Inqaku likaTrouw: "Abadala Ngabaphandi, iijaji neeNgcali zengqondo"

Le yinguqulelo yenqaku likaJulayi 21, 2017 eTrouw, elona phephandaba liseDatshi, malunga noko kulindeleke kubadala bamaNgqina kaYehova xa besingatha amatyala okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana ngokwesondo. Eli lelokuqala kuthotho lwamanqaku abonisa indlela engeyiyo uMbutho ophethe ngayo ukuxhatshazwa kwabantwana ngokwesondo. La manqaku ayangqamana neNdibano yeNgingqi yamaNgqina kaYehova yonyaka kwaye akhululwa malunga nexesha elinye nelinye ukuchazwa yasasazwa yi-BBC.

Cofa apha Ukujonga inqaku lokuqala leDatshi.

Abadala ngabaphandi, abagwebi, kunye neeengqondo zeengqondo

"Ngaba kuqhelekile ukuba umzalwana achukumise ibele lakhe", oneminyaka eli-16 ubudala ubuza uRogier Haverkamp. Embindini wesitalato kwindawo yokuhlala yasedolophini, umdala uyayeka. Ngaba wayiva ngokuchanekileyo? Ecaleni kwakhe kukho udade oselula, ebekunye naye enkonzweni evakalisa isigidimi esonwabisayo sikaYehova.

"Hayi akunjalo" utsho.

Indoda ayichukumisi kwaphela ukuba iyatsho intombazana. Uye wachukumisa abanye kubandakanya intombi kaRogier.

Iziganeko zolo suku ngo-1999 kukuqala kwekhosi enzima yeHaverkamp (ngoku engama-53). Indoda yaseFlemish ibelingqina elithembekileyo likaYehova ebandleni lakhe. Ukhulele enyanisweni. Xa wayeneminyaka eli-18 ubudala wavalelwa entolongweni ngenxa yokwala ukuya emkhosini - amangqina kaYehova akakho kwimikhosi yehlabathi. Naye akazange.

Kwizivumelwano zeNdlu

IHaverkamp ifuna ukuphanda eli bali lokuxhatshazwa. Ngokuzimisela okufanayo nokungena kwindlu ngendlu, undwendwela umzalwana uHenry, otyholwa ngokuthinta okungafanelekanga. "Ndakhawuleza ndathethana nabanye abadala ababini njengoko ityala lalinzima ngokwaneleyo", utshilo uHaverkamp kwiminyaka eli-2 kamva.

Ukuphathwa kokuziphatha gwenxa ngokwesondo kuyingxaki phakathi kwamangqina kaYehova. Ukuphathwa kwala matyala kwenzeka ngaphakathi endlwini kwaye kuneziphumo ezibi kumaxhoba. Esi sisigqibo Ethembekileyo ufike emva kwencoko namaxhoba, amalungu kunye namalungu ex. Eli nqaku libali langaphambi kokuba lingqina elizamile ukwenza ityala ngale bali lokuxhatshazwa.

Kwinguqulelo eyahlukileyo ye Ethembekileyo Ibali likaMarianne de Voogd, malunga nokuphathwa gadalala kwakhe. Ngomso ibali likaMark, ixhoba lendoda.

La mabali abonisa ukuba amaxhoba oxhatshazo awalufumani uncedo olufanelekileyo. Abenzi bobubi bayakhuselwa kwaye akukho nto ingako iyenziwayo ukunqanda ukuba ingenzeki kwakhona. Oku kudala imeko engakhuselekanga ebantwaneni. Umbutho wamakristu-ihlelo ngokwamalungu athile anamalungu angama-30,000 eNetherlands kunye namalungu angama-25,000 eBelgium kwaye abizwa ngokuba yiWatchtower Society.

Ukuphathwa gadalala kuvame ukutshayelwa phantsi kombho, ngokutsho kwababandakanyekayo. Nokuba umntu angathanda ukunceda ixhoba ukuba lifumane ubulungisa, lenziwa ukuba alinakwenzeka ngobunkokeli.

Incwadana yemfihlo

Imiyalelo malunga nokuphathwa gadalala ibhalwe kumaxwebhu amaninzi afihlakeleyo, eli phephandaba lineekopi zalo. Incwadi enesihloko esithi: Yalusa umhlambi yenza isiseko. Bonke abadala bayayifumana le ncwadi, ngabo abanika isikhokelo ngokomoya ebandleni. Kugcinwa kuyimfihlo kuye nabani na ongenguye umdala. Amakholwa rhoqo awazi malunga nomxholo wencwadi. Ukongeza kule ncwadi kukho amakhulu eeleta ezivela kwiQumrhu Elilawulayo, ezona nkokheli ziphezulu kumbutho. Ime kwi-USA kwaye inika ulwalathiso kwihlabathi liphela. Iileta ziyahambelana nencwadi yesandla yabadala okanye zibonelela ngohlengahlengiso.

Kuwo onke la maxwebhu amangqina kaYehova athi akuthabatha nzulu ukuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana kwaye ukujonga ngokungamkeleki. Basingatha amatyala okuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana ngaphakathi; Bakholelwa ukuba inkqubo yabo yezobulungisa ingaphezulu kunaleyo yoluntu luphela. Njengamakholwa, baya kuphendula kuYehova ngezenzo zabo. Ayinakuphendula kwinkqubo yobulungisa behlabathi. Ukunikezelwa kwengxelo yoxhatshazo kunqabile ukuba kwenziwe.

Ubungqina obukholisayo

Emva kokubhengezwa kwinkonzo, uRogier Haverkamp ukhangela ubungqina. Ngokwencwadana enkulu yabadala, uvumo oluvela kulowo wenza isiphoso luyimfuneko okanye ingqina labantu ababini. Zonke iintombi ze-10, iHaverkamp iyathetha ukuqinisekisa ukuba uHenry wayebaxhaphaza: ubungqina obuninzi.

Kukho isiseko esomeleleyo sekomiti egwebayo: iqela labadala eliza kugweba ityala. Kwimeko embi kakhulu, umenzi wobubi uya kugxothwa. Akasanikwa mvume yokunxibelelana namalungu ebandla, nokuba akosapho. Kodwa oku kwenzeka kuphela ukuba kukho ubungqina obaneleyo kwaye umenzi wobubi akazisoli. Ukuba uyazisola kunamangqina kaYehova ayamenzela inceba kwaye uvunyelwe ukuhlala ebandleni kodwa kusenokufuneka anikezele ngamalungelo athile. Umzekelo, wayengasayi kuvunyelwa ukuba athandaze esidlangalaleni okanye abe neenxalenye zokufundisa. Le mithetho ichazwe ngokweenkcukacha ezinkulu kwincwadi yabadala nakwileta evela kwiQumrhu Elilawulayo.

IKomiti

Ikomiti idityanisiwe ukujongana nemicimbi ka-Henry. Xa abadala bebandla bemazisa uHenry ngesityholo, ngokukhawuleza ufumana inqwelo yakhe. Uqhubele eBheteli yaseBrussel-kwiofisi eyingqangi yamangqina eBelgium-apho akhalayo aze azisole ngezenzo zakhe kwaye uthembisa ukuba akasayi kuphinda enze loo nto.

Usuku emva kokuba uHenry eye eBheteli, iHaverkamp ibizwa ngumveleli waseBheteli uLouis de Wit. "Ukuzisola okuboniswe nguHenry kunyanisekile", iijaji zikaWit ngokweHaverkamp. Uyakhumbula ukuba u-de Wit wabamangalela ukuba bangamsusi kubudlelane uHenry. Ikomiti iya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba, izinto zeHaverkamp, ​​de Wit ayivumelekanga ukuba izame ukuphembelela isigqibo sabo. Kodwa amanye amalungu ekomiti amabini anikezela kumveleli. Ukuzisola kukaHenry kuyinyani bathi. Kuba ngoku uninzi, ityala alisaqhubeki.

IHaverkamp inomsindo. Uyakhumbula ukuba ngexesha lokuncokola noHenry, ubeka ityala lokuba intombi kaHaverkamp inecala xa yayimlukuhlile. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukuzisola kwakhe akuyonyani, kubiza iHaverkamp. Umntu ozisolayo akazami kusola abanye ngeempazamo nakwizenzo zabo. Ingakumbi hayi ixhoba. Ikomiti igweba ukuba uHenry kufuneka axolise kumantombazana kwaye aqhubeke nokwenza njalo. IHaverkamp ayiziva ngathi ubulungisa benziwe. Ngaphezulu koko woyika ukuba uHenry uya kuphinda abe ngumoni kwixesha elizayo. Ndicinga ukuba le ndoda ifuna uncedo kwaye eyona ndlela yokuyinceda kukumxela emapoliseni. ”

Ukwenza iNgxelo

Ukuya emapoliseni ayisiyonto iqhelekileyo kumangqina. Umbutho ukholelwa ekubeni akulunganga ukuzisa umzalwana phambi kwenkundla. Ukanti imiyalelo kwincwadi yesandla yabadala ithi ixhoba alinakuthintelwa ukuba liye emapoliseni liyokwenza ingxelo. Lo mgaqo ulandelwa kwangoko sisibhalo: Gal 6: 5: "Elowo uya kuwuthwala owakhe umthwalo." Ngokwenyani, amaxhoba kunye nabo babandakanyekayo bayadimazeka kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bavunyelwe ukuya emapoliseni, ngokoninzi lwamaxhoba kunye nabadala ababethetha Ethembekileyo.

Omnye umdala, owayeliphethe ityala lokuxhaphaza ngaphambili wathi ingxelo kumapolisa ayikwazanga ukujongana noku. Akukho mdala unokuthatha inyathelo lokuqala ukwenza ingxelo. Kufuneka sikhusele igama likaYehova, ukuthintela amabala kwigama lakhe. Banoloyiko lokuba ilokhwe yabo emdaka iyaziwa ngabo bonke. Kuba lo mntu mdala usengqina, igama lakhe alikho.

AkukhoNgxelo

Abaphathi eBheteli beva amarhe okuba uHarverkamp ucinga ngokwenza ingxelo yamapolisa malunga noHenry. Ubizwa kwangoko. NgokukaHaverkamp, ​​umphathi uDavid Vanderdriesche umxelela ukuba ayingomsebenzi wakhe ukuya emapoliseni. Ukuba nabani na uya emapoliseni kufanele ukuba ulixhoba. Kwaye akufuneki bakhuthazwe ukuba bahambe, utsho uVanderdriesche.

Uqhanqalazo lwaseHaverkamp, ​​kufuneka kwenzeke okuthile ukukhusela abanye abantwana ebandleni. Ngokutsho kwakhe, uVanderdriesche umxelela kwangoko ukuba abaveleli baseBheteli bagqibe kwelokuba kungabikho ngxelo. Ukuba uqhubela phambili, yena, uHaverkamp, ​​uya kuphulukana nawo onke amalungelo akhe.

IHaverkamp ngumdala kwaye ineenkokeli ezininzi kunye noxanduva lokufundisa. Ukongeza nguvulindlela, isihloko osifumana xa uchitha ngaphezulu kweeyure ezingama-90 ngenyanga enkonzweni. IHaverkamp: "Ndanikezela kuxinzelelo lwesoyikiso".

Nokuba uDe Wit, uVanderdriesche waseBrussels eBheteli akasabinakho kwezi ziganeko. Isebe lezomthetho kwi-Brussels eBheteli lithetha ukuba ngenxa yezizathu zetyala (izizathu zokuziphatha) abakwazi ukuphawula amatyala athile.

Procedure

URogier Haverkamp uzimisele ekwenzeni imisebenzi yakhe ebandleni lakhe. Uyayazi yonke imigaqo, ade afundise nabanye abadala. Kodwa nomdala onamava njengoHaverkamp akakwazi kuchaza indlela efanelekileyo yokuphathwa kwamatyala okuphathwa gadalala. Umzobo osekwe kwincwadi yabadala kunye neeleta ezivela kwiQumrhu Elilawulayo, ezolula amaphepha ama-5, kufanele ukuba zimqinisekise ukuba akukho zimpazamo azenzileyo. Amadoda akhokela ikomiti kwaye anike isigwebo kumatyala anzima afana nokuphathwa gadalala, ngogesi okanye abaqhubi beebhasi ebomini babo obuqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo kumaNgqina angumphandi, ijaji kunye nesayikholojisti bonke bebodwa. Abadala abafane baziqhelanise nemithetho ithi iHaverkamp. Uninzi lwabo alufanelanga kwaphela ukujongana nala matyala. Kufana nokuba ubuza umntu ophahleni, 'Ngaba ungathanda ukuba ngumgwebi?' ”

UHenry uphuma eVlaanderen emva kwezi ziganeko, nangona yena eliNgqina. Kwiminyaka elandelayo, eqhawula umtshato nomfazi wakhe aze atshate nomnye umntu, uyekiswe kubudlelane ngenxa yoku. Kwi-2007, ufuna ukubuyela ebandleni. UHenry ubhalela iBheteli eseBrussels ileta: Ndicela uxolo ngokunyaniseka ngentlungu endiyenzileyo ebandleni nasegameni likaYehova.

Uxolelo ngokunyaniseka

UHenry ubuyela kwidolophu yakudala kodwa ngoku utyelele ibandla elahlukileyo. IHaverkamp isekwelinye ibandla kwaye iva ngokubuya kukaHenry kwaye ufunda namantombazana amabini kunye neentombi zikaHenry.

IHaverkamp iyamangaliswa. Ubuza umdala kwibandla likaHenry, ukuba bayakwazi na ukuxhatshazwa kwakhe kwabantwana kwangaphambili. Umdala akayazi le nto kwaye akayikholelwa iHaverkamp. Emva kokuba ebuzile, umphathi wesixeko uyabungqina ubunyaniso baloo mazwi. Ukanti uHenry uvumelekile ukuba aqhubeke nesifundo sakhe seBhayibhile kwaye abadala bebandla likaHenry abenziwa baziswe ngexesha lakhe elidlulileyo. “Ndizakumjonga”, utshilo umphathi wesixeko.

Nabani na otyholwa ngokuxhaphaza, engqinisisiweyo okanye akunjalo, kufuneka ajongwe-ke chaza imigaqo kwincwadi yesandla yabadala. Awuvumelekanga unxibelelwano olusondeleyo nabantwana; Kwimeko yokufuduka, ifayile kufuneka ithunyelwe kunye nebandla elitsha ukuze bayazi imeko-ngaphandle kokuba iBheteli ithathe isigqibo emva kovavanyo olunzulu ukuba umenzi wobubi akasengobungozi.

Ingxelo yokulandela

Ngo-2011, kwiminyaka eli-12 emva kolo suku lwenkonzo, uRogier Haverkamp uyayishiya intlangano yamaNgqina kaYehova. Ugqiba kwelokuba axele uHenry. Amapolisa ayaphanda. Umhloli utyelela onke amabhinqa akhulileyo uHenry aphethwe gadalala. Basengamangqina kaYehova. Kucacile kumhloli ukuba kukho into eyenzekileyo, uxelela iHaverkamp. Kodwa akukho namnye kwabafazi ofuna ukuthetha. Abafuni kungqina ngokuchasene nomzalwana wabo, batsho. Ngaphezulu kwetyala lokuxhatshazwa lidala kakhulu ukuba lingaya enkundleni. Amapolisa ade aphanda ukuba ngaba ikho enye into eyenzekileyo kutshanje ukuze ityala lingenziwa, kodwa akukho bungqina bufumanekayo.

URogier Haverkamp usazisola kuba engazange aye emapoliseni ngelo xesha. IHaverkamp: “Bendinoluvo lokuba uxanduva lukaDe Wit noVanderdriesche. Ndacinga ukuba, kufuneka ndibamkele igunya abalinikwe nguThixo. ”

(Amagama atshintshiwe ngenxa yezizathu zabucala. Amagama abo okwenene ayaziwa kwintatheli.)

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