Approaching the 2015 Memorial – Part 3

[This post is contributed by Alex Rover]


 
There is one Lord, one faith, one baptism and one hope to which we are called. (Eph 4:4-6) It would be blasphemous to say there are two Lords, two baptisms or two hopes, since Christ said there would be just one flock with one shepherd. (John 10:16)
Christ shared only a single loaf of bread, which he broke and, after prayer, gave to his apostles, saying “This is my body which is given to you”. (Luke 22:19; 1Co 10:17) There is but one true loaf of bread, and it is a gift of Christ to you.
Are you worthy to receive this gift?
 

Happy are the meek


The Beatitudes (Mt 5:1-11) describe Christ’s meek sheep, who will be called children of God, see God, be satisfied, shown mercy, comforted, and will inherit both heaven and earth.
Meek ones will be inclined to say they are unworthy. Moses said of himself: “O my Lord, I am not an eloquent man, neither in the past nor since you have spoken to your servant, for I am slow of speech and slow of tongue.” (Exod 4:10) John the Baptist said he was not worthy to carry the sandals of the one who would come after him. (Mt 3:11) And a centurion said: “Lord, I am not worthy that you should enter under my roof”. (Mt 8:8)
The very fact that you question your worthiness is evidence of your meekness. Humility comes before honor. (Pr 18:12; 29:23)
 

Partaking Unworthily


Perhaps you have reflected on the words in 1 Corinthians 11:27:

“Whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of the body and the blood of the Lord.”


One consideration is that by partaking in an unworthy manner, one becomes guilty of the body and the blood of the Lord. Of Judas, Scripture states it would be better for him if he had never been born. (Mt 26:24) We would not want to share in the fate of Judas by partaking unworthily. Understandably then, Jehovah’s Witnesses have used this Scripture as a deterrent for would-be partakers.
It should be noted that some translations use the word “unworthily”. This can confuse the reader, because we all "have sinned and fall short of the glory of God", thus none of us is worthy. (Rom 3:23)  Instead, partaking in an unworthy manner, as described in scripture, reveals an act of contempt for Christ’s gift.
We may think of the analogy with contempt of court. Wikipedia describes this as the offense of being disobedient or disrespectful toward a court of law and its officers in the form of behavior that opposes or defies the authority, justice and dignity of the court.
The one who defiantly doesn't partake is in 'contempt of Christ' due to disobedience, but the one who partakes in an unworthy manner shows contempt due to disrespect.
An illustration may help us understand this better. Imagine your house is on fire, and your neighbor rescues you. However, in the process of saving you, he dies. How would you approach his memorial? The same dignity is what Christ requires of us when approaching his memorial.
Also, imagine you afterward started engaging in a behavior that puts your life at risk. Wouldn’t this show contempt for your neighbor’s life, since he died so that you may live? Thus Paul wrote:

“And he died for all so that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised.” (2Co 5:15)


Since Christ gave his life for you, how you view and act toward his gift of your life demonstrates whether you would partake in a worthy manner or not.
 

Examine Yourself


Before partaking, we are told to examine ourselves. (1Co 11:28) The Aramaic Bible in Plain English likens this self-examination to a searching of one’s soul. This means that we don’t make a light-hearted decision to partake.
In fact, such examination involves serious reflection on your feelings and beliefs so that, if you make the decision to partake, you will partake with conviction and understanding. Partaking signifies that we understand our sinful state and need for redemption. It is therefore an act of humility.
If upon self-examination we find ourselves deeply aware of our need of forgiveness for our sins, and we find that our hearts are in the right condition toward Christ’s ransom, then we do not partake in an unworthy way.
 

Made Worthy


In reference to the day when the Lord Jesus will be revealed from heaven with his mighty angels, when he comes to be glorified among his anointed followers, Paul, Silvanus and Timothy used to pray that our God would make us worthy of his calling through undeserved kindness. (2Th 1)
This indicates that we are not automatically worthy, but only through God’s and Christ’s grace. We become worthy as we bear much fruit. All God’s children have the spirit operate upon them, developing Christian qualities. It can take time, and our Heavenly Father is patient, but bearing such fruit is essential.
It is proper that we follow the example of our first century brothers and pray for ourselves and each other that God may help us be worthy of his calling. As little children, we are absolutely certain of our Father’s love for us, and that he will give us any and all help we need to succeed. We sense his protection and guidance, and follow his direction so that it may go well with us. (Eph 6:2-3)
 

A Single Lost Sheep


What made the one little sheep worthy of the full attention of the Shepherd? The sheep became lost! So Jesus Christ said there would be great rejoicing over a single sheep found and returned to the flock. If you feel unworthy and lost – what makes you worthy over all Christ’s other sheep to receive such love and care?

“When he finds it, he joyfully puts it on his shoulders and goes home. Then he calls his friends and neighbors together and says, ‘Rejoice with me; I have found my lost sheep.’ I tell you that in the same way there will be more rejoicing in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine righteous persons who do not need to repent.” (Luke 15:5-7 NIV)


The parallel parable of the lost coin and parable of the lost son convey the same truth. We do not consider ourselves worthy! The lost son said:

“Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.” (Luke 15:21 NIV)


Yet all three parables in Luke chapter 15 teach us that even if we are not worthy by our own standards, our Heavenly Father loves us still. The apostle Paul understood this so well because he carried the burden of his murderous past when he persecuted God’s sheep, and needed this forgiveness and love not less than we do. Notice his beautiful conclusion:

“For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,


Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Rom 8:38-39 KJV)


 

The Covenant in His Blood


In the same way as with the bread, Jesus took the cup after saying: “This cup is the covenant in my blood; do this, as often as you drink it, in remembrance of me.” (1Co 11:25 NIV) Drinking the cup is in remembrance of Christ.
The first covenant with Israel was a covenant for a nation through the Mosaic Law. God’s promises to Israel have not become invalid by the new covenant. Jesus Christ is also the root of the olive tree. Jews were broken off as branches because of unbelief in Christ, although natural Jews are natural branches. Sadly, not many Jews remain connected to the root of Israel, but the invitation to accept Christ remains open to them. Those of us who are gentiles are not natural branches, but we have been grafted in.

“And you, though a wild olive shoot, have been grafted in among the others and now share in the nourishing sap from the olive root […] and you stand by faith.” (Rom 11:17-24)


The olive tree represents the Israel of God under the new covenant. A new nation does not mean the old nation is entirely disqualified, just like a new earth does not mean the old earth will be destroyed, and a new creation does not mean that our current bodies evaporate somehow. Likewise a new covenant doesn't mean the promises to Israel under the old covenant have been undone, but it means a better or renewed covenant.
Per the prophet Jeremiah, our Father promised the coming of a new covenant which he would make with the house of Israel and the house of Judah:

“I will put my law within them, and I will write it on their hearts. And I will be their God, and they shall be my people.” (Jer 31:32-33)


Is Jehovah our Father YOUR God, and have YOU become part of HIS PEOPLE?
 

A Most Sacred Night


On Nisan 14 (or as often we drink of the cup and eat the loaf), we remember Christ’s love for mankind, and Christ’s love for us personally. (Luke 15:24) We pray that you may be motivated to “Seek the Lord while he makes himself available; call to him while he is nearby!” (Isaiah 55:3, 6; Luke 4:19; Isaiah 61:2; 2Co 6:2)
Do not let fear of man rob you of your joy! (1 John 2:23; Mat 10:33)

“For who is going to harm you if you are devoted to what is good? But in fact, if you happen to suffer for doing what is right, you are blessed. But do not be terrified of them or be shaken. But set Christ apart as Lord in your hearts and always be ready to give an answer to anyone who asks about the hope you possess. Yet do it with courtesy and respect, keeping a good conscience, so that those who slander your good conduct in Christ may be put to shame when they accuse you. For it is better to suffer doing good, if God wills it, than for doing evil.” (1Pe 3:13-17)


Although we are not worthy in and of ourselves, we allow God’s love to make us worthy. Set apart as his Holy possession in this wicked world, we let our love for our Father and our neighbors shine as a light that cannot be extinguished. Let’s bear much fruit, and proclaim boldly that OUR KING CHRIST JESUS DIED, BUT IS RISEN.


Unless otherwise noted, all quotes are from the NET Translation.
 

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  • Comment by Anonymous on 2015-03-30 18:53:22

    Alex, You said, "The Beatitudes (Matt 5:1-11) describe Christ's meek sheep, who will be called children of God, see God, be satisfied, shown mercy, comforted, and will inherit both heaven and earth."
    Can I ask you please, in what sense do you think we will inherit heaven?
    Skye

    • Reply by Alex Rover on 2015-03-30 19:40:36

      Hi, I am really referring to the "kingdom of heaven", the heavenly inheritance.
      Mat 25:34 KJV
      "Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world"
      Mat 5:3
      "the kingdom of heaven belongs to them."
      All things in Heaven and Earth were made for Christ and through Christ.
      Col 1:16 KJV
      For by him were all things created, that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, or dominions, or principalities, or powers: all things were created by him, and for him"
      All things in Heaven and Earth are given to Christ.
      Mat 28:18 KJV
      "And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth."
      Finally Jesus will put his faithful disciples in charge of all his belongings, which include all things in the heavens made for him:
      Mat 24:47 KJV
      Verily I say unto you, That he shall make him ruler over all his goods.
      In short, you can think that a husband doesn't withhold anything to his wife, when they become one flesh. All that belongs to him is hers, from the perspective of anyone outside the marriage.

      • Reply by Anonymous on 2015-03-30 19:56:12

        Alex, I understand, thank you. Skye

      • Reply by Jesusjeffrey on 2015-04-01 23:41:37

        Hi Alex Rover. By this quote "God’s promises to Israel have not become invalid by the new covenant" do you mean the nation of Israel is in position today as a fulfilment of Gods promises to them of old?

        • Reply by Alex Rover on 2015-04-02 09:15:39

          The promises to Israel of old carry on today in the "Israel of God". The diverse nation of modern Israel has little to do with the natural Israel of old, yet those who trace their lineage to natural Israel and practice the Law of Moses but reject Christ today are like natural branches of the olive tree that are cut off.
          Israel has not been deleted and replaced - in the sense it is uprooted and substituted all together. All Jehovah's promises to Israel of old will come true, because the Israel of God, the nation to whom we are invited, IS Israel.
          By the new covenant we gentiles of faith are grafted in the olive tree that is Israel. We are God's people now, but first the Jews. Jesus was sent to the Jews, to preserve of the olive tree.
          ISRAEL
          This is said to natural Jews under the Law:
          Exodus 19:6 "and you will be to me a kingdom of priests and a holy nation.' These are the words that you will speak to the Israelites."
          Deuteronomy 7:6
          For you are a people holy to the LORD your God. The LORD your God has chosen you out of all the peoples on the face of the earth to be his people, his treasured possession.
          ISRAEL OF GOD = FAITHFUL ISRAEL
          This is said to natural Jews who believed in Christ:
          1 Peter 2:9-10
          But you are A CHOSEN RACE, A royal PRIESTHOOD, A HOLY NATION, A PEOPLE FOR God's OWN POSSESSION, so that you may proclaim the excellencies of Him who has called you out of darkness into His marvelous light; for you once were NOT A PEOPLE, but now you are THE PEOPLE OF GOD; you had NOT RECEIVED MERCY, but now you have RECEIVED MERCY.
          GENTILES BECOME PART OF ISRAEL OF GOD
          Gentiles are now united under one shepherd, Jesus Christ.
          John 10:16 "I have other sheep that are not of this sheep pen. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd."
          Eph 2:14 "For he [Jesus Christ] is our peace, the one who made both groups into one and who destroyed the middle wall of partition, the hostility"
          ~~
          Today, little has changed for natural Jews since the first century. Their temple has been destroyed so they can no longer keep the commandments and receive relative forgiveness. Where is the ark of the covenant, the high priest, their temple in Jerusalem?
          Since they are natural branches they can be grafted in easily, but they need to accept their own Messiah.

        • Reply by Chris on 2015-04-05 12:32:18

          The days are coming,” declares the LORD, “when it will no longer be said, ‘As surely as the LORD lives, who brought the Israelites up out of Egypt,’ but it will be said, ‘As surely as the LORD lives, who brought the Israelites up out of the land of the north and out of all the countries where he had banished them.’ For I will restore them to the land I gave their ancestors” (Jeremiah 16:14-15).
          Unless I'm not getting the picture my ancestors are not of Israel. So this test is referring to natural israel. Who do you think the 144,000 will work through?

  • Comment by Meleti Vivlon on 2015-03-31 09:12:52

    Partaking is NOT something we do to acknowledge that we are worthy, for none of us are. Partaking is something we do to acknowledge that we are unworthy; in need of Christ’s redemption through the gift of his perfect body and life. We should not think that Paul’s admonition against partaking unworthily means that only the worthy may partake, for that would exclude all of us. What Paul is warning against is a callous disregard for the value of Christ’s sacrifice. An unrepentant sinner would be partaking unworthily. But we are all sinners, so it is not the sin that would condemn us but our attitude toward it. It seems we sin on a daily basis, but are we callous or nonchalant about our sinful state?
    We partake precisely because we are sinners. Only sinners are “worthy” of partaking. We partake to remember Him who has made escape from sin possible and to proclaim Him in His absence.

  • Comment by Meleti Vivlon on 2015-03-31 09:13:35

    PS: Great post, Alex!

    • Reply by Alex Rover on 2015-03-31 15:53:57

      thank you meleti.
      same for your series part 1 & 2

  • Comment by GodsWordIsTruth on 2015-03-31 09:35:37

    Beautiful article.
    Why do JW’s have a funeral/ memorial for Christ every year? Is that in anyway what Christ had in mind the night of the evening meal? If I remember correctly Jesus raised the subject of him dying during the evening meal but the focus IMO was not on memorializing his death . Christ lives !!! He is not dead.

    • Reply by Alex Rover on 2015-04-02 09:19:48

      "Keep doing this in remembrance of me."
      We want to remember Christ and all that he did for us. He died so that we may live. But we don't just remember his death. We honor him by remembering his teachings and following his example in our lives.

  • Comment by The Way on 2015-03-31 11:10:23

    Beautiful reminders. Thanks for sharing, Alex.
    The Beatitudes (Mt 5:1-11) describe Christ’s meek sheep, who will be called children of God, see God, be satisfied, shown mercy, comforted, and will inherit both heaven and earth.
    Amen.
    We need the shelter, the covering of Jesus' ransom NOW. Not just at some point in the far future, after a thousand years, but NOW.
    How precious your loyal love [loving kindness, bond of love] is, O God!
    In the shadow of your wings, the sons of men take refuge. (Psalm 36:7, NWT)
    Be gracious to me, God, be gracious to me,
    because my soul has taken refuge in you,
    And in the shadow of your wings I will take refuge
    till catastrophes pass by [= the meaning of Passover]. (Psalm 57:1, Byington)
    Do you want to be COVERED by the Insurance God has provided to protect you from calamities? Then it is only normal that you also accept the Insurance Policy. Nowhere will we find such a Life Insurance, so to speak.
    There is no discrimination with God, no artificial division among the sheep of the one flock of God. We are all BOUGHT with a Price. (1 Cor. 6:19, 20; 7:23; 1 Peter 1:18 + ftn. NWT, 19) Why would we refuse to hand over the 'goods', to give ourselves without reservation, to God and to His appointed Lord Jesus? What would you think if you paid someone the price for some product but he then showed no inclination to ever deliver it to you? He continues to act as if there simply exists no agreement between you and him. He's not bound by it for it doesn't apply to him, he claims. Would he not in fact deny you what is now your rightful property?? How would you view, even call, such a person?
    Why would we not accept God's "Best Buy", His unique "Deal", while the offer lasts - during our short lifetime? After all efforts both God and Christ made to finally make it possible and available to us!
    We are no longer 'foreigners' in God's eyes. (Eph. 2:11-22) We have the privilege of receiving the free gift of citizenship administered by the New, Heavenly Jerusalem. Why would we NOT accept it? Is citizenship in this world and granted by this world more worth to us than citizenship from the Capital City of God? Do we in fact appreciate physical things more than spiritual things? Do we really want to be sans-papiers - illegal immigrants - in God's sight, even in God's Kingdom? God has far better things for us.
    We are no longer outsiders, bystanders, passive observers but are effective participants, fellow sharers, who are NOW legitimately recognized by God. All of God's people, this is not just for the happy few. Or who is it that Jesus pronounced HAPPY = richly blessed by God? Are you not included in this promise? Yes, you are also included, as a baptized believer. Of course we have to be aware of this spiritual reality and acknowledge it. We have to 'see' it. Otherwise it would be like stumbling around with a severe handicap, spiritually speaking. Christ can remove that handicap. (2 Cor. 4:6; Eph. 5:14)
    Of course we want to worship God fully in His Temple! Spiritual 'foreigners' can't have access to the Temple to do that. There are some requirements, as the example of the temple worship in ancient Israel should have made very clear to us. But the necessary 'paperwork' has already been done for us, now we just have to recognize that ...
    Keep the Covenant and be blessed. God's blessing can only come from observing the Covenant. It is precisely the result of the Covenant. It has always been that way and things have not changed today!
    Wish you all the best and may God bless your humble and sincere steps,
    The Way

    • Reply by Alex Rover on 2015-04-02 09:28:37

      Thank you for your beautiful comment!

    • Reply by agapeheartvisions on 2015-04-05 14:05:17

      Beautifully written, and very well said. I would like to print this out and keep it as a reminder whenever the negativity of the 'Watchtower Years' come up into my mind. Again, Thank you for such a beautiful comment.
      LaRhonda

  • Comment by Ray Byrne on 2015-04-01 06:10:58

    Your articles have been an eye opener for me Meleti/Alex. Maybe I've understood it wrong all these years but I've always been lead to believe according to those that go with "the society says" way of thinking that to eat & drink unworthily was to partake if you aren't really anointed. This site has really encouraged me to examine what I believe not just accept what I'm told.

    • Reply by Alex Rover on 2015-04-02 09:27:01

      Thank you, and welcome to the site!
      Please read the following two verses:
      Acts 2:38 "And Peter said to them, “Repent and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins, and you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit."
      Romans 8:15 "The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, [b] Father.”"
      Question:
      1) Were you baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins?
      2) If yes, according to Acts 2:38 you received the Holy Spirit. According to Romans 8:15 that makes you adopted children of the Father.
      What if anyone changes this teaching?
      2Jo 1:9 "Everyone who goes on ahead and does not abide in the teaching of Christ, does not have God. Whoever abides in the teaching has both the Father and the Son."
      Gal 1:9 "As we have said before, so now I say again: If anyone is preaching to you a gospel contrary to the one you received, let him be accursed."
      Mat 15:14 "Let them alone; they are blind guides. And if the blind lead the blind, both will fall into a pit.”
      Mat 15:9 "In vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.’”
      1Co 1:10-13 "I appeal to you, brothers, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree, and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be united in the same mind and the same judgment. For it has been reported to me by Chloe's people that there is quarreling among you, my brothers. What I mean is that each one of you says, “I follow Paul,” or “I follow Apollos,” or “I follow Cephas,” or “I follow Christ.” Is Christ divided? Was Paul crucified for you? Or were you baptized in the name of Paul?"

      • Reply by Ray on 2015-04-14 02:19:30

        I had a discussion about this with my wife, or should I say tried to have a discussion about this with my wife. To her the GB is the be all & end all of truth from Jehovah. It ended up with her getting grumpy at me & declaring that I was just looking for a way out of doing wat I should be doing, meaning blindly agreeing with everything the society says & spending far more time witnessing. Now I have discovered so many things I disagree with I find it hard to tell others about "The Truth" according to the WT.
        I raised the question that if Christianity spread so far in the 1st century then surely the number of 144,000 had to have been fulfilled long ago if it were a literal number. Then I tried to show her that all Christians are sons of God not just a select few. I showed her Romans 8:1-17 & tried to show her that there are only 2 groups identified. Those who live by the flesh which means death & those who live by the spirit which means life in union with Christ Jesus. It then read to her v14 "For all who are led by God’s spirit are indeed God’s sons." not just those claiming to be of the 144,000. Then v16 "The spirit itself bears witness with our spirit that we are God’s children. 17 If, then, we are children, we are also heirs—heirs indeed of God, but joint heirs with Christ" . She claimed that that is only Jehovah giving witness to the 144,000 that they know without a doubt that they have a heavenly hope. I tried to reason that it doesn't say that but shows that all who are baptized into Christ have a surety that we are God's children & thus heirs. She insisted it only meant the WT teaching about 144,000. I then showed her where Jesus separates the sheep & goats. Jesus separates the sheep & goats, once again only 2 groups. Then says to the sheep "‘Come, you who have been blessed by my Father, inherit the Kingdom prepared for you from the founding of the world." She agreed as the WT teaches that this is talking about the Other Sheep/Great Crowd. So I pointed to the part where Jesus says " inherit the Kingdom". She agreed that Jesus is saying this to the other sheep so I asked "So how can you inherit something if you are not one of the heirs?". She started getting irritated about it & I asked her if we really accept the Bible as our authority or if we put the WT teachings above the authority of the Bible. I said that it is a common thought among those in other churches that if the WT & the Bible conflict then JW's always take the authority of the WT over the Bible. Which to me is seeming truer by the day as far as the majority of witnesses go. This is where she got angry & walked out of the room. I could see her frustration that she couldn't give a satisfactory answer to back up the GB's teaching on this. I wasn't trying to win or cause an argument or make her feel uncomfortable, which she clearly did, but I just wanted her to see "What the Bible really teaches" & see that we're being deceived on many things. I just keep on praying to Jehovah that he will cause her to question the things we are being taught as unquestionable truth & give Jesus & the scriptures the opportunity to allow truth to shine through..
        One last point. It's really great to discover that even though I've come across no other questioning JW's in our comngregation, there are so many other JW's that have begun to question. The difficulty for me is that with my wife also being a JW & the way she feels about those who dare to question "the brothers" meaning the GB, it makes it hard to have these thoughts & discoveries & have to keep it all to my self or risk being labelled with the A word.
        Sorry for rambling on with such a long comment. long

        • Reply by Ray on 2015-04-14 07:51:01

          And I got the "So you think you know more than the GB who are anointed do you?"
          I used the example of how I believed, even when I was in Christendom, that the sheep & goats were separated when Christ returns to execute judgement. If I insisted on that when they previously believed the separating was happening at the time by the witnessing work then I'd be going against Jehovah. Then they changed & now teach what I believed in the 1st place, even when I was an evil member of Christendom.
          The reply, well they're just imperfect men like the rest of us.
          But.... Imperfect men when it's convenient to excuse error but not to be questioned any other time. These imperfect men expect us to accept everything they say without question as the Truth or risk disfellowshipping.
          I hope it's OK to post this discussion I had with my wife here. Guess I'm just releasing my frustration. No doubt others have the same situation with a faithful only to the GB spouse too.

          • Reply by Meleti Vivlon on 2015-04-14 08:09:53

            It is absolutely okay to post about this here. There are not may places for us to open up and talk about the things that trouble us. Yet we all need to vent from time to time. We need it like a steam engine needs a safety value. Unfortunately, freedom of speech is not something that is honored in the congregations of Jehovah's Witnesses.

        • Reply by Meleti Vivlon on 2015-04-14 08:02:18

          I feel for you, my brother. She is being forced to confront issues that challenge her worldview. She has lived for so long with the comforting idea that she is saved, simply be being a member of the organization. I once experienced an earthquake. It was mild and there was no damage, but it was very unsettling to feel the ground, the symbol of all that is stable, move under my feet. I hadn't realized until that moment how I had come to rely upon the ground not to move. Seems silly now, but it was something I counted to always be a certain way and now it was betraying me, trying to make me fall, to bring down the house upon my head.
          She is experiencing what is effectively a spiritual earthquake. What she has relied upon all her life as stable and trustworthy, you are now showing her is anything but. She has no coping mechanism now other than to walk away from the discussion. Give her time. It takes a long time for some minds to become transformed, but the spirit is powerful if the heart is willing. It's really up to her at this point.

        • Reply by MM on 2015-04-14 08:09:45

          I'm going through the same struggles with my wife Ray. The only thing we can do is be patient, continue to show Godly love, and pray their eyes are opened. It's hard to convince someone that the beliefs they have cherished from youth are false. Continue to show love and it's possible that she'll come around

    • Reply by Mailman on 2015-04-03 05:20:23

      Agree Ray. When Paul warned his fellow Christians of partaking in an unworthy manner, the earthly hope was not even an issue nor something they had in mind. WT is imposing a criteria which was never ones a barometer for determining if one is worthy to partake of the emblems (e.g. evidence of the spirit). This is sad because they have added unnecessary burden or qualifications to deter - if not to sow fear on - our brothers from responding to Christ's invitation.

  • Comment by Emmanuel on 2015-04-01 12:26:04

    Alex....its so clear but so hard to understand it before since we are told not to participate- Your summary clearly and intelligently refutes previous erroneous understanding about not participating. The bible is clear! I am saving this and sharing with as many as I can. Thank you for your effort and time to post this information- its wonderful!

    • Reply by Wild Olive on 2015-04-01 20:49:53

      I don't think I have ever seen a watchtower article or heard a public talk encourageing the bretheren to become "worthy " of the heavenly call,attention has only been drawn to why they shouldn't partake not why they should. On the memorial this year I will have my own private ceremony at home afterwards,I think it will be the last time I go to the memorial at the kingdom.

      • Reply by Meleti Vivlon on 2015-04-02 08:00:51

        Good for you, Wild Olive--and what a good alias by the way. Not counting those I know of through this site, but only those friends I know through my personal life, I'm aware of 20 individuals who will be partaking privately tonight. The numbers of those who worship the Father in Spirit and Truth continues to grow as the truth sets us free.

      • Reply by Mailman on 2015-04-03 05:28:05

        For the first time since 1991 when I got baptized as JW, last night at around 9pm,we did in our private home a simple re-enactment of Christ's last supper or memorial. There were 4 of us - my wife, 2 kids and myself. We read several scriptures to honor Jesus. We then shared the unleavened bread which I cooked that afternoon, then the grape juice to represent the wine. It was such a liberating experience. We watched in Youtube the washing of the feet of the apostles, discussed the lessons to learn from it. We ended up closing the occasion in prayer. :)

        • Reply by on 2015-04-03 11:31:06

          Mailman how encouraging to know that there is another family like us.

        • Reply by CP on 2015-04-03 11:43:03

          Mailman how encouraging is to know that there is another family like us observing the memorial at home.

        • Reply by Mailman on 2015-04-03 21:01:52

          Great to know that Anonymous and CP. Finally last night, our family attended the Memorial in our local Kingdom hall. I just did my job as one of the servers. The Society has changed the memorial outline which was delivered to us by a former CO. I was hoping there would be more verses to be read that would glorify and honor Jesus, recount his life and service to his Father, or at least verses that would focus on him as our Savior. But other than Luke and Corinthians, the speaker narrated 3 verses that point to blessings in paradise on earth. He belabored the fact why the sinful mankind needs a ransom and why only a few 144K is part of the new covenant that are born again and thus worthy of partaking of the meal.

  • Comment by Skye on 2015-04-03 06:48:00

    Other sheep - gentiles - equal status absolutely - one international church. (John 10:16)

  • Comment by 3.5weeks on 2015-04-03 08:37:00

    Let's partake in the Kingdom halls too.
    Who knows what the new light will be when Jw partakers exceed 144000.
    If I remember correctly Rutherford based the great crowd teaching -amidst other reasons-on the large numbers who profess not to be anointed and were not partaking during the early 1930s.
    If anyone ask about our partaking the following from Question from readers W07 1/15 Will help.
    "Thus, it appears that we cannot set a specific date for when the
    calling of Christians to the heavenly hope ends.
    How should a person be viewed who has determined in his heart
    that he is now anointed and begins to partake of the emblems at
    the Memorial? He should not be judged. The matter is between him
    and Jehovah. (Romans 14:12 )"
    Since 2007 when this article was published, partakers have increased from about 8000 to over 14,000.
    Shalom to all

    • Reply by Wild Olive on 2015-04-03 18:55:22

      @3.5 weeks,great idea what a conundrum that would create!
      For me personally I can no longer support the framework that the GB is trying to build,the memorial talk last night went straight into mysticism when it came to who partakes,some kind of mystical revelation,such a lie!
      Doesn't anyone read the bible?
      To the others who had their own ceremony,may Jehovah bless you and I hope to see you all in the everlasting dwelling places
      Peace to all.

    • Reply by BN on 2015-04-03 19:34:27

      So they just change their ways again ... It doesn't matter as long as one hasn't followed the Anointed Jesus OUTSIDE the gate of the city ... Heb 13:13 ..

      • Reply by Wild Olive on 2015-04-03 20:08:45

        @BN,what a beautiful verse! One could almost substitute the word organization for camp and see where they should be ,thank you so much!

  • Comment by agapeheartvisions on 2015-04-03 22:32:18

    Hubby and I enjoyed a lovely memorial tonight at home. Just the two of us. It was joyful, emotional and humbling to know deep in our hearts that we are the beloved son and precious daughter of a loving God.
    Agape,
    LaRhonda

  • Comment by katrina on 2015-04-04 23:38:01

    Memorial is like a ritual every year, invite as many as possible family friends, studies return visits, to come to the remnant event and to listen as to why you shouldn't partake, listen to the stories of paradise and cuddly animals and this is your reward for refusing the blood and body of the lamb that takes away the sins of the world.
    Tradition they follow of judge Rutherford. Instead of rejoicing that Christ has risen and is alive and is drawing ones to a relationship as mediator to the Father to come into his family as sons and daughters, we are left to wait another thousand years for a possibility of being part of his heavenly family.
    A sad and confusing event that leaves a whole in ones heart, only to be repeated every year as if its the most important event on the JW calender.
    Prayer of thank you Jehovah for your Son and the sacrifice that you made Jehovah. Christ died for us yes we know, but we are so grateful to you that you have given us the FDS to give us the truth meat in due season, all those pagan teachings we alone are free of the trinity, hell fire, immortality of the soul, the cross, xmas, birthdays, mothers days and all the pagan celebrations, we have the truth.

    • Reply by FutureMan on 2015-04-05 08:06:13

      I hope that you are kidding with this last statement of yours here.
      "but we are so grateful to you that you have given us the FDS to give us the truth meat in due season, all those pagan teachings we alone are free of the trinity, hell fire, immortality of the soul, the cross, xmas, birthdays, mothers days and all the pagan celebrations, we have the truth."
      The "Truth" is still "out there" and "way out there" in our "cosmos".
      Meanwhile we have to content ourselves with the limited information that we now posses in our books such as the Bible and other writings.
      But also for now it is suffice to know that the true message of God's Kingdom is that we can all be "Sons and daughters" of the Universal Father who is the source and center for all life and all things in this universal reality.
      In becoming God's approved sons and daughters we also enjoy the priviledge of becoming part of a much larger brotherhood, that of being part of God's universal family of intelligent lifeforms that do exist out there in the omniverse.

  • Comment by Skye on 2015-04-05 06:48:32

    Many brothers and sisters would be thrilled to know that they can be born again and rule with Jesus on the earth, and to truly belong to him. The internet has helped and continues to help, but many do not have the internet or view what they consider to be apostate websites. I believe that fear of losing Christian fellowship is one reason that keeps many brothers and sisters attached to the Organisation. Is there more we can do to help - any ideas?

    • Reply by Wild Olive on 2015-04-05 08:13:07

      @skye,I have often said in passing to other JWs,"isn't it note worthy that we of the Great Crowd are in the same position as a Moslem,we aren't in a covenant and like them don't have a personal mediator,and if we died in an accident together with a Moslem would be ressurected with the same standing,don't you think that's odd?"
      Most times I get the same look as a kangaroo in the highbeam lol

  • Comment by katrina on 2015-04-05 08:21:11

    JW salvation lies with following and obeying the GB, even if it may seem strange from a human stand point, I think skye has a valid point fear is what is blinding JW not fear of Jehovah but fear of man.
    We all have had that haven't we when first awakening and for some still its a nagging feeling, not wanting to lose family and for some status in the congregation, branded an apostate is worse then a pedophile to JW, but the Gb have done a good job by their constant reminders of the evils of those that disagree with them/Jehovah.
    The past few years the WT has been exposing themselves with JW. org and their weird videos, this will make many start to think, the GB are more in fear of so called apostates because basically most of what they say is true, while the Gb control information the b/s are like sitting ducks with nowhere to turn for answers, but many are stumbling on sites like this and I think the holy spirit is directing those crying and groaning about all the things happening within their midst, their own religion.

    • Reply by FutureMan on 2015-04-05 19:46:18

      That is so true Katrina, what you have spoken here as I myself have been branded by thhe JW organization as an "apostate" because I have pursued the truth.
      In fact by now, I am probably at the top of their list as they surely would have read many of my posts on the various sites that I have posted on and I am sure that they from time to time do monitor.
      As far as they are concerned and my JW family (those who are still active JWs) I am as good as "bird-food", as good as "dead" in their eyes.
      But that is all I have ever wanted was the real truth and not the convoluted truth that is presented by the JW organization.

  • Comment by on 2015-04-05 14:23:30

    It seems to me that the Jws religion is becoming each day more and more like the 1st century jewish treligion . Who also used fear of being expelled from the synagogue .to control the masses . John 9 v 22 . Theres also a whole host of extra rules added to gods word that they must observe .mark 7 v 4 to 8. Those who truly confessed christ were also in danger of losing family members matthew 10 v 36 to 37 .The hierarchy of the religion has also seated themselves in the seat of moses matthew 23 v 2 when jesus said one is our teacher .matthew 23 v 8 . They also seem to be overly concerned about outward appearances .desipte 1 peter 3 v3 and 4 .and the warnings of matthew 23 . I have also had elders trying to trap me in speech to get an accusation against me mark 12 v 13 .. and sad to say it seems to be becoming more and more about money and money making schemes . Mark 11 v 15

  • Comment by on 2015-04-05 14:42:40

    i commemorated Jesus memorial at home also I watched a movie on the final days of Jesus life - i made some unleavened bread and bought some no preservative wine - laid out a nice table cloth - dressed in my best clothes and sat up on the beach under the moon - read the scriptures and prayed - This is the first time i have partaken of the bread and wine - i was feeling very nervous about doing it - in fact i was anxious for a number of weeks before just the thought of doing it - I have always felt the bible is for everyone not just some self professed anointed ones :)))
    sister billy

    • Reply by kev on 2015-04-05 18:43:10

      The real bible students among us are not fooled anymore billy . We had a little meeting of four in our area .3 of whom visit this site . We had a lovely meal .we read the scriptures we said prayers and partook of the bread and wine . It was a lovely evening . just the way its meant to be we are with you billy .if not in person certainly in spirit . Kev

      • Reply by Skye on 2015-04-05 19:51:05

        Kev, It must be really nice that you can meet up with others in your home. If anyone lives in my area and they want to meet up with me that would be lovely. I live in Edinburgh, Scotland.

        • Reply by Wild Olive on 2015-04-05 21:48:36

          Yes Kev real bible students/apostates are not fooled anymore.
          I couldn't believe how much changed once I started to move towards Christ, the Bible became a new book with a powerful message for me!
          Most of the "truth"became irrelevant.
          I was no longer sustained spiritually by anything from the GB.
          And then the realisation that the GB has set a trap for seekers of truth,yes a lot of things change

    • Reply by FutureMan on 2015-04-05 22:34:27

      Both me and my wife along with our two adult children also celebrated the Lord's Evening meal at home.
      I baked the unleavened bread myself and also acquired a good quality red wine to drink of which we all partook of on that night, and remembered Jesus as he was he on the earth and his self-sacrifice in our behalf so that we could put our faith in him and the Heavenly Father.
      I first of all said a prayer to start with followed by a little speech to open with and then we all discussed all about Jesus and what his death meant to us.
      We mostly used the Bible as a source for reference but also used another writing as well that thoroughly discussed the nights events.

  • Comment by MM on 2015-04-13 16:38:55

    Hi. I'm currently in between a rock and a hard place. I was raised in this organization and I've been baptized since 2002. After a couple years of doubting and researching and reading, I've reached the conclusion that the Watchtower Bible and Tract Society isn't the sole channel of God. My views are pretty much out in the open as I've already talked to a few elders. But I'm married to a witness who is adamant about her views and we have two kids together. My wife feels with her whole heart like I once felt - that this is God's sole organization. I want to keep her in my life, but I have developed a love and want for the truth of God's Word. Through it all I still have an inner joy that I've never felt before.
    I honestly feel that what's written in this article about Israel is true. When reading the scriptures for what they say, it's clear that the prophecies concerning Israel (which the organization puts itself as the replacement of) will literally take place with Israel and those grafted into it.

    • Reply by Alex Rover on 2015-04-13 17:16:26

      Hi MM,
      the other thing to keep in mind with some prophecies regarding Israel is that they may already have been fulfilled. Not everything is an end-time prophecy. (The return from Babylon for example.)
      - ARover

      • Reply by MM on 2015-04-13 17:41:24

        Good point. I agree

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