Lokhu ukuhunyushwa kwendatshana kaJulayi 21, 2017 eTrouw, iphephandaba elikhulu laseDashi, maqondana nalokho okulindeleke kubadala boFakazi BakaJehova lapho besingatha amacala okunukubezwa kwezingane ngokocansi. Lokhu kungokokuqala ochungechungeni lwezindatshana eziveza indlela embi iNhlangano ephatha ngayo ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi. Lezi zihloko zaqondana noMhlangano Wesifunda woFakazi BakaJehova waminyaka yonke futhi zakhululwa cishe ngesikhathi esifanayo nesomunye wadalula yasakazwa yi-BBC.
Chofoza lapha ukubuka i-athikili yoqobo ngesiDashi.
Abadala Bangabaphenyi, Abahluleli kanye Nezengqondo
"Kujwayelekile yini ukuthi umfowethu athinte ibele lakhe", kubuza lo mfana oneminyaka engu-16 kuRogier Haverkamp. Maphakathi nomgwaqo endaweni ehlala emadolobheni, umdala uyama. Ingabe wakuzwa kahle lokho? Eceleni kwakhe kunodade osemusha, abekade esebenza naye ememezela isigijimi sikaJehova esijabulisayo.
"Cha akunjalo" usho kanje.
Indoda ayithinti nje kuphela isho intombazane. Ubuye wathinta abanye kubandakanya nendodakazi kaRogier.
Imicimbi yalolo suku ngo-1999 iyisiqalo sesifundo esinzima seHaverkamp (manje eyi-53). Le ndoda yaseFlemish ibingufakazi othembekile kaJehova ebandleni layo. Ukhuliswe ngeqiniso. Eminyakeni engu-18 ubudala waboshelwa ukwenqaba ukuya empini - ofakazi bakaJehova kabasebenzi emasosheni omhlaba. Naye akazange.
Ekusebenzeni kweNdlu
IHaverkamp ifuna ukuyiphenya kahle le ndaba yokuhlukumezeka. Ngokuzimisela okufanayo nokungena endlini ngendlu, uvakashela ubhuti uHenry, osolwa ngokuthinta okungafanele. "Ngokushesha ngabandakanya abanye abadala ababili njengoba icala lalibucayi ngokwanele", kusho uHaverkamp eminyakeni eyi-2 kamuva.
Ukuphathwa kokuziphatha kabi ngokobulili kuyinkinga ngaphakathi kwenhlangano yofakazi bakaJehova. Ukuphathwa kwalawa macala kwenzeka ngaphakathi endlini futhi kunemiphumela ebuhlungu kwabahlukunyezwayo. Lesi yisiphetho Uthembekile ufike ngemuva kwengxoxo nezisulu, amalungu kanye namalungu ex. Le ndatshana yindaba yomunye ufakazi owake wazama ukwenza icala ngale ndaba yokuhlukumezeka.
Ohlelweni oluhlukile lwe Uthembekile kuzoba indaba kaMarianne de Voogd, maqondana nokuhlukumezeka akuthola. Kusasa yindaba kaMark, isisulu sowesilisa.
Lezi zindaba zikhombisa ukuthi izisulu zokuhlukunyezwa azilutholi usizo olubafanele. Abenzi bobubi bayavikelwa futhi akukho okuningi okwenziwayo ukunqanda ukuthi kungaphinde kwenzeke. Lokhu kudala isimo esingaphephile ezinganeni. Inhlangano yamakristu - ihlelo ngokusho kwamanye linamalungu acishe abe ngu-30,000 eNetherlands namalungu angama-25,000 eBelgium futhi abizwa nangokuthi yiWatchtower Society.
Ukuhlukumeza kuvame ukukhukhulwa ngaphansi kombhoxo, ngokusho kwalabo abathintekayo. Noma umuntu ethanda ukusiza umuntu ohlukumezekile ukuba athole ubulungiswa, wenziwa buhluleka.
Incwadi Yemfihlo
Imiyalelo ephathelene nokuhlukumezeka ibhalwe emibhalweni eminingi eyimfihlo, leli phephandaba elinamakhophi ayo. Incwadi enesihloko esithi: Abelusi bomhlambi yakha isisekelo. Bonke abadala bayayithola le ncwadi, yibo abanikeza ukuqondiswa okungokomoya ebandleni. Kugcinwa kuyimfihlo kunoma ngubani ongeyena umdala. Amakholwa ajwayelekile awazi okuqukethwe yincwadi. Ngaphezu kwale ncwadi kunezinkulungwane zezincwadi ezivela eNdikimbeni Ebusayo, ubuholi obuphakeme kunhlangano. Itholakala e-USA futhi inika ukuqondiswa komhlaba wonke. Lezi zincwadi zihambisana nencwadi endala noma zinikeza ukulungiswa.
Kuyo yonke le mibhalo ofakazi bakaJehova bathi bakuthatha ngokungathi sína ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane futhi bakubheka njengokungemukeli. Baphatha amacala okuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngaphakathi; bakholelwa ukuthi uhlelo lwabo lobulungiswa luphakeme kunolo lomphakathi wonkana. Njengamakholwa, bayolandisa kuJehova kuphela ngezenzo zabo. Ayiphenduli ohlelweni lwezobulungiswa lomhlaba. Ukubika ukuhlukunyezwa akuvamile ukwenziwa.
Ubufakazi Obukholisayo
Ngemuva kwesimemezelo enkonzweni, uRogier Haverkamp ufuna ubufakazi. Ngokusho kwencwajana yabadala, ukuvuma izono kumenzi wobubi kuyadingeka noma ufakazi okungenani wabantu ababili. Onke amantombazane e-10, uHaverkamp ukhuluma ekuqinisekisa ukuthi uHenry wayebahlukumeza: ubufakazi obuqandayo.
Kunesisekelo esiqinile sekomidi lokwahlulela: iqembu labadala elizokwahlulela leli cala. Esimweni esibi kakhulu, umhlaseli uzoxoshwa. Akabe esavunyelwa ukuba axhumane namalungu ebandla, noma ngabe awomndeni. Kepha lokhu kwenzeka kuphela uma kunobufakazi obanele futhi umenzi wobubi engazisoli. Uma ezisola kunofakazi bakaJehova bakubonisa isihe futhi uvunyelwe ukuhlala ebandleni kodwa kungenzeka ancame amalungelo athile. Isibonelo, wayengeke avunyelwe ukuthandaza esidlangalaleni noma ukuba nezingxenye zokufundisa. Le mithetho ichazwa ngemininingwane enkulu encwadini yabadala nezincwadi ezivela eNdikimbeni Ebusayo.
IKomidi
Kuhlanganiswe nekomidi elizobhekana nodaba lukaHenry. Lapho abadala bebandla bemazisa uHenry ngaleli cala, ngokushesha uthola imoto yakhe. Ugijimela eBethel yaseBrussel — inhlokohhovisi yofakazi eBelgium — lapho ekhala khona ekhombisa ukuzisola ngezenzo zakhe futhi uthembisa ukuthi ngeke aphinde akwenze.
Ngemuva kosuku uHenry eya eBethel, iHaverkamp ibizwa ngumbonisi waseBethel uLouis de Wit. "Ukuzisola okukhonjiswe nguHenry kuqotho", amajaji u-Wit ngokusho kukaHaverkamp. Uyakhumbula ukuthi u-de Wit wabakhokhisa ukuthi bangamsusi ekuhlanganyeleni uHenry. Ikomidi lizothatha isinqumo sokuthi, uHaverkamp uyaphikisa, u-de Wit akavunyelwe ukuzama ukuthonya isinqumo sabo. Kepha amanye amalungu amabili ekomidi avumela umbonisi. Ukuzisola kukaHenry kungokoqobo abathi. Ngoba manje sebebaningi, icala aliqhubeki.
IHaverkamp ithukuthele igane unwabu. Uyakhumbula ukuthi ngesikhathi kuxoxwa noHenry, usola ukuthi indodakazi kaHaverkamps inecala ngokwengxenye njengoba yayiyenga. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ukuzisola kwakhe akulona iqiniso, ukhokhisa uHaverkamp. Umuntu ozisolayo akazami ukusola abanye ngephutha nangezenzo zabo. Ikakhulukazi hhayi isisulu. Ikomidi lahlulela ukuthi uHenry kumele axolise emantombazaneni bese enza kanjalo. IHaverkamp ayizwa ukuthi ubulungiswa benziwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho unovalo lokuthi uHenry uzophinde abe yisigebengu ngokuzayo. "Ngacabanga ukuthi le ndoda idinga usizo futhi indlela engcono yokuyinikeza usizo ukuyibika emaphoyiseni."
Ukwenza Umbiko
Ukuya emaphoyiseni akuyona into ejwayelekile kofakazi. Inhlangano ikholelwa ukuthi kuyinto engafanele ukuletha umfowethu enkantolo. Kodwa-ke imiyalelo esencwadini yesandla yabadala ithi umuntu ohlukunyeziwe ngeke avinjelwe ukuthi aye emaphoyiseni ayokwenza umbiko. Lesi siqondiso silandelwa ngokushesha ngumbhalo: Gal 6: 5: "Ngoba yilowo nalowo uzothwala owakhe umthwalo." Ngokwenzayo, izisulu nalabo ababandakanyekayo bayadikibala futhi kwesinye isikhathi bavinjelwe ukuya emaphoyiseni, ngokusho kweningi lezisulu kanye nabadala ababekhulume nabo Uthembekile.
Omunye umdala, owaphatha icala lokuhlukumeza esikhathini esedlule wathi ukubika emaphoyiseni bekungakufanele ukuthi kubhekisiswe. Akekho umdala ozothatha isinyathelo sokuthatha umbiko. Kufanele sivikele igama likaJehova, ukuvikela amabala ngegama lakhe. Basaba ukuthi ilondolo labo elingcolile laziwa yibo bonke. Ngoba lo mdala usengufakazi, igama lakhe ligodliwe.
Awukho Umbiko
Abaphathi baseBethel bezwa amahlebezi wokuthi uHaverkamp ucabanga ukwenza umbiko wamaphoyisa ngoHenry. Ubizwa khona lapho. Ngokusho kukaHaverkamp, umbonisi uDavid Vanderdriesche umtshela ukuthi akuwona umsebenzi wakhe ukuya emaphoyiseni. Uma umuntu eya emaphoyiseni kufanele kube yilowo ohlukunyezwayo. Futhi akufanele bakhuthazwe ukuba bahambe, kusho uVanderdriesche.
Imibhikisho yaseHaverkamp, kufanele kwenzeke okuthile ukuvikela ezinye izingane ebandleni. Ngokusho kwakhe, uVanderdriesche umtshela ngqo ukuthi ababonisi baseBethel banqume ukuthi akukho mbiko okufanele wenziwe. Uma ehamba phambili, yena, uHaverkamp, uzolahlekelwa wonke amalungelo akhe.
UHaverkamp ungumdala futhi unezibopho eziningi zobuholi nokufundisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho uyiphayona, isihloko ositholayo uma usebenzisa amahora angaphezu kwama-90 ngenyanga enkonzweni. IHaverkamp: "Ngivumele ingcindezi yalolo songo".
UDe Wit, noma uVanderdriesche waseBethel yaseBrussels akazenzi le micimbi. Umnyango wezobulungiswa weBethel yaseBrussels uthi ngenxa yezizathu zokuzithoba (izizathu zokuziphatha) abakwazi ukuphawula ngamacala athile.
Inqubo
URogier Haverkamp uzimisele ekwenzeni imisebenzi yakhe ebandleni lakhe. Uyazi yonke imithetho, aze afundise nabanye abadala. Kodwa nomdala onolwazi njengoHaverkamp akakwazi ukuzichazela ngendlela efanele yokuphathwa kwamacala okuhlukunyezwa. Umdwebo osuselwe encwadini yabadala nezincwadi ezivela eNdikimbeni Ebusayo, enweba amakhasi ayi-5, kufanele umqinisekise ukuthi akenzanga maphutha. Amadoda ahola ikomidi futhi ahlulela ngamacala anzima njengokuhlukumeza, angabasebenza ngogesi noma abashayeli bamabhasi empilweni yabo ejwayelekile. Kodwa-ke koFakazi bangumphenyi, ijaji kanye nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo konke okukodwa. Abadala abajwayelene nemithetho kusho iHaverkamp. “Iningi labo alikufanele ngokuphelele ukuphatha lawa macala. Kunjengokungathi ubuza ophahleni ukuthi, 'Ungathanda ukuba ijaji?' ”
UHenry uphuma eVlaanderen ngemuva kwalesi sehlakalo, yize esenguFakazi. Eminyakeni elandelayo, alahla umkakhe aganwe ngomunye umuntu, asuswe ekuhlanganyeleni ngenxa yalokhu. Kwi-2007, ufuna ukubuyela ebandleni. UHenry ubhalela iBethel eBrussels incwadi: Ngixolisela usizi lwami ngobuhlungu engibubangele ebandleni nasegameni likaJehova.
Ukuxolisa Okuqotho
UHenry ubuyela edolobheni lakubo elidala kodwa kulokhu uvakashela ibandla elihlukile. UHaverkamp usesebandleni elilodwa futhi uyezwa ngokubuya kukaHenry nokuthi ufunda namantombazane amabili amancane kanye namadodakazi kaHenry.
IHaverkamp imangele kakhulu. Ubuza umdala webandla likaHenry, ukuthi ngabe bayakwazi yini ukuhlukunyezwa kwakhe kwengane edlule. Umdala akakwazi lokhu futhi akakholelwa eHaverkamp. Ngemuva kokuthi enze uphenyo, umphathi wedolobha uqinisekisa ubuqiniso besitatimende. Yize kunjalo uHenry uvunyelwe ukuqhubeka nesifundo sakhe seBhayibheli futhi nabadala bebandla likaHenry abakwaziswa okwedlule. “Ngizomqapha”, kusho umbonisi wedolobha.
Noma ngubani osolwa ngokuhlukumeza, kufakazelwe noma cha, kufanele abhekwe — ngakho-ke yisho imithetho esencwadini yabadala. Abavunyelwe ukuxhumana okuseduze nezingane; futhi uma kwenzeka kuthuthwa, ifayili kufanele lithunyelwe ebandleni elisha ngakho bayasazi isimo — ngaphandle uma iBethel ithatha isinqumo ngemuva kokuhlolisisa ukuthi umenzi wobubi akaseyona ingozi.
Umbiko Wokulandela
Ngo-2011, eminyakeni eyi-12 ngemuva kwalolo suku lwenkonzo, uRogier Haverkamp ushiya inhlangano kaJehova yokufakaza. Uthatha isinqumo sokubika uHenry. Amaphoyisa ayaphenya. Umhloli uhambela bonke abesifazane asebekhulile uHenry abahlukunyezwa. Basengofakazi bakaJehova. Kucacele umhloli ukuthi kukhona okwenzekile, utshela iHaverkamp. Kepha akekho noyedwa kulaba besifazane ofuna ukukhuluma. Abafuni ukufakaza ngokumelene nomfowabo, bathi. Phezu kwalokho icala lokuhlukumeza lidala kakhulu ukuthi lingaya enkantolo. Amaphoyisa aze aphenye uma ngabe kukhona okwenzeke muva nje ngakho kusengenziwa icala lasenkantolo, kepha abukho ubufakazi obutholakalayo.
URogier Haverkamp usazisola ngokuthi akazange aye emaphoyiseni emuva ngaleso sikhathi. UHaverkamp: “Nganginombono wokuthi umthwalo kwakungokaDe Wit noVanderdriesche. Ngacabanga ukuthi kufanele ngihloniphe igunya abalinikezwe uNkulunkulu. ”
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