"Ndixelela wonk 'ubani apho phakathi kwenu ukuba angazicingeli ngaphezu koko amelwe kukuzicingela ngako, kodwa acinge ukuze abe nengqondo ephilileyo." - KwabaseRoma 12: 3
[Isifundo 27 ukusuka kwi-ws 07/20 p. 2 Agasti 31-Septemba 6, 2020]
Eli lelinye inqaku elizama ukujongana nemimandla emininzi phantsi komxholo omnye kwaye ke akukho namnye kubo owenza okusesikweni. Ngapha koko, ngenxa yokuba ingcebiso ibanzi kwaye ibanzi, abo bazalwana noodade ababambelele kwilizwi ngalinye leQumrhu Elilawulayo banokwenza iimpazamo ezinzulu kwizigqibo zabo ebomini ezisekwe kweli nqaku.
Eli nqaku leSifundo seMboniselo ligubungela indawo ezintathu, ewe, ezintathu, ukwahlulahlula esi sibhalo.
(1) ngumtshato wethu, (2) amalungelo enkonzo (kuMbutho), kunye (3) nokusebenzisa imithombo yeendaba!
Bathobeke Emtshatweni Wakho (isiqe. 3-6)
Umxholo wokuthobeka emtshatweni ugutyungelwe kwimihlathi emifutshane emine. Ukanti umtshato sisifundo esikhulu esinezinto ezininzi ekufuneka sizithathele ingqalelo, kodwa kuyacaca ukuba akukho nanye kwezi ejongelweyo okanye eyacetyiswayo.
Umthetho woMbutho ubekiwe kumhlathi wesi-4 apho uthi “Kufuneka sikuphephe ukungoneliseki emtshatweni wethu. Siyaqonda ukuba ekuphela kwesizathu esingokweZibhalo sokuqhawula umtshato kukuziphatha kakubi ngokwesini. (Mateyu 5:32) ”. Qaphela ithoni yokuyalela. Ngaba ngekhe kubengcono ukuthi, "Njengoko sonke sinqwenela ukumvuyisa uYehova kufuneka sizame ukunqanda ukungoneliseki emtshatweni wethu".
Kwakhona, xa sifunda isicatshulwa esikhankanyiweyo kwimeko, siyabona ukuba uYesu wayengawubeki umthetho njengoko umbutho ubonakala usenza njalo. Wayengazami ukuwuthabathel 'indawo noMthetho kaMoses. Endaweni yoko, uYesu wayezama ukuba abantu bawuthathe umtshato ngokungakhathali endaweni yoqhawulo-mtshato ngezizathu ezingenamsebenzi. KuMalaki 2: 14-15, kwiminyaka engama-400 ngaphambili, umprofeti uMalaki wayesele eyichazile ingxaki. Wacebisa “Nimele nizilinde ngokuphathelele umoya wenu [iingcinga zakho neemvakalelo zangaphakathi], kwaye kungabikho mntu uqhubana ngobuqhophololo nomfazi wobutsha bakho. Kuba yena [Yehova uThixo] ndiluthiyile uqhawulo-mtshato ”.
Ngaba uYesu (noYehova ngoMthetho kaMoses) wayesithi iqabane elihlukumezekileyo ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwasengqondweni alinakuwuqhawula umtshato? Ngaba bebesithi iqabane elihlukumeza abantwana alinakuqhawulwa mtshato? Okanye ukuba umlingane owayelinxila kwaye esela zonke iindlela zosapho zokuxhasa ngemali, okanye ikhoboka leziyobisi elala ukufumana uncedo, okanye iqabane eliqhubeka ngokungcakaza ngaphandle kwengeniso yosapho alinakuqhawulwa mtshato? Kuthekani ngombulali ongaguqukiyo? Bekungayi kuba sengqiqweni ukuthi bekunjalo kuba bekuya kuba kokungekho sikweni kwaye uYehova enguThixo wokusesikweni. Ngapha koko, kumzalwana okanye udade ofunda inqaku leMboniselo kwaye ngenxa yengxelo ekwisiqendu 4 eboniswe apha ngasentla, angahlukani okanye aqhawule umtshato neqabane lakhe, angabeka ubomi babo esichengeni, nobabo nabaphi na abantwana bomtshato.
Endaweni yokuba uYehova noYesu bachasane nokuzingca kwekratshi kwabaninzi emtshatweni ngexesha likaMalaki xa uYesu wayesemhlabeni nanamhlanje.
Isiqendu 4 sitsho ngokufanelekileyo “Asinakuvumela ikratshi lisenze sizibuze: 'Ngaba lo mtshato uzanelisa iimfuno zam? Ngaba ndifumana uthando olundifaneleyo? Ngaba ndingonwaba ngakumbi komnye umntu? ' Qaphela ukugxila uqobo kuloo mibuzo. Ubulumko behlabathi bungakuxelela ukuba ulandele intliziyo yakho kwaye wenze izinto ezenzayo nina nonwabile, nokuba oko kuthetha ukuphelisa umtshato wakho. Ubulumko obuvela kuThixo buthetha ukuba kufuneka "ungakhathaleli okwezilangazelelo zakho zodwa, kodwa ucinge nezilangazelelo zabanye." (Filipi 2: 4) UYehova ufuna ukuba ugcine umtshato wakho, ungawuqhawuli. (Mateyu 19: 6) Ufuna ukuba ucinge ngaye kuqala, ungacingi ngaye. ”
Imihlathi 5 & 6 icebisa ngokuchanekileyo “Amadoda nabafazi abathobekileyo abayi kufuna okokulungelwa kwabo, kodwa“ okomnye umntu. ”- 1 Kor. 10:24.
6 Ukuthobeka kuye kwanceda izibini ezininzi ezingamaKristu zafumana ulonwabo olungakumbi emtshatweni wazo. Ngokomzekelo, indoda egama linguSteven ithi: “Ukuba niyabambisana niza kusebenza kunye, ingakumbi xa kukho iingxaki. Endaweni yokucinga 'ngeyona nto ilungele wena mna? ' uya kucinga ukuba yintoni efanelekileyo thina? '”.
Nangona kunjalo, lelo kuphela kwengcebiso eziluncedo kwinqaku leMboniselo ngendlela ukuthobeka okunokunceda ngayo emtshatweni. Zininzi izinto ebekumele ukuba kuxoxwe ngazo ukubonisa ukuthobeka kuwunceda umtshato. Njengokunganyanzelisi ukuba unyanisile (nokuba unyanisile!). Ukuba kukho uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali oluncitshisiweyo, ngaba uya kulivumela iqabane lakho ukuba lithenge into abayifunayo ngokwenene, okanye ngaba uza kuyisebenzisela imali ubunewunewu, njl.
Khonza uYehova “Ngokuthobeka Konke” (isiqendu 7-11)
“IBhayibhile inemizekelo esisilumkiso yabantu ababecingela iziqu zabo. UDiotrefe ngokuthozama wafuna ukuba 'kwindawo yokuqala' ebandleni. (3 Yohane 9) U-Uziya ngokuzingca wazama ukwenza umsebenzi uYehova awayengamnikanga ukuba awenze. (2 Kronike 26: 16-21) UAbhisalom ngobuqhetseba wazama ukuphumelela inkxaso yoluntu kuba wayefuna ukuba ngukumkani. (2 Samuweli 15: 2-6) Njengokuba ezi ngxelo zeBhayibhile zibonisa ngokucacileyo, uYehova akakholiswa ngabantu abafuna ukuzukiswa. (IMizekeliso 25:27) Ekuhambeni kwexesha, ikratshi namabhongo zikhokelela kwintlekele kuphela. — IMizekeliso 16:18. ”
Ke, bazalwana noodade, ngubani "onendawo yokuqala" kwibandla lamaNgqina kaYehova lehlabathi namhlanje?
AyiloBhunga Elilawulayo? Kwiminyaka yakutshanje baye babalaselisa le meko, ngakumbi ukusukela kwiMboniselo kaJulayi 2013. Ngaba akunjalo ukuze babe njengo “UDiotrefe ngokuthozama wafuna ukuba 'nendawo yokuqala' ebandleni?
Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ubuza nantoni na efundiswa liQumrhu Elilawulayo, nokuba akukho ngqiqweni kangakanani na, njengale “sizukulwana sigxalathelanayo”?
Uya kubizwa ngo “ukugula ngengqondo ” bawexuki baza basuswa kubudlelane, bagxothwa ebandleni. (Jonga nge-15 kaJulayi 2011 kwiMboniselo p16 isitanza 2)
Wenza ntoni uDiyotrefe? Ngokuchanekileyo ngokufanayo.
U-3 uYohane 10 uthi wasasaza 'Kwintetho embi' malunga nabanye. “Engonelisekanga koku, akavumi ukubamkela ngentlonelo abazalwana; kwaye abo bafuna ukubamkela, uzama ukubathintela kwaye abagxothe ebandleni. ”
Bubuphi ubungqina obukhoyo bokuba uYesu wakhetha iQumrhu Elilawulayo njengekhoboka lakhe elithembekileyo ngo-1919?
Akukho nanye. Baziphakamisile ngokuzimisela.
Wenza ntoni u-Uziya?
"U-Uziya ngokuzingca wazama ukwenza umsebenzi uYehova awayengamnikanga ukuba awenze. (2 yeziKronike 26: 16-21) ”.
IQumrhu Elilawulayo nalo lalifana noAbhisalom njengoko ngobuqhetseba baphumelela inkxaso yamaNgqina ngokwandisa igunya labo, ngamanqaku kwi-Watchtower afundisa ukuba iimfundiso zeQumrhu Elilawulayo akufuneki zibuze, nokuba kubonakala kuyinto engaqhelekanga.
Ewe, iQumrhu Elilawulayo kufuneka lithobele ingcebiso yalo,Njengokuba ezi ngxelo zeBhayibhile zibonisa ngokucacileyo, uYehova akakholiswa ngabantu abafuna ukuzukiswa. (IMizekeliso 25:27) Ekuhambeni kwexesha, ikratshi namabhongo zikhokelela kwintlekele kuphela. — IMizekeliso 16:18. ”
Umhlathi we-10 ubonakala uyilelwe ukuqhubela phambili ngengqondo yokuba "ungaboni bubi, ungabeva bubi, ungathethi ngobubi" iingqondo ezixhaphakileyo phakathi kwabazalwana noodade. “Myekele kuYehova ukuba ahlele” ngulo myalezo xa ubona “Kukho iingxaki ebandleni kwaye uziva ngathi azisonjululwa kakuhle” okanye konke, okuhlala kunjalo. Isiphakamiso kukuba “Zibuze: 'Ngaba iingxaki endizibona zinkulu ngokwenene kangangokuba kufuneka zilungisiwe? Ngaba eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzilungisa? Ngaba yindawo yam ukuyilungisa? Ngokunyaniseka konke, ngaba ngenene ndizama ukukhuthaza umanyano, okanye ngaba ndizama ukuziphakamisa? ” Ewe, umbhali wenqaku leSifundo seMboniselo uzama ukukwenza ukuba ukuthandabuze ukutyiwa kwesazela sakho, ngombono wokuba uMbutho unakho konke phantsi kolawulo. Njengamahlazo akhulayo malunga nokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana. Ewe ewe, amapolisa ngekhe axelelwe njengoko kufanelekile ngokwasemthethweni, kodwa ungasigungqisi isikhephe, ayiloxanduva lwakho ukuzibandakanya, abadala kunye noMbutho bazi ngcono ukuba bacebisa ntoni.
Hayi, abenzi njalo. Ukuzikhusela wena kunye nabanye, ngakumbi abanye abantwana, jonga isazela sakho. Ukucacisa impendulo kaYesu kubaFarisi, kuye, lowo ufuna irhafu, akhuphe irhafu, kunye nabasemagunyeni abafuna ukuxelwa kolwaphulo-mthetho, nokuba mabini amangqina okanye akunjalo, xela olo lwaphulo-mthetho (Mateyu 22:21). Kufuneka sonke sikhumbule ukuba ukuphatha abantwana ngokwesondo lulwaphulo-mthetho, kanye njengokuba ukweba ezivenkileni okanye ukuqhekeza umntu okanye ukuqhekeza indlu lulwaphulo-mthetho. Ukuba unokuthi uxele ubusela, okanye ukukhuthuza, kufuneka uxele nesityholo sokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana. Ukuba uyasilela ukwenza njalo, endaweni yokuba ungazisi ugculelo egameni likaYehova, uya kuzisa ngakumbi, njengoko oko kufihliweyo kusoloko kuvela kungekudala okanye kamva, nemiphumo emibi.
Bonisa ukuthobeka xa usebenzisa imidiya yoluntu (isiqendu 12-15)
Isiqendu 13 isixelela loo nto “Uhlolisiso lufumanise ukuba abantu abachitha ixesha elininzi besebenzisa amajelo onxibelelwano banokuzibona bengamalolo kwaye bedandathekile. Ngoba? Esona sizathu sinokubakho kukuba abantu bahlala bethumela iifoto zemithombo yeendaba zentlalo ezibonisa izinto ezigqwesileyo ebomini babo, bebonisa imifanekiso yabo, abahlobo babo kunye neendawo abanomdla kuzo. Umntu oyibukelayo le mifanekiso unokugqiba kwelokuba, ubomi bakhe buqhelekile — yaye buthuntu. “Ndiqale ukungoneliseki xa ndibona abanye bonwabile ngeempelaveki kwaye ekhaya bendidikiwe,” uyavuma udade ongumKristu oneminyaka eli-19 ubudala ”.
Kuya kuba mnandi ukwazi ukuba zeziphi izifundo ezifumanise oku, kwaye kwinqanaba elingakanani. Njengesiqhelo, akukho sikhombisi. Nangona kunjalo, inokuba yinyani ngenxa yesizathu esinikiweyo. Umntu unokuphikisa ngelithi udade oneminyaka eli-19 ubudala okhankanyiweyo makangabi nomona. Kodwa, ngokufanayo, loo maNgqina athumela iifoto ezinjalo akawukhumbuli umgaqo wokungenzi ngokuqhayisa ngezinto zobu bomi. Lo mgaqo ubonakalisiwe kumqolo we-15 xa ucaphula u-1 Yohane 2:16. Eli candelo ubuncinci licebo elifanelekileyo.
Cinga ukuze ube nengqondo ephilileyo (isiqendu 16-17)
IQumrhu Elilawulayo liyathanda “Abantu abanekratshi bayaxabana kwaye bayazingca. Iingcinga nezenzo zabo zihlala zibenza bazenzakalise bona kunye nabanye. Ngaphandle kokuba batshintshe indlela abacinga ngayo, iingqondo zabo ziya kufiphaliswa zonakaliswe nguSathana. ”.
Masibe ngabantu abathobekileyo kunokuba nekratshi kodwa masingayiphambisi intobeko nentobeko engathandabuzekiyo. UThixo wadala umntu ngamnye wethu enesazela, ulindele ukuba sisisebenzise ngokuvisisana nelizwi lakhe, kwaye singavumeli abanye abantu basixelele indlela yokusisebenzisa.
Naxa ndandiliNgqina elikhutheleyo nelinenzondelelo, ngamanye amaxesha ndandikhe ndijonge umxholo wenqaku ndibuze ukuba ingaba uMbutho unawo nawaphi na amanqaku amatsha okanye awodwa. Ngokwazi kwam, basebenzisa amanqaku afanayo okuthenga ezivenkileni, amaxesha ngamaxesha, ukutshintsha iinkcukacha ukuze zilungele iimfuno zabo kwangoko, kodwa ikakhulu kukuhlaziya into endala, kaninzi-ninzi. Ngelixa ndingazimiselanga ukukhuthaza uqhawulo-mtshato, ndiza kubonisa ukuba izibonda ziphezulu kakhulu kumhla wethu. Iqabane elinenkohliso linokubutshabalalisa ubomi bakho kunye nemali yakho. Ndiyazi... Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Endaweni yokucinga 'ngeyona nto ilungele wena mna? ukuzila okubi. Ziijw's kuphela ezinokucinga ngoluhlobo. Banamava am kwaye uninzi lwezinto ezikwiwebhu ngale ndlela yokuhlela yonke into. Thetha nabadala kunye ne-r & f kwaye ufumana olu luvo xa ukhawulezisa iibhokisi njengoko usenza njalo.
Masikuthathe oku kwisiphelo sayo esisengqiqweni.
Ngaba uThixo uhlala yedwa ezulwini?
Ukuba akunjalo, ngaba kusengqiqweni ukucinga ukuba wanika oonyana bakhe bomoya ubuchule obufanayo bokucinga ngokwabo njengoko wabanika abantwana bakhe abangabantu?
Ukuba kunjalo, kusengqiqweni ukuba bambalwa oonyana bomoya abanokuyisebenzisa inkululeko yabo yokuhamba ngendlela yabo.
(Masibone ukuba ndingawophula na umtya wezinto ezimbi ndizifumeneyo.)
Ndiyayixabisa le ndawo, ngokwenene.
Awusiboni isizathu sokuba ufumane amagqabantshintshi. Onke amanqaku akho ebesengqiqweni. Ngokucacileyo umntu okhubekayo, akakwazi kuchaza ukuba kutheni.
(UMateyu 19: 1-12). . Uthe ke uYesu akugqiba ukuthetha ezi zinto, wemka eGalili waya kwimida yelakwaYuda phesheya kweYordan. 2 Walandelwa zizihlwele ezikhulu, waziphilisa apho. 3 Kweza kuye abaFarisi bezama ukumvavanya, baza bambuza: “Kusemthethweni na ukuba indoda iqhawule umtshato nomfazi wayo nangasiphi na isizathu?” 4 Ekuphenduleni wathi: “Anizange nifunde na ukuba lowo wabadalayo ukususela ekuqaleni wabenza baba yindoda nebhinqa 5 wathi: 'Ngenxa yesi sizathu indoda iya kumshiya uyise nonina ize inamathele.... Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
UKristu wafundisa izinto ezininzi ezinzima.
Zithande iintshaba zakho.
Jika esinye isidlele.
Shiya zonke izinto uze umlandele.
Ukuba bayamtshutshisa baya kutshutshisa abafundi bakhe.
Lindela ukuphulukana nosapho ngembuyekezo yosapho olutsha.
Ukunyamezela kude kube sekupheleni nasekufeni nasekuhlushweni.
Sisela ikomityi yakhe, sithwele umnqamlezo wethu.
Oku sikwenza kuba esithanda. Ekugqibeleni olo thando lwenza zonke izinto zibe nzima ukuziva zilula. Kuba njengenundu kwilangatye sitsalelekile kuKristu.
Xa uYesu wathi "Othe wamala umfazi wakhe, ngaphandle kwezizathu zokuziphatha kakubi ngokwesini, watshata omnye uyakrexeza", wayengathethi nje ukuba umntu onjalo wophula omnye wemithetho elishumi, engaphezulu komthetho kaMoses. Kodwa nalapho, uYesu wabonisa ukuba ukukrexeza sisizathu esivakalayo sokuqhawula umtshato. Ibhayibhile isenokungacacisi malunga nomngcakazi, umntu ongabondliyo ngabom, ophethe gadalala umntwana, umfazi obetha umfazi, kodwa kuyaphawuleka ukuba umthetho wangoku wamaJuda uyaluvumela uqhawulo mtshato ngesizathu sokukrexeza, inkohlakalo, okanye isimilo esingafanelekanga, phakathi kwezinye izinto. Ngaba uYesu wayengqwabalala... Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Njengomntu okhe wenza inkqubo yoqhawulo-mtshato ngokwesibhalo “ndingathanda ukujonga. Ngokukodwa, u Yesu wathi umntu oqhawula umtshato ngaphandle kwezizathu zokuhenyuza, aze atshate nomnye, ukrexezile. Ukrexezo kukutshata kwakhona ngaphandle kwezizathu zokuhenyuza. Kodwa ubomi abuhlali bucocekile kwaye bunikezela ukuvuma uhenyuzo xa iingxaki zomtshato ziba nzulu. Imithetho yangoku malunga nomtshato ayiyiyo imithetho yeBhayibhile, yenziwe ngabantu. Ukuba utshatile emntwini, kwaye bathatha ityala ngaphandle kokwazi kwakho kwangaphambili okanye imvume yakho, kwiindawo ezininzi, ukhona... Funda ngokugqithisileyo "
Ndiphendule ngaphambi kokukuphawula. Ewe ndiyakholelwa ukuba uYesu wayethetha into ecacileyo. Kungenxa yokuba uqhawulo-mtshato luvunyelwe ngumthetho oko akuthethi ukuba uThixo akakwazi ukubona izizathu zalapho. Ukuqhawula umtshato ukuze utshate nomnye umntu kukrexeza, nokuba uthini na lowo unetyala. Ndiqinisekile ukuba yile nto uYesu wayebhekisa kuyo.