Ku-JW.org, umuntu angathola ukuma okusemthethweni koFakazi BakaJehova maqondana nokuvikelwa kwezingane. (Lokhu akukhuphukeli ezingeni lephepha lenqubomgomo, into ubuholi beJW.org obubonakala bungafuni ukubhala.) Ungachofoza kusihloko, Isikhundla soFakazi BakaJehova EsisemiBhalweni Ngokuvikelwa Kwezingane, ukubuka ifayela le-PDF ngokwakho.

Isihloko sinikeza umfundi isiqinisekiso sokuthi lesi simo sisekelwe emiBhalweni. Lokho kuvela ukuthi kuyiqiniso kuphela ngengxenye. Isigaba sesibili esinezinombolo kulo mbhalo siqinisekisa umfundi ukuthi lokhu “bekuyisikhathi eside futhi sishicilelwa kabanzi esisekelwe emiBhalweni soFakazi BakaJehova.” Lokhu futhi kuyiqiniso kuphela ngokwengxenye.  UMfoweth 'uGerrit Losch usechaze amaqiniso ayihafu njengamanga, esikholwa ukuthi uwafanelekela kahle la maphuzu amabili esisanda kuwasho. Sizokhombisa ukuthi kungani sikholwa ukuthi kunjalo.

Umuntu kufanele akhumbule ukuthi njengabaFarisi nabanye abaholi benkolo bosuku lukaJesu, oFakazi banemithetho emibili: umthetho obhaliwe otholakala ezincwadini; nomthetho odluliselwa ngomlomo, owawudluliselwa ngabamele iNdikimba Ebusayo njengababonisi besifunda kanye neDesk Desk neDesk yoMthetho emahhovisi egatsha. NjengabaFarisi basendulo, umthetho odluliselwa ngomlomo uhlala uhamba phambili.

Kufanele futhi sikhumbule ukuthi le dokhumenti aliyona idokhumenti lomgomo, kepha yisikhundla esisemthethweni. Enye yezincomo eziye zaphuma I-Australia Royal Commission ibe Izimpendulo Zezikhungo Zokuhlukunyezwa Kwezingane Ngokobulili kwakuwukuthi iNhlangano YoFakazi BakaJehova ibe nenhlangano yonkana ezibhaliwe inqubomgomo yokubhekana nokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi, into eyenziwe yiNdikimba Ebusayo kuphela imizamo yokuyisebenzisa kuze kube namuhla.

Njengakho konke lokhu okungenhla engqondweni, ake siqale ukubukeza kwethu okubucayi kwalesi “ncwadi esemthethweni”.

  1. Izingane ziyithemba elingcwele, “ifa elivela kuJehova.” - IHubo 127: 3

Akunangxabano lapha. Mayelana nokuthi leli iqhinga lobudlelwano nomphakathi noma isitatimende esiqotho somuzwa wokuthi ubuholi boFakazi BakaJehova banabo ezinganeni bungahlolwa kuphela ngokubheka izenzo zabo. Njengoba isisho sithi: “Izenzo zikhuluma kakhulu kunamazwi”; noma njengoba uJesu asho, “Niyakubazi ngezithelo zabo.” (Mt 7:20)

  1. Ukuvikelwa kwezingane kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu futhi ebaluleke kubo bonke oFakazi BakaJehova. Lokhu kuvumelana nesikhundla esivele sikhona futhi sishicilelwe kabanzi esisekelwe emiBhalweni sangoFakazi BakaJehova, njengoba kukhonjisiwe kuzinkomba ezisekupheleni kwalo mbhalo, zonke ezishicilelwe ku-jw.org

Leli phuzu lesigaba limemeza lithi: “Bheka ukuthi sivuleke futhi sithembeke kangakanani ngakho konke lokhu!” Lokhu kungenzeka kuyiphikisana nezinsolo ezihlala njalo nezisisekelo zezisulu zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi kanye nabameli babo ukuthi izinqubomgomo nezinqubo zenhlangano zifihliwe ekusithekeni.

Sicela wazi ukuthi azikho izinkomba ezishicilelwe ekugcineni kwalo mbhalo eziyinqubomgomo esemthethweni. Azikho izinkomba ze- Izincwadi eziya Emabandleni Abadala noma izinkomba ezintweni ezifana nebhukwana labadala, Yalusa Umhlambi KaNkulunkulu. Lokhu kwenza okuthile kwenqubomgomo ebhaliwe, kodwa isikhundla seNdikimba Ebusayo ukuthi ukuxhumana okunjalo kufanele kugcinwe kuyimfihlo. Cabanga nje uma ngabe imithetho yezwe lakini ibigcinwa iyimfihlo kubakhamuzi! Cabanga nje uma izinqubomgomo zabasebenzi benkampani okuqashile zigcinwa ziyimfihlo kulabo bantu abathintekayo kulezo zinqubomgomo!

Enhlanganweni ethi ilandela futhi ilingise uKristu, kufanele sibuze, "Kungani kunemfihlo?"

  1. OFakazi BakaJehova bayakwenyanya ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane futhi bakubheka njengecala. (KwabaseRoma 12: 9) Siyabona ukuthi abaphathi banesibopho sokubhekana nalawo macala. (KwabaseRoma 13: 1-4) Abadala abazivikeli noma yimuphi umenzi wokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kwiziphathimandla.

Leli phuzu lesigaba sesithathu likhuluma ngamaRoma 12: 9 lapho uPawulu enza khona ezinye izithombe ezinhle ngempela.

“Uthando lwakho malungabi naluzenzisi. Yenyanya okubi; bambelela kokuhle. ”(Roma 12: 9)

Sonke sibone abantu ababili bethandana ngokujulile bebambelela komunye, noma ingane ethukile inamathele kakhulu kumzali wayo. Lowo ngumfanekiso okufanele sibe nawo engqondweni lapho sithola okuthile okuhle. Umcabango omuhle, isimiso esihle, umkhuba omuhle, umuzwa omuhle — sifuna ukunamathela ezintweni ezinjalo.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwenyanya kudlula inzondo nendlela engaphezu kokungathandi. Ubuso bomuntu obuka into ayenyanyayo bakutshela konke odinga ukukwazi mayelana nokuthi bazizwa kanjani ngempela. Awekho amagama angeziwe adingekayo. Lapho sibuka amavidiyo lapho abamele iNhlangano bexoxwa khona noma bebuzwa imibuzo, lapho sifunda noma sibuka okwenzeka empilweni yangempela okuvezwe kwabezindaba, lapho sifunda iphepha elinjengaleli, ingabe sizizwa sinengeka esithi iNhlangano ithi ukuba nayo? Ingabe nathi ngokufanayo siyaluzwa uthando lwabo olunamathele kokuhle? Baphila kanjani abadala bakini kule ndaba?

Ukuthi iNdikimba Ebusayo iyazi umthwalo wayo wemfanelo phambi kukaNkulunkulu kusobala kuPosition Paper okukhulunywa ngayo kwabaseRoma 13: 1-4. Ngeshwa, ivesi 5, elibhekele lokhu, lafakwa ngaphandle. Nayi ingcaphuno ephelele evela enguqulweni Yezwe Elisha.

“Wonke umuntu makazithobe kumagunya aphakeme, ngoba alikho igunya ngaphandle kukaNkulunkulu; Iziphathimandla ezikhona zibekwe uNkulunkulu ezikhundleni zazo ezilinganiselwe. Ngakho-ke, noma ngubani ophikisana negunya uthathile uhlangothi lukaNkulunkulu; labo abamelene nalo bayozilethela isahlulelo. Kulabo babusi bayinto yesabekayo, hhayi esenzweni esihle, kodwa embi. Ngabe ufuna ukukhululeka ngokwesaba igunya? Qhubeka wenza okuhle, futhi uzoba nodumo oluvela kuyo; ngoba kuyisikhonzi sikaNkulunkulu kuwe ukuze uzuze. Kepha uma wenza okubi, yesaba, ngoba akungenxa yenkemba ukuthi iphathe inkemba. Uyisikhonzi sikaNkulunkulu, umphindiseli wokubonisa ulaka kulowo owenza okubi. Ngakho-ke kunesizathu esiphoqayo sokuba uzithobe, hhayi ngenxa yolaka kuphela kodwa futhi ngenxa kanembeza wakho. ”(Roma 13: 1-5)

Ngokusho ukuthi “Abadala abamvikeli noma yimuphi umenzi wobubi wokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kwiziphathimandla ”, iNdikimba Ebusayo ibeke isikhundla sayo ku asebenzayo inkathi.  Impela, asibabheki abadala bemi abaqaphi eminyango yeHholo lombuso, benikela ngomhlukumezi wengane ocashile ngaphakathi, kuyilapho amaphoyisa efuna ukungena. Kepha kuthiwani nge yekwentiwa umuntu ohlukumeza ingane angavikeleka kanjani kubaphathi? IBhayibheli lithi:

“. . .Ngakho-ke, uma umuntu ekwazi ukwenza okulungile kodwa angakwenzi, kuyisono kuye. ”(UJames 4: 17)

Ukube ubungezwa ukukhala kowesifazane odlwenguliwe, noma ukukhala komuntu kubulawa umuntu, kanti wena ungenzi lutho, ubuzozibheka njengongenacala yini kulokhu kwenza ubugebengu? I-Qui Tacet Consentire Videtur, Ukuthula Kunikeza Imvume. Ngokungenzi lutho ukuletha izigilamkhuba ebukhoneni bazo, i-Organisation iye yakhipha kaningi imvume emacaleni abo. Bazivikele lezi zigebengu emiphumeleni yezenzo zazo. Ukube laba badala nabaholi beNhlangano bebeyizisulu zalezo zenzo zobugebengu, ngabe bathula? (Mt 7:12)

Ngabe siyayidinga ngempela yini into ephrintiwe ezincwadini zomthetho wezwe, noma ezincwadini zenhlangano, ukuze isitshele ukuthi yini okufanele siyenze ezimweni ezinjalo? Ngabe sidinga ukulinda i-Service noma i-Legal Desk ukuthi ichaze ukuthi unembeza wethu kufanele wenze kanjani?

Kungakho uPaul ebhekisa kunembeza wethu evesini 5 lapho ekhuluma ngokuthobela iziphathimandla zikahulumeni. Igama elithi "unembeza" ngokwezwi nezwi lisho "ngolwazi". Kungumthetho wokuqala onikezwe amadoda. Kungumthetho uJehova awufaka ezingqondweni zethu. Sonke sidalwe, ngendlela ethile eyisimangaliso, “ngolwazi” —okusho ukuthi, sinolwazi oluyisisekelo lokulungile nokungalungile. Esinye sezisho zokuqala ingane efunda ukusisho, imvamisa ngentukuthelo enkulu, ukuthi, “Akulungile lokho!”

Kumacala we-1006 esikhathini esingangeminyaka eyi-60 abadala base-Australia, baziswe yi-Legal and / noma i-Service Desk njengoba kuyisiko, bahlulekile ukubika single icala lokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi eziphathimandleni eziphakeme. Noma ezimweni lapho benofakazi ababili noma ukuvuma izono futhi ngalesosikhathi babesebenzisana no-pedophile owaziwayo, behlulekile ukwazisa abaphathi. Ngokusho kwabaseRoma 13: I-5, "isizathu esiphoqayo" sokwazisa abaphethi asesabi ukujeziswa ("ulaka"), kodwa kunalokho ngenxa kanembeza womuntu-ulwazi olunikezwe uNkulunkulu lokuthi yikuphi okulungile nokungalungile, ababi nabalungile. Kungani umdala ongashadile engazange alandele unembeza wakhe e-Australia?

ISigungu Esilawulayo sisho egameni loFakazi BakaJehova yonke indawo ukuthi 'bayakwenyanya ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane', futhi 'bayazi ukuthi iziphathimandla zibhekene nokubhekana nezigebengu', nokuthi 'ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi kuyicala', nokuthi 'abazivikeli izigebengu '. Kodwa-ke, ngezenzo zabo, basebenzise inkolelo ephikisayo emazweni ngamazwe njengoba kukhonjisiwe ngamacala amaningi asezinkantolo alwa futhi alahleka — noma ngaphezulu manje, axazululwa — emazweni athuthukile, nangezindaba ezingezinhle nezidokhumentari ezichazayo ukuthi kushicilelwe futhi kwasakazwa ezinyangeni ezedlule.

  1. Kuzo zonke izimo, izisulu nabazali babo banelungelo lokubika ngecala lokuhlukumeza izingane eziphathimandleni. Ngakho-ke, izisulu, abazali bazo, noma omunye umuntu obika isimanga esinjalo kubadala baziswa ngokusobala ngabadala ukuthi banelungelo lokubika udaba kubaphathi. Abadala abagxeki noma ngubani okhetha ukwenza lowo mbiko. — Galathiya 6: 5.

Futhi, umthetho obhaliwe usho into eyodwa, kepha umthetho odluliselwe ngomlomo uye wakufakazela ukwembula okunye. Mhlawumbe manje lokhu kuzoshintsha, kepha inhloso yalo mbhalo ukukhombisa ukuthi le yindlela izinto bekulokhu kunjalo. Njengoba kushiwo ku-point 2, lokhu "isikhundla eside nesisakazwa kabanzi esisekelwe emiBhalweni singoFakazi BakaJehova ”.

Akunjalo!

Izisulu kanye nabazali bazo noma abagadayo kaningi baye badikibike ekubikeni ngokusebenzisa umbono wokuthi ukwenza lokho kuzoletha isihlamba egameni likaJehova. Lapho icaphuna abaseGalathiya 6: 5, iNhlangano ibonakala ngathi ibeka "umthwalo" noma umthwalo wokubika kubazali kanye / noma isisulu. Kepha umthwalo wabadala abazithathela wona ukuvikela ibandla, ikakhulukazi abancane. Ngabe bebephethe lowo mthwalo? Sonke kufanele sahlulelwe ngokuthi sithwala kangakanani umthwalo wethu.

Ukuqala kuka-Uzah

Isizathu esisetshenziswe amashumi eminyaka ukunqanda izisulu kanye nabaqaphi babo ukuba bangabiki icala eziphathimandleni zokunukubezwa ngokocansi kwezingane kube ukuthi ukwenza lokho “kungaletha isihlamba egameni likaJehova.” Lokhu kuzwakala kuyimpikiswano evumayo ekuqaleni kufiphele, kepha iqiniso lokuthi inhlangano manje ikhokha izigidi zamadola ezindaweni zokuhlala, futhi ikakhulukazi, iqiniso lokuthi igama abaliphatha ngokuziqhenya kangaka liyonakaliswa ezincwadini eziningi zezindaba, kwi-Intanethi amaqembu, nokusakazwa kwamavidiyo, kukhombisa ukuthi lokhu ukucabanga okuyiphutha. Mhlawumbe ukulandisa kweBhayibheli kuzosisiza siqonde kahle ukuthi le ndlela yokucabanga iwukugabadela kanjani.

Kunesikhathi osukwini lweNkosi uDavida lapho amaFilisti ayentshontshe umphongolo wesivumelwano, kepha ngenxa yenhlupho eyisimangaliso baphoqeleka ukuthi bawubuyise. Ekuyibuyiseleni emuva etendeni lesivumelwano, abapristi bahluleka ukulandela umthetho owawufuna ukuthi ithwalwe ngabapristi besebenzisa izingongolo ezinde ezazedluliswa emasongweni ohlangothini lomphongolo. Esikhundleni salokho, lalibekwa enqoleni yezinkabi. Ngesinye isikhathi, ikalishi lacishe lacasuka futhi umkhumbi wawusengozini yokuwela phansi. UmIsrayeli ogama lakhe lingu-Uza “welulela isandla sakhe eMphongolweni kaNkulunkulu Weqiniso wawubamba” ukuze uqiniswe. (2 Samuweli 6: 6) Nokho, akekho umIsrayeli ovamile owayevunyelwe ukuyithinta. U-Uza wabulawa khona manjalo ngenxa yesenzo sakhe sokungahloniphi nokuzikhukhumeza. Iqiniso liwukuthi, uJehova wayekwazi ngokuphelele ukuvikela umkhumbi. Wayengadingi omunye umuntu ozomsiza akwenze. Ukuthatha umthwalo wokuvikela umkhumbi kwakuyisenzo sokugabadela okuphezulu, futhi kwabulala u-Uza.

Akekho, kubandakanya neNdikimba Ebusayo, okufanele athathe isikhundla sokuba nguMvikeli Wegama LikaNkulunkulu. Ukwenza kanjalo isenzo sokugabadela. Njengoba sebethathe le ndima amashumi amaningi eminyaka manje, manje sebekhokha inani.

Ukubuyela ephepheni lesikhundla, isigaba 5 sisho okulandelayo:

  1. Lapho abadala bezwa ngecala lokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane, ngokushesha bathintana nehhovisi legatsha loFakazi BakaJehova ukuze baqinisekise ukuhambisana nemithetho yokubika ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane. (Roma 13: 1) Noma ngabe abadala bengekho umsebenzi osemthethweni wokubika isimangalo kubaphathi, ihhovisi legatsha loFakazi BakaJehova liyakuyala abadala ukuthi babike lolu daba uma osemncane esengozini yokuhlukumezeka noma kukhona okunye isizathu esizwakalayo. Abadala babuye baqinisekise ukuthi abazali babahlukunyezwa bayaziswa ngecala lokuhlukumeza ingane. Uma lowo okuhlukumezayo engomunye wabazali behlukunyezwa, abadala bazokwazisa omunye umzali.

Sisanda kufunda eyabaseRoma 12: 9 evula ngala mazwi: “Uthando lwenu malungabi nabuzenzisi.” Kuwubuzenzisi ukusho into eyodwa bese wenza enye. Lapha sitshelwa ukuthi ihhovisi legatsha, noma ungekho umthetho othize odinga ukubikwa kwezinsolo zokuhlukumeza izingane ngokocansi, "Bazokwazisa abadala ukuthi babike lolu daba uma ingane isengozini yokuhlukumezeka noma kunesinye isizathu esizwakalayo."

Kunezinto ezimbili ezingalungile ngalesi sitatimende. Iphuzu lokuqala nelibaluleke kakhulu ukuthi liyagabadela futhi liphikisana nemiBhalo. Akukona okwamadoda angafanelekile ukuthi anqume ukuthi ngabe kufanele alubike yini ubugebengu noma cha. UNkulunkulu ubeke umfundisi, ababusi balesi simiso sezinto, ukuba babhekane nobugebengu. Kusezandleni zabo ukunquma ukuthi ngabe kwenziwe ubugebengu noma cha; noma ngabe kufanele lishushiswe noma cha. Leyo akuyona indima yeziphathimandla ezithile ezifana neNdikimba Ebusayo, noma i-Service / Legal Desk ezingeni lehhovisi legatsha. Kunezinhlaka zikahulumeni eziqokwe ngokufanelekile eziqeqeshwe futhi zahlonyiselwa ukwenza uphenyo olufanele lwezobunhloli ukuze kutholakale iqiniso lodaba. Ihhovisi legatsha lithola imininingwane yalo, kaningi emilonyeni yamadoda anokuhlangenwe nakho kwempilo yawo kuhlanza amafasitela nokuhlanza izindawo zamahhovisi.

Inkinga yesibili ngalesi sitatimende ukuthi iwela esigabeni sendoda ebanjwe ikopela unkosikazi wayo futhi ithembisa ukuthi ngeke iphinde yenzeke. Lapha, siyaqinisekiswa ukuthi ihhovisi legatsha lizoqondisa abadala ukuthi babike noma yiziphi izindaba lapho ingane isengozini, noma uma kunesinye isizathu esizwakalayo sokwenza lokho. Sazi kanjani ukuthi bazokwenza lokhu? Impela akususelwa kuphethini yabo yokuziphatha kuze kube manje. Uma, njengoba besho, lokhu "kuyisikhathi eside futhi kushicilelwe kabanzi", kungani behlulekile ukuphila ngokuvumelana nakho amashumi eminyaka njengoba kukhonjisiwe hhayi kuphela ngokutholwe yi-ARC, kepha nangamaqiniso abekwe obala ezinkantolo eziningi okulotshiwe kwamacala lapho iNhlangano kuye kwadingeka ukuthi ikhokhe izigidi zamadola kumonakalo ngokuhluleka ukuvikela izingane zayo ngokufanele?

  1. Abazali banomthwalo wemfanelo oyinhloko wokuvikela, ukuphepha, nokufundisa izingane zabo. Ngakho-ke, abazali abangamalungu ebandla bayakhuthazeka ukuba baphaphame ekusebenziseni umthwalo wabo wemfanelo ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi benze okulandelayo:
  • Yiba nokuzibandakanya okuqondile nangokuzimisela ezimpilweni zezingane zabo.
  • Zifundise zona nezingane zazo ngokuhlukumezeka kwezingane.
  • Khuthaza, ukhuthaze, futhi ugcine ukukhulumisana njalo nezingane zabo. —Deuteronomy 6: 6, 7;

Izaga 22: 3. OFakazi BakaJehova bashicilela imininingwane eminingi esekelwe eBhayibhelini ukusiza abazali ukuba benze umsebenzi wabo wokuvikela nokufundisa izingane zabo. — Bheka izikhombo ezisekupheleni kwalo mbhalo.

Konke lokhu kuyiqiniso, kepha iyiphi indawo enayo ephepheni lesikhundla? Kubukeka njengomzamo osobala wokudlulisa umthwalo wemfanelo nokusola kubazali.

Kufanele kuqondwe ukuthi le nhlangano izibekele yona njengohulumeni phezu koFakazi BakaJehova. Lokhu kubonakala ngokuthi noma nini lapho kunecala lokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi, isisulu kanye / noma nabazali besisulu siye kubadala kuqala. Bayalalela. Bayalelwe ukuthi babhekane nalolu daba ngaphakathi. Uzobona ukuthi ayikho imiyalo enikezwayo lapha, ngisho nakulesi sikhathi sekwephuzile, etshela abazali ukuthi babike lobu bugebengu emaphoyiseni kuqala, bese beyisa kubadala njengomsebenzi wesibili. Lokhu kuzoba nengqondo, ngoba amaphoyisa azokwazi ukunikeza ubufakazi bokuthi abadala abanakho nje ukuhlomela ukuhlangana. Abadala lapho-ke bangenza isinqumo esinolwazi oluningi, kuyilapho umgomo oyinhloko wokuvikela ingane ngokushesha izokhonzwa. Ngemuva kwakho konke, abadala banikezwa kanjani amandla okuvikela ingane okungenzeka ukuthi isesengozini. Yikuphi amandla, yiliphi igunya, yiliphi igunya abanalo lokuvikela ngokungagcini nje ngokuhlukunyezwa, kepha zonke ezinye izingane ezisebandleni elibaphethe kanye nomphakathi wonke?

  1. Amabandla oFakazi BakaJehova awahlukanisi izingane nabazali bazo ngenhloso yokuyala noma eminye imisebenzi. (Efesu 6: 4) Isibonelo, amabandla ethu awanikeli noma axhase izindlu zezintandane, izikole zangeSonto, amakilabhu ezemidlalo, izikhungo zokunakekela izingane, amaqembu wentsha, noma eminye imisebenzi ehlukanisa izingane nabazali bazo.

Ngenkathi lokhu kuyiqiniso, kuphakamisa lo mbuzo: Kungani kunamacala amaningi kangaka okuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi i-capita ngaphakathi kweNhlangano YoFakazi BakaJehova kuqhathaniswa namasonto lapho le mikhuba ikhona?

  1. Abadala balwela ukuphatha izisulu zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngesihawu, ukuqonda, nomusa. (KwabaseKolose 3: 12) Njengabeluleki abangokomoya, abadala bazama ukulalela ngokucophelela nangokuzwela izisulu futhi baziduduze. (Izaga 21: 13; U-Isaya 32: 1, 2; 1 Thessalon 5: 14; James 1: 19) Izisulu nemindeni yazo zinganquma ukubonana nodokotela wezengqondo. Lesi isinqumo somuntu siqu.

Lokhu kungenzeka kwesinye isikhathi, kepha ubufakazi obushicilelwe buveze ukuthi imvamisa akunjalo. I-ARC ikhuthaze Inhlangano ukuthi ifake odade abaqeqeshiwe kule nqubo, kepha lesi sincomo senqatshwa.

  1. Abadala abakaze badinge izisulu zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ukuthi zethule icala labo phambi kwalowo osolwa ngokuhlukumeza. Kodwa-ke, izisulu manje esezikhulile zingenza kanjalo, uma zifisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izisulu zingahambisana nomuntu othembekile wanoma yibuphi ubulili ngokwesekwa kokuziphatha lapho ethula abadala icala labo. Uma isisulu sithanda, ukumangalelwa kungahanjiswa ngendlela yesitatimende esibhaliwe.

Isitatimende sokuqala singamanga. Ubufakazi obusobala bokuthi abadala bavame ukuthi badinga isisulu ukubhekana nommangaleli. Khumbula, leli phepha lesikhundla libekwa phambili njengesikhundla "sokuma isikhathi eside futhi esishicilelwe kahle". Iphoyinti 9 lifinyelela esimeni esisha senqubomgomo, kepha kusenesikhathi ukuthi ingasindisa iNhlangano ebubheni obunzima be-PR obukhathaza oFakazi BakaJehova eNyakatho Melika, eYurophu nase-Asia.

  1. Ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kuyisono esingathi sína. Uma umuntu okuhlukumezayo eyilungu lebandla, abadala benza uphenyo olungokomBhalo. Le yinkambiso engokwenkolo ehlalwa ngabadala ngokwemiyalo engokomBhalo futhi inqunyelwe empikiswaneni yobulungu njengomunye woFakazi BakaJehova. Ilungu lebandla elihlukumeza izingane ngokungaphenduki lixoshwa ebandleni futhi lingasabhekwa njengomunye woFakazi BakaJehova. (I-1 Korion 5: 13) Ukuphathwa kwabadala ngecala lokuhlukumeza izingane akuyona indawo yokuphendula kwabaphathi kulolu daba. — Roma 13: 1-4.

Lokhu kulungile, kepha kufanele sikhathazeke ngalokho okungashiwongo. Okokuqala, ithi “Uphenyo olusemiBhalweni… luqhubeka ngokwenkolo… [lokho]… kukhawulelwe odabeni lobulungu”.  Ngakho-ke uma owesilisa edlwengula ingane bese ephenduka, bese evunyelwa ukuthi aqhubeke nokuhlala eyilungu, yize kunemikhawulo ethile evimbela amalungelo akhe esikhathi esizayo… yilokho? Yilokho okushiwo icala lokwahlulela? Ngisho nalokho bekungamukeleka uma lokho obekulandela bekuyisiqondiso esivela eNdikimbeni Ebusayo ebhalwe ukuthi lolu daba kufanele lubikwe kwabasemagunyeni ngokuhambisana nabaseRoma 13: 1-5.  Khumbula, sitshelwa ukuthi lesi yisikhundla esisekelwa emiBhalweni!

Ukugcizelela lokho "Ukusingathwa kwabadala ngecala lokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane akuyona indawo yokuthi abaphathi baluphathe lolu daba", kumane nje kuyisitatimende seqiniso. Yeka ithuba elihle eligejiwe ngokuyala abadala ngokuphelele ukuthi eyabaseRoma 13: 1-4 (ekhonjiwe esigabeni) idinga ukuba babike lolu daba.

  1. Uma kunqunywa ukuthi umuntu onecala lokuhlukumeza ngokocansi kwezingane uphendukile futhi uzohlala ebandleni, kubekwa imingcele emisebenzini yebandla yalowo nalowo. Umuntu ngamunye uyokwelulekwa ngokuqondile ngabadala ukuba bangabi bodwa phakathi kwezingane, bangahlakuleli ubungane nezingane, noma babonise uthando lwabantwana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abadala bazokwazisa abazali ngezingane ezisebandleni ngesidingo sokubheka ukusebenzisana kwezingane zabo nomuntu ngamunye.

Lesi sigaba siqukethe amanye amanga. Angazi ukuthi uma ngabe manje sekuyinqubomgomo-mhlawumbe eyembule incwadi yabadala ebekhe yakamuva nje "Abadala bazokwazisa abazali ngezingane ezisebandleni ngesidingo sokubheka ukusebenzisana kwezingane zabo" umuntu onukubeza izingane owaziwayo, kodwa ngingasho ukuthi lokhu bekungeyona inqubomgomo muva nje ngonyaka wezi-2011. Khumbula ukuthi le dokhumenti ibekwa phambili njengesikhundla eside. Ngikhumbula isikole sabadala sezinsuku ezinhlanu ngalowo nyaka lapho udaba lokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi lwadingidwa kabanzi. Sikhonjwe indlela yokuba siqaphe onyawana owaziwayo othuthela ebandleni, kepha ikakhulukazi watshelwa ukuthi singabazisi abazali. Ngiphakamise isandla sami ngicela ukucaciselwa ngalelo phuzu, ngibuza ukuthi ngabe kufanele sazise bonke abazali abanezingane ezincane okungenani. Ngatshelwa ngabamele inhlangano ukuthi asibaxwayisi abantu, kepha simane siqaphe thina uqobo lwabo. Lo mbono wawubonakala ungenangqondo kimi ngaleso sikhathi, ngoba abadala bamatasa futhi banezimpilo zabo abazozihola ngakho-ke abanasikhathi namandla okwazi ukuqapha kahle umuntu. Lapho ngizwa lokhu, nginqume ukuthi bekungumuntu onukubeza izingane ukuba angene ebandleni lami, ngizozibophezela ekuxwayiseni bonke abazali ngengozi engaba khona, futhi ngilahle imiphumela.

Njengoba ngishilo ngaphambili, lokhu manje kungaba yinqubomgomo entsha. Uma umuntu eyazi incwadi yakamuva eya ezinhlanganweni zabadala lapho kushiwo khona lokhu, sicela wabelane nathi ngalolu lwazi esigabeni sokuphawula esingezansi. Noma kunjalo, ngokuqinisekile akubanga isikhundla eside. Futhi, kufanele sikunake ukuthi umthetho odluliselwa ngomlomo uhlala udlula owedlule.

Isiqinisekiso sokuthi lesi simo sesibhekwe ngabadala ngokusebenzisa izeluleko ezithile nezeluleko ezinikezwe lowo onukubeza izingane siyahlekisa. I-Pedophilia ingaphezu kwesinyathelo esingesihle. Kuyisimo se-pychological, ukuhlanekezelwa kwengqondo. UNkulunkulu unikele abanjalo “esimweni sengqondo esingamukeleki.” (KwabaseRoma 1:28) Kwesinye isikhathi, ukuphenduka kweqiniso kungenzeka, kodwa akunakwenziwa ngokululekwa okulula okuvela kubadala. Inganekwane ka-Aesop Umlimi kanye ne-Viper, kanye nenganekwane yakamuva kakhulu I-Scorpion ne-Frog Sikhombise ubungozi obukhona ekuthembekeni kumuntu onemvelo yakhe ephendukele kulolu hlobo lobubi.

Ngokufigqiwe

Uma kungekho iphepha elihlanganisa konke elichaza ngqo ukuthi abadala kumele benzeni ukuvikela izingane ebandleni futhi babhekane kahle nabanukubezi bezingane abaziwayo nabasolwa ngokuhlukumeza ngokocansi, kufanele sibheke leli "phepha lesikhundla" njengelingelona nje elokuzama ukuxhumana nomphakathi spin ngomzamo wokubhekana nehlazo elikhulayo njalo kwabezindaba.

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Ukuthola okunye ukwelashwa kwaleli phepha lesikhundla, bheka lokhu okuthunyelwe.

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