukele into abayenyanyayo bakuxelela konke okufuneka ukwazi malunga nendlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngokwenene. Akukho magama ongezelelweyo afunekayo. Xa sibukela iividiyo apho abameli boMbutho kudliwanondlebe nabo okanye bencinwa, xa sifunda okanye sibukela amava obomi bokwenyani atyhilwe kumajelo eendaba, xa sifunda iphepha elime ngolu hlobo, ngaba siziva siyenyanya esithi uMbutho ubanga ukufumana? Ngaba nathi ngokufanayo sivakalelwa luthando lwabo lokunamathela kokulungileyo? Baqhuba njani abadala basekuhlaleni kule nkalo?

Ukuba iQumrhu Elilawulayo liyalwazi uxanduva lwalo phambi koThixo kuyabonakala kwiPosition Paper ekubhekiswa kuyo kumaRoma 13: 1-4. Ngelishwa, ivesi yesi-5, ethi ibeke koku, ayifakwanga. Nasi isicatshulwa esipheleleyo esivela kuguqulelo lwehlabathi elitsha.

“Wonke umntu makazithobele kumagunya awongamileyo, kuba akukho gunya lingaveli kuThixo; amagunya akhoyo abekwe nguThixo kwizikhundla zawo ezilinganiselweyo. Ke ngoko, nabani na olichasayo igunya unxamnye nommiselo kaThixo; abo ke banxamnye nalo, baya kuzigweba. Kuba abo balawuli bayinto yokoyika, kungekuko ukwenza okuhle, kodwa kukubi. Ngaba uyafuna ukukhululeka ekoyikeni igunya? Qhubeka usenza okuhle, kwaye uya kuba nodumo oluvela kuyo; kuba lingumlungiseleli kaThixo, wokuba kulungele wena. Kodwa ukuba wenza into embi, yoyika, kuba ikrele lisesibanjeni. Ngumlungiseleli kaThixo, umphindezeli ukuze abonakalise ingqumbo kulowo wenza okubi. Kukho ke isizathu esinyanzelayo sokuba uzithobe, kungekuphela ngenxa yengqumbo leyo kodwa ngenxa yesazela sakho. "(KwabaseRoma 13: 1-5)

Ngokuchaza ukubaAbadala ababavikeli nakuphi na umntu oxhaphaza abantwana ngokuphathwa gadalala. ”, iQumrhu Elilawulayo libeke endaweni yalo isikhundla esebenzayo ixesha  Ngokuqinisekileyo, asibaboneli abadala bemi benkampu kwiingcango zeekumkani, benika umntwana ohlukumezayo indawo efihlakeleyo ngaphakathi, ngelixa amapolisa efuna ukungena. Kodwa kuthekani nge i-passive Umxhaphazi umntwana angakhuseleka njani kumagunya? IBhayibhile ithi:

". . .Kaloku, ukuba umntu uyakwazi ukwenza into elungileyo aze angayenzi, kusisono kuye oko. ”(James 4: 17)

Ukuba ubuya kuva izikhalo zomfazi odlwengulwayo, okanye izikhalo zendoda xa ibulawa, kwaza akwenza nto, ngaba ubuya kuthatha njengongenatyala lolwaphulo-mthetho? Qui Tacet Imvume yeVidetur, Ukuthula Imvume yeZibonelelo. Ngokungenzi nto ukuzisa izaphuli-mthetho phambi komthetho, uMbutho unike imvume ngokuthe cwaka kulwaphulo-mthetho lwabo. Bazikhusele ezi zaphuli-mthetho kwiziphumo zezenzo zazo. Ukuba aba badala kunye neenkokheli zoMbutho bebengamaxhoba ezenzo zolwaphulo-mthetho, bangathula? (Mt 7:12)

Ngaba ikhona into esiyifunayo eshicilelwe kwiincwadi zomthetho zelizwe, okanye kwimpapasho yombutho, ezisixelela ukuba masenze ntoni kwiimeko ezinjalo? Ngaba kufuneka silinde inkonzo okanye kwiDesika yoMthetho ukuba ichaze ukuba isazela sethu masenze njani?

Yiyo le nto uPawulos ebhekisa kwisazela sethu kwivesi yesi-5 xa wayethetha ngokuthobela abasemagunyeni. Igama "isazela" ngokoqobo lithetha "ngolwazi". Ngumthetho wokuqala onikwe abantu. Ngumthetho uYehova awufake ezingqondweni zethu. Sonke sidalwe, ngendlela engummangaliso, "ngolwazi" -oko kukuthi, sinolwazi olusisiseko lokulungileyo nokubi. Elinye lamabinzana okuqala umntwana afunda ukuwathetha, ngokuhlala enomsindo omkhulu, kukuthi, "Ayilunganga!"

Kumatyala e-1006 ngaphezulu kwesithuba seminyaka ye-60 abadala e-Australia, bazisiwe yi-Legal kunye / okanye iDesika yeNkonzo njengoko kulisiko, basilele ukuchaza ingxelo Ongatshatanga Ityala lokuphathwa gadalala ngokwesondo kwabasemagunyeni. Nokuba kwiimeko apho babenamangqina amabini okanye uvumo kwaye ngaloo ndlela bejongana ne-pedophile eyaziwayo, basilela ukwazisa abasemagunyeni. Ngokuka-Roma 13: I-5, "isizathu esisinyanzelo" sokwazisa abasemagunyeni asoyiki ukohlwaywa ("ingqumbo"), kodwa ngenxa yesazela somntu-ulwazi esilunikwe nguThixo ngento elungileyo nengalunganga, ongendawo nolilungisa. Kutheni le nto umdala ongatshatanga engazange alandele isazela sakhe e-Australia?

IQumrhu Elilawulayo lithetha egameni lamaNgqina kaYehova kuyo yonke indawo ukuba 'bayakwenyanya ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana', kwaye 'bayazi ukuba abasemagunyeni banoxanduva lokujongana nezaphuli-mthetho', kwaye 'ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo lulwaphulo-mthetho', kwaye 'abakhuseli izaphuli-mthetho '. Nangona kunjalo, ngezenzo zabo, basebenzise inkolelo ephikisayo kwilizwe emva kwelinye njengoko kubonisiwe ngamatyala amaninzi asenkundleni alwiswayo kwaye alahleka-okanye nangaphezulu ngoku, azinziswa-kumazwe athuthukileyo, nangamaphepha eendaba amabi kunye namaxwebhu achazayo ukuba ipapashiwe kwaye yasasazwa kwiinyanga ezidlulileyo.

  1. Kuzo zonke iimeko, amaxhoba nabazali babo banelungelo lokuxela isityholo sokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana kwabasemagunyeni. Ke, amaxhoba, abazali babo, okanye nabani na omnye oxela eso sityholo kubadala bazisiwe ngokucacileyo ngabadala ukuba banelungelo lokuyixela kwabasemagunyeni loo nto. Abadala abagxeki nabani na okhetha ukwenza ingxelo enjalo.â € KwabaseGalati 6: 5.

Kwakhona, umthetho obhaliweyo uthetha into enye, kodwa umthetho odlulisiweyo sele ungqine ukuveza enye. Mhlawumbi ngoku izakutshintsha, kodwa injongo yolu xwebhu kukubonisa ukuba le yindlela izinto bekusoloko kunjalo. Njengoko kuchaziwe kwinqaku le-2, le ngu:indawo ekudala ikho kwaye ipapashwa ngokusisiseko ngokweSibhalo ngokwamaNgqina kaYehova .

Ayikho njalo!

Amaxhoba kunye nabazali okanye abagcini bawo bahlala beyekiswa ukuxela ngokusebenzisa ingcinga yokuba ukwenjenjalo kuya kuzisa ugculelo kwigama likaYehova. Ngokucaphula amaGalati 6: 5, uMbutho ubonakala ubeka "umthwalo" okanye uxanduva lokunika ingxelo kubazali kunye / okanye kwixhoba. Kodwa umthwalo wabadala ozicingela wedwa kukukhusela ibandla, ngakumbi abancinci. Ngaba bebethwele loo mthwalo? Sonke siza kugwetywa ukuba siwuthwala kangakanani umthwalo wethu.

Uza Uzah

Ukuqiqa obekusetyenziswe amashumi eminyaka ukuthintela amaxhoba kunye nabagcini babo ekuchazeni ulwaphulo-mthetho lokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo kwabasemagunyeni kukuba ukwenza oko "kungazisa ugculelo egameni likaYehova." Oku kuvakala ngathi yimpikiswano evumayo ekuqaleni, kodwa inyani yokuba umbutho ngoku uhlawula izigidi zeedola kwiindawo zokuhlala, kwaye nangakumbi, into yokuba igama abalithweleyo ngekratshi liyachaphazeleka kumanqaku eendaba angenakubalwa, i-Intanethi amaqela, kunye nosasazo lwevidiyo, kubonisa ukuba le yingqiqo ephosakeleyo. Mhlawumbi ingxelo yeBhayibhile inokusinceda siqonde kakuhle ukuba le ndlela yokucinga ikhukhumele kangakanani.

Kwakukho ixesha ngemihla kaKumkani uDavide apho amaFilisti ayebile ityeya yomnqophiso, kodwa ngenxa yesibetho esingummangaliso banyanzelwa ukuba bayibuyise. Ekuyibuyiseleni emva kwintente yomnqophiso, ababingeleli basilela ukulandela umthetho owawufuna ukuba uthwalwe ngababingeleli besebenzisa izibonda ezinde ezazigqitywa kumakhonkco ecaleni kwetyeya. Endaweni yokuba ibekwe enqwelweni. Ngexesha elithile, inqwelo yayiphantse yaphazamiseka kwaye umkhombe wawusengozini yokuwela emhlabeni. UmSirayeli ogama linguUza “wolulela isandla sakhe kwiTyeya yoThixo Oyinyaniso wayibamba” ukuze iqiniswe. (2 Samuweli 6: 6) Noko ke, kwakungekho mSirayeli uqhelekileyo owayevunyelwe ukuba ayichukumise. U-Uza wabulawa kwangoko ngenxa yesenzo sakhe esingenantlonelo kunye nokuzikhukhumeza. Inyaniso kukuba, uYehova wayekwazi kakuhle ukukhusela umkhombe. Wayengadingi mntu wumbi ukuba amncede ayenze. Ukuthatha uxanduva lokukhusela umkhombe yayisisenzo sokukhukhumala, kwaye yabulala u-Uza.

Akukho mntu, kubandakanya neQumrhu Elilawulayo, omele ukuthatha indima yokuba nguMkhuseli wegama likaThixo. Ukwenza njalo sisenzo sokukhukhumala. Emva kokuthatha le ndima kumashumi eminyaka ngoku, ngoku bahlawula ixabiso.

Ukubuyela kwiphepha lesikhundla, umhlathi 5 uthi oku kulandelayo:

  1. Xa abadala beva ngesityholo sokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana, banxibelelana kwangoko neofisi yesebe lamaNgqina kaYehova ukuze baqinisekise ukuba bayayithobela imithetho yokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana. (KwabaseRoma 13: 1) Nokuba abadala abanamsebenzi osemthethweni wokufaka isimangalo kwabasemagunyeni, iofisi yesebe lamaNgqina kaYehova iya kuyalela abadala ukuba baxele lo mbandela ukuba umntwana usemngciphekweni wokuhlukumezeka okanye apho sesinye isizathu esivakalayo. Abadala baqinisekisa ukuba abazali bexhoba bayaziswa ngesityholo sokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana. Ukuba umxhaphazi lowo utyholwayo ungomnye wabazali bexhoba, abadala baya kwazisa omnye umzali.

Sifunda nje eyabaseRoma 12: 9 evula ngala mazwi: “Uthando lwenu malungabi naluhanahaniso.” Kukuhanahanisa ukuthetha enye into uze wenze enye. Apha sixelelwa ukuba i-ofisi yesebe, nokuba awukho umthetho othile ofuna ukunika ingxelo ngezityholo zokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo, illyalela abadala ukuba banike ingxelo ukuba umntwana usemngciphekweni wokuhlukumezeka okanye sikhona isizathu esivakalayo.

Kukho izinto ezimbini ezingalunganga ngale ngxelo. Inqaku lokuqala nelona libalulekileyo kukuba ikhukhumele kwaye ichasene neZibhalo. Ayisiyongamadoda angafanelekanga ukugqiba ukuba uxele ulwaphulo-mthetho okanye hayi. UThixo umisele umphathiswa, abalawuli bale nkqubo yezinto, ukuba bajongane nolwaphulo-mthetho. Kuxhomekeke kubo ukufumanisa ukuba ngaba ulwaphulo-mthetho lwenziwe okanye cha; nokuba mayitshutshiswe na okanye hayi. Ayisiyo indima yegunya elithile njengeQumrhu Elilawulayo, okanye i-Service / Legal Desk kwinqanaba leofisi yesebe. Kukho iiarhente zikarhulumente ezichongiweyo nezixhotyiswe ukuba zenze uphando olusemthethweni ukuze kufunyaniswe ubunyani balo mba. Iofisi yesebe ifumana ulwazi lwayo ngesandla, ihlala ivela kumadoda anamava obomi anqunyelwe ukucoca iifestile kunye nokucoca iindawo zeofisi.

Ingxaki yesibini kule ngxelo kukuba iwela kudidi lwendoda ebanjwe ikopela umfazi wayo kwaye ithembisa ukuba ayinakuphinda iyenze loo nto. Apha, siyaqinisekiswa ukuba iofisi yesebe iya kuyalela abadala ukuba baxele nayiphi na imeko apho umntwana asengozini, okanye ukuba kukho esinye isizathu esivakalayo sokwenza oko. Sazi njani ukuba baya kuyenza le nto? Ngokuqinisekileyo ayisekelwanga kwipatheni yokuziphatha kwabo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Ukuba, njengoko besitsho, oku "kukuma okude kwaye kupapashwe ngokubanzi", kutheni behlulekile ukuphila ngokuvisisana nawo amashumi eminyaka njengoko kungaboniswanga ziziphumo ze-ARC kuphela, kodwa nakwizibakala ezenziwe esidlangalaleni kwinkundla ezininzi. Ukukhutshelwa kwamatyala apho uMbutho kuye kwafuneka uhlawule izigidi zeedola kumonakalo ngenxa yokusilela ukukhusela ngokufanelekileyo abantwana bawo?

  1. Ngabazali uxanduva oluphambili lokukhusela, ukuphepha kunye nokuyalela abantwana babo. Ke ngoko, abazali abangamalungu ebandla bayakhuthazwa ukuba bakuphaphele ukuthwala uxanduva lwabo ngalo lonke ixesha nokwenza oku kulandelayo:
  • Yiba nenxaxheba ethe ngqo kwaye esebenzayo kubomi babantwana babo.
  • Bafundise bona nabantwana babo malunga nokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana.
  • Khuthaza, ubakhuthaze, kwaye ugcine unxibelelwano rhoqo nabantwana babo. â ”IDuteronomi 6: 6, 7;

ImiZekeliso 22: 3. AmaNgqina kaYehova apapasha ulwazi oluninzi olusekelwe eBhayibhileni ukunceda abazali ukuba bafeze uxanduva lwabo lokukhusela nokufundisa abantwana babo. ”Jonga izikhombisi ezisekupheleni kolu xwebhu.

Konke oku kuyinyani, kodwa yeyiphi indawo ephepheni lokuma? Kubonakala ngathi kukuzama okucacileyo ukutshintsha uxanduva noxanduva kubazali.

Kumele kuqondwe ukuba umbutho uzimise njengorhulumente ngaphezu kwamaNgqina kaYehova. Oku kubonakala kwinto yokuba ngalo lonke ixesha kukho imeko yokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo, ixhoba kunye / okanye abazali bexhoba baye kubadala. Ekuqaleni. Bayathobela. Bayalelwe ukuba bawusingathe lo mbandela ngaphakathi. Uyakuqaphela ukuba akukho miyalelo inikiweyo apha, nangalo mhla wokugqibela, uxelela abazali ukuba baxele amapolisa kuqala, emva koko bawayise kubadala kuphela njengomsebenzi wesibini. Oku kuya kuba sengqiqweni, kuba amapolisa aya kuba nakho ukunika ubungqina bokuba abadala abanazo izixhobo zokuhlanganisana. Abadala banokuthi emva koko benze isigqibo esinolwazi ngakumbi, ngelixa eyona njongo iphambili yokukhusela umntwana ngokukhawuleza ibizakukhonzwa. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abadala baxhotyiswa njani ukukhusela umntwana osenokuba sengozini. Buthini, yeyiphi indawo, ligunya lini na kubo elinokuthi likhusele kungekuphela ixhoba, kodwa bonke abanye abantwana ebandleni abalugcinileyo, kunye noluntu ngokubanzi?

  1. Amabandla amaNgqina kaYehova abahlule abantwana kubazali babo ngenjongo yokuyalela okanye eminye imisebenzi. (Efe. 6: 4) Umzekelo, amabandla ethu akaboneleli okanye axhase izindlu zeenkedama, izikolo zangeCawa, iiklabhu zemidlalo, amaziko okugcina abantwana, amaqela olutsha, okanye eminye imisebenzi eyahlukanisa abantwana nabazali babo.

Ngelixa oku kuyinyani, kuphakamisa lo mbuzo: Kutheni le nto zininzi iimeko zokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo nganye ngekota ngaphakathi kwiNtlangano YamaNgqina KaYehova xa kuthelekiswa neecawe apho ikhoyo le misebenzi?

  1. Abadala bazabalazela ukuphatha amaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana ngovelwano, ukuqonda nobubele. (Kolose 3: 12) Njengabacebisi bokomoya, abadala bazabalazela ukuphulaphula ngononophelo nangobubele kumaxhoba nokuthuthuzela. (IMizekeliso 21: 13; Isaya 32: 1, 2; 1 Tesson 5: 14; James 1: 19) Amaxhoba kunye neentsapho zabo banokuthatha isigqibo sokubonana nengcali yezempilo yengqondo. Esi sisigqibo sakho.

Inokuba kunjalo ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ubungqina obupapashiweyo bubonakalisile ukuba akusoloko kunjalo. I-ARC ikhuthaze uMbutho ukuba ubandakanye oodade abafanelekileyo kwinkqubo, kodwa esi siphakamiso sakhatywa.

  1. Abadala soze bafune amaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana ukuba baveze izityholo zabo phambi komntu otyhola lowo. Nangona kunjalo, amaxhoba ngoku angabantu abadala angenza njalo, ukuba anqwenela. Ukongeza, amaxhoba anokuhamba kunye nomntu ofundisisa isini malunga nenkxaso yokuziphatha xa ehambisa isimangalo sabo kubadala. Ukuba ixhoba lithanda, isityholo singeniswa ngendlela yengxelo ebhaliweyo.

Isiteyitimenti sokuqala bubuxoki. Ubungqina basesidlangalaleni ukuba abadala bahlala befuna ukuba ixhoba lijongane nommangalelwa. Khumbula, eli phepha lesikhundla libekwa phambili njengendawo "yokuma ixesha elide kwaye ipapashwe kakuhle". Inqaku le-9 lifikelela kwinqanaba lomgaqo-nkqubo omtsha, kodwa kushiyeke ixesha ukuba lisindise uMbutho kubusuku obubi be-PR obuhlasela amaNgqina kaYehova eMntla Melika, eYurophu nase-Asia.

  1. Ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana sisono esinzulu. Ukuba umntu okrexezayo ulilungu lebandla, abadala benza uphando ngeZibhalo. Le yinkqubo enyanzelekileyo yenkolo ephethwe ngabadala ngokwemiyalelo yeZibhalo kwaye inqunyelwe kwimicimbi yokuba lilungu lamaNgqina kaYehova. Ilungu lebandla elingumxhaphazi ongumntwana ongaguqukiyo ligxothwa ebandleni yaye alisajongwa njengelinye lamaNgqina kaYehova. (I-1 Kor. 5: 13) Abadala bazisingatha izityholo zokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana ayisiyonto ithatha indawo yabasemagunyeni bisingathe lo mbandela.â € KwabaseRoma 13: 1-4.

Oku kuchanekile, kodwa kufanelekile ukuba sikhathazeke yinto engathethwanga. Kuqala, ithi “Uphando lweZibhalo… luqhuba ngokwenkolo… [oko kukuthi…… luthintelwe kumbandela wobulungu”.  Ke ukuba umntu udlwengule umntwana ze aguquke, kwaye ke avunyelwe ukuba aqhubeke nokuhlala elilungu, nangona kukho umda othile umisela amalungelo akhe exesha elizayo… yile nto? Yile nto ithethwa leli tyala? Naleyo ibiya kwamkeleka ukuba oku kulandelayo bekungumyalelo ovela kwiQumrhu Elilawulayo ngokushicilela ukuba umcimbi lowo kufuneka uxelwe kwabasemagunyeni ngokungqinelana nabaseRoma 13: 1-5.  Khumbula, sixelelwa ukuba esi sisikhundla esisekwe ngokweSibhalo!

Ukuxoxa lonto Ukuphathwa kwabadala ngezityholo zokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana asiyonto ethatha indawo yabasemagunyeni ukujongana nalo mbandela. , yingxelo yenyani. Elona thuba liphosakeleyo lokuphoswa kukuyalela abadala ngokukodwa ukuba amaRoma 13: 1-4 (acatshulwe kumhlathi) afuna ukuba bachaze lo mbandela.

  1. Ukuba kugqitywe kwelokuba umntu onetyala lokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo aguquke kwaye uza kuhlala ebandleni, kuthintelwe imiqobo kwimisebenzi yebandla. Umntu lowo uya kuyalwa ngokukhethekileyo ngabadala ukuba bangabinani bodwa ecaleni kwabantwana, bangabi ngabakhe ubuhlobo nabantwana, okanye babonakalise naluphi na uthando lwabantwana. Ukongeza, abadala baya kwazisa abazali babantwana abasebandleni ngesidingo sokubeka iliso kwindlela abahlangana ngayo nabantwana babo.

Lo mhlathi uqulethe obunye ubuxoki. Andazi ukuba ngaba ngumgaqo-nkqubo ngoku mhlawumbi otyhile kwileta yamva yabadala ers abaxhamli bayokwazisa abazali babantwana abasebandleni ukuba kufuneka babeke iliso kwindlela abahlangana ngayo abantwana babo kunye umntu oxhaphaza abantwana ngokwesondo, kodwa ndingatsho ukuba lo ibingengomgaqo-nkqubo kutshanje ngo-2011. Khumbula ukuba olu xwebhu lubekwa kwindawo ekudala ikho. Ndikhumbula isikolo sabadala seentsuku ezintlanu kuloo nyaka apho umba wokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo waqwalaselwa ixesha elide. Saxelelwa ukuba sibeke esweni umntu oxhaphaza abantwana ngokwesondo owayefudukela ebandleni, kodwa ke saxelelwa ukuba singabazisi abazali. Ndiphakamise isandla sam ndicela ingcaciso ngaloo ndawo, ndicela ukuba sazise bonke abazali abanabantwana abancinci ubuncinci. Ndixelelwe ngabameli bombutho ukuba asibalumkisi abantu, kodwa sibabeke esweni ngokwethu abo baxhaphaza abantwana. Le ngcamango yayibonakala ingenangqondo kum ngelo xesha, kuba abadala baxakekile kwaye banobomi babo bokukhokela kwaye ngenxa yoko abanalo ixesha okanye amandla okujonga umntu. Ukuva oku, ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba yayingumntu oxhaphaza abantwana ukuba angene ebandleni lam, ndiza kuzithabathela ngokwam ukulumkisa bonke abazali ngengozi enokubakho, kwaye ndiyigwebe imiphumo yoko.

Njengoko besenditshilo ngaphambili, oku kunokuba ngumgaqo-nkqubo omtsha. Ukuba umntu uyayazi le leta isandula ukuya kwizidumbu zabadala ekuthethwe ngazo apha, nceda usinike ulwazi nathi kwicandelo lezimvo ngezantsi. Nangona kunjalo, ngokuqinisekileyo akubanga yithuba elide lokuma. Kwakhona, kufuneka sikhumbule into yokuba umthetho odluliselwa ngomlomo uhlala ugqithisa okubhaliweyo.

Isiqinisekiso sokuba le meko sele kujongwene nayo nabadala ngeziluleko ezithile kunye neengcebiso ezinikwe umntu oxhaphaza abantwana ngokwesini iyahlekisa. I-Pedophilia ingaphezulu kokuhamba gwenxa. Yimeko yengqondo, ukugqwetha kwengqondo. UThixo ubanike “isimo sengqondo esingakholekiyo.” (KwabaseRoma 1:28) Ngamanye amaxesha inguquko yokwenene inokwenzeka, kodwa ayinakuphathwa ngokululekwa ngabadala ngokulula. Intsomi ka-Aesop Umlimi kunye neViper, kunye nentsomi yakutshanje I-Scorpion kunye ne-Frog Sibonise ingozi ebangelwa kukuthemba umntu ohlobo lwalo luguqukele kolu hlobo lobubi.

Isishwankathelo

Xa kungekho phepha lomgaqo-nkqubo eliquka konke elichaza ngokuthe ngqo into emele yenziwe ngabadala ukukhusela abantwana ebandleni kwaye bajongane ngokufanelekileyo nabantu abaziwayo nabatyholwa ngokuba ngabaxhaphazi ngokwesondo, kufuneka silithathe eli “phepha lokuma” njengelinge lokuncokola esidlangalaleni. Ngokujikeleza kumzamo wokujongana nehlazo elihlala lisanda kwimithombo yeendaba.

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