Olu luguqulelo lwenqaku likaJulayi 22, 2017 eTrouw, iphephandaba laseDatshi, lelinye kuthotho lwamanqaku anika ingxelo ngendlela amaNgqina kaYehova aphatha ngayo ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo.  Cofa apha ukubona inqaku lokuqala.

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Indlela amangqina kaYehova aqhuba ngayo uxinzelelo kuyenzakalisa kumaxhoba, ngophando lukaTrouw. UMark (37) waye waxhatshazwa njengomntwana kwaye walwa ukuba aqatshelwe.

 I-Groningen 2010: UMark uthatha ifowuni ngezandla ezitshisayo. Ungene emotweni kwaye unomathotholo udlala ngokuthula. Unika umveleli wesiphaluka uKlaas van de Belt, umveleli wamabandla asekuhlaleni. UMark, njengexhoba lokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, ebezama ukufumana ubulungisa kwiminyaka yokugqibela ye-15. Wayenele.

 Ukuba oku akusebenzi, uya kunikezela.

 Ifowuni ikhala. Namhlanje, uKlaas ebeza kuba nengxoxo noWilbert, umtyholwa. Incoko ethath 'isigqibo. Wathembisa uMark ukuba uza kucenga uWilbert ukuba acele uxolo. Oko kuthetha okuninzi kuMark. Ufuna ukushiya izinto zangaphambili. Ucinezela iqhosha lerekhodi, ukuze akwazi ukumamela umnxeba kamva.

Maka: "Hee Klaas, nguMarko lo."

UKlaas: “Molo Maka, sinencoko emnandi. Imo elungileyo kunye nokuzimisela okuvela kwicala likaWilbert. Kodwa ufuna uncedo olungakumbi. Ke ngoku sizakuqhubeka nale nto okwangoku. Kungoko ke sinokuliphelisa eli tyala. ”

Maka: "Kulungile, kodwa izakuba nini ixesha?"

UKlaas: "Uxolo, andikwazi. Injongo kukusebenza nzima. ”

Maka: "So uzondazisa?"

UKlaas: “Ewe, kunjalo, ubalulekile. Ndiyathemba ukuba singakwazi ukukunceda. ”

Maka: "Kulungile."

UKlaas: “Kodwa elinye icala nalo lifuna ukuncedwa. Oko kucace gca kule mvakwemini. ”

Ukudlala isikolo

 Yi-1994, iminyaka ye-16 ngaphambili. UMark uyi15 kwaye amanqaku akhe esikolweni amabi kakhulu. Ukusukela kwiklasi yebhayoloji malunga nee-STDs, akakwazi kulala ebusuku. Ndiyoyika ukuba inesifo. Xa efika ekhaya emva kwentlanganiso athi: “Mama, kufuneka ndikubalisele okuthile.”

Ucacisa okwenzekileyo kwi-6 kwiminyaka eyadlulayo, xa unyana oneminyaka eyi-17 oneminyaka eyi-bandla emthatha waya naye kwigumbi eliphezulu ngexesha lesifundo seBhayibhile ukuba "adlale isikolo" okanye "amfundele", ephethe iphepha lokuya ngasekhaya phantsi kwencwadi yakhe. ingalo. 

Kwiminyaka ye-3, ukusuka kwiMark 7th ukuya kunyaka we-10th, uWilbert wayeya kuvala amakhethini kwigumbi likaMark aze atshixe ucango. Phantsi amalungu ebandla ayefundisisa ilizwi likaYehova. Iqale ngokuphulula amalungu esini ngokuphulula amalungu esini, utshilo uMark. Kodwa ngokuthe ngcembe waya esiba mandundu.

Uxinzelelo yayiyeyona yanelisekayo yomlomo. Yile nto ebefuna ndiyenze kuye. Kwakufuneka ndicaphukise kwaye wayeya kuchukumisa ubulolo bam. Wabelane ngeminqweno yakhe yesini, malunga nomntu wasetyhini kwiholo umzekelo. Wayesebenzisa ubundlobongela. Uye wandibetha, wabetha kum.

UWilbert wayeneminyaka eyi-17, eneminyaka eyi-6, kwaye mde, utshilo uMark. Ndijonge kuye.  Kungenxa yoko ndamamela. Njengomntwana omncinci ndacinga: 'Le yinto eqhelekileyo.' "Into" esiyenzayo ayilunganga ", uWilbert, wayehlala esithi. Xa kugqityiwe, wayedla ngokuthi, “Awunakuxelela mntu, kuba uYehova uza kuba nomsindo.”

Umama kaMark wamamela ibali. “Kufuneka siye kwicandelo lolwaphulo-mthetho ngokwesondo lamapolisa”, utsho. Kodwa kuqala uxelele utata kaMarko kunye nabadala ebandleni 

Kumangqina kaYehova, abadala bangumphenyi nomgwebi ngaxeshanye. Baphanda ityala elinokwenzeka kwaye bayaphatha ngaphakathi, ukuba kukho ubungqina obaneleyo. Bacinga ityala kuphela ukuba kukho amangqina e-2 oxhatshazo, okanye ubungqina. Ukuba akunjalo, akukho nto yenziwayo 

Abadala bathembisa ngokuthetha noWilbert. Xa bejongana naye nesityholo, uyakhanyela yonke into.  Kuba uMartha kuphela kwengqina, ityala livaliwe.

Abadala okanye abazali bakaMarko abayifaki ingxelo. Umama uthe, “Ukuba singaya emapoliseni, kuya kuba neenqaku leendaba kunye nezihloko. Asifuni ukwenza igama lebandla lasekuhlaleni. ”

Izintlu ezintathu zokunkqonkqoza kwamadolo kwinqanaba elingaphambili leholo yobukumkani (igama lecawa yamangqina kaYehova).  Yinyanga ye-6 emva kokuba uMark exelele umama wakhe. UMark, utata wakhe kunye noWilbert baxelelwa ngabadala ukuba baphume ngaphandle okomzuzwana ukuze bathethe ngokuphathwa gadalala.

Xa uMark ehambisa uWilbert malunga nokuxhatshazwa, wenza ngokungathi yinto yokuvumisa. UMark ukhumbula ukuxelelwa ngabadala ukuba baxole kwaye balibale.  Ufumanisa esi sisabelo esingenakwenzeka. 

Ndaziva ndindedwa. Andinalo ibali lam naphi na. ”

Into emenze buhlungu kakhulu yinto yokuba omnye wabadala wabiza lo gadalala ukuba ngumdlalo wabantwana, uvele nje.

Kwiminyaka elandelayo, uMark uqhubeka nokuthetha nabadala. Wenza uphando kwi-intanethi ukufumana ulwazi malunga nendlela amaNgqina aziphatha ngayo iimeko zokuxhaphaza. Wenza iinkcazo-ntetho zePowerPoint azibonisa abadala. "Abayenzi into ngayo", ngokukaMark.

Okwangoku, uMark uthandana nentombazana yasebandleni. Batshata kwaye babalekele eDelfzijl. UMark oneminyaka eli-23 ngoku unengxaki yoxinzelelo. Awunakusebenza kwaye kufuneka ubonelelwe. Ukuphathwa gadalala kukuhlawula irhafu.

Uthatha isigqibo sokuyiqala kwakhona imfazwe kwaye esondela kulawulo lwezwe lamaNgqina kaYehova. Kwi-2002, ubhala ileta.  “Iyandikhathaza le nto kangangokuba ndiphupha ngayo xa ndilele. Ndixhalabile. ”Iileta ziya ngapha nangapha, kwaye akukho nto yenzekayo ngokwembalelwano, ngoku esezandleni zikaTrouw.

Lungisa

Xa uMark, emva kweminyaka efumana unyango, woyisa uxinzelelo, uyalahla imeko-ayinamsebenzi. Wenze njalo namaNgqina kaYehova kangangokuba walushiya umbutho.

Kodwa emva konyaka we-1, iminyaka eyi-30, uhamba abuyele eGroningen, kwaye iinkumbulo zibuyile. Apho esixekweni apho kwenzeke khona konke, uthatha isigqibo sokulwela ubulungisa kwakhona aze atsalele umnxibelelanisi wesiphaluka uKlaas van de Belt.

Ngo-Agasti u-2009 uMark unencoko noKlaas kunye nabadala bebandla laseStadspark, apho uWilbert asaya khona. Bathembisa ngokuphembelela uWilbert ukuba acele uxolo. Sele evumile ngentliziyo ukuba uxhatshazwa.

Ngentwasahlobo i-2010, uKlaas wayenencoko kunye noWilbert, malunga ne20 iminyaka emva kokuphathwa gadalala. Okwangoku uMark ucinga, ukuba oku akusebenzi, ndiza kuyeka umlo.

I-2010: izandla ezishushu, emotweni, uKlaas kwifowuni. Rekhoda ku, incoko iyaqhubeka.

Maka: "Ubona kwenzeka ntoni apha?"

UKlaas: “Ndicinga ukuba uza kuba nomdla. Ukuzisola kuya kuboniswa ngezinto ezingahambanga kakuhle. Nantso inqaku, uMarko ochanekileyo. Ukuqonda ukuba kwenzeka ntoni. Injongo ibikhona ngale mvakwemini. Akuncedi nganto ukuxoxa ngakumbi ngoku, kufuneka uncedo olungakumbi. ”

Maka: "Kulungile, icacile. Ndiza kulinda."

UKlaas: “Maka, kubonakala kulungile, ndingatsho? Ngenxa yokuvuma kwakho ukuthetha nathi kwakhona. Ukuba uyakholelwa kuYehova.  Phawula…. ndicela uqhubeke ukhonza uYehova.

(Ukuthula)

Maka: "ngelixesha, kuninzi okwenzekileyo."

Emva kwencoko yomnxeba, uMark akaqhagamshelwa ixesha elide. Ude afumane umnxeba komnye wabadala. Abazukuthatha manyathelo ngokuchasene noWilbert kuba uMark akazithobeli iimfuno zombutho.  Akalilo ingqina likaYehova. Xa ebuyile, baya kusebenza.

NgoJulayi 12, u-2010 UMark uthumela ileta kuKlaas nakubadala. Ngelishwa, awuzange undixelele malunga neengxoxo kunye noWilbert okanye ityala lam. Ndiyazi ukuba abanye, njengabazali bam, banomonde. Kuyabekeka. Andisenawo umonde. Ndizakuhamba ngokwam.

UMark uyakwazi ukushiya ixesha elidlulileyo ngasemva. Ucinga ukuba into kufuneka iguquke ngokusisiseko kwintlangano yamaNgqina kaYehova. Esi sisizathu sokuba abalise ibali lakhe. Yiparadesi ye-pedophiles.

Ezi ntsuku uWilbert uhlala kwibhloko ecaleni kukaMark. Kwi-2015, badibana kwivenkile enkulu. UMark akabulisi uWilbert; umjonga nje. Emva kwayo yonke le minyaka yokuphepha ukumjonga, unokumjonga ngamehlo.

Ukuphanda ngamaNgqina kaYehova

UTrouw uphande ngokubanzi gadalala phakathi kwamangqina kaYehova eHolland. Izolo Iphephandaba lipapashe amabali amabini abonisa indlela umbutho ukuphatha gadalala ngokwesondo kunye neziphumo ezibi kakhulu kumaxhoba. Amatyala aphathwa endlwini, uxinzelelo phantse aluzange luchazwe, ngokweengxoxo kunye namaxhoba, amalungu ex kunye namaxwebhu ezandleni zikaTrouw. Ngokwamaxhoba, abenzi bobubi bakhuselwe. Kwakha imeko engakhuselekanga yabantwana. Ezi zinto zifunyanisiweyo ziyahambelana nengxelo yeKhomishini yase-Australia epapashwe ngoNovemba malunga namaNgqina kaYehova.

UWilbert noMark ngamagama ayintsomi, amagama abo ayaziwa kumhleli. UWilbert wenqabile ukubalisa icala lakhe, wabhala ileta: "Izinto ezenzekileyo ziyazisola. Ndifuna ukushiya oku emva kwam kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba uyaqonda.

Ubunkokeli bebandla laseGroningen abafuni ukuxoxa ngetyala. Umphathi wesekethe uKlaas van de Belt uthi uzamile konke ukwenza uMark noWilbert kunye. Uxolo lubaluleke kakhulu kwixhoba. Uyazisola ukuba uMark umkile. Akafuni kuxoxa ngeenkcukacha zetyala. "Ndicinga ukuba kufuneka uwaphathe kakuhle la matyala, kwaye kulungile ukuba anokwenziwa ngaphakathi."

Addendum

Eli nqaku lalikhuphiswano ngoncedo lwesixa esikhulu samaxwebhu, imbalelwano kunye neengxoxo nabantu be-20, equka amaxhoba okuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, abadala be-4, abadala be-3 abasebenzayo, amalungu e-5 ex.

Amabali amaxhoba alandela iipateni ezifanayo kwaye axhaswa ngamaxwebhu abucala, amangqina eqela lesithathu kunye nokurekhodwa okurekhodiweyo okwangoku kweTrouw. Imikhombandlela njengoko ichaziwe kwinqaku le-intro isekwe kwincwadi yabadala eyimfihlo kunye namawaka eeleta ezivela kwiQumrhu Elilawulayo (elona ntetho iphakamileyo ngaphakathi kwintlangano) ethunyelwe kumabandla alapha kwaye oku kungqinisisiwe ngabo babandakanyekayo.