Be Determined to “Let Your Brotherly Love Continue”!

– posted by meleti

[From ws1/16 p. 7 for February 29 – March 6]


“Let your brotherly love continue.”HEB. 13:1


Allegedly, this article analyzes the theme of brotherly love as laid out in the first 7 verses of Hebrews chapter 13.

Here are those verses:

“Let your brotherly love continue. 2 Do not forget hospitality, for through it some unknowingly entertained angels. 3 Keep in mind those in prison, as though you were imprisoned with them, and those being mistreated, since you yourselves also are in the body. 4 Let marriage be honorable among all, and let the marriage bed be without defilement, for God will judge sexually immoral people and adulterers. 5 Let your way of life be free of the love of money, while you are content with the present things. For he has said: “I will never leave you, and I will never abandon you.” 6 So that we may be of good courage and say: “Jehovah is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?” 7 Remember those who are taking the lead among you, who have spoken the word of God to you, and as you contemplate how their conduct turns out, imitate their faith.” (Heb 13:1-7)


Assuming that Paul is the writer of Hebrews, has he introduced the theme of brotherly love in verse 1, and then developed it through to verse 7, or is he merely laying down a list of “dos and don’ts”? You be the judge.

  • Vs 1: He speaks of brotherly love

  • Vs 2: Hospitality (love of strangers)

  • Vs 3: Oneness with those being persecuted

  • Vs 4: Loyalty to one’s spouse; avoid immorality

  • Vs 5: Avoid materialism; trust in God to provide

  • Vs 6: Have courage; trust in God for protection

  • Vs 7: Imitate the faith of those leading, based on their good conduct


Of course, with a little imagination, one can relate almost anything to anything, which is what the writer of this article attempts to do in the second half of the study. However, here Paul isn’t developing a theme based on brotherly love. Brotherly love is just the first of a list of counsel points.

If you look at these points, you’ll notice something familiar. These are the staple diet of Jehovah’s Witnesses. Often brothers and sisters will excuse the repetitive nature of their “spiritual nourishment” by saying that ‘we need these constant reminders’. If that were true, then it would appear that Jesus and the Bible writers really dropped the ball, because these “reminders” form only a miniscule part of the inspired Christian record. Yet, they form the bulk of what is fed to Jehovah’s Witnesses. The situation might be compared to a restaurateur who has a warehouse full of food and delicacies from all over the world, but has a menu as limited at that found at your local fast food joint.

If you are going to feed people the same thing over and over, you need to repackage it so that they don’t realize what’s happening. That seems to be the case here. We are led to believe we are going to learn about how to display brotherly affection; but in reality, we are getting the same old tired fare yet again: Do this, don't do that, obey us and stay inside or you'll be sorry.

The opening paragraphs set the stage for that theme.

“However, like the Christians in Paul’s day, none of us should lose sight of this key fact—soon we will face the most challenging test of our faith!”—Read Luke 21:34-36” – par. 3


The average JW will read "soon" and think 'any time now, certainly within 5 to 7 years.'  Obviously, we want to stay inside the organization if we are going to survive this test of our faith.  Of course, there is nothing wrong with maintaining a sense of urgency, but faith should never be based on fear.

Then in paragraph 8, we learn:

“Soon the destructive winds of the greatest tribulation of all time will be released. (Mark 13:19; Rev. 7:1-3) Then, we will do well to heed this inspired counsel: “Go, my people, enter your inner rooms, and shut your doors behind you. Hide yourself for a brief moment until the wrath has passed by.” (Isa. 26:20) These “inner rooms” may refer to our congregations.” (par. 8)


If you read the context of Isaiah 26:20, you will likely come to the conclusion that the prophecy applied to the nation of Israel, long before Christ came to the earth. You would not be out of line. Consider this application from the publications:

”This prophecy may have had its first fulfillment in 539 B.C.E. when the Medes and the Persians conquered Babylon. Upon entering Babylon, Cyrus the Persian apparently commanded everyone to stay indoors because his soldiers were ordered to execute any found out-of-doors.” (w09 5/15 p. 8)


Notice that this is a first fulfillment. What is their basis for claiming a second fulfillment? A careful review of our publications will reveal none. Essentially, there is to be a second fulfillment because the Governing Body says so. Yet, this same body recently told us that secondary applications—what are also called antitypical fulfillments—are going beyond the things that are written and from now on would be rejected as inappropriate. (See Going Beyond What Is Written)

Would not our Lord have indicated that Isaiah 26:20 was to have a future fulfillment for the Christian Congregation were that to have been the case? Instead, he reveals that our salvation will be by supernatural means, not through some action we must take ourselves. (Mt 24:31)

However, such a means for salvation doesn’t serve the purpose of those who would rule us and have us obey their every instruction. Fear—fear of not being in the know, of not being at the meeting when the life-saving instruction is doled out—is meant to keep us loyal and faithful.

Having instilled the proper fear of not being one of the chosen, the writer now makes us feel special.

“What does it mean for us to show brotherly love? The Greek term used by Paul, phi·la·del·phiʹa, literally means “affection for a brother.” Brotherly love is the type of affection that involves a strong, warm, personal attachment, such as to a family member or a close friend. (John 11:36) We do not pretend to be brothers and sisters—we are brothers and sisters. (Matt. 23:8) Our strong feeling of attachment to one another is summed up nicely in these words: “In brotherly love have tender affection for one another. In showing honor to one another, take the lead.” (Rom. 12:10) Combined with principled love, a·gaʹpe, this type of love promotes close companionship among God’s people.”


According to this, we are all brothers and sisters. In a large family, when all the brothers and sisters are adults, they are all on one plane; all equal, albeit different. Is that the case in the congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses, or does this quote from Animal Farm apply?

“All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others.”


There can be no question that true Christians should view one another as brothers and sisters, and in so doing, should view everyone else as superior. (Ro 12:10; Eph 5:21)

These are the sentiments to which we should aspire. But do these words speak of a reality in the congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses? There was a time when I believed they did. However, the fact is that there are a group of brothers in this family that are above being questioned, and with whom one can disagree only at great personal cost. Many have found that disagreeing with the elders, or worse, with teachings of the Governing Body, gets you in serious trouble. You will be pressured to change your mind and considered as divisive and rebellious if you don’t. Eventually, if you do not knuckle under, you will be shunned.

Is this the way it is in a real family? If you believe one of your fleshly brothers is saying things that are not true—things that misrepresent your father—and you speak out, would you expect instant rejection, even persecution? Imagine a family climate where all are afraid to express any opinion that might disagree with that of the oldest brother. Does that match the picture that paragraph 5 paints?

Paragraph 6 states:

“‘Brotherly love,’” according to one scholar, “is a relatively rare term outside of Christian literature.” In Judaism, the meaning of the word “brother” sometimes extended beyond those who were literally relatives, but its meaning was still restricted to those within the Jewish nation and did not include Gentiles. However, Christianity embraces all believers, no matter what their nationality. (Rom. 10:12) As brothers, we have been taught by Jehovah to have brotherly affection for one another. (1 Thess. 4:9) But why is it vital that we let our brotherly love continue?


A Jehovah’s Witness is going to read this and think, “We are so much better than the Jews were.” Why? Because the Jews restricted brotherly affection to other Jews exclusively, whereas we embrace people of all nations. However, the Jews accepted as brothers people of other nations as long as they converted to Judaism. Do we not do the same? When the paragraph states “Christianity embraces all believers”, a JW will perform a mental transposition and take this to mean, “We should embrace as brothers all Jehovah’s Witnesses”.   After all, we are the only true Christians, therefore only Jehovah’s Witnesses are true believers.

The Jews considered brotherhood status based on nationality. Jehovah’s Witnesses consider brotherhood status based on religious affiliation.

How is this different?

Christianity does indeed embrace all believers, but the Bible isn’t referring to believers in the peculiar teachings of a group of men, like the Catholic synod or the Governing Body of Jehovah’s Witnesses. A believer is one who believes in Jesus as the Messiah.

Yes, most believers have been misled. For example, most Christians believe in the Trinity and in Hellfire. But because a brother is in error, he doesn’t stop being a brother, does he? If that were the case, then I could not consider Jehovah’s Witnesses as my brothers, because they believe in false doctrines like an invisible presence that began in 1914, and in a secondary class of Christian who is not a child of God, and because they give allegiance to a group of men over Christ.

So take what is good from this Watchtower, but remember that we are all brothers while our leader is one, the Christ.  So submission to other brothers would amount to compromising our submission to the Christ.

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  • Comment by leaving_quietly on 2016-03-06 22:39:45

    This:
    Would not our Lord have indicated that Isaiah 26:20 was to have a future fulfillment for the Christian Congregation were that to have been the case? Instead, he reveals that our salvation will be by supernatural means, not through some action we must take ourselves. (Mt 24:31)

    Interestingly, our Lord DID give instructions. Not only by supernatural means as you stated at Mt 24:31, but just a few verses earlier in Mt 24:15,16: "“Therefore, when you catch sight of the disgusting thing that causes desolation, as spoken about by Daniel the prophet, standing in a holy place (let the reader use discernment), 16 then let those in Ju·deʹa begin fleeing to the mountains. 17 Let the man on the housetop not come down to take the goods out of his house, 18 and let the man in the field not return to pick up his outer garment."

    So, rather than going into our inner rooms, we are told to flee. Whose instructions will we listen to?

    • Reply by MarthaMartha on 2016-03-07 10:24:13

      Also, the instructions to flee were only to "those in Judea". I noted the same inconsistency with the cherry picked warnings from Matthew and Isaiah. Either Judea has some modern application that we'll be made aware of in due time, or it was instructions only for the Christians in Judea and we'll have supernatural direction when the Son of Man is revealed. There's no way I'll be going in any bunker or basement. To be honest, as an introvert, the whole article and study made me feel very uncomfortable. Forced love is not real. I've seen the reality of the conditional love that exposes the hypocrisy of paragraph 6. Being told that we must be best friends with the congregation members because God commands it, and because our salvation depends on us sticking together, made me feel like running for the hills.
      Which is what Jesus said....... ;)

    • Reply by sackcloth on 2016-03-07 15:22:57

      Just a thought on this, I believe these are those within the Body of Christ, once trampled, once oppressed, but turned in distress to the Father, then reunited with Christ. The whole of Isaiah 26 appears to lead to the New Covenant’s fulfillment. When oppressed, birth pangs brought only futility. “We have not brought salvation to the earth, and the people of the world have not come to life.” – life from the fulfillment of the New Covenant. Isa 26:18; 1 Thess 5:3 When awakened, they receive spiritual life by fleeing to the mountains of Judea – spiritual Israel, and away from their once oppressive existence. Matt 24:8; Heb 9:15; Gal 6:15,16

      “My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you?” John 14:2; Ezek 42:13,14; Rev 7:15

  • Comment by MarthaMartha on 2016-03-07 10:31:10

    Thanks, Meleti. I do enjoy reading your thoughts on the WT study articles, and appreciate the time you put into doing the reviews.

  • Comment by Dajo on 2016-04-14 10:35:20

    Hello Meleti,
    I was pondering some things today- the "inner rooms" (mentioned in your article above) if the "inner rooms" are the congregations, then that is where we all seem to be missing opportunities.
    If we as Christ's disciples are known "IF we have love among ourselves", what is the point of trying to convince others in "the work" we are known for.
    A comment by "LonelySheep" on DDT seems logical. This one raised the point that JW's are known by the preaching from door to door work and NOT by the love we have between each other.
    What if we all really showed that love? What if we all really started loving each other properly. The rich, well off in the congregations literally shared their wealth and money with ones who are needy among us?
    A real equalizing? This should be happening but it is not.
    Point being ...what if Jehovah's Witnesses suddenly stopped "preaching", closed ranks and started caring for each other. Giving to each one what each one needed. - interior decorating! For all to see, as our master said "by this...."
    Mormons and other charities are known for caring for people properly - whilst we excuse ourselves by saying we look after people spiritually.
    Thank you for all that you and the other contributors give as this is really getting at the crux of the matter.
    Kind regards and Christian love, I am slowly catching up with the other things on this site since I am relatively new.
    David

    • Reply by Meleti Vivlon on 2016-04-14 11:16:09

      It is interesting that you should raise this point since I'm currently working on a article about this very thing. :)

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